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MooMooMugi
United States10531 Posts
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zeOllie
Australia486 Posts
go to jail. this world is so messed up... | ||
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VTPerfect
United States487 Posts
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r.Evo
Germany14079 Posts
On November 02 2011 15:17 Sephy90 wrote: I think what is more disturbing and disgusting is not so much the father doing the beating, but the other parent allowing it. Apparently from the description of the video she was being manipulated and emotionally abused which I guess she had to do what she did because she was afraid of him. I'm not sure what position I'd be in with her in terms of forgiving her, she did finally do something but I dunno ~_~. If you choose to beat your child that's your choice and I hope you don't do it to this level because this is just more than just a regular beating. my 2 cents: Father beats up Mother regularly. Has sex with her afterwards. Repeat. The step from aggression and taking control towards a sexual context is incredbily small for most men. Please combine the following: -Judge makes multiple rulings in favor of child abusers. -His language is highly sexually motivated. "bend over", ,"I will beat you into submission" "Take it like a grown woman" from her mother suggests that in her opinion women have to bend over and take it. -He beats his daughter not for the actual issue, but because she is disobedient. -Multiple times he stops beating her and starts again as soon as she stops sobbing. He obviously enjoys that part. -"Yes, Sir" / "No, Sir" from the girl once she's beaten up. There is no possible reason to adress him that way without him asking her to. That's something that was beaten into her head way earlier. He also seems to enjoy being adressed as some higher being. Sexual context anyone? The mother tries to protect her daughter. a) She tries to punish her instead of her father. Fails horribly. b) She sends her daugher to sleep in her sisters room (?!) (sidenote, note the casual tone right after her daugher got beaten up. This is definitly not the first time this has happened) - Projection anyone? Mother gets beaten, has sex with the same man. Daughter gets beaten... mother tries to protect her. HOWEVER she's still instantly submissive towards her husband and shifts blame away from her as fast as possible. (The damn computer -> she wanted it, it was her decision. I'm praying that the mother comes forward and speaks up. Also I'm praying that her little sis' gets to safety somehow. It's usually pretty hard to get custody of a child when you're sueing against a judge. To those who are like "OH NO THIS DID NOT CAUSE PSYCHOLOGICAL DAMAGE LOL": 2004: Aransas County Court-At-Law Judge William Adams took a belt to his own teenage daughter as punishment for using the internet to acquire music and games that were unavailable for legal purchase at the time. She has had ataxic cerebral palsy from birth that led her to a passion for technology, which was strictly forbidden by her father's backwards views. The judge's wife was emotionally abused herself and was severely manipulated into assisting the beating and should not be blamed for any content in this video. The judge's wife has since left the marriage due to the abuse, which continues to this day, and has sincerely apologized and repented for her part and for allowing such a thing, long before this video was even revealed to exist. Judge William Adams is not fit to be anywhere near the law system if he can't even exercise fit judgement as a parent himself. Do not allow this man to ever be re-elected again. His "judgement" is a giant farce. Signed, Hillary Adams, his daughter. She is still justifying for herself as to why she got beat up. She still, to some extent, assumes it was her fault that it happened. The whole "ataxic cerebral palsy" thing has no context to the video whatsoever - except for her having a reason to feel guilty about. | ||
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G_G
Canada178 Posts
On November 02 2011 15:28 vetinari wrote: The problem is that most people have a short term time horizons. People are really, really bad about planning long term, otherwise people wouldn't start saving for retirement in their 50's. The point of corporal punishment, and other punishments in general, is to bring forward the consequences of a choice, to counteract the immediate gratification that a poor choice usually provides. As an example, think about a woman divorcing. In the short term, she gets a financial windfall and is free to pursue relationships (sex) with attractive males and doesn't have to put up with her husband anymore. In the long term, she is going to be broke* and living only with cats. Yet women choose to divorce all the time, despite the fact that they are far likelier to be happy in the future if they had stayed married. *mostly because she has a short term time horizon. That's a good point. However, it still doesn't explain what's supposed to happen after the parents aren't around