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On February 17 2013 03:22 Kaeru wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 02:49 Warlock40 wrote:Wtf? Why did you kick the guy that was trying to warn you about her? He was doing you a favor. You just kinda sound like a douche after that :|, wrongs on both sides. Yeah, that's kind of how I feel. I thought about it - why would she want to tell me now? I did some research, asked some people and it turned out that the guy had told her that unless she tells me - he would. He basically forced her to tell me. I got so angry, who the fuck does he think he is to force my girlfriend to do something she didn't want to do? If your girlfriend not only cheated on you but couldn't be honest enough with you to tell you about it until someone forced her to, that's bad news. Obviously, this guy was just as wrong to sleep with your girlfriend as she was, but at least he had enough moral backbone to try to fess up. Both SO WRONG!!!I usually wouldn't get mad at a guy that would sleep with my girlfriend, it's up to her to say no... But I had meet this guy once before at a party and he had come up to me and said something "If you want I can keep an eye on your girl, there are a lot of guys in the school that are in love with her.". I told him that it's up to her to take care of herself... Shortly after he sleeps with her, that's just fucked up respect. But I kicked him mostly because he forced someone I liked to do something she didn't want to. His motive was that if me and her break up, he could maybe get together with her. It wasn't his decision to make and he didn't do it to be nice... And as I understood it he had been pressuring her for a long time to tell this and she wasn't feeling good by being pressured... As earlier said. Who the fuck does he think he is to pressure and hurt someone I like? I could never let someone like him just go without beating him up.
Lol.. these guys bending over backwards to make you out to be the asshole. So sad. I'm just facepalming repeatedly at the fact they really thought this guy was trying to be morally righteous.
My 2 cents: you should have beat him up and then raped him. In front of the entire class. Now that would be some righteous fury.
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so, the girl can take of herself if some guy wants to sleep with her. But if someone puts a little pressure on her to tell the truth, she cannot protect herself, and the guy deserves a beating. Right.
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On February 16 2013 21:44 googolplex wrote: Now that Burn-a-hole-in-your-pocket-for-your-partner-Day! Valentine's Day is over, maybe we can talk about the other side of love, the dark, unpleasant, and painful part. The part where love ends, at least for one party. The break up!
What the worst kind of bad breakup that you have experienced or known or witnessed?
Yesterday, I was having a post-Valentines date with a very good friend (bought her chocolates at 50% off!). We were having a pleasant night (not romantic, but the kind where you both have known each other for more than 10 years, so...) when we observed a couple across the table. It was an outdoor restaurant so it was a bit noisy with people having a free reign on the volumes of their voices. Suddenly, there was a loud but crying. From the dude. We tried not to watch but it was difficult not to. She was just cold and firm, nodding her head, and he was crying, holding her hands (which she obviously didn't seem to like), and he was begging, saying something like "we've been together for 7 years". It went like this for maybe an hour. Finally, and this was the worst thing, he begged on his knees. She hurriedly stood up and just left. Damn what a heartbreaker than situation was. Awkward silence in the restaurant until he left.
Maybe they should have done it somewhere more private? Also it seems that he didn't know about it. Breakup etiquettes should be taught somewhere in college.
Share your experience.
Damn that is some cold shit I've read.
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On February 17 2013 03:28 polarwolf wrote: so, the girl can take of herself if some guy wants to sleep with her. But if someone puts a little pressure on her to tell the truth, she cannot protect herself, and the guy deserves a beating. Right.
Yeah, that makes total sense. If my little brother wants to date girls, I'm sure he can take care of himself. But if one of those girls turns around and tries to blackmail/extort/send her cousin to beat him up, then she deserves retaliation. WRONG.
I wonder what went wrong in your neural development to make you unable to distinguish between illicit affairs and blackmail.
