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Met an amazing girl, only to get gg no re'd?

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vRoOk
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
United States1024 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-06-30 16:17:47
June 29 2009 01:32 GMT
#1
Ah.. Summertime.. love in in the air? I thought I'd follow the current TL net trend and talk about a girl.

*Note: The following is completely true.

I met her for the last thursday the 18th.. in the weirdest of places.. Craigslist. Not in the Women for Men section.. but strictly platonic section, if it counts?

The whole backstory is I was watching my friends dogs during the day for his family for about 4 days, and i had absolutely nothing to do at his house but i had my phone but none of my friends wanted to text/chat, and there was no SC! How was i to spend my time?

I went on Craiglists to to find people who were in a similar situation. After two people.. one of whom was so boring and odd i could write a whole blog about that in itself.

But then I met her! Her story was she had just moved to Washington from North Carolina, less than a week ago on the day of her post, and wanted to meet people. Sounded legit to me!

I sent her an e-mail just about 7 sentences about myself real quick.. age, what kinda music i was into [Grunge], and so forth. She replied within an hour, and we started talking on AIM.

Honestly when we first started talking.. I thought she was a little weird. but way, way more interesting than the other people I'd talked to before her.

Anywho.. after about 3 hours of chatting I decided to go to bed.. only to awake the next day and couldnt stop thinking about our conversation. She was so.. funny, sly, witty, charming, sensitive? Seemingly the most amazing girl ever! (Sorry lilsusie, i still <3 you!)

I signed on later that night about 8 and she was on as well.. and we picked up wright where we left off.. talked for hours! I couldn't find any faults with her! She is into electronic digging everyone from Aphex Twin to Infected Mushroom, to Trentemoller. She even a history nut, admiring people such as Napoleon and Alexander.

Day 3.. Can't get her on my mind get on again that night and she's waiting for me? Another long conversation.. ended with "Get on tomorrow, ok I'll miss you <3"?

Yea you see that <3? so did I, haha, signs were going off in my mind! This is too great.. right?

Day 4.. we get to talking.. and alot of our past talk had been about her and she had passed the ball onto me.. I admitted to her.. how much i liked starcraft. How i would play trying in vain to be gosu, how i would stay up to 3 am some nights to watch the progamers live, how my favorite website was TL. Her Response..? "Thats Cute.. "

Yea.. apparently its cute to stay up to watch the mantoss play hear that? Of course its not really.. but she doesn't mind my hobby.. and that makes her all the more amazing!

Day 5.. Time is flying by.. all i can think of all day is i cant wait to talk to her again! Sure enough we talk again.. by the end of the conversation we both muster up.. "I like you" sort of statements.

Day 6-9 are irrelevant.. to sum it up its alot of I <3 you so so much baby.. dont judge me! We've seen pictures of each other (lol, even holding up signs saying yes this is me just to prove it).. we've talked on the phone.. we're just so so happy. Life is great She even makes my picture her background.

But disaster striked yesterday.. she didn't get on no call no text no nothing.. after worrying for several hours.. I get a text that was automatically delivered when i signed in.. saying.. quote on quote..

"THIS is *blanks* dad.. do not contact again.."

Oh snaps! Yea.. GG no re right? I couldn't think of anything to reply.. honestly I'm not sure why both of us are 18+.. but I've never got along with any of my GF's dad very well so I didn't wanna start this one of bad.. by talking back?

I told myself.. she'll get to me.. somehow.. she'll call me or text me or IM me when he's not around. but its the weekend. I quickly make a plan to call her monday when her dad's at work.

Today.. 11 days.. I miss her so much and i don't know how to proceed? I keep asking myself.. did her dad catch her talking to me and just not like it perhaps he saw her background? He did send a text straight to me.. did she tell him who I was?

Or maybe.. something completely unrelated happened at her house and shes just in trouble?

I log on AIM and there she is.. online. Yeah I'm aware it most likely isn't her she would have texted me or sent em a message while i was offline. But I decide to ask if its her anyways. The AIM service tells me teat almost instantly a message is being written by that account back to me.. after about 2 minutes.. I get the message.

"*blank* will not be using her computer.. for sometime..


I stare dumbfounded at the message its unfair! I write back..

"May I ever talk to *blank* again?"


The jerk signs off 20 seconds later leaving me unanswered.. at first i was mad but then i thought maybe it as good thing if he was really mad he would have told me off.. right?

20 minute later shes back.. or i should say he's back.. and hes just sitting there online I know its him.. but I'm not sure what to say or even if I should say anything.

I'm unsure of how to proceed.. I think this girl is the most amazing girl ever, I don't wanna lose contact with her.

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Poll: What should I do?
(Vote): Wait till monday.. give her a call while the old mans at work.
(Vote): Talk to the old man on AIM
(Vote): Don't do anything.. she'll be back after sometime
(Vote): Wait for her to contact you.
(Vote): Take my advice in comments.
(Vote): Blog was way too LONG, didn't read.


Any advice would be very appreciated and well received.. no Chill and Plexa, I am not a troll. This is a true story that is really happening to me.