to dish out the immediate consequence. A woman thinking of divorcing her husband for frivolous gain isn't going to spank herself out of it, even if her parents spanked her when she was a kid. People cannot be expected to spank themselves when their parents aren't around to do it for them. You said that most people have short term horizons. Isn't that being promoted and even enforced by corporal punishment? Through such punishments, aren't parents encouraging their kids to think about the short-term consequences in the form of physical punishment rather than the more natural life-related punishments that will happen further into the future? There must be some way to teach kids to think long-term and realize that hard work pays off without resorting to applying a punishment that is easily removed by growing up and leaving the parents behind. | ||
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Deleted_143
Australia256 Posts
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Rafael
Venezuela182 Posts
Fucking internet is right now. Can anyone troath slit this motherfucker|? | ||
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WardenSC
Canada210 Posts
This kind of punishment is nothing new in most asian cultures, including in Korea. Having been raised with a somewhat strick parents myself, I had been beaten like this and at the time I also thought it was bullshit and all that. But when you grow up, you realize it was really them trying to guide you in the right way, whatever means possible. What kind of parents would enjoy on hitting their child? Before pointing fingers on her parents, you guys should think about how she's resorting to releasing this on the web because they wouldn't let her play "video games". | ||
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BoX
United States214 Posts
You can almost see the father react in pleasure from each strike. That is the "disgusting" feeling that you all get when you see this. It's obvious as hell that he's enjoying himself. If the internet needed a video definition of sadistic behavior, now it has it. This man needs to be punished according to his crime. As a judge, he should understand that better than almost anyone else. However, clearly, he is not well developed mentally. | ||
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Kamais_Ookin
Canada4218 Posts
On November 02 2011 15:18 valheru wrote: If it makes you feel better I could pay for shipping via paypal for you to send over your belt to Trevoc to use.Thanks I needed cheering up but I'm in Australia, no belt's long enough to reach that far. | ||
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annYeong(o11)
Canada784 Posts
They should immediately disbar this man and throw him in jail. I've heard cops get it pretty rough in there, I can't imagine how bad it would be for a judge. Sadly, as a judge, he knows exactly how to manipulate the legal system to avoid serious punishment for his disgusting actions. I wish the victim all the luck and love in the world. I hope she remains strong and open to other people while she's going through this tragedy. Most importantly I hope she speaks out and acts as a beacon for others to find the courage to act on their options and get themselves out of similar terrible situations. Be strong. Speak up. Love life. ~annYong. | ||
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Cloud9157
United States2968 Posts
I just lose faith in humanity every day. | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14079 Posts
On November 02 2011 15:46 WardenSC wrote: Of course from an outsider looking in, it seems like her parents are abusive in the first glance. However, in this case, I am more sickened by the fact that the girl would have the audacity to videotape the whole scene and cop out on her parents like that. It just feels like she's "acting out" knowing the shitstorm its going to cause for her parents. This kind of punishment is nothing new in most asian cultures, including in Korea. Having been raised with a somewhat strick parents myself, I had been beaten like this and at the time I also thought it was bullshit and all that. But when you grow up, you realize it was really them trying to guide you in the right way, whatever means possible. What kind of parents would enjoy on hitting their child? Before pointing fingers on her parents, you guys should think about how she's resorting to releasing this on the web because they wouldn't let her play "video games". As I stated in like my last 2-3 posts (look for the long rants with bolded parts, trollol), this is definitly not the first time this has happened. I guess at one point she wanted some kind of proof. Please note that this judge himself stated in his court cases that children who speak of abuse are not to be believed. Also note: -The casual talk between mother and daughter after the beating. The scene apparently isn't something abnormal in that house. -"Yes, Sir" / "No, Sir" talk -Her filming it at all, means she can regularly expect it. -The mother not being disgusted by the method at all. -She's not being hit because of her using the computer. She's being hit because she's disobedient. Note his language and choice of words. "I'll beat you into submission!" | ||
