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fatfail
United States386 Posts
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Spiffeh
United States830 Posts
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deathly rat
United Kingdom911 Posts
On November 13 2012 13:19 fatfail wrote: Guys, I need to be desirable and acquire a girlfriend, please assist. Females at my high school have shown little to no interest in me. I’d consider myself above average regarding intelligence and roughly average by aesthetic appearance. I’d like to mention a Chinese proverb, “醜女多作怪”. It roughly translates to, “The uglier the girl, the more fucked up their personality. “ This is a problem that I may be confronting. Out of the female population at my high school, the attractive girls already have boyfriends and the available candidates are not only ugly, but also have fucked up personalities. Additionally, these ugly girls show little interest in me and deride me on a frequent basis. I’m not blaming my environment for anything, but I’m wondering if I should aim low at first or aim high? Additionally, how can I make myself a desirable male? Please ask for additional info if you require it. I really appreciate your assistance! Stop trying to attract "girls" and get to know one girl very well. You are also very wrong about ugly people being bad people. Also, all girls look the same after you turn out the light. | ||
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fatfail
United States386 Posts
On November 13 2012 13:26 deathly rat wrote: + Show Spoiler + On November 13 2012 13:19 fatfail wrote: Guys, I need to be desirable and acquire a girlfriend, please assist. Females at my high school have shown little to no interest in me. I’d consider myself above average regarding intelligence and roughly average by aesthetic appearance. I’d like to mention a Chinese proverb, “醜女多作怪”. It roughly translates to, “The uglier the girl, the more fucked up their personality. “ This is a problem that I may be confronting. Out of the female population at my high school, the attractive girls already have boyfriends and the available candidates are not only ugly, but also have fucked up personalities. Additionally, these ugly girls show little interest in me and deride me on a frequent basis. I’m not blaming my environment for anything, but I’m wondering if I should aim low at first or aim high? Additionally, how can I make myself a desirable male? Please ask for additional info if you require it. I really appreciate your assistance! Stop trying to attract "girls" and get to know one girl very well. You are also very wrong about ugly people being bad people. Also, all girls look the same after you turn out the light. Sorry it turned out badly. I'm just saying, it is not that uncommon that ugly girls resort to being rude and offensive to seek attention when they cannot gain it otherwise. | ||
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beachbeachy
United States509 Posts
On November 13 2012 13:26 deathly rat wrote: + Show Spoiler + On November 13 2012 13:19 fatfail wrote: Guys, I need to be desirable and acquire a girlfriend, please assist. Females at my high school have shown little to no interest in me. I’d consider myself above average regarding intelligence and roughly average by aesthetic appearance. I’d like to mention a Chinese proverb, “醜女多作怪”. It roughly translates to, “The uglier the girl, the more fucked up their personality. “ This is a problem that I may be confronting. Out of the female population at my high school, the attractive girls already have boyfriends and the available candidates are not only ugly, but also have fucked up personalities. Additionally, these ugly girls show little interest in me and deride me on a frequent basis. I’m not blaming my environment for anything, but I’m wondering if I should aim low at first or aim high? Additionally, how can I make myself a desirable male? Please ask for additional info if you require it. I really appreciate your assistance! Stop trying to attract "girls" and get to know one girl very well. You are also very wrong about ugly people being bad people. Also, all girls look the same after you turn out the light. but they might not feel the same | ||
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deathly rat
United Kingdom911 Posts
True, but every man should find this out from experience. | ||
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puppykiller
United States3137 Posts
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WarSame
Canada1950 Posts
There are a few major things that help a ton, but are easier said than done: Start working out(if you have no gym, do http://www.twohundredsitups.com/ or http://www.hundredpushups.com/), don't spend too long on the computer every day(I'd say limit it at 2 hours/day, excluding homework), pick up new interests/hobbies, and talk to people as much as you can to develop social skills. Those cover the superficial aspects of attracting people. Probably more important is your inner aspects. Work on your personality - a lot of your personality is actually breakable habits. Identify what you'd like to change, and change it. Succeed socially covers this. From your OP you sound like an asshole so I'd focus on that above the rest of it, and work on the other stuff afterwards. Anyway, that about covers it. Work on your personality, and on your appearance and you'll accomplish your goal. | ||
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fatfail
United States386 Posts
