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Korea (South)17174 Posts
...Your opinion About the Grind Dance Boner?
Poll: Opinion Of Grind Dance Boner? (Vote): Jab it in let her know you're ready to go (Vote): Semi-boner is normal and they like it (Vote): I have never grind danced (Vote): If you get a boner while grind dancing you're a loser (Vote): Pull your hips back a little bit so she can't feel it
So, what do you guys think?
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Norway28665 Posts
im really not a fan of grind dancing but if a girl grind dances she doesnt mind it turning you on
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
Zia, mnm, emlary, manifesto help out the men of TL.net
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Valhalla18444 Posts
manifesto always gets a boner when some guy is grinding his ass
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Norway28665 Posts
zia doesnt mind it being jabbed in but she certainly wouldn't grind dance
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United Kingdom10597 Posts
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It's all about digging into her while you got the half-chubby goin.
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it's not even danceing, it's just simulated sex.
and it sucks
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
The psychology of it is different and very interesting though. I think girls really aren't that fond of it. They'd rather have a guy who can just dance well. It shows skill, performance, rhythm, and most of all confidence. Popping a boner in her booty only shows you're just as normal as the next horny loser in the club. Dancing well without being horny shows power of movement, control, focus, all masculine qualities that would make a girl want to sleep with you much more soon than a throbbing 8 incher in her buttcrack.
Girls on the other hand can be cocka-doodle-do'ing on the dance floor jumping around on one foot and flapping their arms randomly and as long as they have a cute face and a rack no one will give a shit and still think they are sexy.
Thats what I think anyways, curious about your thoughts. I know Assem had a problem with this.
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little too old to be embarassed about having a fully functioning penis
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Norway28665 Posts
rek if a girl is like that she won't be grind dancing
at least not here. I dance without knowing how to and without grinding all the time and it only gives positive responses. you just gotta look like you're enjoying it.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
very true, differen't types of whores
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Well i think she would exept you to have a semi-boner, i vote for they like it.
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USA29055 Posts
bust out the sprinkler and seal the deal.
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i remember when me and my friends first started to grind hoes back in Jr. High, it was the shiet.
as for this topic, i dont get chubbies anymore when i grind, but i used to take a break from dancing when i would start to pop a chubby cuz i wasnt tryin to stab the girls while dancing, kinda uncomfortable for both parties if you ask me.
p.s. i just noticed how old i am, it's sad, 10 years of grinding, oh boy.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
you're going to need some jedi mind tricks to control the erectile functionality of your penis
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i got the sickest vendetta when it comes to the chedda
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there is no chance to grind at goa and minimal parties... and there is also no need for it...
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goa? anyway with all that LSD in your blood you wouldnt get a boner
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it probably depends on the chick. if she's a naive virgin just impersinating the dence dence the boner might be better saved for later. but if shes a girl who knos anything it might not be ideal but it might subliminally support other ongoing things, i dunoe....... if ur dancing w a chik in a club its just so they can feel pretty as they get buzz enough to not feel guilty about being a slut with u later on, right?
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On October 21 2005 03:55 baal wrote:goa? anyway with all that LSD in your blood you wouldnt get a boner 
hmmm, goa-parties are quite drugfree (no wait, i mean not everybody is on drugs) compared to the minimal-parties i have been, up to now 
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On October 21 2005 04:09 mitsy wrote: it probably depends on the chick. if she's a naive virgin just impersinating the dence dence the boner might be better saved for later. but if shes a girl who knos anything it might not be ideal but it might subliminally support other ongoing things, i dunoe....... if ur dancing w a chik in a club its just so they can feel pretty as they get buzz enough to not feel guilty about being a slut with u later on, right?
wrong.