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Rafael
Venezuela182 Posts
On November 02 2011 15:52 Cloud9157 wrote: Go to jail for the rest of your lives, both of the parents. I just lose faith in humanity every day. I lost ALL faith already. | ||
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Kamais_Ookin
Canada4218 Posts
On November 02 2011 15:52 Cloud9157 wrote: I believe the mother should be cut some slack considering she too was abused by the judge and she has since then divorced. She regrets everything that has happened and is sorry unlike the judge who most likely doesn't give a shit.Go to jail for the rest of your lives, both of the parents. I just lose faith in humanity every day. | ||
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sunman1g
United States334 Posts
On November 02 2011 15:42 r.Evo wrote: my 2 cents: Father beats up Mother regularly. Has sex with her afterwards. Repeat. The step from aggression and taking control towards a sexual context is incredbily small for most men. Please combine the following: -Judge makes multiple rulings in favor of child abusers. -His language is highly sexually motivated. "bend over", ,"I will beat you into submission" "Take it like a grown woman" from her mother suggests that in her opinion women have to bend over and take it. -He beats his daughter not for the actual issue, but because she is disobedient. -Multiple times he stops beating her and starts again as soon as she stops sobbing. He obviously enjoys that part. -"Yes, Sir" / "No, Sir" from the girl once she's beaten up. There is no possible reason to adress him that way without him asking her to. That's something that was beaten into her head way earlier. He also seems to enjoy being adressed as some higher being. Sexual context anyone? The mother tries to protect her daughter. a) She tries to punish her instead of her father. Fails horribly. b) She sends her daugher to sleep in her sisters room (?!) (sidenote, note the casual tone right after her daugher got beaten up. This is definitly not the first time this has happened) - Projection anyone? Mother gets beaten, has sex with the same man. Daughter gets beaten... mother tries to protect her. HOWEVER she's still instantly submissive towards her husband and shifts blame away from her as fast as possible. (The damn computer -> she wanted it, it was her decision. I'm praying that the mother comes forward and speaks up. Also I'm praying that her little sis' gets to safety somehow. It's usually pretty hard to get custody of a child when you're sueing against a judge. Absolutely great post. That man should have his child custody revoked. Btw I am absolutely not surprised by how many people in this topic from the U.S. stated that they have been belt spanked, unfortunately it is absolutely disgusting... This shows somewhat why the average US person is a "caveman" compared to the average European. Corporal punishment is just one of the many practices that an advanced and educated culture should abandon completely. U.S. is still far away from that :/ I bet you if we had a poll on TL for people getting belt spanked EU would have such a low number compared to the US. Jesus christ I am so disgusted. As some pointed out, it's also a matter of "Chains". Probably parents beating up their kids and whipping them with the belt have been treated the same way from their parents. Kids grow up with traumas that their parents inflict to them and those actions penetrate their subconscious making them the man they will be in the future. | ||
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Goldfish
2230 Posts
On November 02 2011 13:49 mizU wrote: What the fuck is wrong with the mother AND the father? Not parents. My parents spanked my, but it was concise, for a reason, and not a senseless beatdown like this. Not the really mother's fault. The judge's wife was emotionally abused herself and was severely manipulated into assisting the beating and should not be blamed for any content in this video. The judge's wife has since left the marriage due to the abuse, which continues to this day, and has sincerely apologized and repented for her part and for allowing such a thing, long before this video was even revealed to exist. Of course you can say but she could have called police or so but I don't blame the mother in this case. Stuff like that happens sadly where the person may be too afraid to do anything. | ||
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BoX
United States214 Posts
This is why I hate the internet sometimes. Half-cocked dipshits posting opinions that would get them straight up bitch slapped in person. Pathetic. | ||
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GhostFall
United States830 Posts
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KinosJourney2
Sweden1811 Posts
Sadly, i doubt he even gets a punishment in court. The worst thing that'll happen to him is that he loses his right to be a judge. :/ | ||
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