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On December 19 2013 09:35 Livelovedie wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2013 09:22 Ghostcom wrote:On December 19 2013 07:09 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 07:01 ComaDose wrote:On December 19 2013 06:33 KwarK wrote: I think the gender expectations that society instills in men are at least as damaging as the ones that women get I would have to disagree with that based largely on the measures of self worth. Also, to me, feminism means anti-discrimination against women. which is a great way to reflect good goals that do not seek to "put women ahead" or some such shit people say. i found this picture on wikipedia its pretty nice. + Show Spoiler + Why on earth would I go to all the trouble of creating a masculism movement if all the intellectual groundwork has already been done for me by feminism and what I actually want to achieve is identical to the goals of feminism. Feminism wants gender equality, that already means equality for men too. Feminism is a movement fighting for right for women on the basis of the thought of gender equality. That is a one-sided approach which does not (necessarily) sum up to equality for men too. If you want true gender equality you need a balanced approach, fighting for the rights of both (or much better - neither) gender. How do you figure that its better to fight for neithers' rights than to fight for both?
Because one shouldn't fight for gender rights - one should fight for human rights (of which equal treatment is one). Semantics at best - terrible play of words at worst, but it is nearly 2 AM so I'll just show myself off to bed :p
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On December 19 2013 07:52 Nyxisto wrote:Show nested quote +Is it any wonder that so many high-achieving young women, despite all the happy talk about their academic success, find themselves in the early stages of their careers in chronic uncertainty or anxiety about their prospects for an emotionally fulfilled private life? And that's the biggest pile of crap. Sorry, but every person on this planet is shit confused when they leave college and actually enter the real world.Please show me one young person that is not worried about their "prospects for their emotionally fulfilled private life? All i read out of Paglia's text are a bunch of stupid stereotypes. Men should behave like cave men, if they don't they're boys. Women should behave like cave women, if they don't they're either irritated raging lesbians or deeply insecure because women obviously aren't shaped for the complicated life that only rough men can endure. She's basically asking today's generation to fall back into old role models that were already out of date 30 years ago. I don't even know why she considers herself a feminist, even the average man is more progressive than she is.
What you are failing to see is that embedded in Paglia's comments are real differences in the way that culture treats men and women. Going back thousands of years, men have been treated by societies all over the world, since before the dawn of agriculture, as more expendable than women. Women are more essential to the propagation of the species, as the womb can only hold one growing fetus at a time for maybe a decade or two of peak child-birthing years, whereas a penis can impregnate, literally, thousands of wombs over the course of a lifetime. This is reflected in our genetic code, as today's population is descended from twice as many women as men. That means that the percentage of living women who reproduced is about twice as high as that of men, or in other words, 2 women have offspring for every 1 man who has offspring. This is true because men were the ones hunting dangerous animals, fighting dangerous wars, exploring new lands, and taking the serious risks, while cultural mores and traditions have shielded women and instilled in them a desire to protect the family. Men who took these risks had a serious chance of never coming back and therefore never reproducing, whereas the more conservative sex had greater chances to reproduce. And this led to overall better chances for society as a whole to survive, because wombs were seen as precious commodities, while men were expendable.
Perhaps an important illustration of this is the often-used phrase "even women and children" with fill in the blank: killed in the massacre, expelled from the city, living in squalor. Men's lives are consciously seen as inferior to women's and children's lives.
Now there is a tension in modern society where women are entering the workforce (mostly as a source of surplus labor for capitalism, but that's a tangent) and are now being encouraged to take risks. Many areas of endeavor practically require lives to be destroyed in order to blaze new paths. The failure rate of new businesses is high precisely because it is risky, and in the past men were the ones who mostly performed this function. A minority had great success and accumulated a lot of wealth. A majority wasted their careers and lives on failed endeavors. Research is a good example of this. Many graduate students throw away their lives going down dead ends, while a few (lucky) ones are very successful, win the Nobel Prize, go to industry and make gobs of money, etc.
