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Hey all I was gonna add this to my original blog.. but its rather a lot of information and a lot of Major details instead just a small minor update like before.
Plus i think people were getting lazy and not reading through the comments before they gave me their opinion/advice which is what I'm really after.
If you haven't read the original blog.. you can read it here.. http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.pfhp?topic_id=96463
For those who just want a quick sum up here it goes.. I met a girl on craigslist who was really great and we talked for days until she dd something bad that got her mega~grounded and and her dad cut off communication with me as well as her friends. The blog is generally just me wondering what I should have done about it. Towards the end after many days after posting the original blog I found myself admitting in the comments that as the days went by I cared less and less about her and more and more ready to move on.
I even met another girl who I briefly mentioned and found myself guilty of talking to.. for over 20 hours in 6 days.
Yesterday I admitted to this girl i liked her and she told me she likes me back so it was all good 
Until today.. I got a message from.. the original girl (Girl 1).. here is what it said.
Oh my god I miss you SO much. I just got really really grounded for a while and my parents made me give them all of my passwords and they've been checking everything and it's just really bad. I'm just on the computer because I was looking up stuff about school and happened to go onto youtube. I don't have my phone or anything. :[
I still adore you so much. <33
I hope we'll get to talk soon.
What did I get from this? My first contact from her in 11 days..? She still likes me and she's supergrounded.. but more important she doesn't know for how long..
Now I'm unsure of what to do their both a amazing.. I met Girl 1 first.. but am cut off from her. But I can see and talk to Girl 2 whenever I want, who's also amazing..
I tried to think about good and bad things about both of them and who was ultimately the better person.. normally this wouldn't be so hard but in this situation it really is!
Girl 1 is really great and i think we have more in common but she's been unhonest with me before (about her age)But sh e was honest with me about drugs and her past.. where she's used Ecstasy and shrooms and pot before.
Girl 2 is older than me by nearly 2 years (she's 20 in august!), I've never dated a girl older than me even though its every mans dream. She has ALOT more freedom than Myah. She can drive, and even has her own house (which she splits with her brother) and shes always been honest with me.. so whats bad about her? Girl 2 is.. your drug dealers, drug dealers, drug dealer.. she sells in POUNDS.. we're talking $4000 a pound.. She also smokes pot and cigs frequently daily. She is an ex-cocaine addict but does it on occasion still along with ecstasy.
Tell me that's not the least bit freaky! I'm not really a drug kinda person I smoked weed like twice?
Who is honestly better? I can't see Girl 1 and she lied to me.. And Girl 2 is in the drug underworld. Should i possibly forget about both?!
Since I know some of you are gonna ask.. both are very good looking.. but who's better looking doesn't matter to me.. I'm pretty private about this stuff but IF it helps I'd be willing to post pics of both of them.
Poll: What should I do?
(Vote): Girl 1
(Vote): Girl 2
(Vote): Forget both of them
(Vote): PICS!
SUMMARY You lazy TLers, lol
A girl I thought I was over contacted me and I still like her, but I've met another girl who I also like. Unsure of which one to stay with.. both have great things about them and bad things. (read post for exact details)
Any advice/comments appreciated
Thank you all
  
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yeah we're going to need pics to make our decision
though I wouldn't go with either if girl 1 is unfaithful and girl 2 is a drug dealer lol
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Girl 2 will probably get you killed.
or arrested
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So how old is girl 1 actually?
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Girl 2 sounds awesome. If you dont want her, I would be interested.
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So Girl 2 is a druglord and addict. How old is Girl 1?
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LOL pretty good choices.
Pics first =P
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On July 07 2009 10:11 FragKrag wrote:
yeah we're going to need pics to make our decision
though I wouldn't go with either if girl 1 is unfaithful and girl 2 is a drug dealer lol
So basically you just wanna see hot they are? And your real vote is neither?
On July 07 2009 10:15 genwar wrote:
Girl 2 will probably get you killed.
or arrested
Yea.. Its defiantly scary stuff 
On July 07 2009 10:16 Athos wrote:
So how old is girl 1 actually?
Girl 1 is 16
Girl 2 is 19 (20 in august)
I'm 18
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dude...stay away from craiglist girls
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Osaka27140 Posts
I really want to know how you level up from grounded to supergrounded. As someone who will be dealing with a teenager in 11 short years, what kind of training can I undertake to ensure my groundings are super enough?
And seriously, without pictures there is really no way to give you any good advice whatsoever.
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One night stands with both. Ha ha, jk.
