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phosphorylation
United States2935 Posts
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ProV1
United States980 Posts
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
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y0su
Finland7871 Posts
And seriously... you're in HS, NOTHING you do socially in HS will matter a few years later. HS is serious. | ||
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fatfail
United States386 Posts
On November 13 2012 15:06 y0su wrote: You don't really make it clear what you are after... Are you lonely, horny or seeking social acceptance? And seriously... you're in HS, NOTHING you do socially in HS will matter a few years later. HS is serious. Primarily horny. However, I have five AP classes so I don't take this as seriously as you may think I do. But the sad truth remains. | ||
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Shock710
Australia6097 Posts
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y0su
Finland7871 Posts
On November 13 2012 15:14 fatfail wrote: Primarily horny. However, I have five AP classes so I don't take this as seriously as you may think I do. But the sad truth remains. I wasn't so much suggesting you're taking this too seriously, but rather when you feel like you're taking a risk you really have very little to lose :D Let girls know you're available (different than single). Try asking a few girls out (even if you get rejected you'll start getting more attention). Start attending parties (you may have to do some maneuvering to get into the right circles). In general try to attend more events where girls are (school dance, some after school clubs, etc). Also, try to find girls that go to other schools. You'll have a clean slate to make an impression and they'll be less worried about gossip if no one knows who they are seeing. Church/youth groups (seriously - you'd be surprised) or community events (you just missed out on volunteering for an election campaign). Again, find situations that will give you a chance to impress a girl, sometimes that's all it takes. As a final piece of advice... educate yourself about sex. Know how to get a girl off and you'll be taken care of  + Show Spoiler +don't trust porn | ||
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Tal
United Kingdom1014 Posts
On November 13 2012 13:19 fatfail wrote: Guys, I need to be desirable and acquire a girlfriend, please assist. Females at my high school have shown little to no interest in me. I’d consider myself above average regarding intelligence and roughly average by aesthetic appearance. I’d like to mention a Chinese proverb, “醜女多作怪”. It roughly translates to, “The uglier the girl, the more fucked up their personality. “ This is a problem that I may be confronting. Out of the female population at my high school, the attractive girls already have boyfriends and the available candidates are not only ugly, but also have fucked up personalities. Additionally, these ugly girls show little interest in me and deride me on a frequent basis. I’m not blaming my environment for anything, but I’m wondering if I should aim low at first or aim high? Additionally, how can I make myself a desirable male? Please ask for additional info if you require it. I really appreciate your assistance! That quote is originally less sexist  自古醜人多作怪 - something like：since ancient times, ugly people seek attention by acting up more. | ||
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Tobberoth
Sweden6375 Posts
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B.I.G.
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Ketch
Netherlands7285 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + I hope so.... | ||
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Artisreal
Germany9234 Posts
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Recognizable
Netherlands1552 Posts
On November 13 2012 13:19 fatfail wrote: Guys, I need to be desirable and acquire a girlfriend, please assist. Females at my high school have shown little to no interest in me. I’d consider myself above average regarding intelligence and roughly average by aesthetic appearance. I’d like to mention a Chinese proverb, “醜女多作怪”. It roughly translates to, “The uglier the girl, the more fucked up their personality. “ This is a problem that I may be confronting. Out of the female population at my high school, the attractive girls already have boyfriends and the available candidates are not only ugly, but also have fucked up personalities. Additionally, these ugly girls show little interest in me and deride me on a frequent basis. I’m not blaming my environment for anything, but I’m wondering if I should aim low at first or aim high? Additionally, how can I make myself a desirable male? Please ask for additional info if you require it. I really appreciate your assistance! You are complete douche if you truly think people who look ''ugly'' have a bad personality. It's probably because of the Halo effect that you think this way, but it's a completely irrational thought: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo_effect | ||
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PiGStarcraft
Australia987 Posts
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eviltomahawk
United States11135 Posts
On November 13 2012 20:57 PiGStarcraft wrote: Spread mustard on your gooch and they'll come runnin, trust me. Or in this case, Chinese hot mustard. | ||
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SnipedSoul
Canada2158 Posts
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ibanez
75 Posts
After you start to respect some social conventions, try to lead a more holistic life. As the other poster said, just stop caring, and go take up exercise, study hard, and rest well. As you become satisfied with these areas, you'll naturally develop confidence, a real confidence not fabricated and borne of some burning lust to get ass, but one that stems from a genuine contentment with life. And then it'll become a lot easier, trust me. Yeah and try to respect people. | ||
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Lysteria
France2279 Posts
On November 13 2012 20:21 Recognizable wrote: You are complete douche if you truly think people who look ''ugly'' have a bad personality. It's probably because of the Halo effect that you think this way, but it's a completely irrational thought: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo_effect This. And considering yourself to have more intelligence than the average man around isn't going to help, at all. What's the use of intelligence when you're so full of sexism. It's like, you feel superior than all those "females", ugly or not btw. If you want any relationship with someone (gf, fuck buddy), you have to go on equal ground with them. Nobody loves to be the dumb part of an affair, nor to have a dog at his/her command. Well, except for some fetishes or roleplay, but that's not really the case here. Like almost everybody here said, just act friendly, normally, and it's not a question of aiming high or low. You should start to simply aim. | ||
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United States10328 Posts
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meteorskunk
Canada546 Posts
That said, if even the girls with a smaller "relative value" ie the girls in less demand don't even like you, why would the more desirable ones like you? Well, maybe they see your unique qualities and love you for that, but do you deserve that? Well, I don't know but from your post, i wouldn't be cheering ya on. You want people to want to "cheer you on" and talk you up. It is a popularity contest in some ways. Peeing in the shower and eating a sandwich off the floor is not really what people mean by not giving an eff lol. I mean if you can get away with it and not be self conscious, thats probably kinda cool for some folks but I think when people say "people who don't care" they refer more to an ability to overlook pain in favour of benefitting themselves. They dont really mean someone who does not care about his social image. Eventually you have to accept that "everything that shine ain't always gonna be gold" which means you need to realize that the hottie might not be the best person for you. The girl who doesn't catch your eye at first can grow to look to you like the most beautiful thing the universe ever created. If you want to improve your looks, you have to be honest with yourself. Ever notice how girls are pretty quick to say things like "ah i have no boobs!" that is someone who is not denying the reality of her body! If you accept your features as they are, you can start to work around your weaknesses and accentuate your strenths. Look closely. Is theyr a spot you missed shaving? don't lie and say it looks great when it doesn't. Appreciate what others wear and how it looks good and how what you are wearing looks different. Think about how you are holding your body. Many say "good posture" and others think "oh shoulders back neck really straight". its more than that. how are your hands resting? are you aware of the body language you are sending otherS? body language!! learn to speak it muthafucka. k peace | ||
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