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On May 02 2012 03:08 Retgery wrote:
I hate women, I have never had a good relationship with female in my life. Every girl I have ever met has alwasys said they same thing "I hate you leave me alone." I can;t trust a girl, because I always think they have some kind ulterior motive, and just want to use me.
It could just as easily be a problem with your personality, though. You need to try to assess yourself thoroughly and decide whether it is really your fault, or the women you are talking to.
Some women(and some men) will always want to use other people, but you should keep in mind that the majority of people do not. Women are pretty similar to men in terms of personality. Think of them as you would a guy and you'll get along fine.
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On May 02 2012 03:10 Peterblue wrote:Show nested quote +On May 02 2012 02:11 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:On May 02 2012 00:16 HaXXspetten wrote:On May 01 2012 19:35 Sephy90 wrote:
I can't stop downloading Japanese porn and I masturbate several times every day and I might be addicting to masturbating. Problem being...? I can't stop breathing oxygen, drinking water, and eating food. I think I might be addicted. (Sephy90 you have nothing to be ashamed of.) Yes, there is nothing to be ashamed of but constant masturbation is unhealthy and not a good sign.
On that note, I also confess that I try to squeeze in one masturbation session every day so that when I have actual sex with my girlfriend I last much longer than normal. Nothing unhealthy about it though.
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I am not physically attracted to my fiancee. The only reason I'm still with her is that I'm in too deep now (we own a house together, I adore her family and they love me, we have pets and share finances, etc.). I'm actually ashamed to have her around with me in public, because I feel people judging me based on how I think she looks. Don't get me wrong, I love her, and we are good friends, but I get the feeling like I got too comfortable with a girl I'd normally pass on against my normal standards of beauty. But my ego is too big to let me be comfortable with someone who is probably a 4/10 in the looks department. I honestly don't even want to have sex anymore.
Feels good to get it out there.
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On May 02 2012 03:21 Rob28 wrote:
I am not physically attracted to my fiancee. The only reason I'm still with her is that I'm in too deep now (we own a house together, I adore her family and they love me, we have pets and share finances, etc.). I'm actually ashamed to have her around with me in public, because I feel people judging me based on how I think she looks. Don't get me wrong, I love her, and we are good friends, but I get the feeling like I got too comfortable with a girl I'd normally pass on against my normal standards of beauty. But my ego is too big to let me be comfortable with someone who is probably a 4/10 in the looks department. I honestly don't even want to have sex anymore.
Feels good to get it out there.
That just sucks man...how did you come into the relationship to begin with?
I had a huge drug problem for the last 5 years and I've been clean for a few months now. I'm finding it hard to stay on the right path, more specifically, I'm having a problem replacing my old habits. It seems that I have no purpose or passion = /
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On August 14 2011 07:54 Kevan wrote:
I turned down a threesome. With two girls. Why? I don't even know.
This. Two girls came over to me, and asked me if I wanted to be part of a threesome. They were "together" but wanted something to spice it up, and I looked like a nice guy, so they asked me. I told them, that since they really liked each other, their "spice" should be able to come from themselves, "that would be enough". When i walked away I realised they we're incredibly hot and that I just blew a massive chance.
T.T
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On May 02 2012 03:11 Peterblue wrote:Show nested quote +On May 02 2012 03:06 thane wrote:
My ex and I broke up in Novmber after almost 5 years together and I still think about her every single day. I hate myself for it very badly. Have you gone out with other girls, etc? Try reading some PU stuff and maybe it'll get you out of the rut?
Yes I actually dated a girl for a month or so but it was right after my ex left but things werent right. I just hate the idea that I think about her so much still.
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On May 02 2012 03:35 thane wrote:Show nested quote +On May 02 2012 03:11 Peterblue wrote:On May 02 2012 03:06 thane wrote:
My ex and I broke up in Novmber after almost 5 years together and I still think about her every single day. I hate myself for it very badly. Have you gone out with other girls, etc? Try reading some PU stuff and maybe it'll get you out of the rut? Yes I actually dated a girl for a month or so but it was right after my ex left but things werent right. I just hate the idea that I think about her so much still.
I guess there's no chance of reconciling either? Did she find someone else already?
