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Recently i spent some time thinking about my current social condition . I mean i definitely stopped being the nice guy, and started acting a bit more badass. In fact i was still nice, but i boosted up my confidence and didnt let anyone to crush my pride. The results started coming and i was happy with them, as i finally started saying what i really meant without any excuses, nor fears, ....
But somehow that started attracting the girls around me, which wasnt planned at all, and im really confused. See among all that girls there is that one girl that is trying to show me in every possible way that she likes me. She was constantly flirting, confessing, and somehow she was acting like drunk in front of me (dunno why, coz of hapiness? or maybe she was so much in love me).
All of that started somehow affecting me and i realized that there is in my heart a bit of love for her. I guess she wants a relationship or whatever, but i dont really feel like so ... weve enver spoken openly about it, but she would say things like: The prof said that you may start loving me after this (when she got an A in physics, just like i did the previous day), all of her friends and actually some professors too teas me that i have a baby with her (wtf!?!), she would search me at school just to say me that she is bored with her class and that she wants to move where there is more fun (around me i guess), she would send me SMS where there would always be or the word ''kiss' or the word ''fiancee'' (dont tell me she wants a MARRIAGE!!!, she has never done it before) and so on...
Because her best friend goes with me in class, once when i was exiting the class i heard that she asked him:'' Did you ask him?'', and i told her that a few days later, but she said taht she doesnt remember that at all, duh ...
The breaking thing is that i had feelings for her few months ago, and now im not that much into her, not to mention that she was in love with 2 of her/my friends before.
So she is in love with me, and i have too some little feelings for her left in my heart, but im not willing to start any relationship, nor officially be her boyfriend, dunno really what to do, so confused,... And dont fucking mention any marriage xD,...any suggestions?
 
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After this post unfortunatly you are not acting a bit more badass
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Belgium8305 Posts
minors are the funniest creatures
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On September 26 2009 22:57 YPang wrote:
After this post unfortunatly you are not acting a bit more badass
i guess so, girls are complicated creatures, and ya im 18 
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If she "was in love" with 2 other guys before, "being in love" with you isn't going to last that much either. Just enjoy what she has to offer if you want, there's no need for an official relationship.
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hey, by any chance are you from the Philippines?
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On September 26 2009 23:17 iLoveKT wrote:
hey, by any chance are you from the Philippines?
ahahahahaha I see what you did there
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konadora
Singapore66363 Posts
On September 26 2009 23:17 iLoveKT wrote:
hey, by any chance are you from the Philippines?
oh no don't drive another guy to suicide
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bring her to some noisy Chinese restaurant..... that would get rid of her
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On September 26 2009 23:19 konadora wrote:Show nested quote +On September 26 2009 23:17 iLoveKT wrote:
hey, by any chance are you from the Philippines? oh no don't drive another guy to suicide
yeah im really worried for my countrymen. someone asks if he should commit suicide, someone announces hes gonna start smoking weed, etc.
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Nope, Im sorry but marriage is inevitable. gg already.
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
You don't want a relationship? Don't go out with her.
She "loves" you? Don't lead her on by flirting back or giving her false signs.
Don't do anything else unless she actually asks you out, then you find a nice way to tell her you can't be any more than friends with her. You might as well not even use the word "love" it's over dramatic, she simply has a crush on you.
Don't get pressured into dating someone you don't actually like, you will regret it.
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im not from philippines lol, and i dont understand that joke XD
well, the problem is that im not sure what i want, and the fact of her having crush/being in love with 2 of my friends is a big alarm in my head, i would probably get hurt ... see i like her and i dont like her
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
She sounds like any other girl in middle school having a new crush every week. I wouldn't let that worry you unless she was actually sleeping with a bunch of people.
Go for it, you're too young to be worrying about this small shit. It will most likely be a good experience regardless if you end up breaking up.
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On September 26 2009 23:44 Snet wrote:
She sounds like any other girl in middle school having a new crush every week. I wouldn't let that worry you unless she was actually sleeping with a bunch of people.
Go for it, you're too young to be worrying about this small shit. It will most likely be a good experience regardless if you end up breaking up.
You think so? I'll think about it, thx
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United States44012 Posts
Go for it. Worst that can happen is it goes badly and then whatever, you're like 12, you've got plenty of life left in you.
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Do it, crazy ones are the best
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On September 27 2009 00:07 Kwark wrote:
Go for it. Worst that can happen is it goes badly and then whatever, you're like 12, you've got plenty of life left in you.
damnit, i feel insulted :D, im 18 i say, am i acting so childish or what ?
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if you want to get laid for the first time in your life go ahead with it, theres a lot more to relationships then getting your carrot wet( Kennelie sup) If you wanna wait for another few years while masturbating profusely - sure thing. But until you really man up and make some steps towards getting to know ladies a little better youre no "badass". And dont talk aboout "love" until then.
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On September 27 2009 00:53 Art.FeeL wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2009 00:07 Kwark wrote:
Go for it. Worst that can happen is it goes badly and then whatever, you're like 12, you've got plenty of life left in you. damnit, i feel insulted :D, im 18 i say, am i acting so childish or what ?
Yes very. I assumed you were a lot younger because you use the word "love" like a middle schooler.
It's really simple, if you think there is a possibility of a decent relationship, go for it. If not then don't bother.
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