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Zapdos_Smithh
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
Canada2620 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-08 10:28:26
December 28 2009 03:57 GMT
#1


***
NarutO
Profile Blog Joined December 2006
Germany18839 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-12-28 04:03:00
December 28 2009 04:02 GMT
#2
-_- Girls. I'm sorry for you, but I guess you'll get over it.
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Butigroove
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
Seychelles2061 Posts
December 28 2009 04:07 GMT
#3
1/5 for effort.

sounds like she was jsut being friendly lol.
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iHATEken
Profile Joined December 2009
Maldives6 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-12-28 04:16:18
December 28 2009 04:09 GMT
#4
Idk man, she seems really stupid. You didn't do anything wrong she is just the friendly type and is very naive

On December 28 2009 13:12 Xxio wrote:
Some girls just like to play mind games :S

they would make good pro gamers eh?
Damn.. been a long time
Xxio
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
Canada5565 Posts
December 28 2009 04:12 GMT
#5
Some girls just like to play mind games :S
KTY
Xeofreestyler
Profile Blog Joined June 2005
Belgium6771 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-12-28 04:16:34
December 28 2009 04:15 GMT
#6
Hahah that vid

And yes, some bitches can fuck your mind badly. I hate that.
Graphics
lone_hydra
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
Canada1460 Posts
December 28 2009 04:15 GMT
#7
On December 28 2009 13:07 Butigroove wrote:
1/5 for effort.

sounds like she was jsut being friendly lol.


Nah man, you didn't get mind fucked by her, you got mind fucked by your hormones. It's just another case of a sociable girl who tried to be nice and friendly and its misinterpreted as romantic interest.

No hard feelings, happens to the best of us.
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theobsessed1
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
United States576 Posts
December 28 2009 04:16 GMT
#8
On December 28 2009 13:07 Butigroove wrote:
1/5 for effort.

sounds like she was jsut being friendly lol.

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ToyotaDemon
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
Australia150 Posts
December 28 2009 04:17 GMT
#9
This is not really a "mind-fuck" it is just you (a simple male engulfed in testosterone) unconsciously looking for "signs" in a female that you are interested in.

Don't worry, every guy does it/has done it. Just gotta learn from this experience and make your intentions clear next time, etc xP
rawr
mikeymoo
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
Canada7170 Posts
December 28 2009 04:18 GMT
#10
+ Show Spoiler [just in case] +
On December 28 2009 12:57 resonance wrote:
I gotta blog this. This is so frigging ridiculous.

Ok so I started work at a clothing store about 3 months ago or so. Everything is all good, I am liking my job, I am liking my co-workers, etc.. Anyway, there is a co-worker who is a year younger than me and pretty decent looking. We talked a lot at work and she seemed very into me, and I was interested in her as well. We talked for a while and I got very good indicators of interest from her. I was thinking about asking her to do something, however I did not want to date anybody from work simply to avoid possible problems (I really want to keep this job).

Anyway, so that lasted for a while. Couldn't really ask to do something, so I kinda left it. We still chatted a fair bit at work but w/e.

She told me a while ago that she is starting school in January, and might be leaving work. I'm thinking that's a great opportunity to ask her to do something.

At the beginning of December she tells me that she is quitting work by the end of December. I'm thinking that's great I'll ask her out when she quits.

Now a little info about her. Firstly she is asian. Being caucasian, I tend to find most asian girls to act very different from white girls. The way they interact and what they talk about, etc.. Doesn't bother me, I live in Vancouver which is so ridiculously asian it's not even funny. I would say it's about 70% asian in Vancouver and 30% the rest. Anyway, secondly, she ishardcore Christian. So ridiculously christian it's not even funny. I am really not attracted to that at all as I switch back and forth from being agnostic to atheist (but I was catholic when I was much younger). But hell you know what, why should that be a reason to not ask her out. I need some experience, why the hell not. She is into me, why the hell not.

So we had a work party and she came and she was quiet as hell the whole time. I thought it was kinda peculiar but w/e, nobody really talked much at the work party because nobody wanted to say something stupid and be possibly fired/in trouble/etc.. This was around the 22nd.