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On February 17 2013 03:25 SamsungStar wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 03:22 Kaeru wrote:On February 17 2013 02:49 Warlock40 wrote:Wtf? Why did you kick the guy that was trying to warn you about her? He was doing you a favor. You just kinda sound like a douche after that :|, wrongs on both sides. Yeah, that's kind of how I feel. I thought about it - why would she want to tell me now? I did some research, asked some people and it turned out that the guy had told her that unless she tells me - he would. He basically forced her to tell me. I got so angry, who the fuck does he think he is to force my girlfriend to do something she didn't want to do? If your girlfriend not only cheated on you but couldn't be honest enough with you to tell you about it until someone forced her to, that's bad news. Obviously, this guy was just as wrong to sleep with your girlfriend as she was, but at least he had enough moral backbone to try to fess up. Both SO WRONG!!!I usually wouldn't get mad at a guy that would sleep with my girlfriend, it's up to her to say no... But I had meet this guy once before at a party and he had come up to me and said something "If you want I can keep an eye on your girl, there are a lot of guys in the school that are in love with her.". I told him that it's up to her to take care of herself... Shortly after he sleeps with her, that's just fucked up respect. But I kicked him mostly because he forced someone I liked to do something she didn't want to. His motive was that if me and her break up, he could maybe get together with her. It wasn't his decision to make and he didn't do it to be nice... And as I understood it he had been pressuring her for a long time to tell this and she wasn't feeling good by being pressured... As earlier said. Who the fuck does he think he is to pressure and hurt someone I like? I could never let someone like him just go without beating him up. Lol.. these guys bending over backwards to make you out to be the asshole. So sad. I'm just facepalming repeatedly at the fact they really thought this guy was trying to be morally righteous. My 2 cents: you should have beat him up and then raped him. In front of the entire class. Now that would be some righteous fury.
As a somewhat impulsive guy with occasional sadistic tendencies, I find that a bit much. Plus I don't think our guy wants anything to do with that other guy sexually.
Either way you're not making a compelling case by inviting people to beat and rape others.
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A lot of sad stories here... I want to read stories from the girls, anyone?
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On February 17 2013 03:35 MasterOfPuppets wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 03:25 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 03:22 Kaeru wrote:On February 17 2013 02:49 Warlock40 wrote:Wtf? Why did you kick the guy that was trying to warn you about her? He was doing you a favor. You just kinda sound like a douche after that :|, wrongs on both sides. Yeah, that's kind of how I feel. I thought about it - why would she want to tell me now? I did some research, asked some people and it turned out that the guy had told her that unless she tells me - he would. He basically forced her to tell me. I got so angry, who the fuck does he think he is to force my girlfriend to do something she didn't want to do? If your girlfriend not only cheated on you but couldn't be honest enough with you to tell you about it until someone forced her to, that's bad news. Obviously, this guy was just as wrong to sleep with your girlfriend as she was, but at least he had enough moral backbone to try to fess up. Both SO WRONG!!!I usually wouldn't get mad at a guy that would sleep with my girlfriend, it's up to her to say no... But I had meet this guy once before at a party and he had come up to me and said something "If you want I can keep an eye on your girl, there are a lot of guys in the school that are in love with her.". I told him that it's up to her to take care of herself... Shortly after he sleeps with her, that's just fucked up respect. But I kicked him mostly because he forced someone I liked to do something she didn't want to. His motive was that if me and her break up, he could maybe get together with her. It wasn't his decision to make and he didn't do it to be nice... And as I understood it he had been pressuring her for a long time to tell this and she wasn't feeling good by being pressured... As earlier said. Who the fuck does he think he is to pressure and hurt someone I like? I could never let someone like him just go without beating him up. Lol.. these guys bending over backwards to make you out to be the asshole. So sad. I'm just facepalming repeatedly at the fact they really thought this guy was trying to be morally righteous. My 2 cents: you should have beat him up and then raped him. In front of the entire class. Now that would be some righteous fury. As a somewhat impulsive guy with occasional sadistic tendencies, I find that a bit much. Plus I don't think our guy wants anything to do with that other guy sexually. Either way you're not making a compelling case by inviting people to beat and rape others.
Sorry, my testosterone got the better of me. I was just playing back that scenario in my head and the prison-house urges kicked in. Again, apologies. Rape is serious and no laughing matter. But, for some reason, to me sex and dominance are intimately connected, so when I'm dominating someone I usually try to sex them too. I think this is why none of my friends play Street Fighter with me anymore . Luckily, I still have bnet :D
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I once reopened a wound from a cut on my right hand while fapping. Things never went back to normal after this incident :-(
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The taekwondo guy's story was really fucked up. Quite the proof that there aren't only bright people on TL. Beating people up and feeling good about it? Lawl.