Girl 2 sounds like trouble though. So does girl 1, but not to the same extent...
gl hf
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On July 07 2009 10:20 vRoOk wrote:
So basically you just wanna see hot they are? And your real vote is neither?
Well one might get you jailed and the other might fuck another guy.
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On July 07 2009 10:22 Manifesto7 wrote:
I really want to know how you level up from grounded to supergrounded. As someone who will be dealing with a teenager in 11 short years, what kind of training can I undertake to ensure my groundings are super enough?
And seriously, without pictures there is really no way to give you any good advice whatsoever.
Don't worry you'll be ok
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On July 07 2009 10:22 caelym wrote:
dude...stay away from craiglist girls
This. But I assume there's a good reason for why you are using craiglist to meet chicks, so I'll move past that and address your issue.
If you haven't really been into the drug scene much, I would stay away from girl 2. Just better for you. Then again, girl 2 seems like she'll be easier to get a relationship with, so thats the nice if you want the path of least resistance. Honestly, I recommend girl 1, but both have issues so it has to be up to you.
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Definitely don't go with Girl 2.
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If you don't want Girl 2, share the love and slide the contact info over.
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We are going to need pictures. You say you like them about the same much, so go with the hotter one? InControl doesn't have to guide your dick in does he?
+ Show Spoiler +for whoever was around for that one blog 
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Whats with people and going on the internet to get laid? Have we college students not enough ladies at college to hang out with or is it because we like to chat and play prot..starcraft at the same time? I say forget both of 'em and get some real stuff. Internet relationships are so pedo.
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I want to date girl 2... she sounds exactly like me...
XD
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Forget both of them.
One will land you in jail, because she's apparently 14 (i thought groundings were for preteens?), and you'll have her batshit crazy dad looming over any of your prospects of sticking it in her holy hole and pooper.
The other one is apparently HONEST. Ok, maybe she's honest enough to tell you about her drug habits and sales, but there's probably a fuckton more she ISNT telling you. Would you trust a junkie that does both coke and extasy? Mind you i have nothing against pot, but doing hard drugs fucks you up for a long time. And you even say she's still doing them.
3. Grow out of your romantic shit ;p
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Pics tell all.
Though you shouldnt have a GF with baggage, and it sounds like they both have it.
Though... pics may change that.
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On July 07 2009 10:22 Manifesto7 wrote:
I really want to know how you level up from grounded to supergrounded. As someone who will be dealing with a teenager in 11 short years, what kind of training can I undertake to ensure my groundings are super enough?
And seriously, without pictures there is really no way to give you any good advice whatsoever.
Simple. You put your kid behind a computer that only has SC installed. Then you 4 pool him or her on the smallest map there is and continue until he/she falls asleep. When the child is asleep you strap it to the bed. Search the room for drugs and waterboard it to reveal all of it's secrets. Depending on it's secrets you can either take away it's cell phone or send it to your amish aunt where it shall continue to live until it dies. SUPERGROUNDED.
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Whatever happened to dating two people at once..
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I gotta try this out.
Which section of Craigslist is it?
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haha solinren :p
oh btw, pics.
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Regardless of how hot either of these two are, they seem pretty fucked up. Girl #1 is underage and irresponsible, while Girl #2 might get you thrown in jail if you're not careful.
My advice: take a step back and look for someone else - someone who preferably has her shit together.
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I only met girl 1 on craigslist
i know girl 2
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This might be the most pathetic blog I've ever read. Thank you for making my day.
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Neither. I think they'll both make your life horrible.
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Girl 1 makes you a pedo, sort of.
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On July 07 2009 10:32 vRoOk wrote:
How do you post pics?
upload it here Then edit your blog with the link!
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On July 07 2009 10:51 iratepornstar wrote:
This might be the most pathetic blog I've ever read. Thank you for making my day.
Well you obviously haven't been on this site for too long...
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Canada8029 Posts
Both of these girls sound kinda fucked up. I think you'd be better off finding some other girls.
Of course, it's impossible to be entirely certain about this without pictures...
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Still a really dumb thread title.
C'mon man, I can understand asking for advice on how to get a girl you like to go out with you, but this? Can you make yourself sound any more immature?
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Yep; I voted pics.
This is going to end in tears.
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Whoa can't believe I missed your first blog. I think I would just pull out from both. If girl 1 lied to you about being 18, how do you know she's not lying about being 16? Or about other things? She could be trying to create a personality that she hopes will be more appealing to you, which is easy to get away with if you guys have never met in person.
As for girl 2...
