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On February 17 2013 05:38 LOveRH wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 04:30 Crying wrote:On February 17 2013 03:15 Prevolved wrote:On February 17 2013 03:08 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 17 2013 03:01 Twinkle Toes wrote:On February 17 2013 02:55 Crying wrote:
Learn to not trust Girls Easily,and Learn to not get attached easily,Learn that the whole BF/GF thing is something that comes and goes,and no relationship is forever,Even Marriage gets BORING and people get bored of each other,and live together because of Kids/Respect/Past
It doesn't matter how long a relationship is,even a month is enough for people to do incredible amounts of damage to each other
Well it was my first GF to be honest,and damn i wasn't a good boyfriend.I learned so many things,but oh well i guess life and eventually things like these change you,in a way you couldn't have ever imagined.
It was literally magical.I mean the first week was omg....so GUD.But oh welp nothing is forever.However at the end she was acting all bitchy and shitty with me because i just got attached and her subconsciousness was telling her that when a guy chases a girl its not funny anymore.The first 1-2 weeks she was chasing me like shit,and when i got to chase i got stomped.LITERALLY
I ended everything at New Year's i got back from the party where i was with her but we both knew already we were over,i woke up and i skype dumped her which wasnt classy at all,but come on she literally fucked me up on so many levels.
But hell, i learned so much....so fucking much,to NOT TRUST ANYONE............
Quite the cynic are we... It grinds my gears when people look at a realistic viewpoint and dismiss it as "cynical". Hell it grinds my gears when people use the word "cynic" or any derivative thereof with a negative connotation. Yeah actually this guy is so fucking right. I sure wish it were otherwise, but it's not. Many of you would do well to heed this man's advice and spare yourselves misery and confusion in the future. I was so delusional when i first got into my relationship that its gonna be forever,that we are really gone love each other and respect each other and TRUST EACH OTHER.But guess what.The very moment i said to her that we are gonna say 100% truth and i told her some things,she immediately started being cold,because of my past.Don't EVER BE 100% Truthful,i don't say LIE for serious things,but when she asks if u watched a movie yesterday, and you say no,but actually you did then yea u get what im talking about,don't lie about serious things. Guys just think of it. What is the % of divorces in USA?Well it is quite high.The % of people that do not get divorced,either live together because of their kids,or have a lover that fulfills their sexual desires.Sex with only one person makes it BORING and monotonous,and don't say here YOU ARE GONNA MAKE IT DIFFERENT,no you aren't stop being delusional.Varying is not doing it with one person with different poses,it's making it with different people with different poses.Look up Varying in the dictionary. People get bored of each other,it's just like a new thing you bought you eventually either loose it or stop wear it.(It is a materialistic example,but you get what i am talking about) If you know who is David DeAngelo,he Says it pretty good "Love DOES NOT Exist" People just get used to being to each other,to support each other,to buy nice things to each other AND ON THE PEDESTAL TO HAVE SEXPeople describe and use the word LOVE when they want something,when they want to have SEX with each other.It's the sad TRUTH Our brain and emotional circuitry is NOT MADE FOR LIVING IN 21 CENTURY.Our brain and emotions are outdated,we are used to live in small communities of 150-300 people,and not in a big city with 50,000,000 people.We are scared of approaching new women,because we might get shot down,not that it will be life threatening nowadays,but before 50,000 years IT WOULD HAVE BEEN LIFE THREATENING!!!!! I learned these things THE VERY FUCKING HARD WAY,don't get lost in a relationship,don't put girls on PEDESTAL,don't make them your queens,don't overspend on them,DON'T BE CLINGY,DON'T BE NEEDY. My Ex told me this "I cannot like a quality in you and be attracted to it,if i hate it in myself.", when we talked,i said that i didn't care about her at all in the start of our relationship,and she said it was driving her crazy and she knew it,the moment i started chasing was the moment that everything started falling apart. Try to be more careless about your relationships with GIRLS,don't be hesitant to drop them the moment you don't feel like to,don't turn into one of these slug boyfriends that literally do EVERYTHING to save the girl...DONT DO IT,it's not worth it,at the end you are gonna get SHAT ON for being needy,despite making everything for her and making her happy,this is not attractive,its repulsive for them.Go out with different women,have jelly materials always,don't be hesitant to cheat when you have chance,because at the end of the day PEOPLE CHEAT ON EACH OTHER!!!!!EVERYFUCKING TIME !!!Sooner or later you are gonna get cheated ON!!!Also as a rule of thumb,DON'T leave a girl in a WORSE state both emotional & physical,after you break up with her,then when you met her. Sorry to say this but you have a very sad look on life. I'm not an expert of of love and relationships but i do know a thing or two. Life, love and sex isn't as easy as saying its "black and white". You can't make it simple saying avoid all emotional attention and running away when you get cold feet is the best way to live your life. You will never find a partner that way or have a relationship that really is meaningful. From your post i can tell you have been hurt in your relationship experiences but totally numbing out all feeling isn't the way around it. If you push down all your feelings when you are dating one of these days they will came back to bite you in the ass, trust me it has happened before to me. =/ I guess good luck with your dating.