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On February 17 2013 01:42 SamsungStar wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 01:39 PassiveAce wrote:On February 17 2013 01:33 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 17 2013 01:08 mynameisgreat11 wrote: Having your friends show you a video of your gf getting banged by two dudes at last weekends party. Develop a cuckold/ntr fetish and suddenly it's pretty amazing.  I have never understood the appeal of watching your gf be fucked by someone else. Some guys are really into it, I just dont get it. I guess its like watching a porn staring someone you know. I recently saw a porno with my brother in it. That was pretty fucking bizarre.
movie or it didn't happen....
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On February 17 2013 04:09 MysteryMeat1 wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 01:42 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 01:39 PassiveAce wrote:On February 17 2013 01:33 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 17 2013 01:08 mynameisgreat11 wrote: Having your friends show you a video of your gf getting banged by two dudes at last weekends party. Develop a cuckold/ntr fetish and suddenly it's pretty amazing.  I have never understood the appeal of watching your gf be fucked by someone else. Some guys are really into it, I just dont get it. I guess its like watching a porn staring someone you know. I recently saw a porno with my brother in it. That was pretty fucking bizarre. movie or it didn't happen....
NSFW: + Show Spoiler +
The link to the actual porn is top comment in the youtube vid...
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On February 17 2013 04:13 SamsungStar wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 04:09 MysteryMeat1 wrote:On February 17 2013 01:42 SamsungStar wrote:On February 17 2013 01:39 PassiveAce wrote:On February 17 2013 01:33 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 17 2013 01:08 mynameisgreat11 wrote: Having your friends show you a video of your gf getting banged by two dudes at last weekends party. Develop a cuckold/ntr fetish and suddenly it's pretty amazing.  I have never understood the appeal of watching your gf be fucked by someone else. Some guys are really into it, I just dont get it. I guess its like watching a porn staring someone you know. I recently saw a porno with my brother in it. That was pretty fucking bizarre. movie or it didn't happen.... NSFW: + Show Spoiler +http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RW9LKziHhic The link to the actual porn is top comment in the youtube vid...
Dang im at work. BRB in 6 hours
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On February 17 2013 03:15 Prevolved wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 03:08 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 17 2013 03:01 Twinkle Toes wrote:On February 17 2013 02:55 Crying wrote: Learn to not trust Girls Easily,and Learn to not get attached easily,Learn that the whole BF/GF thing is something that comes and goes,and no relationship is forever,Even Marriage gets BORING and people get bored of each other,and live together because of Kids/Respect/Past It doesn't matter how long a relationship is,even a month is enough for people to do incredible amounts of damage to each other Well it was my first GF to be honest,and damn i wasn't a good boyfriend.I learned so many things,but oh well i guess life and eventually things like these change you,in a way you couldn't have ever imagined. It was literally magical.I mean the first week was omg....so GUD.But oh welp nothing is forever.However at the end she was acting all bitchy and shitty with me because i just got attached and her subconsciousness was telling her that when a guy chases a girl its not funny anymore.The first 1-2 weeks she was chasing me like shit,and when i got to chase i got stomped.LITERALLY I ended everything at New Year's i got back from the party where i was with her but we both knew already we were over,i woke up and i skype dumped her which wasnt classy at all,but come on she literally fucked me up on so many levels. But hell, i learned so much....so fucking much,to NOT TRUST ANYONE............
