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Garnet
Vietnam9036 Posts
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jOke.Baka
United States62 Posts
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DyEnasTy
United States3714 Posts
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BloodDrunK
Bangladesh2767 Posts
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Elemenope
Burkina Faso1704 Posts
On December 10 2009 00:46 Garnet wrote: I feel so pathetic. Oh god. And to think about how in highschool there are lotta girls that would bend over for me. I have a tip ze + Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](http://img691.imageshack.us/img691/1408/alcohola.jpg) | ||
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DwmC_Foefen
Belgium2186 Posts
FFS TRY :p | ||
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Foreplay
United States1154 Posts
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pRo9aMeR
595 Posts
On December 10 2009 00:52 jOke.Baka wrote: You sir, just got friendzoned. gg this. word of advice fellas...becoming friends with a girl is NOT the way to becoming her boyfriend. Of course be friendly with her, but for god's sake, SHOW HER THAT YOUR INTERESTED...TRY TO INITIATE THINGS. If, when you say you got 'kinda' rejected, you mean that you did try and she shot you down, then your only chance was friends with this girl. She didn't like you as more than friends, but as friends, you're great. If a girl doesn't want to get with you now, chances are she never will (barring any use of mind altering substances or extreme life-changing situations). | ||
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lone_hydra
Canada1460 Posts
What makes a women, as you describe "typical", would be for them to like a jerk over a "nice" guy. What makes a girl like a guy? The average internet dude would often say that personality and being nice is their selling point but that often is just a excuse to try to hide the fact they are the shy kid who likes the girl friend. I was once that guy till I figured: A girl is attracted to a guy because they have a real selling point/something tangible or ability to offer. It can be talent, intelligence(while avoiding looking like a nerd), looks, leadership, money, sports etc(each variable has different attractiveness values depending on girl). This is just natural in any species. What do you have to offer(being nice does not count) this girl for her to like you? Are you the alpha male in your group of friends? Are you talented at/ have the things she finds attractive? If not you have 2 options: Lower your standards cause you don't meet that girl's standards Improve yourself to show you can meet the girl's standards Also, becoming friends with a girl is no big issue about whether or not you can date her. It just so happens that more often than not, the guys that do go for the friend route before asking her out cannot offer her enough/do not know what to offer for the girl to accept them as her boyfriend. If you do meet her standards even if you do befriend, eventually she will find you attractive and the obvious signs will appear, show her you are interested and bam. Its never gg. Just impove yourself till you become more attractive to the girl. | ||
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Zurles
United Kingdom1659 Posts
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DoX.)
Singapore6164 Posts
Always hurts when I see fellow nerds get friendzoned | ||
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Equaoh
Canada427 Posts
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HiOT
Sweden1000 Posts
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reit
Canada209 Posts
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hazelynut
United States2196 Posts
On December 10 2009 01:29 lone_hydra wrote: LA girl is attracted to a guy because they have a real selling point/something tangible or ability to offer. It can be talent, intelligence(while avoiding looking like a nerd), looks, leadership, money, sports etc(each variable has different attractiveness values depending on girl). This is just natural in any species. What do you have to offer(being nice does not count) this girl for her to like you? Are you the alpha male in your group of friends? Are you talented at/ have the things she finds attractive? If not you have 2 options: Lower your standards cause you don't meet that girl's standards Improve yourself to show you can meet the girl's standards Also, becoming friends with a girl is no big issue about whether or not you can date her. It just so happens that more often than not, the guys that do go for the friend route before asking her out cannot offer her enough/do not know what to offer for the girl to accept them as her boyfriend. If you do meet her standards even if you do befriend, eventually she will find you attractive and the obvious signs will appear, show her you are interested and bam. Its never gg. Just impove yourself till you become more attractive to the girl. QFT. This is absolutely right, and everyone should realize being friend-zoned is pretty much a myth (with a few exceptions). If a girl "friend-zones" you, it's simply because she was never interested in the first place. Friend-zoning, if anything, occurs instantaneously because the friend-zoned guy in question doesn't appear to be boyfriend material. It's a hard truth, but friend-zoning isn't a line you cross. It's a line that exists and always will until you make yourself more attractive. | ||
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Zalfor
United States1035 Posts
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DivinO
United States4796 Posts
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igotmyown
United States4291 Posts
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Funnytoss
Taiwan1471 Posts
On December 10 2009 02:15 reit wrote: She put you in the friend zone? Put her in the rape zone. WTF man. | ||
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Ingenol
United States1328 Posts
On December 10 2009 00:46 Garnet wrote: just another girl out of the nearly 100% of girls who fall for "mystery, handsome and smart guy". Fixed your post. Time to become mysterious, handsome and smart. | ||
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