EPTIt's also unfair to be with someone you're not really into. Not fair to them (it's dishonest) and not fair to you, or the other people who care/rely about/on you.
And the longer you put it off the worse it's likely to get.
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Yoav
United States1874 Posts
It's also unfair to be with someone you're not really into. Not fair to them (it's dishonest) and not fair to you, or the other people who care/rely about/on you. And the longer you put it off the worse it's likely to get. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On August 28 2015 23:26 SCguineapig wrote: Well I asked her out through text cuz I fucked up the last opportunity I had to ask her in person, she then didn't respond for almost a week, then yesterday she said sorry cuz she "forgot" to answer me, but she still didn't tell me if she wanted to go on a date or not, so I had to ask her again, after which she said she wasn't interested. but it feels nice to know that dating her is not gonna be a thing. Asking out through text is fine by me, it was just weird of her not to answer if she wanted to go or not when she did mention that she "forgot". | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32160 Posts
On August 28 2015 08:52 Sickel1 wrote: i hate all of the girls i end up dating and i can't break up with my current girlfriend because i'm fairly sure she'll kill herself. what do I do? dont break up with her at your place. do it at her place, with an escape plan in place so you're not stuck there, or so you dont get baited into keeping up the charade. have her parents and close friends on speed dial in case you think that's something more than emotional manipulation. in a genuine no bullshit real emergency, like she's waving around knives or she starts pretending she's pacman, do not be afraid to call the police sucky, but some people are just manipulative assholes who see no problem in dropping that on you. Even if she is genuinely suicidal (these people are just being manipulative 99.99999% of the time but the nature of the threat means you have to take it at face value) it's not your responsibility to hold her hand through it, and if anything you'll enable more destructive behavior by hanging around. you do the above, you'd done all that a good person can do. hang around and it will get worse and youll probably wish she was threatening to kill you instead of yourself. Best of luck. | ||
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SCguineapig
Netherlands289 Posts
On August 29 2015 00:50 bloodwhore~ wrote: Asking out through text is fine by me, it was just weird of her not to answer if she wanted to go or not when she did mention that she "forgot". Yeah I found that to be strange aswell, it was the reason I was hesitent to ask her out again as I expected her to just say no anyway otherwise she would have answered the first time I asked. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32160 Posts
that being said, I would not think about it too much. If it's more important to you to do what is comfortable to you, keep doing that and just wait until you find someone who gets that you're too shy to ask someone out in person or if you constantly find yourself messing up that opportunity. It's not wrong or anything, just be aware that it will definitely turn some people off who might otherwise be interested in a date with you. If you're more interested in just improving your chances of getting a date, buck up, get used to some rejection, and just ask in person. You always get an answer that way. | ||
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LemOn
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I think I've been pretty close a couple times - but when it gets to the stage when she feels like she needs to pee, it's hard to persuade her to just let it go (even tho she went some 20 mins before) | ||
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IgnE
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Snotling
Germany885 Posts
So she would just pee on you anyway. | ||
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farvacola
United States18869 Posts
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bloodwhore~
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And the answer is no lemon  | ||
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Acrofales
Spain18473 Posts
On September 01 2015 05:27 bloodwhore~ wrote: I do believe squirting is a thing, I mean it's pee alright, but it's a different type of orgasm. And the answer is no lemon You know that most of what you see in porn is fake, right? | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-35-porn-star-sex-squirting-orgasms-and-lasting-longer-in-bed-with-marcus-london/ http://www.buzzfeed.com/caseygueren/what-is-squirting-actually#.qcqMJ8gWmb | ||
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IgnE
United States7684 Posts
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Acrofales
Spain18473 Posts
As for the porn actor... yeah. He made girls pee. It doesn't matter. Whether it's pee or not, if the girl gets pleasure from it, it's fine by me. But my gf has the same complaint as Lemon's: she says it feels like she needs to pee and that it's not pleasurable. Rather than insisting, I try to find ways that she DOES find pleasurable. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
 So is ‘squirting’ just pee? Yes and no. It seems that larger volume fluid emissions, or squirting, are for the most part urine. However, there does appear to be evidence that a smaller volume of fluid is actually female prostate secretion due to mechanical stimulation of the G-spot. Whether this constitutes ‘true’ female ejaculation remains to be seen as most previous studies include all ranges of fluid emission. Further, it is unknown conclusively whether these two forms of excretion are mutually exclusive, or whether there is some overlap as suggested by the presence of PSA in the urine of women in this study. Likely, women who are capable of ejaculation naturally vary in the amount of fluid they excrete. The implications for personal and sexual health are also unclear. An international survey of women who were capable of ejaculating found that four of five reported that squirting was enriching to their sexual lives. However, this included any volume of fluid emission. Squirting generally results from a combination of stimulation of the G-spot, relaxation and a comfortable emotional state and can occur without any larger implications of disease, and may be an indicator of a healthy sexual relationship. http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/features/the-science-behind-female-ejaculation-9987298.html good article I'd say. And I definitely want to still try it out, just once to let her experience it | ||
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bloodwhore~
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On September 01 2015 06:19 LemOn wrote: good article I'd say. And I definitely want to still try it out, just once to let her experience it http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/25545022 Conclusion: The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On September 01 2015 05:45 Acrofales wrote: You know that most of what you see in porn is fake, right? If the normal orgasm is not involuntary peeing then by definition it's another type... | ||
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Snotling
Germany885 Posts
On September 01 2015 06:28 bloodwhore~ wrote: If the normal orgasm is not involuntary peeing then by definition it's another type... Congratulations | ||
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