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On August 23 2012 11:51 imBLIND wrote: Honestly, they need to add a new amendment to the Constitution on the seperation of church and state. It needs to be extended towards defining and seperating a religious marriage versus a political partnership (gay marriage). The rest of the relgious instutions may come up with their own interpretation, as I know most religious bodies also have their own individual governing bodies (i.e., the Vatican).
Gay people may disagree with this, saying that it isn't a real marriage or whatever, but the truth of the matter is that the government cannot make a law stating that churches have to marry gay people too, otherwises it would be going against the constitution. Anti-gay may disagree that even allowing this kind of partnership is immoral or whatever, but they cannot impede in other people's pursuit of happiness.
This is the only way that this issue will ever progress, with both sides conceding and agreeing on a middle ground.
Minus, of course, the fact that there are plenty of religious institutions perfectly willing to marry gay couples. Here's where the crux of the matter lies: there is no single religious definition of marriage. Imposing the definition of marriage put forward by the most fundamentalist Christians is, in fact, imposing their religious beliefs on others. Several churches (The United Church of Canada up here, I don't know what their equivalent in America would be but I know they exist) are perfectly willing to define marriage to include homosexual couples.
The use of the fundamentalist definition of marriage by the government is not fulfilling the separation of church and state, as many religions do not adhere to it. Governments either need to get out of the marriage business all together and call everything a 'civil union", or they need to let gay people get married. Otherwise the government is actively putting one set of religious beliefs above another.
You act like Christians are a monolithic group, and that allowing gays to get married will force churches to have to marry them. That's just plain stupid, though. I don't believe churches should be forced to marry people they don't want to, and I doubt most people would disagree. People are allowed to be assholes, as long as they don't impose or force their beliefs on others (and people are allowed to call them on it, as well, but I digress...). Like I said, though, there are plenty of churches willing to marry gay people, and they should be allowed to, and gay people from those religions (or unaffiliated to any religion) deserve to have their marriages recognized by the government in the same way that fundamentalist heterosexual Christians do.
There is no middle ground.
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On August 23 2012 11:00 catabowl wrote:+ Show Spoiler +On August 23 2012 08:21 Gangnam Style wrote:Show nested quote +On July 13 2012 18:02 -_-Quails wrote:On July 13 2012 17:41 Mohdoo wrote:On July 13 2012 17:34 Arunu wrote: I don't get it,
The construct of marriage predates christianity, it is not something christianity invented. the whole issue is moot.
If a religious person does not want to marry a same sex couple, fine.... (i can respect that, well not really but meh)
There should however, since we use a separation of state and church, never be any question whether they should be allowed to marry before the state. It should always be allowed.
Hard to believe people still have issues with this. I believe the thought process is this: Christianity has a concept of marriage Christians are God's favorites because Jesus was God and God's son or something like that Therefore, Christians have sole ownership of marriage Someone can correct me if I'm wrong, but I think that's the logic. I don't agree, but I think that's how they rationalize being the one religion that gets to decide, even though lots of others have different ideas. For a lot of the Christians who have difficulties understanding the separation of church and state it seems that there is a distinct failure to comprehend that different beliefs are actually possible. They might know that there are different religions, and people have different interpretations of their own religion, but they have not thought through the logical consequences of the co-existence of people with differing beliefs. Often they fail to realise that morality does not stem from religion, though aspects are often guided or encouraged by it. So to them, secularism or indeed any law that goes against some aspect of the behavioural code of their religion are immoral and dangerous. Better religious and philosophical education would be useful in helping people to differentiate between the parts of a religious code that are useful for wider society, and the parts they can live by and let others not live by without allowing harm to happen by saying nothing. By doing so, it would reassure religious people that society can run along secular lines without becoming a nightmare dystopia. TL; DR: Many Christians in Christian majority areas have difficulty internalising the idea that other beliefs are valid and lack of unbiased education in world religions and philosophy does not help. Show nested quote +On July 09 2012 06:09 Probe1 wrote: I would say instead of how dumb people are, how little they actually have in defense of their bigoted beliefs.
To the opposition of gay marriage: You don't have any legitimate reasons to oppose gay marriage. Homosexuals make you uncomfortable. You're afraid of gay people and you're probably afraid of your own sexuality. So you hide behind the Old Testament and then pervert marriage laws that were never supposed to preserve the sanctity of Christian beliefs.
It's fuckin bigotry. The same arguments were used against Negros. The same shit was said about womens suffrage. It's stupid shit that feels great to say because it costs you nothing. Who cares if a gay man or woman doesn't have rights? It doesn't bother you in the slightest if a gay man or woman is alienated and given unfair or unequal treatment but it's a problem when they want to be given the same rights as a straight person?
I don't want you to live on my planet anymore.