On July 07 2009 10:15 genwar wrote:
Girl 2 will probably get you killed.
or arrested
This pretty much summed up my initial thoughts about her.
Honestly, I don't think pics are necessary but that's your call. Good luck bro, hope whatever you decide works out for you.
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On July 07 2009 10:51 iratepornstar wrote:
This might be the most pathetic blog I've ever read. Thank you for making my day.
I dunno, I wrote one about losing my big toenail.
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How do you know girl 1 isn't 40...
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vRook, you mind updating through your OP? It's hard to find out what's going on especially with all the replies you're getting
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Stay away from Girl #2, she will get you in trouble with the law and it's going to fuck you up. As for Girl #1, so she's 16, you can't date her, but maybe if you can wait for 2 more years, she'll be 18 and maybe her dad will let you date her of course if you really still like Girl #1 then waiting is true love. But don't get into a relationship with Girl #2, she's trouble!
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I can't take these posts seriously because... CRAIGSLIST?! seriously?!
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I really need some pics to make a decision but....I'd go for a "real" girl over one I met over the internet girl any day.
~~~~Drama~~~~
Oh, and I think girl1 is as likely to get u arrested as girl2
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
Dude go with the coke junky.
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So by 19 she managed to get addicted to cocaine, become sober, become a drug baroness, buy a house and a car, and evade authorities despite informing people she meets on craigslist who she has known for less than a week of her criminal source of income.
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Wasted my vote on pics...
Don't worry about either, cut off Girl 2.
If Girl 1 comes back one day, great... but otherwise don't lose any sleep over either of em
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honestly, girl 1 seems a lot better
girl 2 seems risky and will fuck you up man
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On July 07 2009 12:32 Snet wrote:
Dude go with the coke junky.
obv
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On July 07 2009 10:49 VictorW wrote:
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On July 07 2009 12:52 floor exercise wrote:
So by 19 she managed to get addicted to cocaine, become sober, become a drug baroness, buy a house and a car, and evade authorities despite informing people she meets on craigslist who she has known for less than a week of her criminal source of income.
REad up.. I didnt meet girl 2 on craigslist.. or any website.
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girl 2 initially, although pics would help, and i am being serious about this, there is a lot you can tell just from looking at a person.
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Girl 2 requires a pic to see how the drugs have fucked her up (or not as the case may be)
This tells you many things... primarily her will power. Also being associated with a drug baronness might just get you killed so you might want to take that into account.
Girl 1 has nazi parents which will ALWAYS ALWAYS be a problem. Keep that in mind as well.
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You should probably go with the one that is the most fucked up. So my vote is for girl two.
Unless daddy issues make you hot, then go for girl one.
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This blog leaves me confused.
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On July 07 2009 10:22 Manifesto7 wrote:
I really want to know how you level up from grounded to supergrounded. As someone who will be dealing with a teenager in 11 short years, what kind of training can I undertake to ensure my groundings are super enough?
And seriously, without pictures there is really no way to give you any good advice whatsoever.
Pretty sure that it's like the difference between a 2 day ban and a 30 day ban.
Wouldn't want to permaban your child though :O
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blog needs pictures before we can pass verdict!
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are u sure they are what they say they are? u sure theyr not child molestors? girl 1 couldv been caught by the police so he had to run away for a while. girl 2 is freaky and might have aids. they both could have aids. pics plzzz
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Post pictures of yourself and the girls, and i'll tell you if you can do better or not.
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poll speaks for itself. pics or it didn't happen
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Girl 3: girl with no drug problems
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Girl no.2
Get lots and lots of drugs from her, feed them to Girl no.1.
When Girl no.2 gets tired of you, or vice versa, intoxicate Girl 1 and bang her to no tomorrow.
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Something tells me you're never going to meet either of these girls irl so it doesn't really matter.
Jesus christ this is the saddest "girl" blog I've ever read on TL.
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On July 07 2009 10:22 Manifesto7 wrote:
I really want to know how you level up from grounded to supergrounded. As someone who will be dealing with a teenager in 11 short years, what kind of training can I undertake to ensure my groundings are super enough?
And seriously, without pictures there is really no way to give you any good advice whatsoever.
Don't be crazy overprotective but work on your bullshit detector and be open enough that she feels bad when she does lie. If you'll still be in Japan, it also might help to pray she's a lesbian.
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I'd say just wait until you meet someone irl.
You'll find someone, there's no need to rush into it.
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hahahah!! you remind me of steve carrell in office - desperate and getting into zany relationships.
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On July 07 2009 21:47 Jibba wrote:
Something tells me you're never going to meet either of these girls irl so it doesn't really matter.
