EPTJust dump her and tell her it's not you it's her. That line works in my opinion
Should I break up with her? - Page 3
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JMC4
United States261 Posts
Just dump her and tell her it's not you it's her. That line works in my opinion | ||
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neSix
United States1772 Posts
I made the same mistake... or really, I saw the results were overwhelmingly no in the poll (so incorrectly assumed people were saying don't break up with here) and as I started to read I was like "WTF so many people said to stay with her!?" Anyway, every girl I've been with that has had a "good side" and a "bad side" eventually pissed me off to the point where she just isn't worth it. Save yourself the trouble and if things are starting to look sour, they probably aren't going to get better; cut her off early. Of course I say this knowing only what you posted in the op (precisely dick) so it's really on you to make your choice. My general advice sums up to basically "in my experience, bitches have never been worth it. there are plenty of nice girls out there that won't treat you like shit so tell this one to take a hike" this is like the least disorganized post on the planet, but i also want to add this: unless you're really good at standing up for yourself, it's not going to feel like you can easily do without her. but if she's really as mean as you say, then i can tell you that you definitely can. you'll get over here, there will be other fish in the sea (better fish), even though you don't see it right now. edit: + Show Spoiler [tldr] + just dump her. be a man and stand up for yourself. there are girls out there who are as nice or nicer than her and won't treat you like shit | ||
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neo_sporin
United States516 Posts
Some of it would depend on age, if you are still in highschool fuck yea drop her right away. No one (and by no one i mean figurative no one, not literal) finds their "one true love" in high school. Young love should be strictly happy go lucky. If you are a bit older i would say debateable, but if shes saying super hurtful things and doesn't at least fake remorse then you need to move on. 4 months isn't a long enough relationship to where I would feel terribly motivated to work through our problems. | ||
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epikmx
Canada10 Posts
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Tegin
United States840 Posts
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Gogleion
United States534 Posts
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
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Existential
Australia2107 Posts
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FFGenerations
7088 Posts
then spend some time at the gym so if you get back together she will like you more | ||
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GGitsJack
New Zealand426 Posts
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opsayo
591 Posts
pussy is pussy, dont let it cloud a decision you'd easily make if not for it | ||
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TheGiz
Canada708 Posts
You have had all these problems after FOUR MONTHS?? Dude, get the fuck out of that. I've endured every relationship problem you can think of and all I can say is that a four month relationship is not worth your time if it's already this sour. At least retain your dignity and break up with her, and tell her why - it's her fault and she's a bitch. At four months in you should be crashing her sister's friend's party and banging her silly in the bathroom, not breaking up twice and having her insult your penis. I mean this from the bottom of my heart that I'm trying to help you here. I know. | ||
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
Though, I will give you credit. You're sticking with a relationship even though it's difficult. This is an admirable trait and definitely needed to stick with the ups and downs of marriage (hopefully WAY down the line). However, let's put this in perspective: the relationship has been short, tumultuous, and to an extent, hurtful. Based on the information you've given us a breakup seems like your best move. But only you have all the information. If she's worth sticking with, do it! It will either turn into a great relationship or keep on the rocky road and blow up in your face - either way, you learn a valuable lesson for the future and some lessons are best learned by experience... | ||
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nayumi
Australia6499 Posts
solution: fuck her brain out and tell her to fuck off | ||
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LastWish
2015 Posts
You will forgive her everything because you think with your dick, while your balls should be telling you to treat her attitude with different approach. Dump it & move on... otherwise you'll end up with a broken heart and months of agony. | ||
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Chef
10810 Posts
To me the "I really care about her" but "she doesn't treat me well" (paraphrases) just make it sound like you like the idea of being in love, but you don't like her that much. | ||
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danmooj1
United States1855 Posts
On June 14 2011 00:59 LastWish wrote: You are weak, she knows it, she will exploit it. You will forgive her everything because you think with your dick, while your balls should be telling you to treat her attitude with different approach. Dump it & move on... otherwise you'll end up with a broken heart and months of agony. yeah dump her dude. if you don't she'll take advantage and manipulate you maybe she's already doing that you don't want to keep crawling back do you? dump the hoe! | ||
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BloodNinja
United States2791 Posts
On June 14 2011 01:25 Chef wrote: You have needs. If she doesn't fulfill those needs, either you are too needy or she is not the girl for you. To me the "I really care about her" but "she doesn't treat me well" (paraphrases) just make it sound like you like the idea of being in love, but you don't like her that much. I believe Chef has got it right here. From the few details it does sound you should cut your losses and move on. | ||
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SpoR
United States1542 Posts
On June 13 2011 22:24 TheGiz wrote: FOUR MONTHS???? You have had all these problems after FOUR MONTHS?? Dude, get the fuck out of that. I've endured every relationship problem you can think of and all I can say is that a four month relationship is not worth your time if it's already this sour. At least retain your dignity and break up with her, and tell her why - it's her fault and she's a bitch. At four months in you should be crashing her sister's friend's party and banging her silly in the bathroom, not breaking up twice and having her insult your penis. I mean this from the bottom of my heart that I'm trying to help you here. I know. Agree with this man. I came out of a 4 year relationship and that's pretty much how it started out. Then I rebounded with this other chick a few months ago and it was more like she was hot and cold and unsure of herself or me. We mutually broke up but I still boned her on my bday ahahhahaa | ||
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Lemonwalrus
United States5465 Posts
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