Those are my thoughts. It is becoming evident to me that the hinge of your focus is around the derogitorisation of homosexuals, and in terms of such discrimination I am in absolute agreement. As Christians we must not despise or be anything other than loving towards homosexuals. I think what happens is people are so vehemently opposed to and disgusted by homosexual behaviour that they revert to being derogatory towards the homosexual person as a way of expressing their feelings and beliefs. The Scriptural injunction is that we must be totally unaccepting of sin. Unfortunately, this sometimes makes us unaccepting of the person committing the sin. Jesus still hated the sin, while loving the sinner. He clearly equated loving with admonishing for sin and requiring repentance. He recognised this problem of religious people being judgmental, but He still required repentance. The woman taken in adultery (John 8) is a good example. Jesus dealt with the religious men for condemning her as a person and in v.11 He said "Neither do I condemn thee:go and SIN NO MORE" (my emphasis). He didn't say ' Well I feel sorry for you because you were probably born sexually promiscuous. Just carry on and we'll hope people will accept what you are doing because they should do that'. No, He said, lovingly but authoritatively, "go and sin no more". He wanted the religious people to love her as He did, but the sin had to end - she had to repent. I do feel compelled however, to look at scripture in the case of homosexuality, and a good place to start is always at the beginning! So, the beginning in relation to the individual, is the question: 'Is a person genetically "wired" to be homosexual or heterosexual?'. This is a popular argument used to support homosexuality. Research doesn't support this, however. For example, research with identical twins has found that despite being genetically absolutely identical, in half the cases where one twin is homosexual, the other is heterosexual. So while there may be a genetic predisposition at best, it is environmental influences that combine with any genetic predisposition to influence orientation. Research also suggests that heredity affects sexual orientation only indirectly by influencing personality factors which in turn may steer young people towards different socialisation experiences and it is those that essentially determine orientation. (The references are available from psycologists I know). The thing is, we all have genetic predispositions, many of which may be socially unacceptable, immoral etc. I might have, for example, a genetic predisposition to kleptomania and I might even be brought up in, or have life experiences that support that predisposition. But that doesn't mean that there is nothing I can or should do about it and that I have the right to steal what I can. Therefore, it comes down to the fundamental question of right and wrong. If homosexuality is wrong, then like the kleptomania example, a genetic predisposition and life's experiences don't excuse it. The question of whether something is right or wrong is ultimately a Scriptural one. No Christian can disagree that God is the final arbiter of right and wrong. So, does Scripture say homosexuality is right, wrong, or is it equivocal or silent on the matter? So, the second beginning is to start at the beginning of the Scriptural record where we see from Genesis 2:18-24 that homosexuality violates the very nature of the sexual relationship that God put in place at creation, to be fulfilled only in the relationship of marriage between a man and a woman. A fundamental and defining doctrine of Christianity is the doctrine of original sin. That is, any behaviour that violates or seeks to change God's plan and standards is a result of the introduction of sin into God's creation. Some even suggest that God creates homosexuals, but it would be contrary to God's nature to create a person in direct violation of His own blueprint and standards. Homosexuality is a consequence, therefore, of the fallen human nature/sin. We must, therefore, respond to it like any other temptation and sin. The Bible is replete with advice and instructions on how to deal with temptations and sinful behaviours in our lives. Homosexuality clearly falls into the category of sin, not only because of the plan for human relationships God established at creation, but also because He then explicitly and decisively addressed the problem as it had arisen in Sodom (Genesis 19). Suggestions that this account can be read as not referring to homosexual behaviour are fanciful and contrived at best, but basically evidence a fundamentally unintelligent misunderstanding of both the Hebrew and English languages. The meaning of the Genesis 19 events in terms of homosexuality has been accepted by society in general throughout the ages and is indicated of course, by the etymology of the word "sodomy". Not only did God deal decisively with the problem at Sodom but He then explicitly outlawed homosexual behaviour and recorded this in Scripture. First, it is recorded in Leviticus 18:22 where it is referred to as an "abomination" (KJV). Interestingly, the next verse condemns bestiality, referring to it as "confusion". Yet while the New Zealand criminal law continues to outlaw and provide severe penalties for the "confusion" of bestiality, it has legalised the "abomination" of homosexuality! It can be argued that the "laws" of Leviticus are not to be strictly observed as absolute law by us living in the Christian era. Certainly, one can point to some of them, such as the mixing of fibres in clothing, as being difficult to understand. My response to this view is that perhaps they are not absolute laws (although just because we don't understand them or think we have progressed beyond them as a society, doesn't necessarily mean that God doesn't know something that is good for us that we don't know. For example, science is now catching up by realising the dangers associated with eating shellfish! After all God's "laws" are actually for our benefit), but they do, at the very least, show us the mind of God. In the case of homosexuality, God describes it as an abomination or detestable in Leviticus. Indeed, so serious is it in His eyes that in Leviticus 20:13 He said that both partners committing homosexual sex must be put to death. Even if we argue that this law is no longer applicable in terms of penalty, it shows clearly how seriously God views this behaviour. Remember too that God is unchanging. His view of homosexuality has not changed in the three or so millennia that have passed since the writing of Leviticus. He may have relaxed the penalty of death, since Christ has paid that penalty on our behalf (provided we accept that and repent), but He hasn't changed His view of the behaviour as being an abomination. Incidentally, there's a very plain statement in Deuteronomy 23:17 also: "There shall be no whore of the daughters of Israel nor a sodomite of the sons of Israel" I trust no one would demonstrate their lack of Biblical exegesis by suggesting this applies only to Jewish people. So, if we still decide to ignore God's views set out in the Old Testament because we think they are no longer applicable, has God dealt with the issue in New Testament times? Clearly, He has. Romans 1:24-27 clearly refers to homosexuality. Indeed, not only does it refer to homosexual acts but also to homosexual desire - "burned in their lust for one another". Interestingly, the last phrase of v.27 is likely a reference to Aids. Then in v.32 God's view of the gravity of this behaviour, along with others, mirrors the view contained in Leviticus 20:13. Note too that those who agree with or condone these behaviours are equally as disappointing to God. Moving on, we are left totally without excuse when we read 1 Corinthians 6  -10. Unrepentant homosexuals will not inherit the Kingdom of God. Surely a person would have to be blinded by sin or satan not to be concerned by that plain warning from God Himself. Furthermore, like the Old Testament, the New testament consistently refers to homosexuality when listing serious sin. So it is included in the list in 1 Timothy1  -10 as well. I believe in the literal method of Bible interpretation - that is, the understanding of a text that any person of normal intelligence would understand without the help of any special keys, codes, or background knowledge (like culture for example). If one believes the Bible to be the inspired word of a timeless God, then one must believe that it is understandable on the face of it and that just as God "breathed" His inspiration into its writing, He will see to it that if we really want to hear what He has to say through it, we will do so in a clear and unequivocal way. Isaiah 5:20 says: "Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil". When we make or support a law that legalises evil we are sending the message that the legalised behaviour is acceptable. Even if we are doing it out of some liberal type notion that laws restrict peoples' "rights", the psychological effect of laws that legalise a given behaviour is that they legitimise that behaviour and make it into a "good" behaviour in the eyes, particularly, of young and other vulnerable and impressionable people. Please be careful when you claim that such beliefs cause me to discriminate against minorities, for this is leaning toward an accusation of intentional discrimination which although unfortunately can happen as a side affect of the way in which humans live out the bibles message, is by no means a 'true christian' approach to such matters. Of course I meet people with genuine beliefs that may differ from my own, that is not justification for discrimination, nor is it in my belief justification for judgment; be mindful that the above account is scriptual - if someone was doing wrong I would not say to them "that is wrong" but rather "that is wrong according to the bible". I indeed have homosexual friends myself and do not treat them differently; it is ultimately up to them and the holy spirit should anything change. Thus I in closing wish to say sincerely that I have not offended any minority in what I have written. I could not have said this any better then what this person has said.