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popping a boner while doing cardiovascular (even if lightly) activities such as dancing (even grinding) is really hard for me...i can't do it so i never had this problem sorry
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the whole point of the dance is that you poke her bum.. girls like it to tease around and because of the fact that they can turn on a guy.. if a girl wouldnt like to be poked, then why would she ride her ass up your pen0r.. my friend once told me a story about a girl that started to ride her ass up against him, but he didn't get aroused by it.. then the girl was like *hey.. you aren't doing anything*
so yeah, i think it's not really about letting her know you're ready to go, its more about getting aroused and rhythmically moving up against her.. it's a sexual dance or w/e.. if a girl does it to you it doesnt mean she wants you to impale her.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
smorrie i disagree its not all about her rousing your cock its more about hips moving in motion together with your hands on her hips / sides / side of legs
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4492 Posts
That poll should rather be set on a site with more female traffic me thinks?
But anyway, I know I can't control things, since if I grind then I probably like what I see, and then again if she's doing the same, she's probably ok with it? If she's a total stranger she'd not even start with someone unappealing to her, so popping tents won't matter much...
-Mynock
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4492 Posts
On October 21 2005 04:58 Rekrul wrote: smorrie i disagree its not all about her rousing your cock its more about hips moving in motion together with your hands on her hips / sides / side of legs
It's all nice and all but that's not in the topic of the poll -__-;
-Mynock
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well.. i guess there's a "dancing" part and a "grinding" part.. where grinding is just her rubbing up against you and getting you hard.
i think >.>
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On October 21 2005 05:04 Mynock wrote:Show nested quote +On October 21 2005 04:58 Rekrul wrote: smorrie i disagree its not all about her rousing your cock its more about hips moving in motion together with your hands on her hips / sides / side of legs It's all nice and all but that's not in the topic of the poll -__-; -Mynock
ummm...yes it is?
that is grind dancing....its not like the girl is repeatedly bashing her ass on your groin, it just stays there as your hips sway in unison
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
and i made the poll buddy, and look at the options, then try and post again
you're rusty
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Canada9720 Posts
i think prodding her with your cattle rod may interrupt the rhythm of the dance. just because one ho liked it, doesn't mean they all do. one time i started an impromptu grind dance underwater.
i still voted option 2 though
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even if some guys can control that, a girl that does it often obviously met guys that can't, so she's probably expecing the guy to get a hard on, or at least is ok with it
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4492 Posts
On October 21 2005 05:07 Rekrul wrote: and i made the poll buddy, and look at the options, then try and post again
you're rusty
Where in that poll is a word about rhythm/dancing whatever? -.-
Rusty, haha ^^
-Mynock
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Grind dancing has been moved into the same category as kissing, making out, feeling around, and handjobs. After you've done it for a while it is no longer retains the slightest ability to arouse quickly or at all. I think you come off as a huge dorky loser by popping a boner. Girls go back and giggle to their friends about it and make fun of whoever has a boner. In a way it lets them know that you like them, so if they are desperate you may get some play later. But any girl who is anything would much rather not have a huge boner slapping across their butt crevice for 3 hours. As Rekrul said, I think avoiding a boner perpetuates many traits that are looked upon as positive or masculine. It's not like the discovery channel where you walk around with a boner and it somehow turns on the girl's "I wanna have sex with you" rader. Deeper psychological factors play a role, including the power of such things as non-interest, control, power, familiarity, etc...
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If i would pop one I would probably be drunk enough to not care about it. I dont think it have ever scared away a girl.
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Regardless of what the girls think about it, having a full blown raging boner could get real embarassing after you pull away. I really don't think it's a big deal from the girl but if you're transitioning to a non-grind dance and you're teepee'd like a motherfucker, no good can come out of that.
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happens only when im totally drunk
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Netherlands2766 Posts
SO rek was grind dancing .. got a boner.. and got smacked the fuck up?
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United States37500 Posts
Guess what Rek's doing at the club right about now? ;D
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On October 21 2005 05:54 Liquid`RaSZi wrote: SO rek was grind dancing .. got a boner.. and got smacked the fuck up?
