EPTPlus i think people were getting lazy and not reading through the comments before they gave me their opinion/advice which is what I'm really after.
If you haven't read the original blog.. you can read it here.. http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.pfhp?topic_id=96463
For those who just want a quick sum up here it goes.. I met a girl on craigslist who was really great and we talked for days until she dd something bad that got her mega~grounded and and her dad cut off communication with me as well as her friends. The blog is generally just me wondering what I should have done about it. Towards the end after many days after posting the original blog I found myself admitting in the comments that as the days went by I cared less and less about her and more and more ready to move on.
I even met another girl who I briefly mentioned and found myself guilty of talking to.. for over 20 hours in 6 days.
Yesterday I admitted to this girl i liked her and she told me she likes me back so it was all good
Until today.. I got a message from.. the original girl (Girl 1).. here is what it said.
Oh my god I miss you SO much. I just got really really grounded for a while and my parents made me give them all of my passwords and they've been checking everything and it's just really bad. I'm just on the computer because I was looking up stuff about school and happened to go onto youtube. I don't have my phone or anything. :[
I still adore you so much. <33
I hope we'll get to talk soon.
What did I get from this? My first contact from her in 11 days..? She still likes me and she's supergrounded.. but more important she doesn't know for how long..
Now I'm unsure of what to do their both a amazing.. I met Girl 1 first.. but am cut off from her. But I can see and talk to Girl 2 whenever I want, who's also amazing..
I tried to think about good and bad things about both of them and who was ultimately the better person.. normally this wouldn't be so hard but in this situation it really is!
Girl 1 is really great and i think we have more in common but she's been unhonest with me before (about her age)But sh e was honest with me about drugs and her past.. where she's used Ecstasy and shrooms and pot before.
Girl 2 is older than me by nearly 2 years (she's 20 in august!), I've never dated a girl older than me even though its every mans dream. She has ALOT more freedom than Myah. She can drive, and even has her own house (which she splits with her brother) and shes always been honest with me.. so whats bad about her? Girl 2 is.. your drug dealers, drug dealers, drug dealer.. she sells in POUNDS.. we're talking $4000 a pound.. She also smokes pot and cigs frequently daily. She is an ex-cocaine addict but does it on occasion still along with ecstasy.
Tell me that's not the least bit freaky! I'm not really a drug kinda person I smoked weed like twice?
Who is honestly better? I can't see Girl 1 and she lied to me.. And Girl 2 is in the drug underworld. Should i possibly forget about both?!
Since I know some of you are gonna ask.. both are very good looking.. but who's better looking doesn't matter to me.. I'm pretty private about this stuff but IF it helps I'd be willing to post pics of both of them.
Poll: What should I do?
(Vote): Girl 1
(Vote): Girl 2
(Vote): Forget both of them
(Vote): PICS!
SUMMARY You lazy TLers, lol
A girl I thought I was over contacted me and I still like her, but I've met another girl who I also like. Unsure of which one to stay with.. both have great things about them and bad things. (read post for exact details)
Any advice/comments appreciated
Thank you all
