If Badawi was a nice honest guy I'd still have the same thoughts. Fact that we know he's not just makes it worse. Mental health is such a murky water that the concept of responsibility and fault is so hard to pin down. Is the dirtbag the one at fault even if no coercion was used? Is the girl at fault for making the decision? Are both partially at fault?
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Numy
South Africa35471 Posts
If Badawi was a nice honest guy I'd still have the same thoughts. Fact that we know he's not just makes it worse. Mental health is such a murky water that the concept of responsibility and fault is so hard to pin down. Is the dirtbag the one at fault even if no coercion was used? Is the girl at fault for making the decision? Are both partially at fault? | ||
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AlterKot
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AdsMoFro
Japan4761 Posts
I think some blame lies on Maria but the majority of the blame lies on Badawi. We must first remember the kind of character that Badawi has shown time and time again. Lying about being a lawyer, threatening to take the one dream that she ever had if she didn't listen to him etc. He's in a position of power as the owner/manager of the team. Therefore, it is within his duty of care. For her, it is obvious she will say yes to whatever he says. Firstly, at this point, he's already threatened to take it away once. If she turns it down, is there a chance it will ever happen again? She's in an extremely poor mental state at this point, and who does she go and see next? Just happens to be Badawi's mother. The second question you ask yourself is why a person who is essentially your boss is offering to pay for and arrange your treatment an ethical process? Probably not. If he was truly altruistic, he wouldn't have put the onus on him, just would've said okay it will cost $10k, if we make LCS I will give you the 10k bonus and you can use it how you see fit. By taking control over her treatment he is essentially manipulating her into staying under his control. Bullshit like "I gave her her own room" and "special treatment" shows that he believes himself to be some sort of morally superior person when in fact it was just to keep her under his control. This fucker is slime of the worst type. If Monte couldn't realise that then he deserved to lose Renegades. Pretty tired, so excuse typos/general incoherence. | ||
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Numy
South Africa35471 Posts
This may be a cultural thing but I really dislike how little rights esports employees have over there. Essentially pressured into living with a bunch of people 24/7 while working all day with little to no progression in life outside of this one tiny avenue. It baffles me any of this is legal and why no one is making a fuss about this. | ||
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Gahlo
United States35173 Posts
Thing is, they have plenty of rights, they just don't have a good gauge on what they are and how much they can push them. | ||
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JimmiC
Canada22817 Posts
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Redox
Germany24794 Posts
On March 27 2018 23:35 Numy wrote: That was pretty coherent to me Ads and I agree with it all. This may be a cultural thing but I really dislike how little rights esports employees have over there. Essentially pressured into living with a bunch of people 24/7 while working all day with little to no progression in life outside of this one tiny avenue. It baffles me any of this is legal and why no one is making a fuss about this. It is pretty extreme but if you want to keep being at the top you simply have to put in these kind of hours. I would not directly put that on the owners, it comes with the game per se. Also I am pretty sure many players (especially the younger ones) actually prefer to live in a gaming house and only focus on gaming. Simply because it costs them nothing and they do not have to take care of anything. I am sure players could live on their own if they wanted to and would pay for it themselves. They could afford it easily with their really good salary but just prefer to save that money and effort. After all these are not your average college students, it is hardcore gamers that have lived in that rather extreme and narrow way for years before LCS. Now within an LCS team they probably live a healthier live than before. Regarding the Badawi stuff, I will just trust respected people like MarkZ, Travis and Kelsey Moser that have more inside knowledge than any of us and all say he is a conniving scumbag that should not be allowed near esports. I am also really sorry for Remilia but I feel that is more a personal issue than an esports issue and does not really belong in the public (other than Badawi being disposed of which Riot already did). | ||
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cLutZ
United States19574 Posts