LOL
i voted for boner during grind dance = loser btw T.T
you gotta give like you don't give a fuck
cuz you don't playa
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4492 Posts
Of course, but that only comes thru practice = boner while grind dancing for the first n times, so whatever ~~
"So rek was grind dancing .. got a boner.. and got smacked the fuck up?"
While being convinced he's had the 1337-est dancin' mooves probably 
-Mynock
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Worse case scenario:
You cum in your pants. What do you do?
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is awesome32274 Posts
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On October 21 2005 07:49 Element)LoGiC wrote: Worse case scenario: You cum in your pants. What do you do? Cry like a little girl named Harold.
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Netherlands13554 Posts
On October 21 2005 07:49 Element)LoGiC wrote: Worse case scenario:
You cum in your pants. What do you do?
Run like hell and never come back.
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anything but full boner with boxers on, grind dancing is more about hips/thigh/body contact anyway not being a horny loser who cant keep it down poking a girl in the ass is less likely to get her into bed than dancing well and getting hot 'n' sweaty:D
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I've never grind danced. I've had girls try shit, but it has to be a pretty mutual thing. Then of course plenty of lap sitting, but thats entirely different I guess. So I can't really answer since i've never grinded with someone, but I can say that I certainly never got an erection from anything similar that i've experienced.
EDIT: But then I don't go clubbing anyways, i'm not old enough. Any partying I do is college or highschool parties and i'm not much of a party guy. I have immense experience with people on just about any drug you can think of though.
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To be honest I have no idea. I have grinded countless of times and I think I have had a semi boner all the time. I dont know if the girls feel this though since I wear jeans. Any comments about that, jeans vs more casual pants regarding the effect a boner will have?
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personally i jab it in to let her know im ready,although when im sober i probably wouldnt do this, i think it completly depends ont he girl if she likes it or not
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On October 21 2005 08:55 mr2hot4u15 wrote: there's a lot of different types of grinding, if ur some fag that pops a bone when u touch a girls skin then yeah shell probably think ur a loser...
if she rubs her ass against your cock then shes probably trying to make it hard.
i dont really worry about what the girl thinks whenever im hanging out with them anyway though, so im not a good person to ask. if you're always worrying about what the girl thinks you'll just come off as a pussy, its better not to do it at all. I obviously mean the type where she takes my hands and puts them on her chest or legs and start working me. Ps. I almost never initiate grindings and I think thats the best move. Let them bitches come to you.
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um..i think you guys r reading too much into this "grind dancing". um...i dont think thats even the name. Maybe in some parts??? Resonate if u said it sucked...ur a loser. Seriously don't read so much into it guys..its just dancing with a girl. However i think rekrul said it right, even its too descriptive.
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everyone is worried about making it look like you don't care and therefor coming off as a playa. i think its better to acctually NOT care. Im pretty good at grind dancing, and as long as i know shes not, as stated before, a naive girl ill continue dancing with my chubby. like hey bitch my chubs all up on your ass and i dont care, what you gunna do about it? and i think by still dancing with a chub will come off as confidence. i think the best way to get laid is to hint it somehow, and a chubby and alot of sexual grinding helps. whenever i do anything with a girl my mindset is how can i get her as horny as possible? i think it works very well.
could be written much better, but hopefully you see my points.
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On October 21 2005 07:49 Element)LoGiC wrote: Worse case scenario:
You cum in your pants. What do you do? IMO: that's the best case scenario, but whatever!
who the heck says chubby?
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yes stim, girls like confident guys. My friend happens to be a lil chubby but he dances (and damn good at it too lol) and girls love him. I think as long as your confident things should go great. I guess "grind dancing" sounded a lil (no offense to anyone here) nerdy to me because im not really used to anyone naming it. When i was younger people used to call it "dogging"...like saying, i dogged this girl, or go dog that girl. But yea i think boners are normal i guess lol. I think they'd prefer that you don't have a boner but they're probably used to it lol.
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Russian Federation4447 Posts
On October 21 2005 07:49 Element)LoGiC wrote: Worse case scenario:
You cum in your pants. What do you do?
