it probably depends on the chick. if she's a naive virgin just impersinating the dence dence the boner might be better saved for later. but if shes a girl who knos anything it might not be ideal but it might subliminally support other ongoing things, i dunoe....... if ur dancing w a chik in a club its just so they can feel pretty as they get buzz enough to not feel guilty about being a slut with u later on, right?

ZorAptoR

Switzerland926 Posts

October 20 2005 19:18 GMT

#22

On October 21 2005 03:55 baal wrote:
goa? anyway with all that LSD in your blood you wouldnt get a boner

hmmm, goa-parties are quite drugfree (no wait, i mean not everybody is on drugs) compared to the minimal-parties i have been, up to now

Rekrul

Korea (South)17174 Posts

October 20 2005 19:21 GMT

#23

On October 21 2005 04:09 mitsy wrote:
it probably depends on the chick. if she's a naive virgin just impersinating the dence dence the boner might be better saved for later. but if shes a girl who knos anything it might not be ideal but it might subliminally support other ongoing things, i dunoe....... if ur dancing w a chik in a club its just so they can feel pretty as they get buzz enough to not feel guilty about being a slut with u later on, right?

wrong.

LaSt)ChAnCe

United States2179 Posts

October 20 2005 19:33 GMT

#24

popping a boner while doing cardiovascular (even if lightly) activities such as dancing (even grinding) is really hard for me...i can't do it

so i never had this problem sorry

Smorrie

Netherlands2922 Posts

October 20 2005 19:57 GMT

#25

the whole point of the dance is that you poke her bum.. girls like it to tease around and because of the fact that they can turn on a guy.. if a girl wouldnt like to be poked, then why would she ride her ass up your pen0r.. my friend once told me a story about a girl that started to ride her ass up against him, but he didn't get aroused by it.. then the girl was like *hey.. you aren't doing anything*

so yeah, i think it's not really about letting her know you're ready to go, its more about getting aroused and rhythmically moving up against her.. it's a sexual dance or w/e.. if a girl does it to you it doesnt mean she wants you to impale her.

Rekrul

Korea (South)17174 Posts

October 20 2005 19:58 GMT

#26

smorrie i disagree its not all about her rousing your cock its more about hips moving in motion together with your hands on her hips / sides / side of legs

Mynock

4492 Posts

October 20 2005 20:02 GMT

#27

That poll should rather be set on a site with more female traffic me thinks?

But anyway, I know I can't control things, since if I grind then I probably like what I see, and then again if she's doing the same, she's probably ok with it? If she's a total stranger she'd not even start with someone unappealing to her, so popping tents won't matter much...

-Mynock

Mynock

4492 Posts

October 20 2005 20:04 GMT

#28

On October 21 2005 04:58 Rekrul wrote:
smorrie i disagree its not all about her rousing your cock its more about hips moving in motion together with your hands on her hips / sides / side of legs

It's all nice and all but that's not in the topic of the poll -__-;

-Mynock

Smorrie

Netherlands2922 Posts

October 20 2005 20:05 GMT

#29

well.. i guess there's a "dancing" part and a "grinding" part.. where grinding is just her rubbing up against you and getting you hard.

i think >.>

Rekrul

Korea (South)17174 Posts

October 20 2005 20:07 GMT

#30

On October 21 2005 05:04 Mynock wrote:

Show nested quote +

It's all nice and all but that's not in the topic of the poll -__-;

-Mynock

ummm...yes it is?

that is grind dancing....its not like the girl is repeatedly bashing her ass on your groin, it just stays there as your hips sway in unison

Rekrul

Korea (South)17174 Posts

October 20 2005 20:07 GMT

#31

and i made the poll buddy, and look at the options, then try and post again

you're rusty

CTStalker

Canada9720 Posts

October 20 2005 20:16 GMT

#32

i think prodding her with your cattle rod may interrupt the rhythm of the dance. just because one ho liked it, doesn't mean they all do.
one time i started an impromptu grind dance underwater.

i still voted option 2 though

InFiNitY[pG]

Germany3474 Posts

October 20 2005 20:19 GMT

#33

even if some guys can control that, a girl that does it often obviously met guys that can't, so she's probably expecing the guy to get a hard on, or at least is ok with it

Mynock

4492 Posts

October 20 2005 20:22 GMT

#34

On October 21 2005 05:07 Rekrul wrote:
and i made the poll buddy, and look at the options, then try and post again

you're rusty

Where in that poll is a word about rhythm/dancing whatever? -.-

Rusty, haha ^^

-Mynock

Vi)Chris

United States700 Posts

October 20 2005 20:32 GMT

#35

Grind dancing has been moved into the same category as kissing, making out, feeling around, and handjobs. After you've done it for a while it is no longer retains the slightest ability to arouse quickly or at all. I think you come off as a huge dorky loser by popping a boner. Girls go back and giggle to their friends about it and make fun of whoever has a boner. In a way it lets them know that you like them, so if they are desperate you may get some play later. But any girl who is anything would much rather not have a huge boner slapping across their butt crevice for 3 hours. As Rekrul said, I think avoiding a boner perpetuates many traits that are looked upon as positive or masculine. It's not like the discovery channel where you walk around with a boner and it somehow turns on the girl's "I wanna have sex with you" rader. Deeper psychological factors play a role, including the power of such things as non-interest, control, power, familiarity, etc...

Eatme

Switzerland3919 Posts

October 20 2005 20:42 GMT

#36

If i would pop one I would probably be drunk enough to not care about it. I dont think it have ever scared away a girl.

draeger

United States3256 Posts

October 20 2005 20:47 GMT

#37

Regardless of what the girls think about it, having a full blown raging boner could get real embarassing after you pull away. I really don't think it's a big deal from the girl but if you're transitioning to a non-grind dance and you're teepee'd like a motherfucker, no good can come out of that.