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On February 11 2005 21:54 BroOd wrote:Show nested quote +On February 11 2005 21:52 Refrain[FriZ] wrote:On February 11 2005 21:50 Cambium wrote:
If you are really "crazy" for her, just tell her straight up "I love you" etc. etc.
You are only 16, so you'll probably meet plenty of other girls that you'll like in the future, so no worries, really.
High school relationships don't usually work out anyways, so if you only want to start a relationship to see what it is like, then by all means, start one. If you really love her, as in wanting to marry her or w/e (which is HIGHLY unlikely), then think twice before doing anything. hey Cambian, thanks for great post i agree with everything you said. you really think that is the best way? I was thinking about it and I hope it wasn't my brain spewing out illogical nonsense, so naturally i reached out to my lifeline, TeamLiquid for life-changing advice. I would disagree strongly with the straight up I-love-you's. That's a bit too forward for most girls.
Well, that's under the conditions that he is crazy for her and she is on the verge of falling for his friend =/
You can talk to you friend (like many people suggested), but that may cause you to lose a good friend, so.. it's really dilemma. You've got to weigh those two relationships and see which one is more important to you.
This is all pretty obvious stuff, it's really up to you.
Ask the girl out to lunch or a movie or something if you want to "make a move".
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On February 11 2005 21:58 Ghin wrote:
If you just go up to her and say I LOVE YOU, that will be a little bit weird. Think of what you would do if some random girl walked up to you and said that. Then multiply that awkwardness by ten and you will have a good idea of how it would feel.
I would say "bingo"
=P
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On February 11 2005 21:59 Cambium wrote:Show nested quote +On February 11 2005 21:58 Ghin wrote:
If you just go up to her and say I LOVE YOU, that will be a little bit weird. Think of what you would do if some random girl walked up to you and said that. Then multiply that awkwardness by ten and you will have a good idea of how it would feel. I would say "bingo" =P
or "jackpot"
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On February 11 2005 21:57 BroOd wrote:Well, for a customized answer, I'd need a little more info on your past interaction. Have you hung out? If so, how much? What's the nature of your current relationship?
Hung out quite a bit (a lot more recently); not that much, I try to spend as much time as I can with her you know, and being as nice as possible to her, sometimes going places (however not alone, with other friends so the interference factor, you probably know how it is) and playing games together; she seems quite comfortable with me as I seem to be able to make her laugh often, but she never expressed interest in a relationship of course, or at least no strong signs (but i've always thought that boys go after girls, not the other way around). We're not great friends, but i'm maybe on the outer circle of her friends (she of course has an inner core of girl-friends).
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On February 11 2005 21:53 Refrain[FriZ] wrote:Show nested quote +On February 11 2005 21:51 ReBanned wrote:On February 11 2005 21:50 Refrain[FriZ] wrote:On February 11 2005 21:50 insaneknights wrote:
Be careful in your course of action cause you may lose a friend. no shit. i totally agree. can you suggest one? Tell you friend to back the fuck off. the thing is, I never let anyone know about me liking this girl, so it might seem to him that I'm trying to steal her from him if i suddenly go "yeah man sorry but i've been crazy about her all this time"
Well if he had just started to express intrest, theres a chance he was just trying to get into her pants for that night.
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On February 11 2005 21:58 Ghin wrote:
If you just go up to her and say I LOVE YOU, that will be a little bit weird. Think of what you would do if some random girl walked up to you and said that. Then multiply that awkwardness by ten and you will have a good idea of how it would feel.
yes, i totally agree with this, but what other way is there given these circumstances?
I feel like I have to do something right now. Like. Right Now.
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On February 11 2005 22:01 ReBanned wrote:
Well if he had just started to express intrest, theres a chance he was just trying to get into her pants for that night.
perhaps he was like me? always having this interest but just never letting anyone know about it?
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Do it pussy. What have you got to lose? A no? It's better than not knowning at all.
And go into stalk mode, get her number and call now, RIGHT NOW!
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On February 11 2005 21:45 Refrain[FriZ] wrote:I'm planning to tell her AS SOON AS POSSIBLE (like, monday) that I'm crazy for her and ask her straight up if she has any interest in him or me.