On March 27 2018 22:49 AdsMoFro wrote: The short version of my opinion on this: I think some blame lies on Maria but the majority of the blame lies on Badawi. We must first remember the kind of character that Badawi has shown time and time again. Lying about being a lawyer, threatening to take the one dream that she ever had if she didn't listen to him etc. He's in a position of power as the owner/manager of the team. Therefore, it is within his duty of care. For her, it is obvious she will say yes to whatever he says. Firstly, at this point, he's already threatened to take it away once. If she turns it down, is there a chance it will ever happen again? She's in an extremely poor mental state at this point, and who does she go and see next? Just happens to be Badawi's mother. The second question you ask yourself is why a person who is essentially your boss is offering to pay for and arrange your treatment an ethical process? Probably not. If he was truly altruistic, he wouldn't have put the onus on him, just would've said okay it will cost $10k, if we make LCS I will give you the 10k bonus and you can use it how you see fit. By taking control over her treatment he is essentially manipulating her into staying under his control. Bullshit like "I gave her her own room" and "special treatment" shows that he believes himself to be some sort of morally superior person when in fact it was just to keep her under his control. This fucker is slime of the worst type. If Monte couldn't realise that then he deserved to lose Renegades. Pretty tired, so excuse typos/general incoherence. The issue for me, however, lies with the fact that you have essentially made the case that such a person is unemployable (no matter their talent), and caveat emptor on anyone who does employ them (and even generally interacts with them). I actually don't disagree with that as someone who has to give advice on employing people. Not that you shouldn't employ trans people, but that its not prudent to employ young people who are not adjusted to their meds. My problem here is that then we would have the same article, but instead it would say, "Badwai is transphobic, dropped player after discovering new hormone treatments and desire to transition." | ||
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Numy
South Africa35471 Posts
On March 28 2018 01:01 Redox wrote: It is pretty extreme but if you want to keep being at the top you simply have to put in these kind of hours. I would not directly put that on the owners, it comes with the game per se. Also I am pretty sure many players (especially the younger ones) actually prefer to live in a gaming house and only focus on gaming. Simply because it costs them nothing and they do not have to take care of anything. I am sure players could live on their own if they wanted to and would pay for it themselves. They could afford it easily with their really good salary but just prefer to save that money and effort. After all these are not your average college students, it is hardcore gamers that have lived in that rather extreme and narrow way for years before LCS. Now within an LCS team they probably live a healthier live than before. I do question if you do have to put in those hours to be on top or if people are really just wasting so much time because there is no real limit forced on them. How many of those "10 hours a day" are being used in efficient manner? If they instead did 6-8 hours a day at a high intense effective manner would that be worse? I don't know the answer to these questions but I do feel they should be looked at. Maybe some do prefer it, maybe some don't but due to it being the way it is they do it. Maybe others believe they like it like it is but if given support would actually land up enjoying it another way. Again it's so hard to tell. At the end of the day I just can't help shake the feeling that esports has been set up in a way that's more akin to sweatshop exploitation disguised as being generous over a good sustainable model that will help serve these players and the industry as a whole better down the line. I'm a huge fan of empowering employees with more than just the job, helping them develop skills while working for you that elevates them and helps them progress. I'm sad I don't see any of this really happening in esport. edit: I should mention this is obviously tied into how much absurd money there is in the industry right now. When people are scrapping by I can understand focusing more on the here and now. | ||
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cLutZ
United States19574 Posts
On March 28 2018 01:42 Numy wrote: I do question if you do have to put in those hours to be on top or if people are really just wasting so much time because there is no real limit forced on them. How many of those "10 hours a day" are being used in efficient manner? If they instead did 6-8 hours a day at a high intense effective manner would that be worse? I don't know the answer to these questions but I do feel they should be looked at. Maybe some do prefer it, maybe some don't but due to it being the way it is they do it. Maybe others believe they like it like it is but if given support would actually land up enjoying it another way. Again it's so hard to tell. At the end of the day I just can't help shake the feeling that esports has been set up in a way that's more akin to sweatshop exploitation disguised as being generous over a good sustainable model that will help serve these players and the industry as a whole better down the line. I'm a huge fan of empowering employees with more than just the job, helping them develop skills while working for you that elevates them and helps them