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eagle
Profile Joined April 2009
United States693 Posts
June 29 2009 01:36 GMT
#2
teal deer
Racenilatr
Profile Blog Joined August 2008
United States2756 Posts
June 29 2009 01:39 GMT
#3
O wow that really really really really sucks. I just watched that same thing happen in Weeds too
il0seonpurpose
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
Korea (South)5638 Posts
June 29 2009 01:40 GMT
#4
Ok either she just trolled you or her dad is crazy. Yeah, try calling her when he's at work.
maleorderbride
Profile Joined November 2002
United States2916 Posts
June 29 2009 01:40 GMT
#5
you are some guy off the internet talking to his daughter. i wonder why dad is not a fan?
Some cause happiness wherever they go; others, whenever they go.
n.DieJokes
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States3443 Posts
June 29 2009 01:43 GMT
#6
What if it was the dad the whole time O.o? I'm sure you know the dangers of aim; that some girls just say things baselessly but if you think the connection was that strong, ask her out in person. A human face and some devotion would probably go a long way towards ameliorating yourself to her father. Then again, you might wanna find out what happened over there, sounds like shit went down.
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ilistis
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
United States828 Posts
June 29 2009 01:44 GMT
#7
Lucky ass. I like history too and girls don't dig it.
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whatusername
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Canada1181 Posts
June 29 2009 01:45 GMT
#8
um if I'm not mistaken are you saying you just fell in love with someone you met on the internet and never seen before?
im gay
Hyde
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
Australia14568 Posts
June 29 2009 01:45 GMT
#9
I say talk to her old man! Ask him what's up and why he doesn't want you talking to her, and then come up with appropriate responses. He's probably over protective of his daughter, which generally means your not going to get anywhere...

But if you really like her your not going to sit on your hands
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maleorderbride
Profile Joined November 2002
United States2916 Posts
June 29 2009 01:46 GMT
#10
yea, and it was from the "strictly platonic" section. Sure doesn't seem like you are going for the platonic angle...

Also, maybe she is not 18? You could ask the dad that, in a non-offensive manner.
Some cause happiness wherever they go; others, whenever they go.
Husky
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
United States3362 Posts
June 29 2009 01:46 GMT
#11
Wheres the TL:DR version?
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404.Nintu
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
Canada1723 Posts
June 29 2009 01:47 GMT
#12
On June 29 2009 10:40 maleorderbride wrote:
you are some guy off the internet talking to his daughter. i wonder why dad is not a fan?

sadly, this.

You can still try, by all means. May aswell. You're both 18+ afterall, so wtf. It's strange that she hasn't made any serious attempt to contact you though. Maybe find a way to reach her, in some capacity, and explain to her what happened with her Dad. Then leave it in her court. If she doesn't find a way to continue your 'relationship' then it's pretty fucked. If she really cares and tries hard and does, then you 2 can probably find a mature way to negate the parent issue.

But keep in mind. She may have just trolled you. =p
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Deleted User 3420
Profile Blog Joined May 2003
24492 Posts
June 29 2009 01:49 GMT
#13
how old is she?
DrTJEckleburg
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
United States1080 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-06-29 01:51:42
June 29 2009 01:51 GMT
#14
On June 29 2009 10:46 HuskyTheHusky wrote:
Wheres the TL:DR version?


He met a girl that was amazing and her dad cut them off and he cannot decide how he wants advice as to how he should(if) attempt to contact her.
Im pretty good at whistling with my hands, especially when Im holding a whistle.
Reason
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
United Kingdom2770 Posts
June 29 2009 01:52 GMT
#15
I say you log onto AIM and say
"Yo, fair enough if your daughter is grounded or whatever, or you don't want her getting raped by a pedophile, but why the fuck are you logged onto her AIM?
Speak properly, and in as few words as you can, but always plainly; for the end of speech is not ostentation, but to be understood.
vRoOk
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
United States1024 Posts
June 29 2009 01:52 GMT
#16
On June 29 2009 10:45 whatusername wrote:
um if I'm not mistaken are you saying you just fell in love with someone you met on the internet and never seen before?



In a way? We had plans to met up in person tomorrow.. but I'm pretty sure they got canceled

We talked on the phone so I'm pretty sure it wasn't the old man the whole time.

We also sent pictures to each other you know holding up signs saying this is really me I <3 you kinda thing just to prove it was us. Seems really out of the way of a troll, I mean if I was one I woulda gave up there.

Honestly I've never even thought about starting a relationship over the internet first time its ever happened.
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vRoOk
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
United States1024 Posts
June 29 2009 01:54 GMT
#17
On June 29 2009 10:49 travis wrote:
how old is she?


18 since.. may 14th

sorry for the double post! But i didn't wanna wait for someone to answer before answering if it helps me get answers faster.
Breaking Bad
Deleted User 3420
Profile Blog Joined May 2003
24492 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-06-29 01:56:56
June 29 2009 01:55 GMT
#18
this story is pretty weird

TBH i think there is a good chance she was just really lonely but met other people and isn't interested in you anymore.

I just think you should accept that as a possibility. meeting people online like this has its downfalls.


definitely not trying to say you should give up, though.
Insane
Profile Blog Joined November 2003
United States4991 Posts
June 29 2009 01:57 GMT
#19
You say you're both 18+... are you sure about that?
I'd say ask the dad in a diplomatic manner how old she is.

From the way you described the talking about loving each other after a few days, it sounds like she's youngish to me.



Also for what it's worth, you waited too long to meet her in person in my opinion.
eshlow
Profile Joined June 2008
United States5210 Posts
June 29 2009 01:57 GMT
#20
You are both of age. But you still probably need to get on the dad's good side.

Why don't you invite him out for lunch (in a public place of course) so he can get to know you. I'd personally ask him why he doesn't like you in the first place?

If you are serious about pursuing something like this, I think that showing that you have the balls to meet him in person and talk would go a long way.
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