I'm sure you don't care what I consider because you have your Book to tell you everything, but you know what I consider Evil? A society that protects hate and intolerance based on an ancient piece of revealed fiction. Lets quickly scroll through a list of things in the Bible that are called Evil by "God" and count as Sin: Refusal to be Baptized (Luke 7;29) Baptism before Believing in Jesus (Acts 8:36) Not Beating the Child who Disobeys (Pv 13:24) Complaining of Hardships (Num 11:1,11:4-6) Smoking (Ro 12:1; 13:14; 1 Cor 3:16-18; 6:20; 2 Cor 4:10; 1 Pe 1:15; 1 Thes 4:4,5) Arguing (Pv 17:14; 18:6; Titus 3 ;\ 2 Tim 2:23) Debate (Romans 1:29) Television, the Internet - I guess anything you would call Media (Ps 101:3; Ja 1:27) Thinking about tomorrow, about what to Eat, Drink, or Wear (Mat 6:25) Being Worried (Phili 4:6; Mat 6:25) Offending Others (Mat 13:41,17:27; Ja 3:2)
I'll stop there, though I really don't have to. According to that book, just about everything is Evil. And yet not one thing on this list of Sins is actually illegal in the society we live in today. Why? Because the basis for these moral injunctions are nonsense. And your stance on this issue is just as nonsensical.
You really fear legalizing evil? Then wake up to brutish cultures like yours that have always excused the persecution of women and homosexuals. And please, do keep insisting that you aren't offending anyone by calling their "actions" Evil. I'm sure you covered yourself for offending others by informing them that they are no longer offended by your hateful views. Please take a serious look at exactly how much of this silly text you want invoked on YOURSELF before trying to push it on nonbelievers.
Gays bless you. (Fitting that as the persecuted, it is -yet another- Sin not to Bless the fundamentalists who persecute us.)
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Honestly, I'm really tired of all the gay marriage discussion that this election year has brought upon. Not because I'm for or against gay marriage, but the fact that there's this mob mentality that all Christians are the same and absolutely hate gay people. I understand that debate on this topic will continue for awhile now (at least until elections are over), but I'm just tired of my facebook feed flooded with the same gay marriage support items. Maybe I just stop getting on facebook, but I'm only human.
I consider myself Christian, albeit, pretty lax on the whole bible practice. Having said that, I have plenty of gay friends that I behave towards the exact same. But people throw random shit at me just because I say that I'm Christian such as "WOW, GO BACK TO BIBLE SCHOOL". This makes me feel that people are just jumping on the current bandwagons of political trends and start hating. Kinda hypocritical since these people are fighting for equality but then start hating on me because of this generalization the current public has on Christians. In the end, I don't know why I'm saying this because all I have to do is stay out of these discussions. Peace.
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On August 23 2012 09:33 saocyn wrote:Show nested quote +On August 23 2012 08:40 sunprince wrote:On August 23 2012 08:38 Savio wrote: Can you give me the TL:DR version pls? TL;DR: Gangnam Style is a Christian bigot, but doesn't want you to call him that. He also believes that marriage is between a man and a woman because the Bible told him so. we'll at least he took the time to explain his view point instead of bashing because they're emotionally insecure and butt hurt over the matter. only bigot i see is you and the people who have that same emotional response when someone doesn't agree with them.
I don't think you understand what a TL;Dr is.
On August 23 2012 09:51 Bigtony wrote:Show nested quote +On August 23 2012 08:40 sunprince wrote:On August 23 2012 08:38 Savio wrote: Can you give me the TL:DR version pls? TL;DR: Gangnam Style is a Christian bigot, but doesn't want you to call him that. He also believes that marriage is between a man and a woman because the Bible told him so. How does that make him a bigot?
If a person considers the literal words of the Bible their moral authority, then they agree with and try to live by a wide variety of extremely bigoted beliefs.
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On August 23 2012 11:59 Supah wrote:Show nested quote +On August 23 2012 10:46 DoubleReed wrote:On August 23 2012 10:19 Supah wrote:On August 23 2012 09:58 DoubleReed wrote:On August 23 2012 09:50 Rollin wrote:On August 23 2012 09:33 DoubleReed wrote: Rape is when the father, brother, or husband does not agree. It has nothing to do with the woman. I'm not sure why you hold the bible in such high esteem when it's so flagrantly evil and opposed to human rights.