So after that she texts me asking me something about work, and I replied. We sent a couple texts and we start text chatting and I ask her what she has planned for the break.

She replies:

"haha well i have 3 more
days of work! and then
next week i just chill =
we shud hang out! Wat's
up for ur break?"

I'm thinking, wow ok she must be pretty damn into me to ask ME out, I don't know many girls who ask guys out unless they are REALLY into the guys.

So I am like wow dope. I say ok let's do it. I even mention that I was about to ask her to do something but she beat me to it.

She responds:

"HAHA xD ya for sure !
Wat do u have in mind?"

I tell her I will think of something and let her know in a couple days. She says great.

Now at this point I'm thinking, this is pretty dope. I got a girl who is really interested in me, and I hardly did anything to get to that point. Life is also good as well being on break and couple fun things going on and of course being able to play sc.

I call her a couple days later, and recommend ice skating. Firstly I am really not into movies, I think it totally screams boring guy. Secondly, ice skating would make certain the mood the clear, this wasn't just being friends. She sounded very nervous and was like "sure ok!". Seemed good. Nervousness is great. Gotta love that awkwardness period in between friends and a potential relationship.

So I go to work again and this was the last day she was working and we chat a bit. However, I notice she really isn't into the convos. She loses interest fast, one time she even interrupted me to talk to somebody else. I was thinking what the hell, that's a bit rude. She is talking to other people more than me, etc.. I'm not too worried though, I blame it on that awkwardness period. Don't blame her, she is kinda shy anyway (funny cuz she asked me out!).

So I'm starting to be concerned here whether or not she meant to go as friends or a potential relationship.

I browse her facebook that night and notice she is going to the movies with a co-worker friend of mine my age! I'm like...what the fuck? Wtf is going on. She is confusing me the hell out of me.

So I call her and she doesn't pick up. I send a text saying I need to talk to you something is bothering me. She replies

"kk sry, was eating dinner
with friends. Ill call u
soon!"

I am thinking ok. She tells me later that night that she won't be home till late so won't be able to call. Ok. I go play sc. While I am playing sc she goes on msn and msgs me saying "yoooo" "you wanted to chat??", but I was playing so I didn't get the msg till she was offline. I sent a fb message saying I will call her tomorrow.

Tomorrow, which was today, I called her up after work.

"hey do you have a few minutes to talk?"

she replies

"um sure okkayy"

I say,

"k I'm going to be really honest here and I want you to do the same"

"okayy.."

She sounds nervous, as if I am about to propose to her or something.

"I am really confused right now and...am getting really mixed........feelings from you. What were your intentions when you asked me to do something? Do you know what I mean?

-nice awkward pause-

"oh..justt friendss"

are you effing kidding me...

I explain my side of the story. She contributes almost nothing to the conversation.

I ask at the end of another pause:

"so uh...is there anything you wanted to say?"

"umm...sorryyy"

Honestly, I knew there was no relationship there, but I just did it cuz I figured why not.

"mkkk well, im happy we cleared this up"

blah blah blah..

What the fuck. Who does that seriously. At least I saved myself time and didn't bother going skating.

Edit:

Reminds me of this video




tbh if you really thought she was super into you and that she was asking you out... you must be kinda self-centered. Maybe she sent out different vibes, but I really can't see how you're so disappointed. It didn't strike me that she wanted to start a relationship or anything.
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BanZu
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
United States3329 Posts
December 28 2009 04:21 GMT
#11
Uh... yea, reading what she said it really does seem like just regular conversation (friend-to-friend).
Sun Tzu once said, "Defiler becomes useless at the presences of a vessel."
Snet *
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
United States3573 Posts
December 28 2009 04:21 GMT
#12
That's kind of shitty. A girl doesn't agree to go ice skating with one guy as just friends, especially if you guys aren't really friends (just coworkers).

Just be glad she is quitting so you don't have to see her around anymore. Take it as a learning experience. Girls are mostly oblivious when it comes to being a friend or relationship.
Zapdos_Smithh
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
Canada2620 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-12-28 04:24:51
December 28 2009 04:23 GMT
#13
On December 28 2009 13:18 mikeymoo wrote:
+ Show Spoiler [just in case] +
On December 28 2009 12:57 resonance wrote:
I gotta blog this. This is so frigging ridiculous.

