EPTJudge beats daughter for using the internet - Page 30
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{ToT}ColmA
Japan3260 Posts
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Licmyobelisk
Philippines3682 Posts
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Talin
Montenegro10532 Posts
On November 02 2011 17:37 Rebs wrote: Again Id implore people to not pigeonhole religiosity with zealotry and ignorance, even if that isnt the intention the semantics can give it a bad context. I mean the same scientists that discovered pencilin made the atomic bomb. Doesnt make science bad. Except that Alexander Fleming had nothing to do with nuclear energy and scientists never made an atomic bomb, nor used one. Pigeonholing you say? It's not a pigeon hole, it's a black hole. -_- | ||
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Spidinko
Slovakia1174 Posts
On November 02 2011 17:53 RoyalCheese wrote: Maybe, but 'doing it right' is probably very hard or nearly impossible. You can't reason with small kids. And sometimes, a slap on the ass will put them in shape. Of course i'm not talking about beating your kid with a belt for 7 minutes (or w/e was happening for the 7 minutes in the video, i havent watched the whole thing). But it worked on me just fine. I have some experience with raising kids and i finally understand that the "I'ts gonna hurt me more then it's gonna hurt you" is really really true. But sometimes you gotta man up and do the right thing for the greater good. I've never been hit by my parents, ever. Parenting shouldn't come with beating. It's not necessary. | ||
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AnatheKing
Norway54 Posts
On November 02 2011 17:53 RoyalCheese wrote: Maybe, but 'doing it right' is probably very hard or nearly impossible. You can't reason with small kids. And sometimes, a slap on the ass will put them in shape. Of course i'm not talking about beating your kid with a belt for 7 minutes (or w/e was happening for the 7 minutes in the video, i havent watched the whole thing). But it worked on me just fine. I have some experience with raising kids and i finally understand that the "I'ts gonna hurt me more then it's gonna hurt you" is really really true. But sometimes you gotta man up and do the right thing for the greater good. This is exactly the way of thinking that gets to me. Of course it's "very hard" raising a child, that doesn't excuse taking the easy and grotesque way out. I feel sad for both you and your children. | ||
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mdb
Bulgaria4059 Posts
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Excludos
Norway8243 Posts
On November 02 2011 17:37 RoyalCheese wrote: I have nothing against using beating as a technique to rise your children to be good people when necessary, but this goes way too far. Theres a difference between light spanking to show them they've done wrong, to hitting them with a belt over and over and over again while the kid is crying her eyes out and begging for mercy. This is /thread as far as I'm concerned. Baffles me how anyone can deem hitting your kid ok. | ||
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RoyalCheese
Czech Republic745 Posts
On November 02 2011 17:59 Excludos wrote: Theres a difference between light spanking to show them they've done wrong, to hitting them with a belt over and over and over again while the kid is crying her eyes out and begging for mercy. Yeah, that's what i was trying to say. | ||
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Arevall
Sweden1133 Posts
On November 02 2011 17:53 RoyalCheese wrote: Maybe, but 'doing it right' is probably very hard or nearly impossible. You can't reason with small kids. And sometimes, a slap on the ass will put them in shape. Of course i'm not talking about beating your kid with a belt for 7 minutes (or w/e was happening for the 7 minutes in the video, i havent watched the whole thing). But it worked on me just fine. I have some experience with raising kids and i finally understand that the "I'ts gonna hurt me more then it's gonna hurt you" is really really true. But sometimes you gotta man up and do the right thing for the greater good. I grew up in a country where it is illegal to lay hand on your children. No doubt it still happens in some families, but none of my friends or relatives has had it happen to them (as far as I know of course). Sure, some slaps may not be harmful but I don't believe them necessary either. That is why I think zero tolerance is a good thing. | ||
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RoyalCheese
Czech Republic745 Posts
On November 02 2011 17:56 AnatheKing wrote: This is exactly the way of thinking that gets to me. Of course it's "very hard" raising a child, that doesn't excuse taking the easy and grotesque way out. I feel sad for both you and your children. It's not "taking the easy and grotesque" way out. But you will see one day. If you have a kid now that doesn't behave like trash without you ever having to hit him, i congratulate you and envy you. | ||
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Zooper31
United States5711 Posts
On November 02 2011 10:31 HawaiianPig wrote: I thought the internet had desensitized me to most things, but this is disgusting. Agreed I thought this was gonna be nothing and then I'm just sweating and in shock at how this went down. Hope she gets fucking taken away from that family and put in a safe place. | ||