You knock her unconcious.
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I don't want to hijack this thread, but perhaps you guys can chase a tangent for a second here.
I'm going to my girlfriend's college this weekend for a dance. I've seen her dance before, and she dances very well. I, on the other hand, have never really danced, and she knows this. Do any of you folks think it's possible for me to not look incompetent when I dance Saturday? If so, how?
I mean, what exactly constitutes dancing? How do you do it? Help a brother out?
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On October 21 2005 09:59 Tien wrote:Show nested quote +On October 21 2005 07:49 Element)LoGiC wrote: Worse case scenario:
You cum in your pants. What do you do? You knock her unconcious.
then put her in the trunk of your car and drive to some obscure location
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Getting a slight boner while grinding = perfectly normal, and, with me anyway, usually gets me a comment.
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On October 21 2005 10:33 HooTie wrote: Getting a slight boner while grinding = perfectly normal, and, with me anyway, usually gets me a comment.
lol?
what kind of comment?
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If only dances were still that formal, knowing what to do wouldn't be such a mystery.
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Canada9720 Posts
Just get really drunk and things will take care of themselves?
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I considered that, but, in the end, I think one's nagging fears are best faced sober.
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On October 21 2005 10:34 lil.sis wrote:
lol?
what kind of comment?
The kind that go "OMG your cock, in me, right now."
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On October 21 2005 10:17 HULKAMANIA wrote: I don't want to hijack this thread, but perhaps you guys can chase a tangent for a second here.
I'm going to my girlfriend's college this weekend for a dance. I've seen her dance before, and she dances very well. I, on the other hand, have never really danced, and she knows this. Do any of you folks think it's possible for me to not look incompetent when I dance Saturday? If so, how?
I mean, what exactly constitutes dancing? How do you do it? Help a brother out? get wasted.
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On October 21 2005 11:18 Jim wrote:Show nested quote +On October 21 2005 10:17 HULKAMANIA wrote: I don't want to hijack this thread, but perhaps you guys can chase a tangent for a second here.
I'm going to my girlfriend's college this weekend for a dance. I've seen her dance before, and she dances very well. I, on the other hand, have never really danced, and she knows this. Do any of you folks think it's possible for me to not look incompetent when I dance Saturday? If so, how?
I mean, what exactly constitutes dancing? How do you do it? Help a brother out? get wasted.
this is seriously your dominant strategy
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A poll actually worth responding to. Nice one Dan. Grind dancing is all good until someone loses an eye. Nah, seriously if you going to grind I hope to God your dick gets a little hard... if not then why the heck are you grinding with that girl in the first place? Back, back that ass up! Back, back that ass up!
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This is dispicable. How can you even THINK of dancing with a female until you know
-Their religion, and respective piety -Their family and family history -Their socio-economic class -Their artistic and literary talents -Their sensitivity, romanticism and sentimentalism -Their patriotism, provincialism, and rootedness in their native culture -Their cooking, cleaning and other domestic abilities -Their mental and emotional stability -Their historical attitude and preferences regarding bourgeois family life -Their racial origins (if not already clear) -Their feminine virtues (virginity, modesty, etc)
... Disgusting.
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Wow, that was random.
Am I the only person whose posts get spoofed?
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Austin10831 Posts
You might wanna take a glance at FakeSteve's MSPaint thread Moltke.
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Pretty much.
All in good fun, however.
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On October 21 2005 12:01 MoltkeWarding wrote: Wow, that was random.
Am I the only person whose posts get spoofed?
No, mine did for a while, about certain things. But not like that, and yours are far more often.
On the subject of grind "dancing," like most modern "dancing," I don't consider it dancing at all. If the girl's that big of a slut, why don't you just get a room and fuck her, rather than acting it out with clothes on in front of all those people?
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On October 21 2005 12:01 MoltkeWarding wrote: Wow, that was random.
Am I the only person whose posts get spoofed? That post is such a GREAT post to spoof;)
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It did own pretty hard; let's be honest.