The tension is that the culture, at least in the US, still values family and propagation of the species. Hence you get the princess ideology and women's enchantment with weddings, the wedding industrial complex, fairy tale endings, etc. The culture still teaches women to find Good Men who will take care of them and to raise a family, and essentially, be conservative, while at the same time telling them that they should go out and become entrepreneurs, which is just a fancy name for risk-taking. Paglia's point, perhaps not clear, is that the very expendability of men has allowed them to take the risks that built the society we live in. Women sense this too, and so you get Anne Marie Slaughter et al. talking about whether women "can have it all." They want the high-powered petit bourgeois career and the glamorous wedding and the happy family.
The reality of course is that women end up just filling out the office jobs and service sector positions, preferring the handcuffs of wage slavery to those of traditional marriage, where the man was the only bread-winner.
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On December 19 2013 09:41 Ghostcom wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2013 09:35 Livelovedie wrote:On December 19 2013 09:22 Ghostcom wrote:On December 19 2013 07:09 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 07:01 ComaDose wrote:On December 19 2013 06:33 KwarK wrote: I think the gender expectations that society instills in men are at least as damaging as the ones that women get I would have to disagree with that based largely on the measures of self worth. Also, to me, feminism means anti-discrimination against women. which is a great way to reflect good goals that do not seek to "put women ahead" or some such shit people say. i found this picture on wikipedia its pretty nice. + Show Spoiler + Why on earth would I go to all the trouble of creating a masculism movement if all the intellectual groundwork has already been done for me by feminism and what I actually want to achieve is identical to the goals of feminism. Feminism wants gender equality, that already means equality for men too. Feminism is a movement fighting for right for women on the basis of the thought of gender equality. That is a one-sided approach which does not (necessarily) sum up to equality for men too. If you want true gender equality you need a balanced approach, fighting for the rights of both (or much better - neither) gender. How do you figure that its better to fight for neithers' rights than to fight for both? Because one shouldn't fight for gender rights - one should fight for human rights (of which equal treatment is one). Semantics at best - terrible play of words at worst, but it is nearly 2 AM so I'll just show myself off to bed :p Gender equality, civil rights, LGBT rights, racial equality, and political rights all fit under human rights.
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Here is an example of some strong masculinists promoting gender equality. These brave MRAs are pushing back against Feminist overreach on college campuses by spamming Occidental's anonymous sexual assault report forms. http://gawker.com/college-mens-rights-trolls-spammed-us-with-400-fake-1486018818
Soon there will be no more false accusations of rape at Occidental, thanks to these bold, and decisive MRAs plugging up the system.
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On December 19 2013 09:49 IgnE wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2013 07:52 Nyxisto wrote:Is it any wonder that so many high-achieving young women, despite all the happy talk about their academic success, find themselves in the early stages of their careers in chronic uncertainty or anxiety about their prospects for an emotionally fulfilled private life? And that's the biggest pile of crap. Sorry, but every person on this planet is shit confused when they leave college and actually enter the real world.Please show me one young person that is not worried about their "prospects for their emotionally fulfilled private life? All i read out of Paglia's text are a bunch of stupid stereotypes. Men should behave like cave men, if they don't they're boys. Women should behave like cave women, if they don't they're either irritated raging lesbians or deeply insecure because women obviously aren't shaped for the complicated life that only rough men can endure. She's basically asking today's generation to fall back into old role models that were already out of date 30 years ago. I don't even know why she considers herself a feminist, even the average man is more progressive than she is. The tension is that the culture, at least in the US, still values family and propagation of the species. Hence you get the princess ideology and women's enchantment with weddings, the wedding industrial complex, fairy tale endings, etc. The culture still teaches women to find Good Men who will take care of them and to raise a family, and essentially, be conservative, while at the same time telling them that they should go out and become entrepreneurs, which is just a fancy name for risk-taking. Paglia's point, perhaps not clear, is that the very expendability of men has allowed them to take the risks that built the society we live in. Women sense this too, and so you get Anne Marie Slaughter et al. talking about whether women "can have it all." They want the high-powered petit bourgeois career and the glamorous wedding and the happy family. What? You must not live in the same US I do
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Where is the sarcasm face Jonny?
