The PUA community - Page 78

On February 05 2012 21:08 squattincassanova wrote:


[...] I suck dick [...] in [...] my bedroom lol. [...] I'll gladly demo with ya on Saturdays.

On February 09 2012 03:31 IntoTheWow wrote:
Why do PUAs reffer it as "opening sets". Isnt' that just as an equivalent to "talking to girls"? What's the difference? It's only 3 more letters to write one phrase than another...

On February 09 2012 07:25 r.Evo wrote:


"PUA lingo" is as abstract as it is because on one hand it allows the new found pickupper to get emotionally detached from the subject (e.g. you are not sleeping with a girl - you're laying her. You are not talking to girls - you approach them etc. pp.) and on the other hand it actually is sometims usefull when you have to communicate something in-set and don't know how to / don't have the balls to convey that information otherwise. But, yeah, prolly 90% of it is the emotional detachment.

Personally I love ridiculing pickup lingo in sets, it's also one of my favorite tool to throw off some random "PUA" who takes a dump into my set.


-"Oh gawd, the light, take it down" / "What?" / "YOUR BITCHSHIELD. TAKE IT DOWN OR I HAVE TO USE PHAZERS. - Hey, you, you're Scotty now. Can you give me an analysis of her shield capacity? How long can she withstand my awesomeness? Okay, so you (girl 1) are Scotty, you are obviously the Borg (bitching gurl) so what does that leave us with... you can be either Data, Riker or erh... Worf. CAREFULL WHATEVER YOU CHOOSE WILL ENABLE ME TO ANALYZE THE DEPTHS OF YOUR SOUL!"

-"Oh, I see, you're the pickup artist here and are going to use evil AMOGERY to pull these lovely girls to the evil side of things. GUESS WHAT - IT'S NOT VERY EFFECTIVE. Also I'm the one who has cookies. And... "milk". - Wow not that milk, stop thinking so dirty. Real. I'm not a sexobject like that dude. I HAVE FEELINGS SIS YO."


Whenever a girl asks wtf I'm talking about I just explain the corresponding concept. "Why do you know that stuff?" - "Because I'm a shy and lonely guy who can't talk to girls. I need SPECIAL TACTICS to... well, to... -dirty smile, looking at her from top to bottom- - anyway, how do you like the weather?"



@beg: If you're from southern germany by any chance give me a shout. If you're from farther away I usually get around in Europe/germany during summer at some point.

On February 09 2012 07:28 Chill wrote:

Was this English?

On February 09 2012 07:30 Kojak21 wrote:



Nope. It was pick up lingo haha

On February 09 2012 07:38 squattincassanova wrote:
Usually when I am winging, I use very short sentences.

"im opening that set"
"whos ur target"
"lock in"
"im trying to isolate / help me iso"
"lets bounce them to Denny's"
"im pulling, good night!"


Nobody actually talks the way r.Evo described. You should know your wing well enough that saying a few words, he should know exactly what stage or phase you are in and what you are trying to do.

On February 09 2012 07:50 iNcontroL wrote:
this is what it's like when PUA's collide ! ! !

On February 09 2012 07:45 r.Evo wrote:


Why make shit so complicated?

"Let's get those girls."

(to girls: ) "Okay, I like you." (to wing: ) "You want that one, right? Okay, now I'll try to just talk to this one and you try to lure that one away from her, k?" - "What are you guys talking about?" - "We're here to pick you up, doh."

"WOW YOU LOOK LIKE A DOUCHECANNOE. STOP. - *grab wing, move him a few cm to where you want him* *poke girl into the direction you want her* - if she looks confused "I can't touch you, we don't even know each other, can you just... I'm incredibly OCD when it comes to these things, can you just move like half a meter over there? Ohmygawd, I love you. Thanks."

"Hey, I really like this girl here. Can you tell the others that awsome joke you know so I can snag her away, get on a plane with her and flee to Acapulco?"

"Oh, I know that AWESOME place where we can hang. (to wing: ) You remember Denny's?"

"I g2g, good night!"



Your sentences sound like a soldier on a mission, not like someone who's having fun going out and who met some cool girls in the process.

On February 09 2012 08:07 squattincassanova wrote:



I keep it dry for two reasons.

1. its short and to the point. Less stalling and more talking to the girls.
2. girls don't pick up on what we are talking about or what we are trying to do.

When I say: "I'm pulling", my wing knows exactly what I am doing. When I say "I gtg". Its less detailed. Am I going but coming back? Am I going down stairs? Am I leaving the venue?

Some times I'll tell my wing to "lock in" in the middle of a sentence. I certainly am not going to yell in front of the girls "Hey wing, change your body positioning into an optimal one, such that it looks like the girls are gaming you and that it increases the success of the set". The girl is going to be like wtf. If I just go to his ear and say "lock in", its much better.

On February 09 2012 07:50 iNcontroL wrote:
this is what it's like when PUA's collide ! ! !

On February 09 2012 09:17 Stenstyren wrote:
A friend of a friend is really into this and has gotten it to quite a high level (such that he can bring home a chick most nights).

I was out clubbing with him a few nights ago and got sucked in to being his wingman. Was loads of fun because I knew what was happening and the girl was so clueless. Was also nice to see that she reacted in exactly the ways he said she would react. Unfortunately he did not get to take her home because he got into a bit of a fight with one of his friends which kind of spoiled the "set".

Perhaps not something I would do. I have named myself an expert on breaking out of the friends zone and that is where I get most of my action. Or at least I go the friend zone route, make the girl believe that you are just a nice dude

EDIT: How to break out of the friends zone for the millions of girl bloggers: Drastically change something about yourself, make the girl see something she has not seen in you previously.

I keep it dry for two reasons.

1. its short and to the point. Less stalling and more talking to the girls.
2. girls don't pick up on what we are talking about or what we are trying to do.

When I say: "I'm pulling", my wing knows exactly what I am doing. When I say "I gtg". Its less detailed. Am I going but coming back? Am I going down stairs? Am I leaving the venue?

Some times I'll tell my wing to "lock in" in the middle of a sentence. I certainly am not going to yell in front of the girls "Hey wing, change your body positioning into an optimal one, such that it looks like the girls are gaming you and that it increases the success of the set". The girl is going to be like wtf. If I just go to his ear and say "lock in", its much better.

On February 09 2012 10:17 KoveN- wrote:
Right, because god forbid we let the girls know we are talking to them to sleep with them.

It's all a covert operation!

Lol at that post about how the "Modern PUA" is different to "Mystery Pickup", while right above him is an asian with the stupidest, tryhard hair I've ever seen haha.

Wake up, the pickup community is here for your money, not your happiness.

The longer they can get you chasing your own tails and buying their stuff, the better for them.

Going out and approaching women at nightclubs and bars with the intent of sleeping with them is not a form of self-improvement.

Vin Dicarlo (some of you might of heard of him) did a study on his target market, young men. He found that none of them wanted to change to get better with women. They wanted to stay the same physical shape, same body odour, same eating habits, same crappy life etc. but they also wanted to get laid.

So he designed his products around NOT changing someone at all but instead giving them techniques and tricks (all the things you PUA's use today) so they can feel like they're making progress. Then once they get frustrated because they aren't getting results, they'll then buy his next groundbreaking product and go through the whole process again. So great

On February 09 2012 10:55 TheKwas wrote:
This is kinda unrelated and probably was mentioned somewhere in the depths of this thread, but what's your workout regiment like Squat?