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On May 02 2012 03:24 beachbeachy wrote:Show nested quote +On May 02 2012 03:21 Rob28 wrote:
I am not physically attracted to my fiancee. The only reason I'm still with her is that I'm in too deep now (we own a house together, I adore her family and they love me, we have pets and share finances, etc.). I'm actually ashamed to have her around with me in public, because I feel people judging me based on how I think she looks. Don't get me wrong, I love her, and we are good friends, but I get the feeling like I got too comfortable with a girl I'd normally pass on against my normal standards of beauty. But my ego is too big to let me be comfortable with someone who is probably a 4/10 in the looks department. I honestly don't even want to have sex anymore.
Feels good to get it out there. That just sucks man...how did you come into the relationship to begin with? I had a huge drug problem for the last 5 years and I've been clean for a few months now. I'm finding it hard to stay on the right path, more specifically, I'm having a problem replacing my old habits. It seems that I have no purpose or passion = /
Just gotta find that thing for you man. Try martial arts, its a great way to refine your self discipline. I have been doing Brazillian Jiu Jitsu for over a year and it has helped me alot with that.
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On May 02 2012 03:37 rhs408 wrote:Show nested quote +On May 02 2012 03:35 thane wrote:On May 02 2012 03:11 Peterblue wrote:On May 02 2012 03:06 thane wrote:
My ex and I broke up in Novmber after almost 5 years together and I still think about her every single day. I hate myself for it very badly. Have you gone out with other girls, etc? Try reading some PU stuff and maybe it'll get you out of the rut? Yes I actually dated a girl for a month or so but it was right after my ex left but things werent right. I just hate the idea that I think about her so much still. I guess there's no chance of reconciling either? Did she find someone else already?
I have not talked to her since about a week after she left. Is it wrong to miss her still? I do not know that I want to get back with her after having time apart to see what our relationship had become but I do miss her and thinking about her really makes me upset with myself.
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On May 02 2012 03:24 beachbeachy wrote:Show nested quote +On May 02 2012 03:21 Rob28 wrote:
I am not physically attracted to my fiancee. The only reason I'm still with her is that I'm in too deep now (we own a house together, I adore her family and they love me, we have pets and share finances, etc.). I'm actually ashamed to have her around with me in public, because I feel people judging me based on how I think she looks. Don't get me wrong, I love her, and we are good friends, but I get the feeling like I got too comfortable with a girl I'd normally pass on against my normal standards of beauty. But my ego is too big to let me be comfortable with someone who is probably a 4/10 in the looks department. I honestly don't even want to have sex anymore.
Feels good to get it out there. That just sucks man...how did you come into the relationship to begin with?
Drunk hookup at a bar. Just kinda stayed around after that. It's not too bad for me though. I had lots of sex with a whole bunch of really hot girls in the past... to the point where sex doesn't really register on my list of priorities anymore. I mean, I did everything: threesomes, foursomes, orgies, BD/SM, anal, swinger shit... even some much darker shit I won't get into here. So I kinda got all the sex stuff out of my system and I can be glad that my girl and I bond on a friendly, lovey level. But the looks thing always bugged me.
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On May 02 2012 03:21 Rob28 wrote:
I am not physically attracted to my fiancee. The only reason I'm still with her is that I'm in too deep now (we own a house together, I adore her family and they love me, we have pets and share finances, etc.). I'm actually ashamed to have her around with me in public, because I feel people judging me based on how I think she looks. Don't get me wrong, I love her, and we are good friends, but I get the feeling like I got too comfortable with a girl I'd normally pass on against my normal standards of beauty. But my ego is too big to let me be comfortable with someone who is probably a 4/10 in the looks department. I honestly don't even want to have sex anymore.
Feels good to get it out there.
You shouldn't have asked her to marry you. Could her looks be improved upon at all (i.e. by losing weight)? If she was a 6 or 7 out of 10, would there really be no issue at all?
