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andiCR
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Costa Rica2273 Posts
January 11 2009 23:51 GMT
#21
On January 12 2009 08:25 FREEloss_ca wrote:
Play it chill. Don't let your infatuation get the best with you and influence you. Keep doing what you're doing, maybe take it up a notch to flatter her more, and send a messages you like/care about her. Girls like to be liked and cared for right? if you're genuine with her, she'll recognize this and it'll be major points for you (in my experience, if you genuinely respect a girl, and they recognize this, it can be a BIG turn on, especially if they're a fairly attractive girl who are normally used to douche bags trying to 'game' them for sex).

You're walking a zipline my friend, you have to show her you like her but not come off as overly obsessed/desperate, don't let her use the fact you like her to her advantage (play you), and don't get too deep in the friends zone. Some girls like to get to know a guy pretty well before they date them (ie. maybe because of issues/problems they've had in the past with other relationships and stuff.).

But keep in mind, don't chase too much. Every now and then "test" it out and see if you can get her to chase you a bit. For example, say you're having a conversation through txt msging, leave her with something witty/smooth/intruiging for example but then DON'T TEXT BACK for the rest of the day and I'm sure she'll make the next move to contact you. Or go for a day without contacting her in any way and let her contact you first.

Great advice, thanks. I will post follow ups like in 2 days
Nightmare1795 wrote: I played a guy in bronze who said he was Japanese. That was the only game I ever dropped a nuke, which was purely coincidental.
Hypnosis
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States2061 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-01-12 00:07:33
January 12 2009 00:05 GMT
#22
your obsessed. be careful with this because if you dont really really understand why you like her besides being attracted to her then it can end badly. take it slow and say all the right things and it can end up well!

Also make sure you don't give up too much of yourself to her. Its hard to explain but sometimes guys will put too much of themselves out there and get owned
Science without religion is lame, Religion without science is blind
iNfeRnaL *
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
Germany1908 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-01-12 00:39:15
January 12 2009 00:38 GMT
#23
Can pretty much second what hypnosis said.
I'm a perfect example of it actually, never had any girl since my ex just because it's all not the same anymore. Especially if you were the stupid person to ruin everything.
Make sure to give enough, but never too much, that always backfires.
Chill
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
Calgary25979 Posts
January 12 2009 00:43 GMT
#24
Pretty much do the opposite of your intuition and you'll get her.
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Insane Lane
Profile Blog Joined August 2008
United States397 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-01-12 00:46:02
January 12 2009 00:44 GMT
#25
Coulda used this thread a month ago lolol

But yeah this was pretty much like me and I came on way too strong I think and it fucked up everything.
meegrean
Profile Joined May 2008
Thailand7699 Posts
January 12 2009 00:53 GMT
#26
Don't force her to do anything. That's it. Good luck, have fun.
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Elvin_vn
Profile Blog Joined March 2004
Vietnam2038 Posts
January 12 2009 00:54 GMT
#27
On January 12 2009 09:43 Chill wrote:
Pretty much do the opposite of your intuition and you'll get her.

LOL
do not agrue with idiots, they will pull you down to their level and beat you with their experiences
ambit!ous1
Profile Joined September 2007
United States3662 Posts
January 12 2009 03:17 GMT
#28
On January 12 2009 09:05 Hypnosis wrote:
your obsessed. be careful with this because if you dont really really understand why you like her besides being attracted to her then it can end badly. take it slow and say all the right things and it can end up well!

Also make sure you don't give up too much of yourself to her. Its hard to explain but sometimes guys will put too much of themselves out there and get owned

pretty much what i wanted to say
Bisu[Shield] / ♔ SoYeon
Pengu1n
Profile Blog Joined October 2004
United States552 Posts
January 12 2009 04:13 GMT
#29
Yeah your probably obsessed with her, which isn't necessarily a bad thing, but when the girl doesn't feel the same way about you then it could be bad. I'm pretty sure shes not "obsessed" with you or anything or else she wouldn't be denying your kiss. No offense but I think shes not physically attracted to you but rather she likes you for your personality.This would explain why she didn't kiss you because she doesn't know if she wants to keep you as a friend or if she likes you enough to take it to the next level.

But maybe I'm wrong. Do you guys get "flirty" at all in your conversations or on msn?
andiCR
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Costa Rica2273 Posts
January 12 2009 05:07 GMT
#30
hmm.. not really been flirty on msn... but when i talk to her, she's is always so happy
About the physical attraction... well.. maybe.. but some women consider me handsome lol.. guess that could mean im not her type T-T

Anyways, I talked to my best friend about it and he adviced not to call her or anything for like 2 days then just text her or if she does earlier, then proceed.

I actually think Chill has a point, because my intuition is like "OMFG CALL HER NAOOOOWWW SWEET IDEA!!" which is plain retarded haha
Nightmare1795 wrote: I played a guy in bronze who said he was Japanese. That was the only game I ever dropped a nuke, which was purely coincidental.
sqwert
Profile Blog Joined May 2008
United States781 Posts
January 12 2009 05:15 GMT
#31
lol. obsessions are never good. but she did say u guys might have something in the future so thatll be something to look forward to. just chill.

if everythings coming your way, youre in the wrong lane. sAviOr 4evar!
evanthebouncy!
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
United States12796 Posts
January 12 2009 06:06 GMT
#32
it's okay take it bit slower she still likes u.
Life is run, it is dance, it is fast, passionate and BAM!, you dance and sing and booze while you can for now is the time and time is mine. Smile and laugh when still can for now is the time and soon you die!
eshlow
Profile Joined June 2008
United States5210 Posts
January 12 2009 06:52 GMT
#33
On January 12 2009 09:54 Elvin_vn wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 12 2009 09:43 Chill wrote:
Pretty much do the opposite of your intuition and you'll get her.

LOL


you "lol" but it's generally true.
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