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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on.
Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments.
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On August 02 2013 22:05 notwelldone wrote:Show nested quote +On August 02 2013 19:55 sc4k wrote:On August 02 2013 13:12 Wombat_NI wrote: *Shudders at the spectre of the friendzone returning to the thread*
In terms of the date thing, if it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck it probably is a duck. lol what, what is this insanity that people don't think the friendzone exists, of course it does. It's just not as hard and concrete as some people think. But it is inescapable for many men who don't accept it and pre-empt it. "I was so nice to her, why won't she suck my dick?" - People who think that friendzone exists. You Sir have found true wisdom.
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I said I wouldn't update on this thread about the girl I've been seeing but suffice to say.... Great success.
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On August 04 2013 00:59 Djzapz wrote: I said I wouldn't update on this thread about the girl I've been seeing but suffice to say.... Great success. Kudos to you good sir!
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On August 02 2013 22:45 QuanticHawk wrote:Show nested quote +On August 02 2013 22:05 notwelldone wrote:On August 02 2013 19:55 sc4k wrote:On August 02 2013 13:12 Wombat_NI wrote: *Shudders at the spectre of the friendzone returning to the thread*
In terms of the date thing, if it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck it probably is a duck. lol what, what is this insanity that people don't think the friendzone exists, of course it does. It's just not as hard and concrete as some people think. But it is inescapable for many men who don't accept it and pre-empt it. "I was so nice to her, why won't she suck my dick?" - People who think that friendzone exists. this should be quoted once every page
I just busted out laughing after I read that ahahah.
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On August 05 2013 09:28 mav451 wrote:Show nested quote +On August 02 2013 22:45 QuanticHawk wrote:On August 02 2013 22:05 notwelldone wrote:On August 02 2013 19:55 sc4k wrote:On August 02 2013 13:12 Wombat_NI wrote: *Shudders at the spectre of the friendzone returning to the thread*
In terms of the date thing, if it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck it probably is a duck. lol what, what is this insanity that people don't think the friendzone exists, of course it does. It's just not as hard and concrete as some people think. But it is inescapable for many men who don't accept it and pre-empt it. "I was so nice to her, why won't she suck my dick?" - People who think that friendzone exists. this should be quoted once every page I just busted out laughing after I read that ahahah. I feel like that should be something I hang on my wall in college, just for the world to see LOL.
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you should, if only so you might steer someone away from becoming a real weirdo later in life!!
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this thread has been dead for the past couple days T.T, where are all the relationship issues that I so crave.
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Orc announcer from WC3: We need more gold! girl blogs!
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On August 08 2013 04:54 docvoc wrote: this thread has been dead for the past couple days T.T, where are all the relationship issues that I so crave.
Met a girl on my co-worker's soccer team. I've been to a few of their games and hang out at the bar down the street from where they play but was too much of a pussy to make a move or ask for her number. Monday I was browsing Tinder (iOS app for meeting random people) and she was on there. Started talking a bit about how it was awkward how we've hung out several times but an iPhone app was how we let each other know we liked each other. So after a bit of texting on the app I got her number and took her out to lunch yesterday. She's really hot, fit body from soccer, and has this adorable quirky personality. Don't want to jump ahead of myself but I think she may be a keeper. Going to their game again tonight might try to sneak in a good night kiss.
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Ok I'll bite and post something too.
Started seeing a girl I work with (she just started less than a month ago) she is super cute, very bubbly and positive, great sense of humor (seems to love "your mom" jokes), smart, stays active, and best of all she seems to be pretty into me. We flirted a fair bit her first few weeks of work, and finally asked her out last week. Though tbh she was the one to suggest doing something I just pushed things forward from there. Went out to a late lunch last week and have plans to hit up a bar this friday. We get along great, have similar interests and have been chatting a lot outside of work now.
The only downside is that she recently got out of a fairly serious relationship (she was living with her ex) and he was the one to end things. She says they are over, but are still friends even though he broke up with her and kicked her out. So, I'm being cautiously optimistic about the whole thing but am having fun so far.