Ok so I started work at a clothing store about 3 months ago or so. Everything is all good, I am liking my job, I am liking my co-workers, etc.. Anyway, there is a co-worker who is a year younger than me and pretty decent looking. We talked a lot at work and she seemed very into me, and I was interested in her as well. We talked for a while and I got very good indicators of interest from her. I was thinking about asking her to do something, however I did not want to date anybody from work simply to avoid possible problems (I really want to keep this job).

Anyway, so that lasted for a while. Couldn't really ask to do something, so I kinda left it. We still chatted a fair bit at work but w/e.

She told me a while ago that she is starting school in January, and might be leaving work. I'm thinking that's a great opportunity to ask her to do something.

At the beginning of December she tells me that she is quitting work by the end of December. I'm thinking that's great I'll ask her out when she quits.

Now a little info about her. Firstly she is asian. Being caucasian, I tend to find most asian girls to act very different from white girls. The way they interact and what they talk about, etc.. Doesn't bother me, I live in Vancouver which is so ridiculously asian it's not even funny. I would say it's about 70% asian in Vancouver and 30% the rest. Anyway, secondly, she ishardcore Christian. So ridiculously christian it's not even funny. I am really not attracted to that at all as I switch back and forth from being agnostic to atheist (but I was catholic when I was much younger). But hell you know what, why should that be a reason to not ask her out. I need some experience, why the hell not. She is into me, why the hell not.

So we had a work party and she came and she was quiet as hell the whole time. I thought it was kinda peculiar but w/e, nobody really talked much at the work party because nobody wanted to say something stupid and be possibly fired/in trouble/etc.. This was around the 22nd.

So after that she texts me asking me something about work, and I replied. We sent a couple texts and we start text chatting and I ask her what she has planned for the break.

She replies:

"haha well i have 3 more
days of work! and then
next week i just chill =
we shud hang out! Wat's
up for ur break?"

I'm thinking, wow ok she must be pretty damn into me to ask ME out, I don't know many girls who ask guys out unless they are REALLY into the guys.

So I am like wow dope. I say ok let's do it. I even mention that I was about to ask her to do something but she beat me to it.

She responds:

"HAHA xD ya for sure !
Wat do u have in mind?"

I tell her I will think of something and let her know in a couple days. She says great.

Now at this point I'm thinking, this is pretty dope. I got a girl who is really interested in me, and I hardly did anything to get to that point. Life is also good as well being on break and couple fun things going on and of course being able to play sc.

I call her a couple days later, and recommend ice skating. Firstly I am really not into movies, I think it totally screams boring guy. Secondly, ice skating would make certain the mood the clear, this wasn't just being friends. She sounded very nervous and was like "sure ok!". Seemed good. Nervousness is great. Gotta love that awkwardness period in between friends and a potential relationship.

So I go to work again and this was the last day she was working and we chat a bit. However, I notice she really isn't into the convos. She loses interest fast, one time she even interrupted me to talk to somebody else. I was thinking what the hell, that's a bit rude. She is talking to other people more than me, etc.. I'm not too worried though, I blame it on that awkwardness period. Don't blame her, she is kinda shy anyway (funny cuz she asked me out!).

So I'm starting to be concerned here whether or not she meant to go as friends or a potential relationship.

I browse her facebook that night and notice she is going to the movies with a co-worker friend of mine my age! I'm like...what the fuck? Wtf is going on. She is confusing me the hell out of me.

So I call her and she doesn't pick up. I send a text saying I need to talk to you something is bothering me. She replies

"kk sry, was eating dinner
with friends. Ill call u
soon!"

I am thinking ok. She tells me later that night that she won't be home till late so won't be able to call. Ok. I go play sc. While I am playing sc she goes on msn and msgs me saying "yoooo" "you wanted to chat??", but I was playing so I didn't get the msg till she was offline. I sent a fb message saying I will call her tomorrow.

Tomorrow, which was today, I called her up after work.