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Miss_Cleo
United States406 Posts
On November 02 2011 17:56 Talin wrote: Except that Alexander Fleming had nothing to do with nuclear energy and scientists never made an atomic bomb, nor used one. Pigeonholing you say? It's not a pigeon hole, it's a black hole. -_- Yeah, the scientists discovered nuclear fusion; the military weaponized it. | ||
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weeA
India442 Posts
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Lann555
Netherlands5173 Posts
You do something that is bad, using physical violence against someone who cannot defend himself, to teach them something good. It's like the old 'we have to go to war, to create peace' line of reasoning | ||
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RoyalCheese
Czech Republic745 Posts
On November 02 2011 18:03 Arevall wrote: I grew up in a country where it is illegal to lay hand on your children. No doubt it still happens in some families, but none of my friends or relatives has had it happen to them (as far as I know of course). Sure, some slaps may not be harmful but I don't believe them necessary either. That is why I think zero tolerance is a good thing. How do you punish your kids when they misbehave, then? 'Grounding' them in their room so they can play starcraft whole day?  | ||
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Pwnographics
New Zealand1097 Posts
On November 02 2011 18:06 RoyalCheese wrote: How do you punish your kids when they misbehave, then? 'Grounding' them in their room so they can play starcraft whole day? Nah I prefer to physically and mentally traumatize them | ||
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pandaBee
United States251 Posts
On November 02 2011 17:01 Ercster wrote: HOLY SHIT! YOU'RE FUCKING RETARDED! The video only implies that the father is mad over that SINGLE use of the computer. He was acting out of anger not discipline, otherwise he wouldn't have said he was going to hit her in the face if she didn't roll over. Teaching is NOT the same as beating into submission. actually the video implies that they've argued over this at least several times before, go watch it carefully again. of course he was angry that she went against a pre established rule (apparently more than once) and that she has been arguing with her parents and "lieing stealing cheating" - in this case this might have referred to illegal downloading i suppose? maybe there's more to this also he wanted her to turn over so he can spank her ass and not other part of her body its seen to be more merciful and less distasteful. of coures its not pretty no matter where he spanks her but come on getting hit in the face vs getting hit in the butt which would u choose or prefer? its not like her refusing to let him spank her butt means the punishment is over then in that case parents would have no wayh to discipline their children scenario A; parent: hey kid ur grounded for a month! kid: no way i don't want to ! parent: okay go do whatever u want Scenario B: (case of interest) parent: hey kid turn around so i can spank ur ass instead of the other parts of ur body kid: no way ! parent: okay shucks since its bad to hit u anywhere else i guess this concludes the punishment hope u learned ur lesson u damn rascal ! | ||
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Maenander
Germany4926 Posts
On November 02 2011 18:06 RoyalCheese wrote: How do you punish your kids when they misbehave, then? 'Grounding' them in their room so they can play starcraft whole day? Do you know the power of words? All the children in my pretty large family are/were pretty well-behaved and grew up to be good people, violence was never necessary. | ||
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prplhz
Denmark8045 Posts
i can't say i'm a big fan of corporal punishment, if people want to get slapped around they shouldn't have to come to their parents. you can easily have a nice childhood without having grown men and/or women kick your ass if you hold the fork in the wrong hand or surf reddit. since it's not illegal in texas i guess this guy is home free, so nice going for him and texas i guess. | ||
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Valashu
Netherlands561 Posts
I feel like there are a thousand better ways to teach your kids how to live. The internet isn't bad and I think it's highely likely that the reason for him belting her (for using the internet) stemmed from religion. Anyways, I've never gotten belted and the worst I got was a flat handed slap on my butt (didn't hurt, just shock) and I do not know how I would be able to trust a parent that uses a belt to 'correct' his kids. About the internet part, the internet is what you make of it, people do not understand pirating. I used to pirate all games but one day I felt guilty and discovered Steam. If I could never have used the....bay where pirates reside... I would have never been so passionate about gaming. And I would have been a worse person imo. I can't see what other problem he think the internet has, he must have used it before. | ||
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