Um what? I'm fairly sure there are multiple instances where people were put to death for rape (in the old testament), and it had nothing to do with other males. Can you give an example where the bible displays this 'flagrant evil' and 'opposition of human rights', because it sounds like an assumption, not a conclusion based on reading it. Keep in mind that at the time, women in any society probably would have been considered inferior to men, because the majority of the work would have involved physical strength and not required intellect as it does today. Yes, men were put to death for rape because the woman's father did not approve of it. The woman has to go through her father for consent. There is no idea of "consent" for women in the bible. It's impossible, for instance, for a woman to raped by her husband, because her husband automatically consents. If, for instance, a father wanted to offer his wife and daughter to spare himself (like in Judges 19), then that's how it works. Women have no power of consent. This is not an assumption. This is how it works in the bible. And yes, obviously they were considered inferior to men. And yes, that's the kind of bullshit morality we expect of people 4000 years ago. The same bullshit morality condemns homosexuality. Why should anyone care that this awful, hideous morality condemns homosexuality if it has such terrible sexist views as well? To be fair, the entire book of Judges is pretty much recorded atrocity after recorded atrocity [stressing the pretty much]. Context is pretty key; the culture at the time meant someone under your roof was under your protection as far as was in your power [and again, the entire culture, not Biblically mandated action]. Note that just because something is in the Bible does not mean it is lauded by it. It's essentially history (whether fictitious or not) that traces Israel back from the beginning. Men are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church; to literally be willing to die sacrificically for her sake. Yes they are. And wives are called to obey their husbands. What's your point? Are you really going to try to argue that the bible isn't terribly sexist? Because I'll be honest, I'm shocked by people who try to argue this. I thought all moderate religious people were perfectly willing to admit that the bible is ridiculously sexist. This isn't like a terribly shocking or controversial fact about the bible. So please tell me your position, because I'd rather not argue against a position you don't have. We do not automatically sort out contradictions in our head. There are plenty of Christians who believe the following three statements independently, without linking them all together: 1. Morality comes from the bible. 2. The bible is sexist. 3. Sexism is bad. Generally, when someone says sexist I assume that they mean demeaning women and generally viewing them as inferior. Apologies if that isn't what you mean. But either way, love and sacrifice to that degree mentioned places a huge value of that relationship within marriage, which is neither demeaning nor placing women as inferior. I'd contend that the Bible isn't out and out sexist. If you look up complementarianism [http://www.girlsgonewise.com/complementarianism-for-dummies/ points 4 and 5, mainly.. just a quick search, sorry], then within that framework, the Bible (and I'd say just how things are) makes a lot of sense. I guess you could just call my general stance evangelical Christianity, though you'd want to sprinkle a dash of Thomism in it. edit: topic can probably get derailed by this if we both remember to check up and reply regularly, so if you want to PM me a response, then that may be better.
PM'd with about a dozen verses of sexism in response.
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What's so ridiculous is that there are people who fight AGAINST gay marriage, but are totally ok with and never fight against the abolishion of slavery or divorce, even though the bible would tell them otherwise. Slavery is perfectly fine and marriage is supposed to be until death do you part. So why is homosexual love worse, and more worth fighting against? Why do all these "moral men" in their 50s, 60s 70s, have 20 or 30 year old wifes and have been married 5 times?
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On August 23 2012 12:54 ANoise wrote: I'm sure you don't care what I consider because you have your Book to tell you everything, but you know what I consider Evil? A society that protects hate and intolerance based on an ancient piece of revealed fiction. Lets quickly scroll through a list of things in the Bible that are called Evil by "God" and count as Sin: Sure, why not.
Refusal to be Baptized (Luke 7;29) Nope. Nowhere in the passage does it say anything about refusing baptism, it merely documents the Pharisees (think of them as fundamentalists of the day, the ultra-holier-than-thou kinds of people) rejection of "God's plan" as it says. Nowhere is it even implied there was a punishment for this action, it's merely stated as a historical event. + Show Spoiler + Luke 7:29-30: When the people, including the tax collectors, heard this, they all agreed that God's teaching was good, having being baptised by by John. But the Pharisees and experts of the law refused to accept God's plan for themselves; they did not let John baptise them.
Baptism before Believing in Jesus (Acts 8:36) Umm, nope again? This is the story of a man's conversion and immediate baptism (because it was convenient, and "why the fuck not" too). + Show Spoiler + Acts 8:35-37: Phillip began to speak, and starting with the same scripture, he told the man the good news about Jesus. While they were travelling down the road, they came to some water. The officer said, "Look, here is water. Why shouldn't I be baptised?" Then the officer commanded the chariot to stop. Both Phillip and the officer went down into the water, and Phillip baptised him.
Not Beating the Child who Disobeys (Pv 13:24) Proverbs is a book of conventional wisdom at the time, it isn't a documentation of the original Jewish law. The verse is saying that rebuking a child and punishing them is borne out of love, and is beneficial. It is by no means a commandment or requirement, just a piece of advice. The book of proverbs is actually an interesting read, it doesn't contain any biblical content, just cool sayings. + Show Spoiler + Proverbs 13:24: If you do not punish your children, you don't love them, but if you love your children, you will correct them.
Complaining of Hardships (Num 11:1,11:4-6) Yes, complaining to God and him responding with anger may seem a little excessive. There is some context, namely that He did free them from the Egyptians and they were wandering in the desert for a long while (due to other reasons, namely doubting God would ever give them a new home). They had constantly complained the whole time, if God gave them food, they didn't like it because it was too boring, and similar complaining. Whilst this passage isn't specific, it is important to realise that this was not an isolated incident, and was probably used as an example that bitching and complaining about how God should act isn't the idea. Cbf writing the passage, it's pretty much as he described.
Smoking (Ro 12:1; 13:14; 1 Cor 3:16-18; 6:20; 2 Cor 4:10; 1 Pe 1:15; 1 Thes 4:4,5) - Romans 12:1 has nothing to do with this topic in the slightest. Typo perhaps? - 1 Corintians 3:16-17 tl;dr: God made you, so don't intentionally abuse your body (his handiwork). Yup, sounds logical to me. - 2 Corinthians 4:10 See Romans 12:1. - 1 Peter 1:15 See Romans 12:1. - Same idea as 1 corinithians 3:16-17.
I really can't be bothered going through the rest of the list, because, welp I'm lazy. I'm not sure where you got this information from, but if you read the passages, the interpretations made by your source makes no sense (barring the Numbers example).
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On August 23 2012 12:55 cHaNg-sTa wrote: Honestly, I'm really tired of all the gay marriage discussion that this election year has brought upon. Not because I'm for or against gay marriage, but the fact that there's this mob mentality that all Christians are the same and absolutely hate gay people. I understand that debate on this topic will continue for awhile now (at least until elections are over), but I'm just tired of my facebook feed flooded with the same gay marriage support items. Maybe I just stop getting on facebook, but I'm only human.