Quite the cynic are we... It grinds my gears when people look at a realistic viewpoint and dismiss it as "cynical". Hell it grinds my gears when people use the word "cynic" or any derivative thereof with a negative connotation. Yeah actually this guy is so fucking right. I sure wish it were otherwise, but it's not. Many of you would do well to heed this man's advice and spare yourselves misery and confusion in the future. I was so delusional when i first got into my relationship that its gonna be forever,that we are really gone love each other and respect each other and TRUST EACH OTHER.But guess what.The very moment i said to her that we are gonna say 100% truth and i told her some things,she immediately started being cold,because of my past.Don't EVER BE 100% Truthful,i don't say LIE for serious things,but when she asks if u watched a movie yesterday, and you say no,but actually you did then yea u get what im talking about,don't lie about serious things. Guys just think of it. What is the % of divorces in USA?Well it is quite high.The % of people that do not get divorced,either live together because of their kids,or have a lover that fulfills their sexual desires.Sex with only one person makes it BORING and monotonous,and don't say here YOU ARE GONNA MAKE IT DIFFERENT,no you aren't stop being delusional.Varying is not doing it with one person with different poses,it's making it with different people with different poses.Look up Varying in the dictionary. People get bored of each other,it's just like a new thing you bought you eventually either loose it or stop wear it.(It is a materialistic example,but you get what i am talking about)
If you know who is David DeAngelo,he Says it pretty good "Love DOES NOT Exist" People just get used to being to each other,to support each other,to buy nice things to each other AND ON THE PEDESTAL TO HAVE SEX People describe and use the word LOVE when they want something,when they want to have SEX with each other.It's the sad TRUTH Our brain and emotional circuitry is NOT MADE FOR LIVING IN 21 CENTURY.Our brain and emotions are outdated,we are used to live in small communities of 150-300 people,and not in a big city with 50,000,000 people.We are scared of approaching new women,because we might get shot down,not that it will be life threatening nowadays,but before 50,000 years IT WOULD HAVE BEEN LIFE THREATENING!!!!!
I learned these things THE VERY FUCKING HARD WAY,don't get lost in a relationship,don't put girls on PEDESTAL,don't make them your queens,don't overspend on them,DON'T BE CLINGY,DON'T BE NEEDY.
My Ex told me this "I cannot like a quality in you and be attracted to it,if i hate it in myself.", when we talked,i said that i didn't care about her at all in the start of our relationship,and she said it was driving her crazy and she knew it,the moment i started chasing was the moment that everything started falling apart.
Try to be more careless about your relationships with GIRLS,don't be hesitant to drop them the moment you don't feel like to,don't turn into one of these slug boyfriends that literally do EVERYTHING to save the girl...DONT DO IT,it's not worth it,at the end you are gonna get SHAT ON for being needy,despite making everything for her and making her happy,this is not attractive,its repulsive for them.Go out with different women,have jelly materials always,don't be hesitant to cheat when you have chance,because at the end of the day PEOPLE CHEAT ON EACH OTHER!!!!!EVERYFUCKING TIME !!!Sooner or later you are gonna get cheated ON!!!
Also as a rule of thumb,DON'T leave a girl in a WORSE state both emotional & physical,after you break up with her,then when you met her.
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On February 17 2013 04:30 Crying wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 03:15 Prevolved wrote:On February 17 2013 03:08 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 17 2013 03:01 Twinkle Toes wrote:On February 17 2013 02:55 Crying wrote: Learn to not trust Girls Easily,and Learn to not get attached easily,Learn that the whole BF/GF thing is something that comes and goes,and no relationship is forever,Even Marriage gets BORING and people get bored of each other,and live together because of Kids/Respect/Past It doesn't matter how long a relationship is,even a month is enough for people to do incredible amounts of damage to each other Well it was my first GF to be honest,and damn i wasn't a good boyfriend.I learned so many things,but oh well i guess life and eventually things like these change you,in a way you couldn't have ever imagined. It was literally magical.I mean the first week was omg....so GUD.But oh welp nothing is forever.However at the end she was acting all bitchy and shitty with me because i just got attached and her subconsciousness was telling her that when a guy chases a girl its not funny anymore.The first 1-2 weeks she was chasing me like shit,and when i got to chase i got stomped.LITERALLY I ended everything at New Year's i got back from the party where i was with her but we both knew already we were over,i woke up and i skype dumped her which wasnt classy at all,but come on she literally fucked me up on so many levels. But hell, i learned so much....so fucking much,to NOT TRUST ANYONE............