This will fail. Almost 100% guarenteed.
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No lies this may sound odd, but it works. At least it will with girls you are already freindly with. Tell her nice ass and slap her on it. if she giggels and shit your in there, ask her to that dance. If not she aint into you. Sounds juvenile, but fuck if it dont work.
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On February 11 2005 22:07 tlstmddn wrote:Show nested quote +On February 11 2005 21:45 Refrain[FriZ] wrote:I'm planning to tell her AS SOON AS POSSIBLE (like, monday) that I'm crazy for her and ask her straight up if she has any interest in him or me. This will fail. Almost 100% guarenteed.
okay. can you suggest an alternative?
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On February 11 2005 22:07 tlstmddn wrote:Show nested quote +On February 11 2005 21:45 Refrain[FriZ] wrote:I'm planning to tell her AS SOON AS POSSIBLE (like, monday) that I'm crazy for her and ask her straight up if she has any interest in him or me. This will fail. Almost 100% guarenteed.
How the fuck will that fail? He could just say, "Listen, at the dance I wanted to ask you, but im so shy that I can't." Or "I'm a very shy person, and I like you so much that I am doing this."
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On February 11 2005 22:00 Refrain[FriZ] wrote:Show nested quote +On February 11 2005 21:57 BroOd wrote:Well, for a customized answer, I'd need a little more info on your past interaction. Have you hung out? If so, how much? What's the nature of your current relationship? Hung out quite a bit (a lot more recently); not that much, I try to spend as much time as I can with her you know, and being as nice as possible to her, sometimes going places (however not alone, with other friends so the interference factor, you probably know how it is) and playing games together; she seems quite comfortable with me as I seem to be able to make her laugh often, but she never expressed interest in a relationship of course, or at least no strong signs (but i've always thought that boys go after girls, not the other way around). We're not great friends, but i'm maybe on the outer circle of her friends (she of course has an inner core of girl-friends).
Ok, I think I know where you're at. The fact that you can make her laugh is a huge plus. Being funny is great when you want to ask someone out. Not only are you displaying one of your positive qualitites while doing it, you can play it off slightly if things don't go as well as planned. Anyways, yes, boys do go after girls. If she hasn't displayed any strong signs of attraction, or flirted much, you should start small. You could do something like: ask her to the mall to help you shop for something. Tell her you need a girl's advice for your purchasing. When you're there, you could buy her something small, like a necklace from one of those cheap machines, or something from a novelty store. The goofier/funnier the better. Nothing expensive though. Pay for food if you eat. At the end, tell her you had a great time and would like to take her to a movie. If you've played your cards right during the day, she'll have a hard time saying no. This isn't the only way to do it, just a really easy one. If, for some reason, you don't think this will work, tell me and I'll suggest something else.
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On February 11 2005 22:09 FlavOrs wrote:Show nested quote +On February 11 2005 22:07 tlstmddn wrote:On February 11 2005 21:45 Refrain[FriZ] wrote:I'm planning to tell her AS SOON AS POSSIBLE (like, monday) that I'm crazy for her and ask her straight up if she has any interest in him or me. This will fail. Almost 100% guarenteed. How the fuck will that fail? He could just say, "Listen, at the dance I wanted to ask you, but im so shy that I can't." Or "I'm a very shy person, and I like you so much that I am doing this."
Letting her know you wanted to dance would be good, but don't overtly mention your shyness. Some girls will think it's "kinda cute", but none will really see it as a positive quality.
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You look at things the totally wrong way. Every girl is just dying to have a chance with me. I am the best thing that could happen to any girl.
And yeah, don't just go up to her and spill out all these feelings, you'll come across as to needy. Girls like a challenge
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if you're havin girl problems i feel bad for you son
i've got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one
HIT ME
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On February 11 2005 22:12 dork_of_death!! wrote:
if you're havin girl problems i feel bad for you son
i've got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one
HIT ME
WOW, that fucking helped him out A LOT
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Is this girl extroverted or introverted?
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the way you describe how you act around her, i won't be surprised if she will think of you as just a friend
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