Jesus christ this is the saddest "girl" blog I've ever read on TL.
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On July 07 2009 21:53 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On July 07 2009 10:22 Manifesto7 wrote:
I really want to know how you level up from grounded to supergrounded. As someone who will be dealing with a teenager in 11 short years, what kind of training can I undertake to ensure my groundings are super enough?
And seriously, without pictures there is really no way to give you any good advice whatsoever. Don't be crazy overprotective but work on your bullshit detector and be open enough that she feels bad when she does lie. If you'll still be in Japan, it also might help to pray she's a lesbian.
Say you find out she's a lesbian at 18. You're going to rethink every single sleepover she's ever had with friends.
Plus, at least with dudes, you can be a huge cock and intimidate the shit outta them. Like in Bad Boys 2, but Mani can get drunk off saki and flail around a big ass sword instead of a gun.
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On July 07 2009 10:34 McFly wrote:
Whats with people and going on the internet to get laid? Have we college students not enough ladies at college to hang out with or is it because we like to chat and play prot..starcraft at the same time? I say forget both of 'em and get some real stuff. Internet relationships are so pedo.
That's fine until you leave college and never meet anyone cool ever again. I'm serious. It's a problem when you go to full time work.
As for the OP; I'd say have a date with both and just pick from there. I mean - like have lunch or meet up with either/both of them and see how you click. If the drugs thing is too much for you you can just let her know, but she could be really cool about it in person.
My personal preference is both scare the shit out of me but Girl 1. scares me more, simply because she's prone to sending you mail like that after 11 days of not talking. <insert bad experience with clingy chicks here>
But regardless, make sure you use protection.
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Voted "PICS!" because I don't think we should be the ones to decide for you.
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what's with you and meeting all those drug users
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Does this guy not have pics to prove anything?
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Is it really that bad to date a 16 year old as a 18 year old?
Thats just lame.
In the Netherlands nobody would even look up if you told someone that.
Most of my friends would go as far as 15-18 16-19.
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I really feel like i'm in 4chan right now. Everyone is requesting pics which the OP who is also from the internet randomly has no clue how to upload. Here is some real advice for you vrook. Go out and meet girls that you don't talk to online, it is so much more rewarding and you get to meet the real geniuine person rather than thier internet persona.
I would expect this from maybe some of the younger TL members around 15-16 years old but you should have at the very least a drivers license and some friends you can spend time with to meet people instead of looking at craigslist and chatting online... you are just ridiculous.
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On July 07 2009 10:49 vRoOk wrote:
I only met girl 1 on craigslist
i know girl 2
well real girls > internet girls
the answer is pretty obvious to me. however pics might change this
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On July 08 2009 00:00 Zholistic wrote:Show nested quote +On July 07 2009 10:34 McFly wrote:
Whats with people and going on the internet to get laid? Have we college students not enough ladies at college to hang out with or is it because we like to chat and play prot..starcraft at the same time? I say forget both of 'em and get some real stuff. Internet relationships are so pedo. That's fine until you leave college and never meet anyone cool ever again. I'm serious. It's a problem when you go to full time work. As for the OP; I'd say have a date with both and just pick from there. I mean - like have lunch or meet up with either/both of them and see how you click. If the drugs thing is too much for you you can just let her know, but she could be really cool about it in person. My personal preference is both scare the shit out of me but Girl 1. scares me more, simply because she's prone to sending you mail like that after 11 days of not talking. <insert bad experience with clingy chicks here> But regardless, make sure you use protection.
Bars, clubs, concerts... there's plenty of ways to meet people.
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On July 08 2009 02:00 Marradron wrote:
Is it really that bad to date a 16 year old as a 18 year old?
Thats just lame.
It can get you a 5 year ban irl
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Glad i dont live in the US. here its perfectly fine as long as both parties agree.
That would be kinda fucked.
I had a girlfriend once for one and a half year when we met i was 17 and she was 16 so for a wile i was 18 and she was 16. so would that have been illigal in US ?
doesn't make mutch sense to me.
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Bro, you are not doing it right. Pics FFS
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ask girl 1 why she said she was 18
dont do drugs
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On July 08 2009 05:43 SingletonWilliam wrote:Show nested quote +On July 08 2009 02:00 Marradron wrote:
Is it really that bad to date a 16 year old as a 18 year old?
Thats just lame.
It can get you a 5 year ban irl
Apparently it's only a misdemeanor (as opposed to felony statutory rape) if you're within 3 years age of the minor.
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the more you know!!!
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