Quite the cynic are we... It grinds my gears when people look at a realistic viewpoint and dismiss it as "cynical". Hell it grinds my gears when people use the word "cynic" or any derivative thereof with a negative connotation. Yeah actually this guy is so fucking right. I sure wish it were otherwise, but it's not. Many of you would do well to heed this man's advice and spare yourselves misery and confusion in the future. Guys just think of it. What is the % of divorces in USA?Well it is quite high.The % of people that do not get divorced,either live together because of their kids,or have a lover that fulfills their sexual desires.Sex with only one person makes it BORING and monotonous,and don't say here YOU ARE GONNA MAKE IT DIFFERENT,no you aren't stop being delusional.Varying is not doing it with one person with different poses,it's making it with different people with different poses.Look up Varying in the dictionary. People get bored of each other,it's just like a new thing you bought you eventually either loose it or stop wear it.(It is a materialistic example,but you get what i am talking about) If you know who is David DeAngelo,he Says it pretty good "Love DOES NOT Exist" People just get used to being to each other,to support each other,to buy nice things to each other AND ON THE PEDESTAL TO HAVE SEXPeople describe and use the word LOVE when they want something,when they want to have SEX with each other.It's the sad TRUTH Our brain and emotional circuitry is NOT MADE FOR LIVING IN 21 CENTURY.Our brain and emotions are outdated,we are used to live in small communities of 150-300 people,and not in a big city with 50,000,000 people.We are scared of approaching new women,because we might get shot down,not that it will be life threatening nowadays,but before 50,000 years IT WOULD HAVE BEEN LIFE THREATENING!!!!! I learned these things THE VERY FUCKING HARD WAY,don't get lost in a relationship,don't put girls on PEDESTAL,don't make them your queens,don't overspend on them,DON'T BE CLINGY,DON'T BE NEEDY. My Ex told me this "I cannot like a quality in you and be attracted to it,if i hate it in myself.", when we talked,i said that i didn't care about her at all in the start of our relationship,and she said it was driving her crazy and she knew it,the moment i started chasing was the moment that everything started falling apart. Try to be more careless about your relationships with GIRLS,don't be hesitant to drop them the moment you don't feel like to,don't turn into one of these slug boyfriends that literally do EVERYTHING to save the girl...DONT DO IT,it's not worth it,at the end you are gonna get SHAT ON for being needy,despite making everything for her and making her happy,this is not attractive,its repulsive for them.Go out with different women,have jelly materials always,don't be hesitant to cheat when you have chance,because at the end of the day PEOPLE CHEAT ON EACH OTHER!!!!!EVERYFUCKING TIME !!!Sooner or later you are gonna get cheated ON!!!
This is good advice, capslock and all. The only women I've seen not cheating are the ones who love food more than fucking. And those turn into whales.
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On February 17 2013 04:35 SamsungStar wrote: This is good advice, capslock and all. The only women I've seen not cheating are the ones who love food more than fucking. And those turn into whales. the sad truth
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On February 17 2013 04:44 Kaeru wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 04:30 Crying wrote:On February 17 2013 03:15 Prevolved wrote:On February 17 2013 03:08 MasterOfPuppets wrote:On February 17 2013 03:01 Twinkle Toes wrote:On February 17 2013 02:55 Crying wrote: Learn to not trust Girls Easily,and Learn to not get attached easily,Learn that the whole BF/GF thing is something that comes and goes,and no relationship is forever,Even Marriage gets BORING and people get bored of each other,and live together because of Kids/Respect/Past It doesn't matter how long a relationship is,even a month is enough for people to do incredible amounts of damage to each other Well it was my first GF to be honest,and damn i wasn't a good boyfriend.I learned so many things,but oh well i guess life and eventually things like these change you,in a way you couldn't have ever imagined. It was literally magical.I mean the first week was omg....so GUD.But oh welp nothing is forever.However at the end she was acting all bitchy and shitty with me because i just got attached and her subconsciousness was telling her that when a guy chases a girl its not funny anymore.The first 1-2 weeks she was chasing me like shit,and when i got to chase i got stomped.LITERALLY I ended everything at New Year's i got back from the party where i was with her but we both knew already we were over,i woke up and i skype dumped her which wasnt classy at all,but come on she literally fucked me up on so many levels. But hell, i learned so much....so fucking much,to NOT TRUST ANYONE............