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On May 02 2012 03:42 Rob28 wrote:Show nested quote +On May 02 2012 03:24 beachbeachy wrote:On May 02 2012 03:21 Rob28 wrote:
I am not physically attracted to my fiancee. The only reason I'm still with her is that I'm in too deep now (we own a house together, I adore her family and they love me, we have pets and share finances, etc.). I'm actually ashamed to have her around with me in public, because I feel people judging me based on how I think she looks. Don't get me wrong, I love her, and we are good friends, but I get the feeling like I got too comfortable with a girl I'd normally pass on against my normal standards of beauty. But my ego is too big to let me be comfortable with someone who is probably a 4/10 in the looks department. I honestly don't even want to have sex anymore.
Feels good to get it out there. That just sucks man...how did you come into the relationship to begin with? Drunk hookup at a bar. Just kinda stayed around after that. It's not too bad for me though. I had lots of sex with a whole bunch of really hot girls in the past... to the point where sex doesn't really register on my list of priorities anymore. I mean, I did everything: threesomes, foursomes, orgies, BD/SM, anal, swinger shit... even some much darker shit I won't get into here. So I kinda got all the sex stuff out of my system and I can be glad that my girl and I bond on a friendly, lovey level. But the looks thing always bugged me.
I cant really question her looks but is she really that bad or are you just used to her and everything else just looks like something new and exciting?
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I've been skating through my classes on my genius IQ for my whole life without doing any real work or studying. This semester I tried that in my calculus III class and I have a strong feeling I'm going to fail my final on Friday. The funny thing is that I've always known that I would learn the hard way eventually, and that was the only way I could ever change my terrible study habits.
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On May 02 2012 03:41 thane wrote:Show nested quote +On May 02 2012 03:37 rhs408 wrote:On May 02 2012 03:35 thane wrote:On May 02 2012 03:11 Peterblue wrote:On May 02 2012 03:06 thane wrote:
My ex and I broke up in Novmber after almost 5 years together and I still think about her every single day. I hate myself for it very badly. Have you gone out with other girls, etc? Try reading some PU stuff and maybe it'll get you out of the rut? Yes I actually dated a girl for a month or so but it was right after my ex left but things werent right. I just hate the idea that I think about her so much still. I guess there's no chance of reconciling either? Did she find someone else already? I have not talked to her since about a week after she left. Is it wrong to miss her still? I do not know that I want to get back with her after having time apart to see what our relationship had become but I do miss her and thinking about her really makes me upset with myself.
I see. I think you should give her a call and just casually ask how she's doing, see where the conversation goes. Maybe she'll say she's been seeing someone else and you'll at least get some closure, better yet maybe she'll say she's been thinking about you too? No harm in giving her a call, it's been frickin 6 months. If you don't reach out you'll probably still be in the same boat in another 6 months.
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On May 02 2012 03:42 Rob28 wrote:Show nested quote +On May 02 2012 03:24 beachbeachy wrote:On May 02 2012 03:21 Rob28 wrote:
I am not physically attracted to my fiancee. The only reason I'm still with her is that I'm in too deep now (we own a house together, I adore her family and they love me, we have pets and share finances, etc.). I'm actually ashamed to have her around with me in public, because I feel people judging me based on how I think she looks. Don't get me wrong, I love her, and we are good friends, but I get the feeling like I got too comfortable with a girl I'd normally pass on against my normal standards of beauty. But my ego is too big to let me be comfortable with someone who is probably a 4/10 in the looks department. I honestly don't even want to have sex anymore.
Feels good to get it out there. That just sucks man...how did you come into the relationship to begin with? Drunk hookup at a bar. Just kinda stayed around after that. It's not too bad for me though. I had lots of sex with a whole bunch of really hot girls in the past... to the point where sex doesn't really register on my list of priorities anymore. I mean, I did everything: threesomes, foursomes, orgies, BD/SM, anal, swinger shit... even some much darker shit I won't get into here. So I kinda got all the sex stuff out of my system and I can be glad that my girl and I bond on a friendly, lovey level. But the looks thing always bugged me.
Well, it sounds like you have the ideal marriage, to be honest. If you truly like her as a person, like you said, and have a deep friendship with her (can confide in her, can express anything that troubles you, etc), you're set. Not to mention everything else seems to be fine (good family relations, and I'd guess that you have a stable financial situation). This sort of bond lasts much longer than physical beauty, which is why a marriage based on this is superior. I suppose the two main problems are that you may not want to have children with her if she's really that unattractive (but there's always adoption), or worse, you may feel tempted to cheat on her (but if you really got all that out of your system, you should be fine).