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On December 19 2013 10:11 IgnE wrote: Where is the sarcasm face Jonny? In stealth... waiting... to strike...
Anyways, an opening shot in the MA Governor race.
Charlie Baker, Republican gubernatorial candidate, says he wants to move homeless families out of motels in his first year as governor ... Baker laid out his plan for addressing homelessness as the state faces a spike in homelessness and a record number of residents being housed in hotels and motels on an emergency basis. Baker worked on the issue of homelessness when he was secretary of Health and Human Services under former Republican Govs. Paul Cellucci and William Weld. His plan focuses on creating individualized plans for homeless families and relying on regional organizations. While he would not commit to putting more money toward homeless prevention, he said the state could reallocate existing resources in a way that is more effective.
"Most people don’t dispute the fact that a hotel/motel is the most expensive option of all," Baker said.
Baker proposed creating assessment teams that would talk to each family currently housed in a motel and developing a plan for each family, which would address short-term needs and a long-term plan for entering stable housing. He would expand funding for the state's HomeBASE program, which provides financial assistance to pay rent, utility bills or security deposits for those otherwise eligible for a shelter. Baker said the program provides money to families who host relatives in their homes, and could be used to encourage homeless families to stay with relatives rather than in a shelter.
Baker would also rely on and increase state cooperation with local and regional organizations, and wants to give local organizations more flexibility in tailoring services to meet the needs of their community. In the long term, he said the state should establish criteria for measuring the effectiveness of programs in putting people into long-term housing, and should expand and fund the programs that are most effective. He wants the state to intervene before families become homeless, and to reform regulations to allow families to double up or have relatives stay with them in public housing, as long as there are no health or safety risks.
"We have a one size fits all system," Baker said. "Circumstances and situations families find themselves in vary tremendously. We need a more flexible approach." ... Baker is facing businessman Mark Fisher in the Republican primary in September 2014. Democratic candidates include Massachusetts Treasurer Steve Grossman, Massachusetts Attorney General Martha Coakley, homeland security expert Juliette Kayyem, former Medicare administrator Donald Berwick and doctor Joe Avellone. Health care executive Evan Falchuk and anti-gay pastor Scott Lively are running as independents, and venture capitalist Jeffrey McCormick is considering an independent run. Link
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On December 19 2013 09:22 Ghostcom wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2013 07:09 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 07:01 ComaDose wrote:On December 19 2013 06:33 KwarK wrote: I think the gender expectations that society instills in men are at least as damaging as the ones that women get I would have to disagree with that based largely on the measures of self worth. Also, to me, feminism means anti-discrimination against women. which is a great way to reflect good goals that do not seek to "put women ahead" or some such shit people say. i found this picture on wikipedia its pretty nice. + Show Spoiler + Why on earth would I go to all the trouble of creating a masculism movement if all the intellectual groundwork has already been done for me by feminism and what I actually want to achieve is identical to the goals of feminism. Feminism wants gender equality, that already means equality for men too. Feminism is a movement fighting for right for women on the basis of the thought of gender equality. That is a one-sided approach which does not (necessarily) sum up to equality for men too. If you want true gender equality you need a balanced approach, fighting for the rights of both (or much better - neither) gender. EDIT: I missed a post of yours higher up where you actually partly commented on this - it seems we use different definitions of feminist. I will however still argue that the understanding of gender issues is resting on a flawed foundation when your basis of understanding of such issues rest entirely upon the perception of one of the genders - which makes it doubly hilarious when people are calling egalitarians for misogynists. I don't draw my basis for understanding the issues from women, I have a dick, eyes, ears and understanding. It's just I don't dismiss the entire framework created for dealing with exactly this kind of issue just because it's not mine.
