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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
bloodwhore~
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WarSame
Canada1950 Posts
On August 25 2015 04:45 bloodwhore~ wrote: This should make me want her? Cute paradox, but you seem to have misinterpreted either the paradox or me. I don't dislike the girl for not responding, I just don't really care. Do you expect me to be bothered that a random stranger on tinder decides not to respond, that would be truly messed up. A more accurate version of that fox paradox would be if he thought "fuck that grape on the top of the tree" and then goes to eat a perfectly edible grapes on the lower branches which he can reach. That would be me. It shouldn't make you want her, but you can't pretend like they're less attractive if they're not interested in you. Just admit that you couldn't swing it, and stop deluding yourself. | ||
kwizach
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On August 24 2015 18:41 bloodwhore~ wrote: Feels like women do not know what they want at all, they say they want one thing and go for the exact opposite all the time. Do try to avoid sexist clichés. | ||
IgnE
United States7681 Posts
On August 25 2015 06:49 bloodwhore~ wrote: If a grape is a girls pussy from tinder, then yes. Going out this wednesday to this party which is sort of like an octoberfest, she will be there. Hopefully going home with her in the evening. Wait does that mean you aren't a virgin anymore? | ||
obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
On August 25 2015 10:24 IgnE wrote: Wait does that mean you aren't a virgin anymore? + Show Spoiler + I mean... shame on you all, creating this gender dichotomy where the value of the male is on how many women he sleeps with and the value of a female is the inverse... something something sjw | ||
Mikau
Netherlands1445 Posts
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IgnE
United States7681 Posts
On August 25 2015 13:08 obesechicken13 wrote: + Show Spoiler + I mean... shame on you all, creating this gender dichotomy where the value of the male is on how many women he sleeps with and the value of a female is the inverse... something something sjw whether or not bloodwhore should be respected as a valuable and whole human being is a different question from how we should interpret the value of his opinions on dating, and his virginity is an important qualifier when considering his advice | ||
bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On August 25 2015 08:25 WarSame wrote: It shouldn't make you want her, but you can't pretend like they're less attractive if they're not interested in you. Just admit that you couldn't swing it, and stop deluding yourself. God damn you're a persistant one. I honestly don't know why you think I don't think they're attractive? I just said I'm not interested in someone who is not interested in myself, that's not deluding myself, that's being a valuable and whole human being as IgnE put it. Do try to avoid sexist clichés. Eh, I think this one is acceptable to have. I'm not saying men know what they want either, just that people don't go for what they claim to want. Wait does that mean you aren't a virgin anymore? Depends on how you define virginity. If you only define it as piv, then no. I don't care about my virginity though so it doesn't matter to me. Can we go back to talking about dating now? Of course, if you have anything to discuss - go! | ||
Snotling
Germany885 Posts
On August 25 2015 18:05 bloodwhore~ wrote: Depends on how you define virginity. If you only define it as piv, then no. I don't care about my virginity though so it doesn't matter to me. so that strapon thing did happen :D | ||
[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
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bloodwhore~
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On August 25 2015 23:27 Snotling wrote: so that strapon thing did happen :D Yeah I have no idea what you're talking about haha. | ||
[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/general/273445-dating-hows-your-luck?page=675#13489 I still defend my $4 BSB album. That shit is awesome! | ||
SCguineapig
Netherlands289 Posts
On August 24 2015 21:48 QuanticHawk wrote: it may be it may not be. point is none of us know. and your conclusion also implies that a relative stranger (ie a coworker) is owed a response to an im. unless you're actually a friend of the person in question you're not owed anything. assuming something malicious is going on, or that she's looking for attention and ego stroking if she answered later - that's some salty ass, bordering on woman hating shit that poisons your entire thinking save that shit when you actually know she's stringing you along or some shit. of course most sane people would agree with that. the issue here is that the automatic assumption from you two about a woman not replying within 24 hours to an unsolicited message from a coworker is HAH! SHITTEST! GOTCHA BITCH! Okay I'm just gonna quote this post for funsies. But I never expected my post to spark so much discussion. I asked her out and she didn't respond. I know she doesn't have a BF so thats not the reason she didn't reply. Like, if she replies in like a week or maybe more, that would be awesome but I'm not counting on it. In the meantime I'm just gonna contiue believing that she has trouble saying no (like she told me last week) and that my hopes of dating her are dashed. I'm just gonna move on, and so should you guys move on from this topic and talk more about your own dating stories (or attempts). | ||
LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
Are there any troopers that go ahead anyways when its their time of the month? Tips? First month she openly admitted it, before she was embarrassed. I encourage her to talk to me about masturbation etc. pretty sure she'd be open to this too, but only time I've done it before was in the shower with my ex. And that was like 1 time | ||
[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
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GoTuNk!
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CosmicSpiral
United States15275 Posts
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IgnE
United States7681 Posts
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Laurens
Belgium4461 Posts
The worst part was the sheets being pretty bloody afterwards. Especially if you have a scout cleaning your room and changing your sheets, pretty awkward. Though I imagine they encounter much worse stuff. | ||
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