Quite the cynic are we... It grinds my gears when people look at a realistic viewpoint and dismiss it as "cynical". Hell it grinds my gears when people use the word "cynic" or any derivative thereof with a negative connotation. Yeah actually this guy is so fucking right. I sure wish it were otherwise, but it's not. Many of you would do well to heed this man's advice and spare yourselves misery and confusion in the future. I was so delusional when i first got into my relationship that its gonna be forever,that we are really gone love each other and respect each other and TRUST EACH OTHER.But guess what.The very moment i said to her that we are gonna say 100% truth and i told her some things,she immediately started being cold,because of my past.Don't EVER BE 100% Truthful,i don't say LIE for serious things,but when she asks if u watched a movie yesterday, and you say no,but actually you did then yea u get what im talking about,don't lie about serious things. Guys just think of it. What is the % of divorces in USA?Well it is quite high.The % of people that do not get divorced,either live together because of their kids,or have a lover that fulfills their sexual desires.Sex with only one person makes it BORING and monotonous,and don't say here YOU ARE GONNA MAKE IT DIFFERENT,no you aren't stop being delusional.Varying is not doing it with one person with different poses,it's making it with different people with different poses.Look up Varying in the dictionary. People get bored of each other,it's just like a new thing you bought you eventually either loose it or stop wear it.(It is a materialistic example,but you get what i am talking about) If you know who is David DeAngelo,he Says it pretty good "Love DOES NOT Exist"People just get used to being to each other,to support each other,to buy nice things to each other AND ON THE PEDESTAL TO HAVE SEXPeople describe and use the word LOVE when they want something,when they want to have SEX with each other.It's the sad TRUTHOur brain and emotional circuitry is NOT MADE FOR LIVING IN 21 CENTURY.Our brain and emotions are outdated,we are used to live in small communities of 150-300 people,and not in a big city with 50,000,000 people.We are scared of approaching new women,because we might get shot down,not that it will be life threatening nowadays,but before 50,000 years IT WOULD HAVE BEEN LIFE THREATENING!!!!! I learned these things THE VERY FUCKING HARD WAY,don't get lost in a relationship,don't put girls on PEDESTAL,don't make them your queens,don't overspend on them,DON'T BE CLINGY,DON'T BE NEEDY. My Ex told me this "I cannot like a quality in you and be attracted to it,if i hate it in myself.", when we talked,i said that i didn't care about her at all in the start of our relationship,and she said it was driving her crazy and she knew it,the moment i started chasing was the moment that everything started falling apart. Try to be more careless about your relationships with GIRLS,don't be hesitant to drop them the moment you don't feel like to,don't turn into one of these slug boyfriends that literally do EVERYTHING to save the girl...DONT DO IT,it's not worth it,at the end you are gonna get SHAT ON for being needy,despite making everything for her and making her happy,this is not attractive,its repulsive for them.Go out with different women,have jelly materials always,don't be hesitant to cheat when you have chance,because at the end of the day PEOPLE CHEAT ON EACH OTHER!!!!!EVERYFUCKING TIME !!!Sooner or later you are gonna get cheated ON!!! Bullshit. Love does not exist? What is love for a brother or sister then? Parents love for a child? You have a very sad way of looking at the world, life and love. You just find excuses and "facts" for your own weakness... The problem you have is that you've been hurt so you're really defensive... "When a man learns to love, he must bear the risk of hatred".You can play it safe and get nowhere if you want while I and many others bear the risk of hatred and pain to find love. I've been hurt, many people have. But I still have so much love in my life... Love is like everything else in life you know dude... Unless you risk something you won't get anything, unless you fight hard for it you won't find it. Good luck in life.
There is love between relatives,parents,friends,but between Lovers and BF/GF it is always transitional. I love my friends and parents relatives and such,i don't think i should truly love a person who gets out of nowhere in my life and tries to reposition it and make it like he/she wants to be enjoying for him/her.
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On February 17 2013 04:40 xM(Z wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2013 04:35 SamsungStar wrote: This is good advice, capslock and all. The only women I've seen not cheating are the ones who love food more than fucking. And those turn into whales. the sad truth
I feel so sad for both of you. Wow.
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