EPTI think he's just saying there exists pizza that is bad enough that you would have rathered not to have any pizza at all.
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
I think he's just saying there exists pizza that is bad enough that you would have rathered not to have any pizza at all. | ||
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chadissilent
Canada1187 Posts
You ever fuck a girl with herpes? Bad pizza can be worse than no pizza. | ||
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decafchicken
United States20019 Posts
It's not the bad pizza you gotta watch out for, it's the crazy pizza. | ||
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Aeroplaneoverthesea
United Kingdom1977 Posts
On October 31 2013 04:45 white_horse wrote: But when she texts she's just asking me random questions about the day, thanksgiving break plans, etc. Isn't suddenly texting (or saying) "hey I don't really like you romantically so I don't want you to misunderstand our relationship" just plain mean? And there actually isn't anything go on between us, I've just met her several times before and she's been texting me since then so we are nothing more than just acquaintance/friends at this point anyway. Why did you meet her several times? IMO it's obvious within about 10 minutes or meeting someone whether you're into them or not. | ||
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gedatsu
1286 Posts
On October 31 2013 06:06 decafchicken wrote: It's not the bad pizza you gotta watch out for, it's the crazy pizza. Never stick your dick in crazy pizza. | ||
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Skynx
Turkey7150 Posts
Even tho it tastes good, you don't want your whole pizza covered in peperoni. Just get enough, not much more. | ||
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kaykaykay
Singapore637 Posts
should it even be done at all? | ||
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Zooper31
United States5710 Posts
On October 31 2013 10:33 kaykaykay wrote: how do you go about keeping sexual tension in a group setting? should it even be done at all? Family reunion? No. Church group? Maybe. Skinny Dipping at the lake? Definitely. | ||
white_horse
1019 Posts
On October 31 2013 06:51 Aeroplaneoverthesea wrote: Why did you meet her several times? IMO it's obvious within about 10 minutes or meeting someone whether you're into them or not. Her friend brought her to a party I was having at my apartment and the other couple times I met her was by coincidence. | ||
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WonnaPlay
Netherlands912 Posts
As long as she doesn't make a move, you do not need to take any action since it is just friendly conversation, with a bit of flirting ofcourse. No foul done here | ||
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Aeroplaneoverthesea
United Kingdom1977 Posts
On October 31 2013 11:26 white_horse wrote: Her friend brought her to a party I was having at my apartment and the other couple times I met her was by coincidence. Are we talking no sexual attraction at all or is she just not what you look for in a long term girlfriend because imo if the girls chasing you you may as well hit that unless she's really not attractive at all. | ||
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white_horse
1019 Posts
On November 01 2013 00:55 WonnaPlay wrote: Hmm, I don't think as long as you're not overly flirting with her its not that bad to just text her back in a friendly manner. As long as she doesn't make a move, you do not need to take any action since it is just friendly conversation, with a bit of flirting ofcourse. No foul done here I realized that this is what I should do, thanks | ||
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MightyBill
93 Posts
But out of the blue, after having dated 3 different girls since then, she suddenly starts contacting me a LOT (asking to eat breakfast together, getting drinks, etc) and when she found out I dumped my last date, she responded very fake-compassionate like "awwww thats soooo sad! so you're single again?". Normally I dont really overthink this and I just act, but I havent got a clue with this one. She's almost exactly the same as I am in terms of interests and impulsiveness, which makes me feel that I have a lot to lose if I mess it up now... | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
Not a lot of contact for a few months. she suddenly starts contacting me a LOT Those two lines alone should tell you what's going on. | ||
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corumjhaelen
France6884 Posts
Those blue eyes look a bit dangerous though... | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
 ". Was disappointing to hear but I'm not really a believer of the 'friend zone' so I plan on hanging out with her in the future and just being flirty/touchy. We've never been together anywhere except for where I go for Muay Thai, and I would not ever be overtly flirty in that environment so being elsewhere changes the relationship. Honestly though I don't know her well enough to say if I want to date her to begin with which is why I was less direct in asking her out. | ||
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sc4k
United Kingdom5454 Posts