I consider myself Christian, albeit, pretty lax on the whole bible practice. Having said that, I have plenty of gay friends that I behave towards the exact same. But people throw random shit at me just because I say that I'm Christian such as "WOW, GO BACK TO BIBLE SCHOOL". This makes me feel that people are just jumping on the current bandwagons of political trends and start hating. Kinda hypocritical since these people are fighting for equality but then start hating on me because of this generalization the current public has on Christians. In the end, I don't know why I'm saying this because all I have to do is stay out of these discussions. Peace. I really know how you feel. I am gay and a Christian atheist and surprisingly, the people that gave me the most support in live were Christians claimed to be motivated by Christianity. Of course, I have met people who hate gays because of Christianity as well.
However, people have to realize that homophobia is not a religious trait, it is just bigotry because people can be bigoted. Plain and simple. In the atheist Soviet Russia and Communist China, Stalin and Mao persecuted gays because they thought it was too Western.
However, what makes me curious is if you said anything that could provoke them.
And I would like Google to focus on more basic human rights before talking about gay marriage.
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On August 23 2012 23:24 Shiragaku wrote:Show nested quote +On August 23 2012 12:55 cHaNg-sTa wrote: Honestly, I'm really tired of all the gay marriage discussion that this election year has brought upon. Not because I'm for or against gay marriage, but the fact that there's this mob mentality that all Christians are the same and absolutely hate gay people. I understand that debate on this topic will continue for awhile now (at least until elections are over), but I'm just tired of my facebook feed flooded with the same gay marriage support items. Maybe I just stop getting on facebook, but I'm only human.
I consider myself Christian, albeit, pretty lax on the whole bible practice. Having said that, I have plenty of gay friends that I behave towards the exact same. But people throw random shit at me just because I say that I'm Christian such as "WOW, GO BACK TO BIBLE SCHOOL". This makes me feel that people are just jumping on the current bandwagons of political trends and start hating. Kinda hypocritical since these people are fighting for equality but then start hating on me because of this generalization the current public has on Christians. In the end, I don't know why I'm saying this because all I have to do is stay out of these discussions. Peace. I really know how you feel. I am gay and a Christian atheist and surprisingly, the people that gave me the most support in live were Christians claimed to be motivated by Christianity. Of course, I have met people who hate gays because of Christianity as well. However, people have to realize that homophobia is not a religious trait, it is just bigotry because people can be bigoted. Plain and simple. In the atheist Soviet Russia and Communist China, Stalin and Mao persecuted gays because they thought it was too Western. However, what makes me curious is if you said anything that could provoke them. And I would like Google to focus on more basic human rights before talking about gay marriage.
Just because there were communists that also persecuted gay people does not mean that the religious teachings in the bible aren't wholeheartedly responsible for the pervasive homophobia that resides in America. In countries that are more secular, you find homophobia is be considerably less rare.
This idea that the doctrines of a religion have nothing to do with the behavior of religious people is really quite strange. Perhaps you are simply projecting, because you are a moderate. But not all Christians are moderates. Christianity does actually have a doctrine and that doctrine does explicitly say homophobic things, so it would be perfectly reasonable for Christians who take their faith more seriously to have more homophobic ideas.
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Haha, I do not like the term "moderate." I consider myself to be a Christian radical and revisionist. Basically, I treat Christianity as a philosophy rather than a divine dogma which arguably does not make me Christian but that is for another discussion.
In my high school in central PA, most of the homophobes are not homophobic because of religion as seen in their knee jerk responses in health class about the issue but because of maintaining manliness. They view it as disgusting, creepy, and unmanly. However, when talking about lesbians, they made crude comments about two hot girls being in love. I think that it is more sexism than anything. I mean, take a look at coaches, if they want to insult their players, they call them girls and homosexuality is associated with being feminine.
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Even if you do not like the word moderate, all I'm saying is don't project your revisionist, radical philosophies on people who don't share them.
On August 23 2012 23:53 Shiragaku wrote: Haha, I do not like the term "moderate." I consider myself to be a Christian radical and revisionist. Basically, I treat Christianity as a philosophy rather than a divine dogma which arguably does not make me Christian but that is for another discussion.
In my high school in central PA, most of the homophobes are not homophobic because of religion as seen in their knee jerk responses in health class about the issue but because of maintaining manliness. They view it as disgusting, creepy, and unmanly. However, when talking about lesbians, they made crude comments about two hot girls being in love. I think that it is more sexism than anything. I mean, take a look at coaches, if they want to insult their players, they call them girls and homosexuality is associated with being feminine.
Yes, there's a lot of sexism mixed in with homophobia, which is why I never got into it, really. I mean, 50% of the people who you hang around with and such find men sexually attractive. That's pretty weird. It's pretty weird to me. So when you tell me that there are some men that also find men sexually attractive, I don't see how that's particularly stranger than straight women finding men attractive.
Edit: I also think it's bullshit that men are arbitrary with machismo. Like a male ballet dancer is considered feminine. Have you seen male ballet dancers? They're fucking ripped. And all they do all day is throw women around. How is that not masculine??
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On August 23 2012 23:57 DoubleReed wrote:Even if you do not like the word moderate, all I'm saying is don't project your revisionist, radical philosophies on people who don't share them. Show nested quote +On August 23 2012 23:53 Shiragaku wrote: Haha, I do not like the term "moderate." I consider myself to be a Christian radical and revisionist. Basically, I treat Christianity as a philosophy rather than a divine dogma which arguably does not make me Christian but that is for another discussion.
In my high school in central PA, most of the homophobes are not homophobic because of religion as seen in their knee jerk responses in health class about the issue but because of maintaining manliness. They view it as disgusting, creepy, and unmanly. However, when talking about lesbians, they made crude comments about two hot girls being in love. I think that it is more sexism than anything. I mean, take a look at coaches, if they want to insult their players, they call them girls and homosexuality is associated with being feminine. Yes, there's a lot of sexism mixed in with homophobia, which is why I never got into it, really. I mean, 50% of the people who you hang around with and such find men sexually attractive. That's pretty weird. It's pretty weird to me. So when you tell me that there are some men that also find men sexually attractive, I don't see how that's particularly stranger than straight women finding men attractive. One of the first questions many people ask me is about sex. It is clear that when the think of gays, lesbians, and bisexuals, they think about sex. And if sex is the only thing you can think about and cannot relate to them about that, then it is a formula for disaster. I am a big fan of a web series called Extra Credits and when they talked about sexuality in gaming, Persona 4 (great game btw) they said that "Sexuality wasn't used to DEFINE Kanji but rather an aspect of Kanji's life." Once people can realize that homosexuality is just an aspect of our life, then progress can be made.