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On December 19 2013 10:19 JonnyBNoHo wrote:In stealth... waiting... to strike... Anyways, an opening shot in the MA Governor race. Show nested quote +Charlie Baker, Republican gubernatorial candidate, says he wants to move homeless families out of motels in his first year as governor ... Baker laid out his plan for addressing homelessness as the state faces a spike in homelessness and a record number of residents being housed in hotels and motels on an emergency basis. Baker worked on the issue of homelessness when he was secretary of Health and Human Services under former Republican Govs. Paul Cellucci and William Weld. His plan focuses on creating individualized plans for homeless families and relying on regional organizations. While he would not commit to putting more money toward homeless prevention, he said the state could reallocate existing resources in a way that is more effective.
"Most people don’t dispute the fact that a hotel/motel is the most expensive option of all," Baker said.
Baker proposed creating assessment teams that would talk to each family currently housed in a motel and developing a plan for each family, which would address short-term needs and a long-term plan for entering stable housing. He would expand funding for the state's HomeBASE program, which provides financial assistance to pay rent, utility bills or security deposits for those otherwise eligible for a shelter. Baker said the program provides money to families who host relatives in their homes, and could be used to encourage homeless families to stay with relatives rather than in a shelter.
Baker would also rely on and increase state cooperation with local and regional organizations, and wants to give local organizations more flexibility in tailoring services to meet the needs of their community. In the long term, he said the state should establish criteria for measuring the effectiveness of programs in putting people into long-term housing, and should expand and fund the programs that are most effective. He wants the state to intervene before families become homeless, and to reform regulations to allow families to double up or have relatives stay with them in public housing, as long as there are no health or safety risks.
"We have a one size fits all system," Baker said. "Circumstances and situations families find themselves in vary tremendously. We need a more flexible approach." ... Baker is facing businessman Mark Fisher in the Republican primary in September 2014. Democratic candidates include Massachusetts Treasurer Steve Grossman, Massachusetts Attorney General Martha Coakley, homeland security expert Juliette Kayyem, former Medicare administrator Donald Berwick and doctor Joe Avellone. Health care executive Evan Falchuk and anti-gay pastor Scott Lively are running as independents, and venture capitalist Jeffrey McCormick is considering an independent run. Link Somehow I don't see MA turning red anytime soon. They got any polls out on generic R vs generic D governor picks?
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On December 19 2013 10:47 Danglars wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2013 10:19 JonnyBNoHo wrote:On December 19 2013 10:11 IgnE wrote: Where is the sarcasm face Jonny? In stealth... waiting... to strike... Anyways, an opening shot in the MA Governor race. Charlie Baker, Republican gubernatorial candidate, says he wants to move homeless families out of motels in his first year as governor ... Baker laid out his plan for addressing homelessness as the state faces a spike in homelessness and a record number of residents being housed in hotels and motels on an emergency basis. Baker worked on the issue of homelessness when he was secretary of Health and Human Services under former Republican Govs. Paul Cellucci and William Weld. His plan focuses on creating individualized plans for homeless families and relying on regional organizations. While he would not commit to putting more money toward homeless prevention, he said the state could reallocate existing resources in a way that is more effective.
"Most people don’t dispute the fact that a hotel/motel is the most expensive option of all," Baker said.
Baker proposed creating assessment teams that would talk to each family currently housed in a motel and developing a plan for each family, which would address short-term needs and a long-term plan for entering stable housing. He would expand funding for the state's HomeBASE program, which provides financial assistance to pay rent, utility bills or security deposits for those otherwise eligible for a shelter. Baker said the program provides money to families who host relatives in their homes, and could be used to encourage homeless families to stay with relatives rather than in a shelter.
Baker would also rely on and increase state cooperation with local and regional organizations, and wants to give local organizations more flexibility in tailoring services to meet the needs of their community. In the long term, he said the state should establish criteria for measuring the effectiveness of programs in putting people into long-term housing, and should expand and fund the programs that are most effective. He wants the state to intervene before families become homeless, and to reform regulations to allow families to double up or have relatives stay with them in public housing, as long as there are no health or safety risks.