progress. I'm sad I don't see any of this really happening in esport. edit: I should mention this is obviously tied into how much absurd money there is in the industry right now. When people are scrapping by I can understand focusing more on the here and now. This is the nature of esports trying to professionalize before the money really is there, and because of that they have focused on streaming/live tv rights instead of ticket sales. Every other sport had similar problems. Most players in baseball, football, basketball, etc had second jobs. Even many umpires and refs in the NFL, NBA, & MLB had 2nd jobs into the 90s just to stay afloat. Instead of pulling a 6-8 hour shift at Mcdonalds or a grocery store, Esports players pull a shift streaming. This makes them more money than flipping burgers or stocking shelves, but it is not the same job. It might be rolled into their inflated salary, but its not the same. So IMO its a total misperception that they spend all that time on their "job", which is being LCS pros. They are working a second job that just happens to also involve gaming. Until esports can play the worst players $1 Million a year, and extend the average career to 5, 6 years just for playing in stage games and scrims, then its not a professional sport. That is why you need to focus on selling out stadiums, gate revenue is how you get the TV contracts, not the other way around. Most pro sports got most revenue from gate until the late 90s, and baseball still gets more from gate IIRC. | ||
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Redox
Germany24794 Posts
On March 28 2018 03:01 cLutZ wrote: This is the nature of esports trying to professionalize before the money really is there, and because of that they have focused on streaming/live tv rights instead of ticket sales. Every other sport had similar problems. Most players in baseball, football, basketball, etc had second jobs. Even many umpires and refs in the NFL, NBA, & MLB had 2nd jobs into the 90s just to stay afloat. Instead of pulling a 6-8 hour shift at Mcdonalds or a grocery store, Esports players pull a shift streaming. This makes them more money than flipping burgers or stocking shelves, but it is not the same job. It might be rolled into their inflated salary, but its not the same. So IMO its a total misperception that they spend all that time on their "job", which is being LCS pros. They are working a second job that just happens to also involve gaming. Until esports can play the worst players $1 Million a year, and extend the average career to 5, 6 years just for playing in stage games and scrims, then its not a professional sport. That is why you need to focus on selling out stadiums, gate revenue is how you get the TV contracts, not the other way around. Most pro sports got most revenue from gate until the late 90s, and baseball still gets more from gate IIRC. I dont understand this post at all. LCS players easily make enough money to be called pro. They make more money than they need because they dont spend much and I would guess like 90% of net income goes straight to the bank and will never be used until after the career. In fact I believe current wages are too high to be sustainable. Also most players dont stream or just sporadically, so I dont know where you are coming from. And if they stream it is usually just their soloQ games that they play anyway. If they all streamed they would not have viewer numbers that would generate enough income to be relevant compared to their salaries. | ||
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Ansibled
United Kingdom9872 Posts
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JimmiC
Canada22817 Posts
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Numy
South Africa35471 Posts
It is vital these that the esports industry doesn't make the same mistakes other professional sports does with their players by not giving them the skills and tools to actually have a successful life once they are out of the scene. | ||
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cLutZ
United States19574 Posts
On March 28 2018 03:52 Redox wrote: I dont understand this post at all. LCS players easily make enough money to be called pro. They make more money than they need because they dont spend much and I would guess like 90% of net income goes straight to the bank and will never be used until after the career. In fact I believe current wages are too high to be sustainable. Also most players dont stream or just sporadically, so I dont know where you are coming from. And if they stream it is usually just their soloQ games that they play anyway. If they all streamed they would not have viewer numbers that would generate enough income to be relevant compared to their salaries. I don't think we are too far apart, I also think salaries are in a bubble, but I don't think they are so high as to really justify the investment players have to make yet. These sentiments are not in opposition. Salaries can bee too high for the amount of non-VC money coming in (they are) while still not being high enough for most pros to live off the earnings forever (particularly if its not considered impressive work EXP on a resume, which I don't think it yet is). I always find lots of people streaming, but perhaps that is a bias because I don't enjoy player streams so I notice them a lot when they exist. If they are playing soloQ for hours without streaming, then I would just generally agree the sentiment that a lot of them waste time that would be better spent not playing LOL. | ||