It's not about numbing your feeling,it's just taking it EASY and being DISATTACHED until later in relationship.Learn to attach SLOWER and EASIER.
I am saying that because People's brain is considered to be a powerful machine.It records events,faces,times,situations everything,sometimes to the very detail.When people make mistakes,or have huge jumps in their lives,they create a "PATHING"
Pathing is when you for instance get something wrong several times,and you make a path in your brain to fix it and remember the next time it happens,how to fix it IMMEDIATELY.
We have emotional pathing,physical pathing(walking,swimming,driving)You learn by making paths in your brain,by doing something,getting it wrong,fixing it.You see green color,and you think of grass,that's a path that your brain made.
You see someone get physically beaten,and you immediately think of pain,and you might even feel it.
When someone says DON'T Think of a green cow,you immediately see a green cow in your brain.
You don't get burned twice on the Stove to REALIZE it burns.
Read up on NLP and you will get it right,the Dog-Bell Test.
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^I wouldn't do that, cocaine are fairly expansive. So unless you have a tons of money, this won't go down well.
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On February 17 2013 00:13 HoLe wrote:
When I dumped my ex, I just ate a ton of sushi, called her up on the phone and started dropping bombs. Fuck it, it's about me right? You gotta look out for #1. Obviously if you care enough about the girl you won't do this. But if it's just another notch on the belt, let's not kid ourselves.
I called her up and told her the truth: that she's a crazy moody nymphomaniac that lost her virginity waaaay too late, that she doesn't smoke pot and that's no bueno, that she should be more humble about her piano skills because playing one Yann Tierson song isn't so great, that she can't hold her drink, that I can't just go upstairs and fuck her with all my friends over, that I'm banging another girl also, that I'm in love with that other girl and shit's getting pretty serious, that I'm sorry I didn't comfort her when she moved into university residence 3 hours away and hated it because maybe you should think harder about what you decide to do instead of being a robot (and also a phat pussay imo), smoke weed and play starcraft, bitch, get on my level.
ADDED: gf 2.0 brings me baked treats in bed and has a bigger rack & ass too. Also way funnier.
lmao
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On February 17 2013 06:38 fatfail wrote:
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So natural. So short-lived and yet eternal! Such is life and all that exists beyond us. Days are trivial but love is the fire that burns in our heart. Like Ariadne's thread, it leads our species towards the future, onto fascinating chapters of our history. Without it, we do not move, we forget and we fade. "And this is the way the world ends, not with a bang but a whimper."
Watch Terrence Malick's Tree of Life and cry tears of loneliness.
As for me, the bitterness of the weak and the fallen only makes my fire stronger.
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^ The last page of posts is why I love TL. Fucking ROFL
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On February 17 2013 07:04 Xiphos wrote:
^I wouldn't do that, cocaine are fairly expansive. So unless you have a tons of money, this won't go down well.
But I bet she will!
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On February 17 2013 07:00 PassiveAce wrote:
I am totally going to cover my dick in cocaine next time I have sex.
oh my god i laughed so hard at this :D perfect reply :D
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On February 17 2013 05:45 Firebolt145 wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 05:41 Aerisky wrote:
Maybe what tl needs is a relationship subforum where girl blogs, relationship stories, advice, thoughts, etc can all go.