"We have a one size fits all system," Baker said. "Circumstances and situations families find themselves in vary tremendously. We need a more flexible approach." ... Baker is facing businessman Mark Fisher in the Republican primary in September 2014. Democratic candidates include Massachusetts Treasurer Steve Grossman, Massachusetts Attorney General Martha Coakley, homeland security expert Juliette Kayyem, former Medicare administrator Donald Berwick and doctor Joe Avellone. Health care executive Evan Falchuk and anti-gay pastor Scott Lively are running as independents, and venture capitalist Jeffrey McCormick is considering an independent run. Link Somehow I don't see MA turning red anytime soon. They got any polls out on generic R vs generic D governor picks? The state is firmly blue, but Republican governors are common as they help balance out the legislature. MA had a Republican governor from '91 to '07. Patrick's second term seems to be losing steam, and he isn't running again, so there could be a switch back next election. Don't know of any polling yet.
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On December 19 2013 06:33 KwarK wrote: As far as I'm concerned feminism is a movement that seeks to address gender inequality that arose from the direct experience of inequality by women but now uses that awareness and critique to address gender issues beyond those specifically disadvantaging women. As a feminist I would, for example, oppose a man only draft. I oppose the legal presumption that men are unfit parents. I think the gender expectations that society instills in men are at least as damaging as the ones that women get and I think male stereotypes and prejudices do exist. Just because I'm a man doesn't mean I can't identify that there is already an intellectual movement devoted to dealing with exactly this kind of shit which I can draw upon.
There was a divide within feminism between those espousing genuine equality and those wanting things to be better for middle class white women. The most recent wave challenges the issues with the narrowness of focus of the previous waves along with their hypocrisy. You state that I don't know much about feminism and then you start a post with "as far as I'm concerned", showing that deep down even you know that feminism today is a galaxy with people having completly different thought on critical subjects.
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On December 19 2013 10:19 KwarK wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2013 09:22 Ghostcom wrote:On December 19 2013 07:09 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 07:01 ComaDose wrote:On December 19 2013 06:33 KwarK wrote: I think the gender expectations that society instills in men are at least as damaging as the ones that women get I would have to disagree with that based largely on the measures of self worth. Also, to me, feminism means anti-discrimination against women. which is a great way to reflect good goals that do not seek to "put women ahead" or some such shit people say. i found this picture on wikipedia its pretty nice. + Show Spoiler + Why on earth would I go to all the trouble of creating a masculism movement if all the intellectual groundwork has already been done for me by feminism and what I actually want to achieve is identical to the goals of feminism. Feminism wants gender equality, that already means equality for men too. Feminism is a movement fighting for right for women on the basis of the thought of gender equality. That is a one-sided approach which does not (necessarily) sum up to equality for men too. If you want true gender equality you need a balanced approach, fighting for the rights of both (or much better - neither) gender. EDIT: I missed a post of yours higher up where you actually partly commented on this - it seems we use different definitions of feminist. I will however still argue that the understanding of gender issues is resting on a flawed foundation when your basis of understanding of such issues rest entirely upon the perception of one of the genders - which makes it doubly hilarious when people are calling egalitarians for misogynists. I don't draw my basis for understanding the issues from women, I have a dick, eyes, ears and understanding. It's just I don't dismiss the entire framework created for dealing with exactly this kind of issue just because it's not mine.
Your perspective isn't going to magically change just because you have a penis - your perspective is going to be coloured by your approach to the issue. Feminism is (originally) an approach to gender inequality which is based upon how one gender (women) are being wronged, and not how both genders are being wronged. It is like conducting a randomised clinical trial including only women and then extrapolating the results to men.