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On August 08 2013 13:09 Tictock wrote: Ok I'll bite and post something too.
Started seeing a girl I work with (she just started less than a month ago) she is super cute, very bubbly and positive, great sense of humor (seems to love "your mom" jokes), smart, stays active, and best of all she seems to be pretty into me. We flirted a fair bit her first few weeks of work, and finally asked her out last week. Though tbh she was the one to suggest doing something I just pushed things forward from there. Went out to a late lunch last week and have plans to hit up a bar this friday. We get along great, have similar interests and have been chatting a lot outside of work now.
The only downside is that she recently got out of a fairly serious relationship (she was living with her ex) and he was the one to end things. She says they are over, but are still friends even though he broke up with her and kicked her out. So, I'm being cautiously optimistic about the whole thing but am having fun so far.
Smart move, be very cautious about rebounds in general especially if they are still friends with their ex.
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On August 08 2013 04:54 docvoc wrote: this thread has been dead for the past couple days T.T, where are all the relationship issues that I so crave.
Yeah, i am sry, i had a date that turned into a really entertaining story to tell right here, but she asked not to tell anybody about it, so, i won't! It was hilarious though.
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On August 08 2013 17:31 Broetchenholer wrote:Show nested quote +On August 08 2013 04:54 docvoc wrote: this thread has been dead for the past couple days T.T, where are all the relationship issues that I so crave. Yeah, i am sry, i had a date that turned into a really entertaining story to tell right here, but she asked not to tell anybody about it, so, i won't! It was hilarious though.
ey, wer gackert muss auch legen!
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First off, my frustration with many gay/bi guys is making me more and more straight by the day. Maybe it could be society as a whole, but dear God, so many guys I have met are so shallow! All they want to do is consumerism, MTV, entertainment, and meaningless conversation.
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On August 08 2013 18:01 Shiragaku wrote: First off, my frustration with many gay/bi guys is making me more and more straight by the day. Maybe it could be society as a whole, but dear God, so many guys I have met are so shallow! All they want to do is consumerism, MTV, entertainment, and meaningless conversation.
And women amazingly aren't any of these things? I find this difficult to believe. You're obviously attracting the wrong guys...
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On August 08 2013 18:20 marvellosity wrote:Show nested quote +On August 08 2013 18:01 Shiragaku wrote: First off, my frustration with many gay/bi guys is making me more and more straight by the day. Maybe it could be society as a whole, but dear God, so many guys I have met are so shallow! All they want to do is consumerism, MTV, entertainment, and meaningless conversation. And women amazingly aren't any of these things? I find this difficult to believe. You're obviously attracting the wrong guys... Pretty much this. I just need someplace to express my frustration in the most infantile way possible right now man.
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Fair enough. Just felt the need to stand up for my 'kind' a little
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On August 08 2013 18:01 Shiragaku wrote: First off, my frustration with many gay/bi guys is making me more and more straight by the day. Maybe it could be society as a whole, but dear God, so many guys I have met are so shallow! All they want to do is consumerism, MTV, entertainment, and meaningless conversation. Stop frequenting gay bars. Problem solved!
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On August 08 2013 13:09 Tictock wrote: Ok I'll bite and post something too.
Started seeing a girl I work with (she just started less than a month ago) she is super cute, very bubbly and positive, great sense of humor (seems to love "your mom" jokes), smart, stays active, and best of all she seems to be pretty into me. We flirted a fair bit her first few weeks of work, and finally asked her out last week. Though tbh she was the one to suggest doing something I just pushed things forward from there. Went out to a late lunch last week and have plans to hit up a bar this friday. We get along great, have similar interests and have been chatting a lot outside of work now.
The only downside is that she recently got out of a fairly serious relationship (she was living with her ex) and he was the one to end things. She says they are over, but are still friends even though he broke up with her and kicked her out. So, I'm being cautiously optimistic about the whole thing but am having fun so far. define recently
being friends with an ex isnt an issue if it is just that. but if they were living together as recently as two of three months ago, it is more like 'friends' and that should be a big red flag if you want anything serious out of it. if youre not looking for anything serious, then disregard and do whatever
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