EPTHahaha this shit is gold. No one ever lays out the truth like this man. But you gotta chill out, a lot of people are not gonna take kindly to this. ignorance is bliss
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Prevolved
United States573 Posts
Hahaha this shit is gold. No one ever lays out the truth like this man. But you gotta chill out, a lot of people are not gonna take kindly to this. ignorance is bliss | ||
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Cyx.
Canada806 Posts
On February 17 2013 00:19 MasterOfPuppets wrote: Wow, are you like 15 or something? Way to be shallow as fuck dude. Not to really get involved with the rest of the post, but this is a pretty valid concern... that shit can be painful for a relationship yo, doesn't matter how understanding they are about it if they can't participate in one of your favourite leisure-time activities. Also, it probably doesn't say great things for your relationship that your general philosophy on everything is so out of line. | ||
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MasterOfPuppets
Romania6942 Posts
On February 17 2013 04:54 Prevolved wrote: Hahaha this shit is gold. No one ever lays out the truth like this man. But you gotta chill out, a lot of people are not gonna take kindly to this. ignorance is bliss Denial is the first defense mechanism / coping method. | ||
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dAPhREAk
Nauru12397 Posts
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_and_Lorena_Bobbitt | ||
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SamsungStar
United States912 Posts
On February 17 2013 04:58 MasterOfPuppets wrote: Denial is the first defense mechanism / coping method. I think "love" in some abstract, lingering sentiment sort of way definitely exists. I still love 2 of my ex-gfs. Now, would I trust them? About as far as a dog can shit. But that doesn't mean I don't love them and care about what happens to them for the rest of their lives. Now "LOVE" in the soul-mate, magic for all time sense, that I think is somewhat pushing it... I don't think that exists. And I think that's what the original post was talking about when he said love doesn't exist. I agree, I find long-term, monogamous relationships much more fulfilling. But that doesn't mean it'll last forever. Often, those are the ones that really rip you up inside. I'm not cynical or jaded or try to tell myself I'm never going to love again. I have no problem going back out there and meeting a new girl to take up with and commit to for X years. But so far in my 27 years of life, I have definitely noticed a trend: Women who don't cheat like food more than fucking. Women who cheat often and slut around like fucking more than anything else. Women who have affairs but don't break up like shopping more than food OR fucking. | ||
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slytown
Korea (South)1411 Posts
I try a couple other dating ventures over that period, but they're epic failures. When she returns again, about 2 years after we'd met and mostly a phone call friendship, I tell her I've been falling for her and want her to stay. After she says "no", basically, I take her home and we never speak again. Lesson: don't dream about a girl/boy for 2 years without doing something about it. A horrible weight on your mind. | ||
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Eisregen
Germany967 Posts
On February 17 2013 05:04 slytown wrote: Not exactly a breakup but the first girl I went on a date with was in college with a girl from an Economics course. We went on a first and second date but since I was oblivious to dating I opted to just make friends with her. And, we ended up becoming best friends. About a year after meeting she moves away to go to nursing school. Over that time I thought about her a lot; and I mean a lot. When she got back, we hung out a few times but I could not summon up the courage to ask her to stay. So, she leaves again, this time for California. I try a couple other dating ventures over that period, but they're epic failures. When she returns again, about 2 years after we'd met and mostly a phone call friendship, I tell her I've been falling for her and want her to stay. After she says "no", basically, I take her home and we never speak again. Lesson: don't dream about a girl/boy for 2 years without doing something about it. A horrible weight on your mind. Question is, did she say no because you tried to keep her here or did she say no because she doesnt see you as bf material at all? | ||
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LOveRH
United States88 Posts
On February 17 2013 04:30 Crying wrote: I was so delusional when i first got into my relationship that its gonna be forever,that we are really gone love each other and respect each other and TRUST EACH OTHER.But guess what.The very moment i said to her that we are gonna say 100% truth and i told her some things,she immediately started being cold,because of my past.Don't EVER BE 100% Truthful,i don't say LIE for serious things,but when she asks if u watched a movie yesterday, and you say no,but actually you did then yea u get what im talking about,don't lie about serious things. Guys just think of it. What is the % of divorces in USA?Well it is quite high.The % of people that do not get divorced,either live together because of their kids,or have a lover that fulfills their sexual desires.Sex with only one person makes it BORING and monotonous,and don't say here YOU ARE GONNA MAKE IT DIFFERENT,no you aren't stop being delusional.Varying is not doing it with one person with different poses,it's making it with different people with different poses.Look up Varying in the dictionary. People get bored of each other,it's just like a new thing you bought you eventually either loose it or stop wear it.