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On December 19 2013 19:23 Ghostcom wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2013 10:19 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 09:22 Ghostcom wrote:On December 19 2013 07:09 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 07:01 ComaDose wrote:On December 19 2013 06:33 KwarK wrote: I think the gender expectations that society instills in men are at least as damaging as the ones that women get I would have to disagree with that based largely on the measures of self worth. Also, to me, feminism means anti-discrimination against women. which is a great way to reflect good goals that do not seek to "put women ahead" or some such shit people say. i found this picture on wikipedia its pretty nice. + Show Spoiler + Why on earth would I go to all the trouble of creating a masculism movement if all the intellectual groundwork has already been done for me by feminism and what I actually want to achieve is identical to the goals of feminism. Feminism wants gender equality, that already means equality for men too. Feminism is a movement fighting for right for women on the basis of the thought of gender equality. That is a one-sided approach which does not (necessarily) sum up to equality for men too. If you want true gender equality you need a balanced approach, fighting for the rights of both (or much better - neither) gender. EDIT: I missed a post of yours higher up where you actually partly commented on this - it seems we use different definitions of feminist. I will however still argue that the understanding of gender issues is resting on a flawed foundation when your basis of understanding of such issues rest entirely upon the perception of one of the genders - which makes it doubly hilarious when people are calling egalitarians for misogynists. I don't draw my basis for understanding the issues from women, I have a dick, eyes, ears and understanding. It's just I don't dismiss the entire framework created for dealing with exactly this kind of issue just because it's not mine. Your perspective isn't going to magically change just because you have a penis - your perspective is going to be coloured by your approach to the issue. Feminism is (originally) an approach to gender inequality which is based upon how one gender (women) are being wronged, and not how both genders are being wronged. It is like conducting a randomised clinical trial including only women and then extrapolating the results to men. Feminism was originally an approach to suffrage, most notably having the right to vote. I think it is fair to say that women have been wronged much more so than men in that regard.
And modern feminism talks about men's issues quite a bit. The most notable theorists include Robert Jensen, Jackson Katz, Michael Kimmel and Byron Hurt.
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On December 19 2013 19:32 Shiragaku wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2013 19:23 Ghostcom wrote:On December 19 2013 10:19 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 09:22 Ghostcom wrote:On December 19 2013 07:09 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 07:01 ComaDose wrote:On December 19 2013 06:33 KwarK wrote: I think the gender expectations that society instills in men are at least as damaging as the ones that women get I would have to disagree with that based largely on the measures of self worth. Also, to me, feminism means anti-discrimination against women. which is a great way to reflect good goals that do not seek to "put women ahead" or some such shit people say. i found this picture on wikipedia its pretty nice. + Show Spoiler + Why on earth would I go to all the trouble of creating a masculism movement if all the intellectual groundwork has already been done for me by feminism and what I actually want to achieve is identical to the goals of feminism. Feminism wants gender equality, that already means equality for men too. Feminism is a movement fighting for right for women on the basis of the thought of gender equality. That is a one-sided approach which does not (necessarily) sum up to equality for men too. If you want true gender equality you need a balanced approach, fighting for the rights of both (or much better - neither) gender. EDIT: I missed a post of yours higher up where you actually partly commented on this - it seems we use different definitions of feminist. I will however still argue that the understanding of gender issues is resting on a flawed foundation when your basis of understanding of such issues rest entirely upon the perception of one of the genders - which makes it doubly hilarious when people are calling egalitarians for misogynists. I don't draw my basis for understanding the issues from women, I have a dick, eyes, ears and understanding. It's just I don't dismiss the entire framework created for dealing with exactly this kind of issue just because it's not mine. Your perspective isn't going to magically change just because you have a penis - your perspective is going to be coloured by your approach to the issue. Feminism is (originally) an approach to gender inequality which is based upon how one gender (women) are being wronged, and not how both genders are being wronged. It is like conducting a randomised clinical trial including only women and then extrapolating the results to men. Feminism was originally an approach to suffrage, most notably having the right to vote. I think it is fair to say that women have been wronged much more so than men in that regard. And modern feminism talks about men's issues quite a bit. The most notable theorists include Robert Jensen, Jackson Katz, Michael Kimmel and Byron Hurt.
Pretty sure I haven't made a single comment about who has suffered the most - that is a to me completely uninteresting and irrelevant point when debating how to achieve a true equal society. The whole white man's burden thing is getting really tiresome and it is limiting progress.
Unless modern feminism has also changed its approach to gender equality issues (at which point is is hardly feminism anymore which is really the crux of my argument and why I find it so hilarious that some feminists are so busy shaming egalitarianism) it doesn't really matter that they also talk about men's issues.