On November 13 2012 13:40 puppykiller wrote: Girls like guys with really high confidence that aren't needy in anyway, that are the leader of their social circle, and who tend to not give that much of a shit of what others think of them. You see, I don't give a shit about what others think of me most of the time. But I'm not sure I project that in the correct way. For instance, one time I pissed into the school locker room shower because it was cold outside. The other time I dropped my sandwich on the ground, I picked it up and ate it in front of many people. Are those pros or cons? | ||
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jcroisdale
United States1543 Posts
Just relax and when you find a girl you like, ask her out. | ||
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10344 Posts
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fatfail
United States386 Posts
On November 13 2012 13:48 MountainDewJunkie wrote: You are very superficial, perhaps that's one more reason you are currently an undesirable male. Please extrapolate! | ||
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jcroisdale
United States1543 Posts
On November 13 2012 13:43 fatfail wrote: You see, I don't give a shit about what others think of me most of the time. But I'm not sure I project that in the correct way. For instance, one time I pissed into the school locker room shower because it was cold outside. The other time I dropped my sandwich on the ground, I picked it up and ate it in front of many people. Are those pros or cons? double post but its needed. You say you dont care what people think, then ask us what we think. Its about how you do things, if you make pissing in the shower a big deal, then its a big deal. But regardless, you need to be yourself. Let me break it down for you. Today I was in Target buying some shit. Three kids in Highschool were walking through the store. One was definitely the good looking jock stereotype he was taller and more fit then the other two. One was a shorter, wore glasses, and was more of a funny guy type he was making jokes and being loud the whole time. The third one was quiet and sort of just your average kid. The point of this is that each of these kids had their own personality and were using it. Do the same fucking thing. Find who you are and use it, if you the funny guy be funny, if you fit and work out then flaunt it. If you smart be smart. Just be who you are, but also man the fuck up. | ||
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Whatson
United States5357 Posts
On November 13 2012 13:48 MountainDewJunkie wrote: You are very superficial, perhaps that's one more reason you are currently an undesirable male. I was just about to type pretty much the same thing. | ||
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Bswhunter
Australia954 Posts
But don't be too obvious about it. You want to sleep with atleast 3-4 of her friends first. Try and keep a good friendship with her the entire time, she will become more and more jealous. Eventually she will outright tell you that she is infautated with you, that she worships you and just wants to spend the rest of her life in your company. Once you have achieved this, you have 'acquired' a female. | ||
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eviltomahawk
United States11135 Posts
This may just be simple semantics, but it's still a step towards a healthier mentality. Just talk to them like normal people, and just be yourself. You aren't doing yourself any favors by pretending to be what you're not. You are screening them for desirability, not the other way around. If they don't like you, then tough luck for them because they are missing out on how awesome you are. And if you are having doubts about yourself, then find ways to improve yourself, not just for getting girls but also for just living a more satisfying life. Be healthy. Work out. Work hard. Study hard. Do your homework. Find some hobbies and interests to be passionate about. Be a nice person in general. Mold yourself into whoever you ideally want to be, and stand firm with these ideals. | ||
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reikai
United States359 Posts
SMILE. Make people laugh. Make a fool of yourself, and don't be embarrassed/scared/angry for ANY reason. All three are useless emotions that have no place in the man's mind who wants to accomplish a particular goal. Ummmmm...... those are my main ones :D | ||
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
Ugly girls don't all have bad personalities and smart girls don't all have good ones. You may only see a small portion of the girls in your school and think that, but it's not true. Much of what makes a girl attractive is makeup anyways and those that care about their looks that much are probably superficial anyways. | ||
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Qwyn
United States2779 Posts
Really, do. Don't think about it like that...if you want to get laid go look up how to "game" and do your best. Otherwise, attraction should be organic. | ||
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puppykiller
United States3137 Posts
On November 13 2012 13:43 fatfail wrote: You see, I don't give a shit about what others think of me most of the time. But I'm not sure I project that in the correct way. For instance, one time I pissed into the school locker room shower because it was cold outside. The other time I dropped my sandwich on the ground, I picked it up and ate it in front of many people. Are those pros or cons? Haha most people would be afraid to do things like those but if you can maintain thread control and good body language you can totally get away with that shit. Girls will do all the work for you. If they see you do something like that they will come up to you and be like "eww wtf". Then you just laugh for a sec, give them a pat on the head, and keep moving. | ||
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