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On October 17 2015 11:25 Sickel1 wrote:
Hey guys, today the girl asked me to kiss her forehead on the bus and asked if it was alright if she leaned on me. I, of course, agreed and she received many kisses to her forehead. I think on tuesday I'll offer to buy her coffee- is the forehead kiss as significant a sign as I think or am I being rused? Please assist me, friends. I am not an exceptionally perceptive man.
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I got tinder like 2 days ago, haven't been really active. Only talked to one girl so far.
But, UUUHH! Some girls are such fucking specimens.
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What does that mean? "Such fucking specimens"?
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On October 18 2015 11:21 Fyodor wrote:Show nested quote +On October 17 2015 11:25 Sickel1 wrote:
Hey guys, today the girl asked me to kiss her forehead on the bus and asked if it was alright if she leaned on me. I, of course, agreed and she received many kisses to her forehead. I think on tuesday I'll offer to buy her coffee- is the forehead kiss as significant a sign as I think or am I being rused? Please assist me, friends. I am not an exceptionally perceptive man.
rofl I love this thread.
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On October 19 2015 04:06 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:
What does that mean? "Such fucking specimens"?
Really gorgeous girls basically.
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On October 19 2015 04:18 bloodwhore~ wrote:Show nested quote +On October 19 2015 04:06 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:
What does that mean? "Such fucking specimens"? Really gorgeous girls basically.
Seriously? I thought you meant the opposite (which is probably true too)... as in, some of the girls look so ugly that they were probably malformed as a lab experiment gone terribly wrong. Specimens. Or like some serious Gollum-esque girls.
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On October 19 2015 04:39 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:Seriously? I thought you meant the opposite (which is probably true too)... as in, some of the girls look so ugly that they were probably malformed as a lab experiment gone terribly wrong. Specimens. Or like some serious Gollum-esque girls.
It's meant as perfect specimen. I don't know if you have seen tinder in Sweden. When I was back in Stockholm I used to count the number of right swipes I did before I had to say no to a girl.
This is how Tinder is in Sweden.
+ Show Spoiler +
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On October 19 2015 05:44 bloodwhore~ wrote:Show nested quote +On October 19 2015 04:39 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:Seriously? I thought you meant the opposite (which is probably true too)... as in, some of the girls look so ugly that they were probably malformed as a lab experiment gone terribly wrong. Specimens. Or like some serious Gollum-esque girls. It's meant as perfect specimen. I don't know if you have seen tinder in Sweden. When I was back in Stockholm I used to count the number of right swipes I did before I had to say no to a girl. This is how Tinder is in Sweden. + Show Spoiler +
If that gif is legitimate, then I suddenly have a lot less respect for guys who complain that the Tinder girls are unattractive. Swedish girls are more beautiful than average (imo), but still...
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On October 19 2015 05:58 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:
If that gif is legitimate, then I suddenly have a lot less respect for guys who complain that the Tinder girls are unattractive. Swedish girls are more beautiful than average (imo), but still...
Never heard anyone saying that in Sweden. I think most people who say that mean is that sometimes girls look better in pictures than in real life. That has not been my experience though, though I've only met three girls from tinder.
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On October 19 2015 02:17 bloodwhore~ wrote:
I got tinder like 2 days ago
I'm so sorry man, what happened?
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Everyone looks better in pictures than they do in real life. That's why once in a while I'll try to "accidentally" run into one of my ex-girlfriends to keep things in perspective. Can't get too nostalgic and fuck up the rest of my love life.
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False. Some people look worse in pictures.
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On October 19 2015 09:43 IgnE wrote:
False. Some people look worse in pictures.
At least that's what IgnE's been telling people on Tinder 
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I know people that look really really bad in pictures that look Ok in real life, it may have something to do with the angle or their ankwardness idk. But a lot of girls specially look better than men on pictures because most of them take so much pics of themselves that they learn how to take pretty cool pictures. (I had a friend that was like fat and "ok" in the face, and in her pictures she looked super slim and extremely pretty, when she send a friend request on facebook I was like "WOAH! WHOS THAT GIRL!, then I saw it was her and I was like..."wow, she is a master photographer she should do this for a living).
Semi long post incoming.
Anyway I wanted to share a quick update to my previous story that you don't care about, but I love sharing this kind of things. Remember that girl that didn't answer my text, then she answered 4 days later then I didn't answer until the next day and then she didn't answer? Well, she didn't anser lol, but there was something else to our story that I didn't share here. Anyway, today I found this story she wrote that had an autograph with a little text that said that I was pretty cool and loved our conversations and that kind of stuff. So I said "you know man, fuck it, I don't want to say to myself that I didn't really try this" because reading that I noticed that I really liked her, so I went to whatapp and sent her a picture of that text saying "I found it this evening, I think it might bring you good memories"
She answered inmediatelly and the convo went something like
Girl:3xBlushingSmileyface, 3xcrying face. Phantom, what happened to our conversations? 