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On December 19 2013 19:23 Ghostcom wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2013 10:19 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 09:22 Ghostcom wrote:On December 19 2013 07:09 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 07:01 ComaDose wrote:On December 19 2013 06:33 KwarK wrote: I think the gender expectations that society instills in men are at least as damaging as the ones that women get I would have to disagree with that based largely on the measures of self worth. Also, to me, feminism means anti-discrimination against women. which is a great way to reflect good goals that do not seek to "put women ahead" or some such shit people say. i found this picture on wikipedia its pretty nice. + Show Spoiler + Why on earth would I go to all the trouble of creating a masculism movement if all the intellectual groundwork has already been done for me by feminism and what I actually want to achieve is identical to the goals of feminism. Feminism wants gender equality, that already means equality for men too. Feminism is a movement fighting for right for women on the basis of the thought of gender equality. That is a one-sided approach which does not (necessarily) sum up to equality for men too. If you want true gender equality you need a balanced approach, fighting for the rights of both (or much better - neither) gender. EDIT: I missed a post of yours higher up where you actually partly commented on this - it seems we use different definitions of feminist. I will however still argue that the understanding of gender issues is resting on a flawed foundation when your basis of understanding of such issues rest entirely upon the perception of one of the genders - which makes it doubly hilarious when people are calling egalitarians for misogynists. I don't draw my basis for understanding the issues from women, I have a dick, eyes, ears and understanding. It's just I don't dismiss the entire framework created for dealing with exactly this kind of issue just because it's not mine. Feminism is (originally) an approach to gender inequality which is based upon how one gender (women) are being wronged, and not how both genders are being wronged.
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On December 19 2013 20:10 Shiragaku wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2013 19:23 Ghostcom wrote:On December 19 2013 10:19 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 09:22 Ghostcom wrote:On December 19 2013 07:09 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 07:01 ComaDose wrote:On December 19 2013 06:33 KwarK wrote: I think the gender expectations that society instills in men are at least as damaging as the ones that women get I would have to disagree with that based largely on the measures of self worth. Also, to me, feminism means anti-discrimination against women. which is a great way to reflect good goals that do not seek to "put women ahead" or some such shit people say. i found this picture on wikipedia its pretty nice. + Show Spoiler + Why on earth would I go to all the trouble of creating a masculism movement if all the intellectual groundwork has already been done for me by feminism and what I actually want to achieve is identical to the goals of feminism. Feminism wants gender equality, that already means equality for men too. Feminism is a movement fighting for right for women on the basis of the thought of gender equality. That is a one-sided approach which does not (necessarily) sum up to equality for men too. If you want true gender equality you need a balanced approach, fighting for the rights of both (or much better - neither) gender. EDIT: I missed a post of yours higher up where you actually partly commented on this - it seems we use different definitions of feminist. I will however still argue that the understanding of gender issues is resting on a flawed foundation when your basis of understanding of such issues rest entirely upon the perception of one of the genders - which makes it doubly hilarious when people are calling egalitarians for misogynists. I don't draw my basis for understanding the issues from women, I have a dick, eyes, ears and understanding. It's just I don't dismiss the entire framework created for dealing with exactly this kind of issue just because it's not mine. Feminism is (originally) an approach to gender inequality which is based upon how one gender (women) are being wronged, and not how both genders are being wronged.
Please explain how that says anything about who has been wronged the most? I think you are looking for a fight where there is none to be had.
EDIT: You do realise I would raise that same criticism of any other school of thought which approached a diverse issue from only one angle right?