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I met this girl again, we were friends in junior high school and I had a crush on her. After junior high we didnt keep in touch so i thought that she was not into me at all. well, nine years after we met randomly and boom, love. she was home for christmas' holiday and I found out that she was in the middle of an erasmus project and she was living in spain (august-june), so 5 more months to go. We tried to be together and it worked: we met each others every month or so and now I just moved here (with my parents calling me crazy) to spend this last two months together. we rented a house together and we live there..its quite a big decision after 4 months of being together!
Problem is that i'm scared to death she may leave again for more studies: in june we will return home together, then for sure we will remain in the same town until september 2013. then i'm really scared...what about if she decides to study abroad other 6 months? i fear that all we've built and we are building will fall upon us if she leaves  also if i get a real job i would not be able to follow her (
its stupid to worry about what will happen in september 2013, i know...but we love each other so much. I want to believe that Love will win everything and we will not separate again, no matter what 
p.s. this thread is miracolous...i feel so much better after having explained my situation
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On May 02 2012 03:55 SoSexy wrote:I met this girl again, we were friends in junior high school and I had a crush on her. After junior high we didnt keep in touch so i thought that she was not into me at all. well, nine years after we met randomly and boom, love. she was home for christmas' holiday and I found out that she was in the middle of an erasmus project and she was living in spain (august-june), so 5 more months to go. We tried to be together and it worked: we met each others every month or so and now I just moved here (with my parents calling me crazy) to spend this last two months together. we rented a house together and we live there..its quite a big decision after 4 months of being together! Problem is that i'm scared to death she may leave again for more studies: in june we will return home together, then for sure we will remain in the same town until september 2013. then i'm really scared...what about if she decides to study abroad other 6 months? i fear that all we've built and we are building will fall upon us if she leaves also if i get a real job i would not be able to follow her ( its stupid to worry about what will happen in september 2013, i know...but we love each other so much. I want to believe that Love will win everything and we will not separate again, no matter what p.s. this thread is miracolous...i feel so much better after having explained my situation
Communicate with your girlfriend. Tell her what you said here and see what she has to say about it.
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On May 02 2012 03:45 rhs408 wrote:Show nested quote +On May 02 2012 03:21 Rob28 wrote:
I am not physically attracted to my fiancee. The only reason I'm still with her is that I'm in too deep now (we own a house together, I adore her family and they love me, we have pets and share finances, etc.). I'm actually ashamed to have her around with me in public, because I feel people judging me based on how I think she looks. Don't get me wrong, I love her, and we are good friends, but I get the feeling like I got too comfortable with a girl I'd normally pass on against my normal standards of beauty. But my ego is too big to let me be comfortable with someone who is probably a 4/10 in the looks department. I honestly don't even want to have sex anymore.
Feels good to get it out there. You shouldn't have asked her to marry you. Could her looks be improved upon at all (i.e. by losing weight)? If she was a 6 or 7 out of 10, would there really be no issue at all?
Well, if I had to list some faults, some can be fixed, some can't. She's not some super hideous troll or anything, but she is probably about 30 lbs. over an ideal weight, her complexion is always bad, her hair never looks good to me (maybe to others, but not me) and she doesn't look good naked. I feel kinda awful for even pointing it out... I mean I still love this woman, I just feel embarassed about being with her.
The absolute worst part of it is that she thinks she is hot... and I'd point out that she isn't but it's just mean. I guess aside from the complexion, she'd at least have a pretty face, but still...
The guy earlier may have had a point about me being used to her too, and others seeming more appealing because of it, but I suspect that's not the whole story.
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On May 02 2012 03:51 MichaelDonovan wrote:
I've been skating through my classes on my genius IQ for my whole life without doing any real work or studying. This semester I tried that in my calculus III class and I have a strong feeling I'm going to fail my final on Friday. The funny thing is that I've always known that I would learn the hard way eventually, and that was the only way I could ever change my terrible study habits.
Story of my life. I failed to get the motivation to finish higher education because I was never used to doing any work at all.
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I'm madly in love with one of my teachers and, after telling her so, may be expelled.
Pretty smooth right guys?
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