"hey do you have a few minutes to talk?"

she replies

"um sure okkayy"

I say,

"k I'm going to be really honest here and I want you to do the same"

"okayy.."

She sounds nervous, as if I am about to propose to her or something.

"I am really confused right now and...am getting really mixed........feelings from you. What were your intentions when you asked me to do something? Do you know what I mean?

-nice awkward pause-

"oh..justt friendss"

are you effing kidding me...

I explain my side of the story. She contributes almost nothing to the conversation.

I ask at the end of another pause:

"so uh...is there anything you wanted to say?"

"umm...sorryyy"

Honestly, I knew there was no relationship there, but I just did it cuz I figured why not.

"mkkk well, im happy we cleared this up"

blah blah blah..

What the fuck. Who does that seriously. At least I saved myself time and didn't bother going skating.

Edit:

Reminds me of this video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGKtO97mBuw



tbh if you really thought she was super into you and that she was asking you out... you must be kinda self-centered. Maybe she sent out different vibes, but I really can't see how you're so disappointed. It didn't strike me that she wanted to start a relationship or anything.


I'm kinda relieved about it tbh, I can't say I'm exactly disappointed cuz I knew it was going no where. Reading the story over it seems sorta clear. Just a pain in the ass to deal with.

On December 28 2009 13:21 BanZu wrote:
Uh... yea, reading what she said it really does seem like just regular conversation (friend-to-friend).

On December 28 2009 13:21 Snet wrote:
That's kind of shitty. A girl doesn't agree to go ice skating with one guy as just friends, especially if you guys aren't really friends (just coworkers).

Just be glad she is quitting so you don't have to see her around anymore. Take it as a learning experience. Girls are mostly oblivious when it comes to being a friend or relationship.


Thanks.
NeVeR
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
1352 Posts
December 28 2009 04:25 GMT
#14
Sounds like she was into you but then changed her mind. Maybe she found that she wasn't that into your personality and saw more potential in this other coworker of hers.
YPang
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States4024 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-12-28 04:39:58
December 28 2009 04:37 GMT
#15
Meh it's Not normal to feel awkward when u move from one step to another , and she might of wanted something more spontaneous. Anyways gl
ibelieve it's only awkward like the way you described in movies lol xD
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BrodiaQ
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
United States892 Posts
December 28 2009 04:40 GMT
#16
There is a difference between someone asking you to hang out and asking you out. Sounds like she was just being friendly and you were looking for something that wasn't there. Really no mind fuck here.
"So come right up and let me squash your creativity with my iron fist of conservative play."--Nony
jeddus
Profile Blog Joined September 2005
United States832 Posts
December 28 2009 04:41 GMT
#17
This blog was like a dagger in the heart, dagger in the heart man.

It brought me back 10 years, I knew the end from the beginning.

I even thought ice skating was a good call, much better than the movies.

My personal opinion is she WAS interested, got fickle, then flipped it around.

Tis the way of the wimmin.

And for those who might question me:
Been married three years now, we dated a long time, and before that I went through plenty of mind boggling relationships, including the one I am in for the rest of my life now.

"..just friends."

Shish!

Dagger in the heart.
sex appeal
nayumi
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Australia6499 Posts
December 28 2009 04:41 GMT
#18
Like my friend once said: Even after sex, it's not love yet!

So ya...
Sugoi monogatari onii-chan!
ddengster
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Singapore129 Posts
December 28 2009 04:49 GMT
#19
Asian christians are so friendly(at least those whom I've met), they confuse you sometimes.
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NeVeR
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
1352 Posts
December 28 2009 04:52 GMT
#20
On December 28 2009 13:41 jeddus wrote:
This blog was like a dagger in the heart, dagger in the heart man.

It brought me back 10 years, I knew the end from the beginning.

I even thought ice skating was a good call, much better than the movies.

My personal opinion is she WAS interested, got fickle, then flipped it around.

Tis the way of the wimmin.

And for those who might question me:
Been married three years now, we dated a long time, and before that I went through plenty of mind boggling relationships, including the one I am in for the rest of my life now.

"..just friends."

Shish!

Dagger in the heart.


lol this made me chuckle
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