On November 02 2013 05:22 Najda wrote: Finally stopped being a bitch and asked a girl I've been crushing on for 4 months to hang out, her response was that she would love to but can't today for logistic reasons and that "You're a nice guy and I think we'd be good friends ". Was disappointing to hear but I'm not really a believer of the 'friend zone' so I plan on hanging out with her in the future and just being flirty/touchy. We've never been together anywhere except for where I go for Muay Thai, and I would not ever be overtly flirty in that environment so being elsewhere changes the relationship. Honestly though I don't know her well enough to say if I want to date her to begin with which is why I was less direct in asking her out.Just try not to prevaricate too long dude. Once you have hung out a bit and know that you want to date her, you should ask her to go out with you sooner rather than later. The friend zone may not be this all-conquering, immutable law of nature, but it does happen to some extent to people who are too scared to actually ask a girl out once they know they want to. In my estimation, the only time you should hold off is when there are certain qualities you possess that she isn't fully aware of, and you want her to see them before you ask her out because you think it might significantly affect your chance of success. | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
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Maski
Germany335 Posts
Tonight at a party, I finally decided to tell her how I feel about her. I know I missed a perfect opportunity last Sunday and reading your feedback made me feel really bad about myself. But it was true. I was a coward and I have to change. So tonight, despite it not being the perfect situation, I finally took the courage to tell her. I wanted to have closure, even though I knew that it's not going to happen. I just couldn't think of anything else the entire week and I had to get this out of my head. She made it pretty easy for me though. I went out on the porch and told my close friend to come get her (obviously did not want to tell her in the kitchen with a thousand people around us). My friend came back and told me that she said she knew and she did not want to talk to me because she did not want to make it awkward. ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME? It took me a lot of courage to finally express my feelings, and all I get is a "I know but I don't want to make it awkward?". Well, what do you think is going to happen now? I thought I would be sad and desperate, but right now I am just angry and disappointed. I find that to be totally disrespectful towards me. At least dump me in person. I deserve that and not that stupid other way. I hoped that we could be friends after she dumped me, but right now, I really do not want to talk to her. I am just mad and angry. | ||
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Zooper31
United States5710 Posts
On November 03 2013 14:15 Maski wrote: Okay guys, update on my situation (opening post on page 299): Tonight at a party, I finally decided to tell her how I feel about her. I know I missed a perfect opportunity last Sunday and reading your feedback made me feel really bad about myself. But it was true. I was a coward and I have to change. So tonight, despite it not being the perfect situation, I finally took the courage to tell her. I wanted to have closure, even though I knew that it's not going to happen. I just couldn't think of anything else the entire week and I had to get this out of my head. She made it pretty easy for me though. I went out on the porch and told my close friend to come get her (obviously did not want to tell her in the kitchen with a thousand people around us). My friend came back and told me that she said she knew and she did not want to talk to me because she did not want to make it awkward. ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME? It took me a lot of courage to finally express my feelings, and all I get is a "I know but I don't want to make it awkward?". Well, what do you think is going to happen now? I thought I would be sad and desperate, but right now I am just angry and disappointed. I find that to be totally disrespectful towards me. At least dump me in person. I deserve that and not that stupid other way. I hoped that we could be friends after she dumped me, but right now, I really do not want to talk to her. I am just mad and angry. You didn't have the guts do even ask her to come out to the porch yourself. Why expect her to have the guts to tell you in person? I'm sorry bro for how you feel. I'm super shy myself and I kick myself all the time for messing up missed opportunities. Best you can do it make this a learning experience and make sure you don't regret not acting in the future. I myself finally asked girl at work out to go out to eat at Olive Garden (classy shit yo). We've done things together before outside work and they went fine imo, she even took pictures of us, but nothing close to a date imo. She complained to me at work about guys being douches and not following up on dates. So that was a perfect moment for me and told her she shoud let me take her out and show them how it's done. She said she'd txt me that night. I ask whats up several hours later and she says she doesn't know yet and I reply I'll just pick her up at 7 jokingly, no response. Taking the lack of answer as a no, but I'm going to ask her tom at work since we work at the same time and get a definitive answer (I just want an answer and closure) | ||
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