EPTOn January 12 2009 08:25 FREEloss_ca wrote:
Play it chill. Don't let your infatuation get the best with you and influence you. Keep doing what you're doing, maybe take it up a notch to flatter her more, and send a messages you like/care about her. Girls like to be liked and cared for right? if you're genuine with her, she'll recognize this and it'll be major points for you (in my experience, if you genuinely respect a girl, and they recognize this, it can be a BIG turn on, especially if they're a fairly attractive girl who are normally used to douche bags trying to 'game' them for sex).
You're walking a zipline my friend, you have to show her you like her but not come off as overly obsessed/desperate, don't let her use the fact you like her to her advantage (play you), and don't get too deep in the friends zone. Some girls like to get to know a guy pretty well before they date them (ie. maybe because of issues/problems they've had in the past with other relationships and stuff.).
But keep in mind, don't chase too much. Every now and then "test" it out and see if you can get her to chase you a bit. For example, say you're having a conversation through txt msging, leave her with something witty/smooth/intruiging for example but then DON'T TEXT BACK for the rest of the day and I'm sure she'll make the next move to contact you. Or go for a day without contacting her in any way and let her contact you first.
Play it chill. Don't let your infatuation get the best with you and influence you. Keep doing what you're doing, maybe take it up a notch to flatter her more, and send a messages you like/care about her. Girls like to be liked and cared for right? if you're genuine with her, she'll recognize this and it'll be major points for you (in my experience, if you genuinely respect a girl, and they recognize this, it can be a BIG turn on, especially if they're a fairly attractive girl who are normally used to douche bags trying to 'game' them for sex).
You're walking a zipline my friend, you have to show her you like her but not come off as overly obsessed/desperate, don't let her use the fact you like her to her advantage (play you), and don't get too deep in the friends zone. Some girls like to get to know a guy pretty well before they date them (ie. maybe because of issues/problems they've had in the past with other relationships and stuff.).
But keep in mind, don't chase too much. Every now and then "test" it out and see if you can get her to chase you a bit. For example, say you're having a conversation through txt msging, leave her with something witty/smooth/intruiging for example but then DON'T TEXT BACK for the rest of the day and I'm sure she'll make the next move to contact you. Or go for a day without contacting her in any way and let her contact you first.
Great advice, thanks. I will post follow ups like in 2 days