Good damn kickboxer though.... Can't tell if you're being sarcastic, but Blogs is pretty much what you describe.
I guess :/
But I feel like with the quantity of all that stuff, it could all go into a single relationship subforum. I have bad ideas though, don't mind me.
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On February 17 2013 07:16 Kukaracha wrote:So natural. So short-lived and yet eternal! Such is life and all that exists beyond us. Days are trivial but love is the fire that burns in our heart. Like Ariadne's thread, it leads our species towards the future, onto fascinating chapters of our history. Without it, we do not move, we forget and we fade. "And this is the way the world ends, not with a bang but a whimper." Watch Terrence Malick's Tree of Life and cry tears of loneliness. As for me, the bitterness of the weak and the fallen only makes my fire stronger.
Essentially, you revel in crude hedonism?
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I just don't get why the guy had to be white and the girl asian. Couldn't the fantasy have been AM/WF?
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On February 17 2013 08:05 SamsungStar wrote:
I just don't get why the guy had to be white and the girl asian. Couldn't the fantasy have been AM/WF?
Different skin complexion -> cocaine on penis simply doesn't look as interesting. It's sad but it's the truth.
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On February 17 2013 04:13 SamsungStar wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 04:09 MysteryMeat1 wrote:On February 17 2013 01:42 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 01:39 PassiveAce wrote:On February 17 2013 01:33 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 17 2013 01:08 mynameisgreat11 wrote:
Having your friends show you a video of your gf getting banged by two dudes at last weekends party. Develop a cuckold/ntr fetish and suddenly it's pretty amazing.  I have never understood the appeal of watching your gf be fucked by someone else. Some guys are really into it, I just dont get it. I guess its like watching a porn staring someone you know. I recently saw a porno with my brother in it. That was pretty fucking bizarre. movie or it didn't happen.... NSFW: + Show Spoiler +The link to the actual porn is top comment in the youtube vid...
So your brother got picked up by the bangbus?
On February 17 2013 07:00 PassiveAce wrote:
I am totally going to cover my dick in cocaine next time I have sex.
Wait doesnt that kinda defeat the purpose
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On February 17 2013 08:16 TheFish7 wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 04:13 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 04:09 MysteryMeat1 wrote:On February 17 2013 01:42 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 01:39 PassiveAce wrote:On February 17 2013 01:33 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 17 2013 01:08 mynameisgreat11 wrote:
Having your friends show you a video of your gf getting banged by two dudes at last weekends party. Develop a cuckold/ntr fetish and suddenly it's pretty amazing. I have never understood the appeal of watching your gf be fucked by someone else. Some guys are really into it, I just dont get it. I guess its like watching a porn staring someone you know. I recently saw a porno with my brother in it. That was pretty fucking bizarre. movie or it didn't happen.... NSFW: + Show Spoiler +http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RW9LKziHhic The link to the actual porn is top comment in the youtube vid... So your brother got picked up by the bangbus?