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On December 19 2013 20:14 Ghostcom wrote:Show nested quote +On December 19 2013 20:10 Shiragaku wrote:On December 19 2013 19:23 Ghostcom wrote:On December 19 2013 10:19 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 09:22 Ghostcom wrote:On December 19 2013 07:09 KwarK wrote:On December 19 2013 07:01 ComaDose wrote:On December 19 2013 06:33 KwarK wrote: I think the gender expectations that society instills in men are at least as damaging as the ones that women get I would have to disagree with that based largely on the measures of self worth. Also, to me, feminism means anti-discrimination against women. which is a great way to reflect good goals that do not seek to "put women ahead" or some such shit people say. i found this picture on wikipedia its pretty nice. + Show Spoiler + Why on earth would I go to all the trouble of creating a masculism movement if all the intellectual groundwork has already been done for me by feminism and what I actually want to achieve is identical to the goals of feminism. Feminism wants gender equality, that already means equality for men too. Feminism is a movement fighting for right for women on the basis of the thought of gender equality. That is a one-sided approach which does not (necessarily) sum up to equality for men too. If you want true gender equality you need a balanced approach, fighting for the rights of both (or much better - neither) gender. EDIT: I missed a post of yours higher up where you actually partly commented on this - it seems we use different definitions of feminist. I will however still argue that the understanding of gender issues is resting on a flawed foundation when your basis of understanding of such issues rest entirely upon the perception of one of the genders - which makes it doubly hilarious when people are calling egalitarians for misogynists. I don't draw my basis for understanding the issues from women, I have a dick, eyes, ears and understanding. It's just I don't dismiss the entire framework created for dealing with exactly this kind of issue just because it's not mine. Feminism is (originally) an approach to gender inequality which is based upon how one gender (women) are being wronged, and not how both genders are being wronged. Please explain how that says anything about who has been wronged the most? I think you are looking for a fight where there is none to be had. I am not playing the game of Olympic Oppression. I am assuming that you believe that feminism as a whole is flawed because it only looks at one side and forgets the other. And you also state that feminism is biased since it focuses only on one issue. Maybe you are not looking that far back in time to the suffragist movement which means that there is a misunderstanding between us, but when it comes to issues like the right to vote, you cannot say that we need to look how both genders have been wronged when one sex has the right to vote and the other does not. It is like in anti-racism saying that we need to see how both the dominant group and the minority group have been wronged when the dominant group has the right to vote when one does not. Yes, both groups are wronged as made clear by people like Tim Wise, but much less so in the issue of suffrage where the issue is one-sided.
However, when talking about modern feminism which I am guessing you probably were, we often talk about men's issue and men's liberation and how men have been wronged by gender roles as well. For example, the expectation to be a "man", not to be a sissy, and not to be a faggot to give one simple anecdote.
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Who disapproves of Obamacare?
Americans who lack medical coverage disapprove of President Obama’s health care law at roughly the same rate as the insured, even though most say they struggle to pay for basic care, according to the latest New York Times/CBS News poll.
Fifty-three percent of the uninsured disapprove of the law, the poll found, compared with 51 percent of those who have health coverage. A third of the uninsured say the law will help them personally, but about the same number think it will hurt them, with cost a leading concern.
But with the law’s central provisions set to take effect in less than two weeks, uninsured Americans — precisely those it was meant to help — remain confused about it and fearful that it will increase their health care costs. And nearly six in 10 said they had not researched insurance on the online marketplace, even though, based on the demographics of the sample, many probably qualify for free or subsidized coverage.
The uninsured respondents were generally younger, poorer and less educated than the respondents in the general population. Three-quarters of the uninsured were between 18 and 44, and about one in eight had college degrees. Slightly more than half said they earned less than $30,000 a year.
The requirement to get coverage or pay a penalty remains unpopular among the general public, the poll found, with uninsured Americans voicing disapproval at a higher rate than the insured population. Seventy-seven percent of the uninsured said they disapproved of the mandate, compared with 65 percent of those who already have health insurance. Pretty interesting figures.
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Interesting? It's like "captain obvious writes about uneducated/uninformed people"...
Most people that didn't really imform themselves about Insurance and why it is good to have tend to fear/dislike it...
In other news: People that don't know about planes, tend to avoid/fear flying People that don't know how to swim, are more likely to avoid/fear the sea. . .
The last part is even better: People that most likely will have to pay a penalty, tend to dislike the penalty more than people that won't have to pay it...
Wow... And someone gets actually paid for this "research". Mindboggling...
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