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Mentalizor
Denmark1596 Posts
I know it's not fun as the child to get taken away - but this is beyond sickening. How is the dad not in prison? Sure, your children needs to learn what disciplin is - but spanking her? And not even that... Really beating her up with a sick belt. And he's not in anyway holding back. This is... Awww... I feel sooo bad for this family... Anything released from the family as a response to this? Would love to hear something from the daughter | ||
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FireEagle
Romania171 Posts
Belting and corporal punishments are only acceptable between consenting adults. Else it should be prohibited. | ||
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ryanAnger
United States838 Posts
On November 02 2011 20:04 B.I.G. wrote: Oh wow, so the mother is actually gonna get out of this using the "I was abused too" card? That's fucking weak. She's just as bad or maybe even worse for standing there watching and sometimes even helping when her husband is beating the shit out of her daughter. I wish them both the worst. Eh, I've seen this too (from my own mother). Speaking from experience, the girls mother in the video was most likely trying to prevent the dad from hitting her without invoking his fury upon herself. That's why she tried to do the whole "I'm gonna give you one the right way" thing. She probably thought that if her daughter cooperated it would make the father stop beating her further. It never actually works, but it's the only way to really get through that sort of situation without further endangering anyone. | ||
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Cel.erity
United States4890 Posts
On November 02 2011 20:04 B.I.G. wrote: Oh wow, so the mother is actually gonna get out of this using the "I was abused too" card? That's fucking weak. She's just as bad or maybe even worse for standing there watching and sometimes even helping when her husband is beating the shit out of her daughter. I wish them both the worst. Don't be too hard on her, it's a real problem. Some wives live in fear for years, being abused but afraid to leave their husband, for many reasons including: severe emotional attachment, fear of losing financial stability, fear of what will happen to the child. She did leave him eventually, so it's obvious she knew something was wrong. | ||
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Trizz
Netherlands1323 Posts
I imagine someone is willing. Wouldn't be surprised if we hear something about it next week. | ||
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TheBomb
237 Posts
I mean I understand two or three swipes on the but and it sometimes actually leads to a better behavior, I mean certainly if all you do is spoil your kid he/she is going to become a first class asshole that no one can stand in the future, so kids need to be spanked sometimes, but the spanks have to resemble the disobedience, like playing a game on the computer is not bad. I mean I can understand if she got few spanks if she played like 10 hours a day computer games every day, but I also feel there are better ways to parent your children. I mean you need to be more proactive in your kids life and use examples to teach them how something could be wrong for them, etc... | ||
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Capped
United Kingdom7236 Posts
On November 02 2011 20:08 ryanAnger wrote: Eh, I've seen this too (from my own mother). Speaking from experience, the girls mother in the video was most likely trying to prevent the dad from hitting her without invoking his fury upon herself. That's why she tried to do the whole "I'm gonna give you one the right way" thing. She probably thought that if her daughter cooperated it would make the father stop beating her further. It never actually works, but it's the only way to really get through that sort of situation without further endangering anyone. Pretty much dead on, the woman in the video looked to me like she was trying to prevent it without getting beat herself, and there are so many examples of this. They live in so much fear they wont reveal it to anyone. Dont be harsh on her, unless its a lie. | ||
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Probe1
United States17920 Posts
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ZergOwaR
Norway280 Posts
On November 02 2011 19:22 Ahelvin wrote: Read what I just said and answer it. Until then, you are an ignorant troll. Yeah this guy is nothing but a troll, there are plenty of more effective ways to deal with "children" though a 16 year old is well on the way to not being one anymore.. and there is a huge difference between that video and a "spanking" in my eyes.. spanking for me would be at most a quick slap on the ass of a child, at most!! hard enough to be felt, but no where near any real pain.. for a young mind to know that whatever was done.. was very bad.. I can remember i was spanked (my version of it) followed by a pointing finger and "dont you do that again" in a stern voice.. that i can understand, at least for that generation.. psychology have gotten far enough for us to know better ways to deal with children that video was on the verge of fucking torture over some computer bullshit? piracy was it? dunno.. but sounded pretty trivial from the video "install more computer games?!" ... If he actually didn't break any law and cant be tossed in jail with a lonely guy named bubba as a cell mate, i realy hope the internet destroys him in other ways... | ||
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ETisME
12859 Posts
I can't imagine how long the girl had been abused for. kind of reminds me of my own dad when he would hit me (not hard) if he caught me playing games at night, I can still remember sometimes I couldn't stop my body shivering because I was just damn scared @@ | ||
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Nizaris
Belgium2230 Posts
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Trizz
Netherlands1323 Posts
unknown source | ||
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TheBomb
237 Posts
On November 02 2011 20:08 Trizz wrote: Anyone in America having the balls to pay this guy a visit? I imagine someone is willing. Wouldn't be surprised if we hear something about it next week. You don't solve violence by violence, I think humanity has evolved that enough to know that! What needs to be done is the father needs to go to jail for abusing his daughter, especially on the fact the punishment was way too severe for the "problem", which in my book isn't even a problem. I think kids should be spanked and its the parents right, but beating her up is not the same. It was obvious this was way too severe. | ||
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ryanAnger
United States838 Posts
On November 02 2011 20:17 TheBomb wrote: You don't solve violence by violence, I think humanity has evolved that enough to know that! I disagree. Sending this guy to a white collar prison for ~10 years won't do jack other than make him more pissed off at the world. Get rid of him. Saves the country money, and it saves the innocent lives he would no doubt torture after he's released. | ||
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Quotidian
Norway1937 Posts
On November 02 2011 20:09 TheBomb wrote: Parents have the right to spank their kids and especially on the butt because that's the place you don't cause damage because the only kind of damage you can do to a child is physical, right? Watch the Opie & Anthony clip with Louie CK posted earlier in this thread.. it's so remarkably insightful, I'm almost surprised Louie doesn't have a phd in psychology. | ||
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Boonbag
France3318 Posts
this is really bad for this site in my opinion | ||
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Capped
United Kingdom7236 Posts
http://judge-william-adams.pissedconsumer.com/corrupt-judge-william-adams-aransas-20101208210581.html A review over how he didnt give a fuck over a child who was being cared for by someone who was homocidal, suicidal and drugged up heavily. He ""shrugged his shoulders" apparently | ||
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deconduo
Ireland4122 Posts
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Probe1
United States17920 Posts
On November 02 2011 20:22 deconduo wrote: A lot of people seem to have missed the fact that this was recorded 7 years ago. The girl is now 24 and posted the video up herself. She is no longer in harms way. You've pegged me spot on, I didn't read in depth enough to notice that.. I'm very embarrassed  I just wanted to argue the (pretty common here) issue of the validity of corporal punishment (that was a poor sentence..) | ||
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gameguard
Korea (South)2132 Posts
For sons, it could be acceptable as long as its within limits. I mean you shouldnt go buck wild on an 8 year old because he stole a dollar from your wallet to go play at the arcade or something. But the most important thing is to make sure they UNDERSTAND why and that you love them. Dont leave them with a fucking grudge or something. Personally, the few times i got my ass beat as a kid, my dad felt so bad that right afterwards he came with neosporin or something and talked to me about it. I could see that it hurt him more than me. Well.. since i was a immature kid, i would be thinking all sorts of evil shit, but after calming down a bit I could see that it was my fault. But even for us asians, it will probably stop with our generation. Times are changing and you dont really need to resort to physical punishment to get your point across. | ||
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