Not picked up. He knows Jada and she was part of his show. So he went along for the ride for HER show. My brother is the Chinese guy
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On February 17 2013 08:17 SamsungStar wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 08:16 TheFish7 wrote:On February 17 2013 04:13 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 04:09 MysteryMeat1 wrote:On February 17 2013 01:42 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 01:39 PassiveAce wrote:On February 17 2013 01:33 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 17 2013 01:08 mynameisgreat11 wrote:
Having your friends show you a video of your gf getting banged by two dudes at last weekends party. Develop a cuckold/ntr fetish and suddenly it's pretty amazing. I have never understood the appeal of watching your gf be fucked by someone else. Some guys are really into it, I just dont get it. I guess its like watching a porn staring someone you know. I recently saw a porno with my brother in it. That was pretty fucking bizarre. movie or it didn't happen.... NSFW: + Show Spoiler +http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RW9LKziHhic The link to the actual porn is top comment in the youtube vid... So your brother got picked up by the bangbus? Not picked up. He knows Jada and she was part of his show. So he went along for the ride for HER show. My brother is the Chinese guy
Oh thats kinda fun actually. Always wanted to get a pornstar's thoughts on sex. I hope Jada didn't do any anal scenes after eating that frita </offtopic>
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On February 17 2013 08:22 TheFish7 wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 08:17 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 08:16 TheFish7 wrote:On February 17 2013 04:13 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 04:09 MysteryMeat1 wrote:On February 17 2013 01:42 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 01:39 PassiveAce wrote:On February 17 2013 01:33 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 17 2013 01:08 mynameisgreat11 wrote:
Having your friends show you a video of your gf getting banged by two dudes at last weekends party. Develop a cuckold/ntr fetish and suddenly it's pretty amazing. I have never understood the appeal of watching your gf be fucked by someone else. Some guys are really into it, I just dont get it. I guess its like watching a porn staring someone you know. I recently saw a porno with my brother in it. That was pretty fucking bizarre. movie or it didn't happen.... NSFW: + Show Spoiler +http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RW9LKziHhic The link to the actual porn is top comment in the youtube vid... So your brother got picked up by the bangbus? Not picked up. He knows Jada and she was part of his show. So he went along for the ride for HER show. My brother is the Chinese guy Oh thats kinda fun actually. Always wanted to get a pornstar's thoughts on sex. I hope Jada didn't do any anal scenes after eating that frita </offtopic>
Atleast he managed to dodge the lobster sauce
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The worst part of a breakup is when people resort to sexism or become great pseudo-philosophers on love as a defense mechanism.
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On February 17 2013 05:21 Eisregen wrote:+ Show Spoiler +On February 17 2013 05:04 slytown wrote:
Not exactly a breakup but the first girl I went on a date with was in college with a girl from an Economics course. We went on a first and second date but since I was oblivious to dating I opted to just make friends with her. And, we ended up becoming best friends. About a year after meeting she moves away to go to nursing school. Over that time I thought about her a lot; and I mean a lot. When she got back, we hung out a few times but I could not summon up the courage to ask her to stay. So, she leaves again, this time for California.
I try a couple other dating ventures over that period, but they're epic failures. When she returns again, about 2 years after we'd met and mostly a phone call friendship, I tell her I've been falling for her and want her to stay. After she says "no", basically, I take her home and we never speak again.
Lesson: don't dream about a girl/boy for 2 years without doing something about it. A horrible weight on your mind. Question is, did she say no because you tried to keep her here or did she say no because she doesnt see you as bf material at all?
Both.
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In 8th grade, my buddy broke up with his girl by calling her a cunt.
His school was a 1st grade - 12th grade school. Word spread.
Universally hated.
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On February 17 2013 08:23 arb wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 08:22 TheFish7 wrote:On February 17 2013 08:17 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 08:16 TheFish7 wrote:On February 17 2013 04:13 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 04:09 MysteryMeat1 wrote:On February 17 2013 01:42 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 01:39 PassiveAce wrote:On February 17 2013 01:33 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 17 2013 01:08 mynameisgreat11 wrote:
Having your friends show you a video of your gf getting banged by two dudes at last weekends party. Develop a cuckold/ntr fetish and suddenly it's pretty amazing. I have never understood the appeal of watching your gf be fucked by someone else. Some guys are really into it, I just dont get it. I guess its like watching a porn staring someone you know. I recently saw a porno with my brother in it. That was pretty fucking bizarre. movie or it didn't happen.... NSFW: + Show Spoiler +http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RW9LKziHhic The link to the actual porn is top comment in the youtube vid... So your brother got picked up by the bangbus? Not picked up. He knows Jada and she was part of his show. So he went along for the ride for HER show. My brother is the Chinese guy Oh thats kinda fun actually. Always wanted to get a pornstar's thoughts on sex. I hope Jada didn't do any anal scenes after eating that frita </offtopic> Atleast he managed to dodge the lobster sauce
hahahahah XD
and LOL on the pseudo-philosopher thing. I've so done that after a breakup.
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I wish I had interesting breakup stories 
My only bad breakup was with this girl who started talking shit / making shit up about me behind my back... but she was dumb enough to whine about it to some of my really close friends (who of course told me / showed me the chat logs). Called her a bitch and ended it.
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