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Braavos36375 Posts
On October 21 2005 11:59 nortorius wrote: This is dispicable. How can you even THINK of dancing with a female until you know
-Their religion, and respective piety -Their family and family history -Their socio-economic class -Their artistic and literary talents -Their sensitivity, romanticism and sentimentalism -Their patriotism, provincialism, and rootedness in their native culture -Their cooking, cleaning and other domestic abilities -Their mental and emotional stability -Their historical attitude and preferences regarding bourgeois family life -Their racial origins (if not already clear) -Their feminine virtues (virginity, modesty, etc)
... Disgusting.
its hilarious that as soon as i saw that i thought "moltke!!!" because i spoofed it before too haha
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On October 21 2005 12:04 BroOd wrote: You might wanna take a glance at FakeSteve's MSPaint thread Moltke.
I am pretty fortunate that Somuchbetter is a better artist than Fakesteve, and beat the latter to the punch.
I still dont get why its funny
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On October 21 2005 12:05 SweeTLemonS[TPR] wrote:Show nested quote +On October 21 2005 12:01 MoltkeWarding wrote: Wow, that was random.
Am I the only person whose posts get spoofed? No, mine did for a while, about certain things. But not like that, and yours are far more often. On the subject of grind "dancing," like most modern "dancing," I don't consider it dancing at all. If the girl's that big of a slut, why don't you just get a room and fuck her, rather than acting it out with clothes on in front of all those people?
Nothing wrong with being close to a girl's ass.
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On October 21 2005 10:23 HULKAMANIA wrote: Damn it, Casper.
hahaha, this made me laugh for quite some time. its like that episode of south park 'the lord of the rings', where clyde turns up dressed as a star wars trooper and cartmans all like 'Clyde... God dammit'
lol
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Canada9720 Posts
On October 21 2005 12:25 MoltkeWarding wrote:Show nested quote +On October 21 2005 12:04 BroOd wrote: You might wanna take a glance at FakeSteve's MSPaint thread Moltke. I am pretty fortunate that Somuchbetter is a better artist than Fakesteve, and beat the latter to the punch. I still dont get why its funny  partly the text, but much more so the ridiculous portrait in the foreground. i love it
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embarassing, its just embarassing
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Braavos36375 Posts
On October 21 2005 12:39 CTStalker wrote:Show nested quote +On October 21 2005 12:25 MoltkeWarding wrote:On October 21 2005 12:04 BroOd wrote: You might wanna take a glance at FakeSteve's MSPaint thread Moltke. I am pretty fortunate that Somuchbetter is a better artist than Fakesteve, and beat the latter to the punch. I still dont get why its funny  partly the text, but much more so the ridiculous portrait in the foreground. i love it
its also pretty funny that moltke is like what, 20, and the picture is of an old man with a beard
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I voted for the loser thing because I dont like to get one, and usually after dancing for a little bit I can control it or at least hide it . Some girls do like it though, they like the attention/power I guess.
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Korea (South)11579 Posts
jab it in, if she dun like it, her fault
Edit: grammar
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is awesome32274 Posts
On October 21 2005 13:46 CaucasianAsian wrote: jab it in, if she dun like it, her fault
Edit: grammar
Yeah, lack of.
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some of you are hilarious.
and eri i can't believe you don't like grinding! its so fun!
asdfdsf
unless a girl is an absolute slut (and sometimes even then) she does *not* want you to have a boner. Rekrul basically has the right of it. She's grinding cause she wants to grind. It shouldn't be that complicated. Put a little thought into it, and you will come out the winner! Why is the girl on the dance floor? To dance! Why are you on the dance floor? To pick up girls! How does that happen? Give the girl what she wants!
Unless your a fag who really is just up there cause he loves dancing. (me). I love grinding. I also love being one of the few guys on the dance floor who can keep a beat and look good with any girl he grinds with. Including other fags.