Phantom:I guess they died, but there's a chance we can bring them back
G:We killed them
P:That's right. Girl, I'd love to see you again are you available tomorrow or would you prefer this thurdsday (taking note of Lemon's book xd)
G:I would love it to, but how about wednesday? or tuesday?
P:Well, wednesday I have a test, and tuesday I have an appointment with the doctor.
G:I got a test tomorrow and thurday I have my tennis classes.
P:Don't worry. Well then, if not it could be over the weekend. Take the time to think when you're available and we'll arrange something.
G:Sure! Saturday would be nice to have a little more time. I would be fine even if it was in your car 
P:Saturday would be great for me actually. Just confirm me during the week. I'll plan something good, no more just haing out all day in the car.
G: I will I promise! Even the car would be fine for me.
P: Yeah well, in all honestly the place isn't important, I like to be with you. But either way I'll plan something good.
...recieved.
Lol, but I don't care, it was a good way to end the conversation I think. We'll see how it goes. When she confirms I'll take a second note from Lemon's book and say the "Alright, meet me at x place at 1pm". I won't see her until 3 weeks apart which I'm afraid will possibly ruin the previous progress but it's alright. I just want to try, I'm feeling as confident as I've ever been in my life after a few quite great things happened to me this past week so I'll shoot for something great.
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Been a long time since I asked anybody out. Asked a girl out for dinner in person, she told me "I'll tell you later". 1 down, n - 1 more to go.
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On October 19 2015 11:19 crimethinking wrote:
Been a long time since I asked anybody out. Asked a girl out for dinner in person, she told me "I'll tell you later". 1 down, n - 1 more to go.
That's such a weird response lol
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On October 19 2015 11:22 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:Show nested quote +On October 19 2015 11:19 crimethinking wrote:
Been a long time since I asked anybody out. Asked a girl out for dinner in person, she told me "I'll tell you later". 1 down, n - 1 more to go. That's such a weird response lol
It's probably a thinly veiled rejection.
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On October 19 2015 11:19 [Phantom] wrote:I know people that look really really bad in pictures that look Ok in real life, it may have something to do with the angle or their ankwardness idk. But a lot of girls specially look better than men on pictures because most of them take so much pics of themselves that they learn how to take pretty cool pictures. (I had a friend that was like fat and "ok" in the face, and in her pictures she looked super slim and extremely pretty, when she send a friend request on facebook I was like "WOAH! WHOS THAT GIRL!, then I saw it was her and I was like..."wow, she is a master photographer she should do this for a living). Semi long post incoming. Anyway I wanted to share a quick update to my previous story that you don't care about, but I love sharing this kind of things. Remember that girl that didn't answer my text, then she answered 4 days later then I didn't answer until the next day and then she didn't answer? Well, she didn't anser lol, but there was something else to our story that I didn't share here. Anyway, today I found this story she wrote that had an autograph with a little text that said that I was pretty cool and loved our conversations and that kind of stuff. So I said "you know man, fuck it, I don't want to say to myself that I didn't really try this" because reading that I noticed that I really liked her, so I went to whatapp and sent her a picture of that text saying "I found it this evening, I think it might bring you good memories" She answered inmediatelly and the convo went something like Girl:3xBlushingSmileyface, 3xcrying face. Phantom, what happened to our conversations? Phantom:I guess they died, but there's a chance we can bring them back G:We killed them P:That's right. Girl, I'd love to see you again are you available tomorrow or would you prefer this thurdsday (taking note of Lemon's book xd) G:I would love it to, but how about wednesday? or tuesday? P:Well, wednesday I have a test, and tuesday I have an appointment with the doctor. G:I got a test tomorrow and thurday I have my tennis classes. P:Don't worry. Well then, if not it could be over the weekend. Take the time to think when you're available and we'll arrange something. G:Sure! Saturday would be nice to have a little more time. I would be fine even if it was in your car P:Saturday would be great for me actually. Just confirm me during the week. I'll plan something good, no more just haing out all day in the car. G: I will I promise! Even the car would be fine for me. P: Yeah well, in all honestly the place isn't important, I like to be with you. But either way I'll plan something good. ...recieved. Lol, but I don't care, it was a good way to end the conversation I think. We'll see how it goes. When she confirms I'll take a second note from Lemon's book and say the "Alright, meet me at x place at 1pm". I won't see her until 3 weeks apart which I'm afraid will possibly ruin the previous progress but it's alright. I just want to try, I'm feeling as confident as I've ever been in my life after a few quite great things happened to me this past week so I'll shoot for something great.
That's awesome, congrats! If she's into tennis, then she's a keeper
+ Show Spoiler +My fiancee and I met ~10 years ago, in high school, at the tennis clinic where we both took lessons
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On October 19 2015 11:23 crimethinking wrote:Show nested quote +On October 19 2015 11:22 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:On October 19 2015 11:19 crimethinking wrote:
Been a long time since I asked anybody out. Asked a girl out for dinner in person, she told me "I'll tell you later". 1 down, n - 1 more to go. That's such a weird response lol It's probably a thinly veiled rejection.
I agree, but I wonder why she didn't straight up say "No thank you".
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