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On August 23 2012 16:30 sunprince wrote:Show nested quote +On August 23 2012 09:33 saocyn wrote:On August 23 2012 08:40 sunprince wrote:On August 23 2012 08:38 Savio wrote: Can you give me the TL:DR version pls? TL;DR: Gangnam Style is a Christian bigot, but doesn't want you to call him that. He also believes that marriage is between a man and a woman because the Bible told him so. we'll at least he took the time to explain his view point instead of bashing because they're emotionally insecure and butt hurt over the matter. only bigot i see is you and the people who have that same emotional response when someone doesn't agree with them. I don't think you understand what a TL;Dr is. Show nested quote +On August 23 2012 09:51 Bigtony wrote:On August 23 2012 08:40 sunprince wrote:On August 23 2012 08:38 Savio wrote: Can you give me the TL:DR version pls? TL;DR: Gangnam Style is a Christian bigot, but doesn't want you to call him that. He also believes that marriage is between a man and a woman because the Bible told him so. How does that make him a bigot? If a person considers the literal words of the Bible their moral authority, then they agree with and try to live by a wide variety of extremely bigoted beliefs.
Thank you for confirming that your morals are the only ones that have any value, I'll keep that in mind when I facetiously quote you next time.
ITT: disagreeing with someone's morals makes you a bigot.
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On August 24 2012 15:13 Bigtony wrote:Show nested quote +On August 23 2012 16:30 sunprince wrote:On August 23 2012 09:33 saocyn wrote:On August 23 2012 08:40 sunprince wrote:On August 23 2012 08:38 Savio wrote: Can you give me the TL:DR version pls? TL;DR: Gangnam Style is a Christian bigot, but doesn't want you to call him that. He also believes that marriage is between a man and a woman because the Bible told him so. we'll at least he took the time to explain his view point instead of bashing because they're emotionally insecure and butt hurt over the matter. only bigot i see is you and the people who have that same emotional response when someone doesn't agree with them. I don't think you understand what a TL;Dr is. On August 23 2012 09:51 Bigtony wrote:On August 23 2012 08:40 sunprince wrote:On August 23 2012 08:38 Savio wrote: Can you give me the TL:DR version pls? TL;DR: Gangnam Style is a Christian bigot, but doesn't want you to call him that. He also believes that marriage is between a man and a woman because the Bible told him so. How does that make him a bigot? If a person considers the literal words of the Bible their moral authority, then they agree with and try to live by a wide variety of extremely bigoted beliefs. Thank you for confirming that your morals are the only ones that have any value, I'll keep that in mind when I facetiously quote you next time. ITT: disagreeing with someone's morals makes you a bigot.
Having bigoted beliefs/morals makes you a bigot. Obviously. What are you talking about?
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On August 23 2012 08:21 Gangnam Style wrote:Show nested quote +On July 13 2012 18:02 -_-Quails wrote:On July 13 2012 17:41 Mohdoo wrote:On July 13 2012 17:34 Arunu wrote: I don't get it,
The construct of marriage predates christianity, it is not something christianity invented. the whole issue is moot.
If a religious person does not want to marry a same sex couple, fine.... (i can respect that, well not really but meh)
There should however, since we use a separation of state and church, never be any question whether they should be allowed to marry before the state. It should always be allowed.
Hard to believe people still have issues with this. I believe the thought process is this: Christianity has a concept of marriage Christians are God's favorites because Jesus was God and God's son or something like that Therefore, Christians have sole ownership of marriage Someone can correct me if I'm wrong, but I think that's the logic. I don't agree, but I think that's how they rationalize being the one religion that gets to decide, even though lots of others have different ideas. For a lot of the Christians who have difficulties understanding the separation of church and state it seems that there is a distinct failure to comprehend that different beliefs are actually possible. They might know that there are different religions, and people have different interpretations of their own religion, but they have not thought through the logical consequences of the co-existence of people with differing beliefs. Often they fail to realise that morality does not stem from religion, though aspects are often guided or encouraged by it. So to them, secularism or indeed any law that goes against some aspect of the behavioural code of their religion are immoral and dangerous. Better religious and philosophical education would be useful in helping people to differentiate between the parts of a religious code that are useful for wider society, and the parts they can live by and let others not live by without allowing harm to happen by saying nothing. By doing so, it would reassure religious people that society can run along secular lines without becoming a nightmare dystopia. TL; DR: Many Christians in Christian majority areas have difficulty internalising the idea that other beliefs are valid and lack of unbiased education in world religions and philosophy does not help. Show nested quote +On July 09 2012 06:09 Probe1 wrote: I would say instead of how dumb people are, how little they actually have in defense of their bigoted beliefs.
To the opposition of gay marriage: You don't have any legitimate reasons to oppose gay marriage. Homosexuals make you uncomfortable. You're afraid of gay people and you're probably afraid of your own sexuality. So you hide behind the Old Testament and then pervert marriage laws that were never supposed to preserve the sanctity of Christian beliefs.
It's fuckin bigotry. The same arguments were used against Negros. The same shit was said about womens suffrage. It's stupid shit that feels great to say because it costs you nothing. Who cares if a gay man or woman doesn't have rights? It doesn't bother you in the slightest if a gay man or woman is alienated and given unfair or unequal treatment but it's a problem when they want to be given the same rights as a straight person?
I don't want you to live on my planet anymore.