(It is a materialistic example,but you get what i am talking about) If you know who is David DeAngelo,he Says it pretty good "Love DOES NOT Exist" People just get used to being to each other,to support each other,to buy nice things to each other AND ON THE PEDESTAL TO HAVE SEX People describe and use the word LOVE when they want something,when they want to have SEX with each other.It's the sad TRUTH Our brain and emotional circuitry is NOT MADE FOR LIVING IN 21 CENTURY.Our brain and emotions are outdated,we are used to live in small communities of 150-300 people,and not in a big city with 50,000,000 people.We are scared of approaching new women,because we might get shot down,not that it will be life threatening nowadays,but before 50,000 years IT WOULD HAVE BEEN LIFE THREATENING!!!!! I learned these things THE VERY FUCKING HARD WAY,don't get lost in a relationship,don't put girls on PEDESTAL,don't make them your queens,don't overspend on them,DON'T BE CLINGY,DON'T BE NEEDY. My Ex told me this "I cannot like a quality in you and be attracted to it,if i hate it in myself.", when we talked,i said that i didn't care about her at all in the start of our relationship,and she said it was driving her crazy and she knew it,the moment i started chasing was the moment that everything started falling apart. Try to be more careless about your relationships with GIRLS,don't be hesitant to drop them the moment you don't feel like to,don't turn into one of these slug boyfriends that literally do EVERYTHING to save the girl...DONT DO IT,it's not worth it,at the end you are gonna get SHAT ON for being needy,despite making everything for her and making her happy,this is not attractive,its repulsive for them.Go out with different women,have jelly materials always,don't be hesitant to cheat when you have chance,because at the end of the day PEOPLE CHEAT ON EACH OTHER!!!!!EVERYFUCKING TIME !!!Sooner or later you are gonna get cheated ON!!! Also as a rule of thumb,DON'T leave a girl in a WORSE state both emotional & physical,after you break up with her,then when you met her. Sorry to say this but you have a very sad look on life. I'm not an expert of of love and relationships but i do know a thing or two. Life, love and sex isn't as easy as saying its "black and white". You can't make it simple saying avoid all emotional attention and running away when you get cold feet is the best way to live your life. You will never find a partner that way or have a relationship that really is meaningful. From your post i can tell you have been hurt in your relationship experiences but totally numbing out all feeling isn't the way around it. If you push down all your feelings when you are dating one of these days they will came back to bite you in the ass, trust me it has happened before to me. =/ I guess good luck with your dating. | ||
Firebolt145
Lalalaland34495 Posts
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Aerisky
United States12129 Posts
Good damn kickboxer though.... | ||
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Firebolt145
Lalalaland34495 Posts
On February 17 2013 05:41 Aerisky wrote: Maybe what tl needs is a relationship subforum where girl blogs, relationship stories, advice, thoughts, etc can all go. Good damn kickboxer though.... Can't tell if you're being sarcastic, but Blogs is pretty much what you describe. | ||
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Xiphos
Canada7507 Posts
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arb
Noobville17921 Posts
On February 16 2013 22:05 Gesamtkunstwerk wrote: This is actually tame compared to what a friend did. She was in a long distance relationship for 5 years with a French guy. On their fifth year, he told her he would fly in to the US and leave work for a month to be with her. But weeks before, she had been telling me and her close friends she wanted out, that there is no more excitement. We told her to tell him immediately, but she couldn't. Next thing we know, the guy was here, a day before their anniversary. He came with an engagement ring and tickets for them to travel together and all for a month. Only to be dumped. My heart bled for the guy. But such is life. Love is never fair. that was the most depressing thing ive ever read. | ||
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SamsungStar
United States912 Posts
On February 17 2013 05:51 arb wrote: that was the most depressing thing ive ever read. Yeah, sers. My god. Notice the word used by the girl too: "excitement." Coz it's all just a dumb game to them. The whole stereotype of men being pigs and women being pining brides-to-be is such a crock of shit. From what I've seen, most women tend to be way more cold-hearted than men. I've seen a lot of guys just absolutely devastated by breakups and failed proposals etc. Girls, at worst, complain the guy isn't treating them right, and then fuck the next asshole who was waiting in the wings. Or the girl gets cheated on, cries for a week, and then yep, you guessed it, fucks the next asshole waiting in the wings. Because there's always one. There. Waiting. In da wingz. | ||
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PassiveAce
United States18076 Posts
On February 17 2013 05:51 arb wrote: that was the most depressing thing ive ever read. yeah. wow. | ||
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fatfail
United States386 Posts
User was temp banned for this post. | ||
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Kenpachi
United States9908 Posts
On February 17 2013 06:38 fatfail wrote: *snip wat | ||
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MasterOfPuppets
Romania6942 Posts
On February 17 2013 06:38 fatfail wrote: *snip ...where there was nature and earth, life and water, I saw a desert landscape that was unending, resembling some sort of crater, so devoid of reason and light and spirit that the mind could not grasp it on any sort of conscious level and if you came close the mind would reel backward, unable to take it in. It was a vision so clear and real and vital to me that in its purity it was almost abstract. This was what I could understand, this was how I lived my life, what I constructed my movement around, how I dealt with the tangible. This was the geography around which my reality resolved: it did not occur to me, ever, that people were good or that a man was capable of change or that the world could be a better place through ones taking pleasure in a feel or a look or a gesture, or receiving another person’s love or kindness. Nothing was affirmative, the term “generosity of spirit” applied to nothing, was a cliche, was some kind of bad joke. Sex is mathematics. Individuality no longer an issue. What does intelligence signify? Define reason. Desire -- meaningless. Intellect is not a cure. Justice is dead. Fear, recrimination, innocence, sympathizing, guilt, waste, failure, grief, were things, emotions, that no one really felt any more. Reflection is useless, the world is senseless. Evil is its only permanence. God is not alive. Love cannot be trusted. Surface, surface, surface was all that anyone found meaning in...this was civilization as I saw it, colossal and jagged... | ||
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PassiveAce
United States18076 Posts
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Warlock40
601 Posts
So primitive. So true. Sexually Aroused Women Are Harder to Gross Out | ||
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