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Gahlo
United States35173 Posts
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JimmiC
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geript
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On March 27 2018 22:49 AdsMoFro wrote: The short version of my opinion on this: I think some blame lies on Maria but the majority of the blame lies on Badawi. We must first remember the kind of character that Badawi has shown time and time again. Lying about being a lawyer, threatening to take the one dream that she ever had if she didn't listen to him etc. He's in a position of power as the owner/manager of the team. Therefore, it is within his duty of care. For her, it is obvious she will say yes to whatever he says. Firstly, at this point, he's already threatened to take it away once. If she turns it down, is there a chance it will ever happen again? She's in an extremely poor mental state at this point, and who does she go and see next? Just happens to be Badawi's mother. The second question you ask yourself is why a person who is essentially your boss is offering to pay for and arrange your treatment an ethical process? Probably not. If he was truly altruistic, he wouldn't have put the onus on him, just would've said okay it will cost $10k, if we make LCS I will give you the 10k bonus and you can use it how you see fit. By taking control over her treatment he is essentially manipulating her into staying under his control. Bullshit like "I gave her her own room" and "special treatment" shows that he believes himself to be some sort of morally superior person when in fact it was just to keep her under his control. This fucker is slime of the worst type. If Monte couldn't realise that then he deserved to lose Renegades. Pretty tired, so excuse typos/general incoherence. As a medical professional, I would never EVER recommend having surgery (outside of emergency circumstances) without an exhaustive research of the surgeon, anesthetist, CRNA, and hospital. I get that Badawi is a skeezy person and likely was manipulative in various ways in order to be on the hook for a “cheap” surgery. That said, he in no way could force her into that specific surgery. I’ve done surgery paperwork, it’s long; and if I have a hint of the responsible party being confused, then the surgeon gets pissed because he has to make another visit to explain things. I can’t imagine that it’s terribly different in other countries. Plus if she had done any research, she would know that Costa Rica, Brasília, and other countries that are plastic surgery harbors can have numerous sketchy issues (most notably infection). Idk, maybe she was just unlucky with the surgery; that happens too. I have a really difficult time putting even a majority of the blame on Badawi on this one. | ||
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Numy
South Africa35471 Posts
On March 28 2018 06:34 JimmiC wrote: Sometimes people need to take personal responsibility for their actions including financially. There is a human condition seemingly where people spend what they make and in pro sports and esports that number is not usually sustainable. This is not the fault of the industry but on the individual to realize this and budget accordingly. It is like lottery winners blaming the lottery for them blowing their money, I get it to some degree but on the other hand not everything is someone else's fault. At some point people have to take responsibility for their decisions and actions. While I'm a big proponent of personal responsibility, I'm a bigger one of education. If we don't give people the skills and tools they require in order to have proper responsibility through education then that's a fault of the system. People do still make mistakes even while having all of these. That's all on them. However there is a fairly large portion of any population(Especially NFL/NBA athletes) who are not taught or given these tools. Instead they have a brief period of insane earnings, adjust their lifestyle to match which is just human nature but afterward they have no financial no how or planning to have income streams set up after that. I do not agree that it's all their fault for this situation. How exactly were they expected to know what to do? They had a very defined niche skillset, that skillset was not managing money or business planning. So in the nutshell all I'm saying is education and setting up programs designed to help individuals set up their lives post their career is important. I think this kind of education should happen in every single career too, just athletes tend to have a more defined early peak compared to most people. edit: To give a bit more context. I'm massively into the theory that education should be the highest level of important in society and by doing so it will help filter into a better society overall in other aspects. Education should also not be a one and done thing but instead a continual process we never actually leave. Life is constantly changing, to meet up with it we have to be constantly learning. | ||
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