Those are my thoughts. It is becoming evident to me that the hinge of your focus is around the derogitorisation of homosexuals, and in terms of such discrimination I am in absolute agreement. As Christians we must not despise or be anything other than loving towards homosexuals. I think what happens is people are so vehemently opposed to and disgusted by homosexual behaviour that they revert to being derogatory towards the homosexual person as a way of expressing their feelings and beliefs. The Scriptural injunction is that we must be totally unaccepting of sin. Unfortunately, this sometimes makes us unaccepting of the person committing the sin. Jesus still hated the sin, while loving the sinner. He clearly equated loving with admonishing for sin and requiring repentance. He recognised this problem of religious people being judgmental, but He still required repentance. The woman taken in adultery (John 8) is a good example. Jesus dealt with the religious men for condemning her as a person and in v.11 He said "Neither do I condemn thee:go and SIN NO MORE" (my emphasis). He didn't say ' Well I feel sorry for you because you were probably born sexually promiscuous. Just carry on and we'll hope people will accept what you are doing because they should do that'. No, He said, lovingly but authoritatively, "go and sin no more". He wanted the religious people to love her as He did, but the sin had to end - she had to repent. I do feel compelled however, to look at scripture in the case of homosexuality, and a good place to start is always at the beginning! So, the beginning in relation to the individual, is the question: 'Is a person genetically "wired" to be homosexual or heterosexual?'. This is a popular argument used to support homosexuality. Research doesn't support this, however. For example, research with identical twins has found that despite being genetically absolutely identical, in half the cases where one twin is homosexual, the other is heterosexual. So while there may be a genetic predisposition at best, it is environmental influences that combine with any genetic predisposition to influence orientation. Research also suggests that heredity affects sexual orientation only indirectly by influencing personality factors which in turn may steer young people towards different socialisation experiences and it is those that essentially determine orientation. (The references are available from psycologists I know). The thing is, we all have genetic predispositions, many of which may be socially unacceptable, immoral etc. I might have, for example, a genetic predisposition to kleptomania and I might even be brought up in, or have life experiences that support that predisposition. But that doesn't mean that there is nothing I can or should do about it and that I have the right to steal what I can. Therefore, it comes down to the fundamental question of right and wrong. If homosexuality is wrong, then like the kleptomania example, a genetic predisposition and life's experiences don't excuse it. The question of whether something is right or wrong is ultimately a Scriptural one. No Christian can disagree that God is the final arbiter of right and wrong. So, does Scripture say homosexuality is right, wrong, or is it equivocal or silent on the matter? So, the second beginning is to start at the beginning of the Scriptural record where we see from Genesis 2:18-24 that homosexuality violates the very nature of the sexual relationship that God put in place at creation, to be fulfilled only in the relationship of marriage between a man and a woman. A fundamental and defining doctrine of Christianity is the doctrine of original sin. That is, any behaviour that violates or seeks to change God's plan and standards is a result of the introduction of sin into God's creation. Some even suggest that God creates homosexuals, but it would be contrary to God's nature to create a person in direct violation of His own blueprint and standards. Homosexuality is a consequence, therefore, of the fallen human nature/sin. We must, therefore, respond to it like any other temptation and sin. The Bible is replete with advice and instructions on how to deal with temptations and sinful behaviours in our lives. Homosexuality clearly falls into the category of sin, not only because of the plan for human relationships God established at creation, but also because He then explicitly and decisively addressed the problem as it had arisen in Sodom (Genesis 19). Suggestions that this account can be read as not referring to homosexual behaviour are fanciful and contrived at best, but basically evidence a fundamentally unintelligent misunderstanding of both the Hebrew and English languages. The meaning of the Genesis 19 events in terms of homosexuality has been accepted by society in general throughout the ages and is indicated of course, by the etymology of the word "sodomy". Not only did God deal decisively with the problem at Sodom but He then explicitly outlawed homosexual behaviour and recorded this in Scripture. First, it is recorded in Leviticus 18:22 where it is referred to as an "abomination" (KJV). Interestingly, the next verse condemns bestiality, referring to it as "confusion". Yet while the New Zealand criminal law continues to outlaw and provide severe penalties for the "confusion" of bestiality, it has legalised the "abomination" of homosexuality! It can be argued that the "laws" of Leviticus are not to be strictly observed as absolute law by us living in the Christian era. Certainly, one can point to some of them, such as the mixing of fibres in clothing, as being difficult to understand. My response to this view is that perhaps they are not absolute laws (although just because we don't understand them or think we have progressed beyond them as a society, doesn't necessarily mean that God doesn't know something that is good for us that we don't know. For example, science is now catching up by realising the dangers associated with eating shellfish! After all God's "laws" are actually for our benefit), but they do, at the very least, show us the mind of God. In the case of homosexuality, God describes it as an abomination or detestable in Leviticus. Indeed, so serious is it in His eyes that in Leviticus 20:13 He said that both partners committing homosexual sex must be put to death. Even if we argue that this law is no longer applicable in terms of penalty, it shows clearly how seriously God views this behaviour. Remember too that God is unchanging. His view of homosexuality has not changed in the three or so millennia that have passed since the writing of Leviticus. He may have relaxed the penalty of death, since Christ has paid that penalty on our behalf (provided we accept that and repent), but He hasn't changed His view of the behaviour as being an abomination. Incidentally, there's a very plain statement in Deuteronomy 23:17 also: "There shall be no whore of the daughters of Israel nor a sodomite of the sons of Israel" I trust no one would demonstrate their lack of Biblical exegesis by suggesting this applies only to Jewish people. So, if we still decide to ignore God's views set out in the Old Testament because we think they are no longer applicable, has God dealt with the issue in New Testament times? Clearly, He has. Romans 1:24-27 clearly refers to homosexuality. Indeed, not only does it refer to homosexual acts but also to homosexual desire - "burned in their lust for one another". Interestingly, the last phrase of v.27 is likely a reference to Aids. Then in v.32 God's view of the gravity of this behaviour, along with others, mirrors the view contained in Leviticus 20:13. Note too that those who agree with or condone these behaviours are equally as disappointing to God. Moving on, we are left totally without excuse when we read 1 Corinthians 6  -10. Unrepentant homosexuals will not inherit the Kingdom of God. Surely a person would have to be blinded by sin or satan not to be concerned by that plain warning from God Himself. Furthermore, like the Old Testament, the New testament consistently refers to homosexuality when listing serious sin. So it is included in the list in 1 Timothy1  -10 as well. I believe in the literal method of Bible interpretation - that is, the understanding of a text that any person of normal intelligence would understand without the help of any special keys, codes, or background knowledge (like culture for example). If one believes the Bible to be the inspired word of a timeless God, then one must believe that it is understandable on the face of it and that just as God "breathed" His inspiration into its writing, He will see to it that if we really want to hear what He has to say through it, we will do so in a clear and unequivocal way. Isaiah 5:20 says: "Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil". When we make or support a law that legalises evil we are sending the message that the legalised behaviour is acceptable. Even if we are doing it out of some liberal type notion that laws restrict peoples' "rights", the psychological effect of laws that legalise a given behaviour is that they legitimise that behaviour and make it into a "good" behaviour in the eyes, particularly, of young and other vulnerable and impressionable people. Please be careful when you claim that such beliefs cause me to discriminate against minorities, for this is leaning toward an accusation of intentional discrimination which although unfortunately can happen as a side affect of the way in which humans live out the bibles message, is by no means a 'true christian' approach to such matters. Of course I meet people with genuine beliefs that may differ from my own, that is not justification for discrimination, nor is it in my belief justification for judgment; be mindful that the above account is scriptual - if someone was doing wrong I would not say to them "that is wrong" but rather "that is wrong according to the bible". I indeed have homosexual friends myself and do not treat them differently; it is ultimately up to them and the holy spirit should anything change. Thus I in closing wish to say sincerely that I have not offended any minority in what I have written.