Please. If you are going to grind with women *pretend* to at least be grinding for the sake of grinding. She will have a better time, and you will have better chances of coming out the winner anyways.
do you all really pop stiffys that quick?
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Canada9720 Posts
teroru you don't have one of those giant flacid post-porn penises that midgets could use to skip rope do you
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Braavos36375 Posts
if you watch enough porn it eventually takes a meteor to make you erect
that or shit eating midgets fucking donkeys with spiked baseball bats
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Canada9720 Posts
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hot_bid, if you watch that much porn you jack it too much.
dont whack off for a few days, then see where you are 
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On October 21 2005 14:24 Teroru wrote: some of you are hilarious.
and eri i can't believe you don't like grinding! its so fun!
asdfdsf
unless a girl is an absolute slut (and sometimes even then) she does *not* want you to have a boner. Rekrul basically has the right of it. She's grinding cause she wants to grind. It shouldn't be that complicated. Put a little thought into it, and you will come out the winner! Why is the girl on the dance floor? To dance! Why are you on the dance floor? To pick up girls! How does that happen? Give the girl what she wants!
Unless your a fag who really is just up there cause he loves dancing. (me). I love grinding. I also love being one of the few guys on the dance floor who can keep a beat and look good with any girl he grinds with. Including other fags.
Please. If you are going to grind with women *pretend* to at least be grinding for the sake of grinding. She will have a better time, and you will have better chances of coming out the winner anyways.
do you all really pop stiffys that quick?
100% Agreed. In NYC grinding is the main form of "dancing" in clubs (if you want to call it dancing). I'm pretty sure some of the girls I know would laugh and walk off on you if you started jabbing them with your boner. If you feel you can't handle it, don't do it.
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On October 21 2005 10:17 HULKAMANIA wrote: I don't want to hijack this thread, but perhaps you guys can chase a tangent for a second here.
I'm going to my girlfriend's college this weekend for a dance. I've seen her dance before, and she dances very well. I, on the other hand, have never really danced, and she knows this. Do any of you folks think it's possible for me to not look incompetent when I dance Saturday? If so, how?
No. But if you look like you're having fun, nobody will care.
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I think grind dancing is the lamest stupid kind of dance.
It's for people who have no fucking idea how to actually dance in a technical fashion, so they do the easiest dance possible which simply requires basic motor controls and musical sense.
Club dancing is just so you can get laid anyways, so whatever works, I guess.
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The Moshpit it the only place I dance \m/ (>.O) \m/
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grinding is the only dance left so guys who say its stupid who cares..its only stupid if u and your women are not doing it while others are it doesnt matter if it looks dumb cause everyones doing it. if u do a typical "old" dance or actually dance dance itll look dumb if ur in the middle of people grinding so theres really only two dances people do these days
slow dance, grind dance (speaking about the public clubs and school dances and stuff)
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It's because people don't dance they just pull up their pants and do the roc-away.
No.
It's because people don't dance they just want to have sex.
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I don't grind dance, I bang.
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Headbang, that is.
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Home to grind dancing in Korea.. Club DMC in Sam sung dong
Lee Hyori in club
Club NB
Grind international
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Canada9720 Posts
that black dude even has the right shirt
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On October 21 2005 04:57 Smorrie wrote: the whole point of the dance is that you poke her bum.. girls like it to tease around and because of the fact that they can turn on a guy.. if a girl wouldnt like to be poked, then why would she ride her ass up your pen0r.. my friend once told me a story about a girl that started to ride her ass up against him, but he didn't get aroused by it.. then the girl was like *hey.. you aren't doing anything*
so yeah, i think it's not really about letting her know you're ready to go, its more about getting aroused and rhythmically moving up against her.. it's a sexual dance or w/e.. if a girl does it to you it doesnt mean she wants you to impale her.
haha i love how u express your points haha "pen0r" haha
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yeah, before i wasn't sure what he was doing. now i do. thank you shirt boy.
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lol that black dude is gettin CRUNNKKKK
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