While this is fascinatingly well written, and indeed the stance that any christian should take in my opinion, I respectfully disagree. I also understand that I can never convince you out of your point of view.
My impression of America and it's constitution is that it must rely on reason(propaganda version: "Common sense") to determine it's laws in such a manner as to make everyone equal(defined by the rights granted to an individual as well as protecting the rights of the individual).
The only place for america to go is Civil union everything+Any two human beings of legal age can marry.
On a side note, I believe the only reason gay marriage is not legalized is that America, while holding up the constitution, also leans very much towards the general will. The general will(read:VOTERS) can be stereotype as heterosexual Christians. Thus, while separation of church and state is applied in Government, voters want christian leaders and then who is there to vote for gay marriage when the people who represent us must both abide by the moral codes of the bible and the law.
For the above reason, the only way to get gay marriage legalized is to argue within the frame of the constitution. Not religiously. I don't know about other countries, but am doubtful that countries based of off the Quran will ever have gay marriage legalized.
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On July 08 2012 18:49 Noam wrote: In most countries Marriage is an institution that allows two people to get certain benefits from the state. Mostly tax and housing benefits. Any country that doesn't allow two people to get these benefits because they are of the same gender is committing gender discrimination against its citizens.
Marriage should not be tied to religion in any country in the world and this should be the ONLY focus of this campaign.
If some people want to celebrate the first day of their marriage in a religious environment, it should be their right based on religious freedom laws.
Marriage should be more than just an institution that allows two people to get certain benefits from the state. With such a broad definition, what could you possibly exclude? If the sole reason for allowing those two people to get benefits from the state is that they rely on each other emotionally and financially, I could make the argument that a mother should be allowed to marry her son, an uncle should be allowed to marry his niece, and so on. Don't think anything nasty, I don't mean incest. Contemporary notions about marriage would suggest that it is more than just about sex, procreational or otherwise.
Why should it be limited to just a bond between two people to get certain benefits from the state? The idea that marriage should be between only two people is no more intrinsic than the idea that it should be between man and woman. As long as everyone involved is of age and consents, why should they not be allowed to marry?
Let's face it, marriage is a sham in modern society. The whole idea of marriage was to combat survival instincts about killing other mates to ensure that your genes were passed on. Through the legal institution of marriage, primitive societies could prevent their members from killing each other for access to mates by attempting a somewhat equal distribution, punishing adulterers or anyone else who threatened the system and, therefore, the peace. In this advanced day and age of free love and free living, such restrictions are obsolete, as evidenced by the divorce rate. This should be getting pretty obvious by now, and more so with every further exception to the previous norms of marriage that is made.
Therefore, it comes down to the fundamental question of right and wrong. If homosexuality is wrong, then like the kleptomania example, a genetic predisposition and life's experiences don't excuse it. The question of whether something is right or wrong is ultimately a Scriptural one. No Christian can disagree that God is the final arbiter of right and wrong. So, does Scripture say homosexuality is right, wrong, or is it equivocal or silent on the matter?
Your logic seems OK up to this point. If something is wrong, it should not be excused. That's a valid conclusion. But to go further and say that homosexuality is wrong and that the reason is ultimately Scriptural is not a valid conclusion because you state that only Scripture can determine right and wrong without saying why. Scripture alone cannot be accepted as a reason for homosexuality being wrong, even if it is popularly accepted as truth.
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On August 24 2012 15:13 Bigtony wrote:Show nested quote +On August 23 2012 16:30 sunprince wrote:On August 23 2012 09:33 saocyn wrote:On August 23 2012 08:40 sunprince wrote:On August 23 2012 08:38 Savio wrote: Can you give me the TL:DR version pls? TL;DR: Gangnam Style is a Christian bigot, but doesn't want you to call him that. He also believes that marriage is between a man and a woman because the Bible told him so. we'll at least he took the time to explain his view point instead of bashing because they're emotionally insecure and butt hurt over the matter. only bigot i see is you and the people who have that same emotional response when someone doesn't agree with them. I don't think you understand what a TL;Dr is. On August 23 2012 09:51 Bigtony wrote:On August 23 2012 08:40 sunprince wrote:On August 23 2012 08:38 Savio wrote: Can you give me the TL:DR version pls? TL;DR: Gangnam Style is a Christian bigot, but doesn't want you to call him that. He also believes that marriage is between a man and a woman because the Bible told him so. How does that make him a bigot? If a person considers the literal words of the Bible their moral authority, then they agree with and try to live by a wide variety of extremely bigoted beliefs. Thank you for confirming that your morals are the only ones that have any value, I'll keep that in mind when I facetiously quote you next time. ITT: disagreeing with someone's morals makes you a bigot.
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