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On October 20 2008 07:18 artofmagic wrote:Show nested quote +On October 20 2008 07:04 Raithed wrote:On October 20 2008 06:11 KlaCkoN wrote:On October 20 2008 02:23 Raithed wrote:On October 19 2008 22:52 Koldblooded wrote:
How are you in love if you can't stay together? you know, thats the funny thing. its not like we dont want to be together or anything, we just like breaks sometimes so we dont annoy the hell out of each other but we still love each other. the thing with us is that when we take breaks or long time of not talking to each other, we are more closer. i guess this kind of attributes to it somehow. On October 20 2008 00:58 Fen wrote:
You dont know what shes going through. You are not qualified to tell her what to do. Get some advice from rape help groups and shit, not TL.
If your angry at her because she lost her virginity, then you are the worlds biggest asshole. If you cannot see why she might have hidden the fact from you, then you are the worlds biggest retard.
If you know who the guy is that raped her. Hunt that fucker down and chop his dick off. well of course im not qualified to tell her what to do, im not telling her what to do. On October 20 2008 00:43 ish0wstopper wrote:On October 19 2008 23:08 Elvin_vn wrote:
How did she get raped?
If she flirted with the guy and got raped then she deserved it. Maybe that's why she didn't report it?
PS: Virginity is overrated and that kind of promise is corny. Best advise: stay away from emo girl. nah i think its sweet but why wouldn't she report it? rape is not something small, its something that can mentally scar a person for life. but i dont feel like i can make a judgment call for you cause i dont know your situation that well i dont know, i keep asking myself why she didnt report it but she said she didnt think there was any seriousness in it. i dont know how to make use out of that.. i mean, the guy already raped another girl but it wasnt rape? but she said it surely wasnt mutual, so it has to be? i dont know. On October 19 2008 23:08 Elvin_vn wrote:
How did she get raped?
If she flirted with the guy and got raped then she deserved it. Maybe that's why she didn't report it?
PS: Virginity is overrated and that kind of promise is corny. Best advise: stay away from emo girl. they hang out a lot, and as far as i know, he has a gf? Ehm she got "raped" by a guy but is still friends with him? ...... And yes virginity is overrated I wouldn't care much about that specific part if I were you. i guess i didnt make sense since you did not understand, they were friends and hung out a lot. theyre not friends anymore. hey man.. in my perspective.. she gave in to temptation since they know each other and hangout alot. unless she was totally drunk(very possible), drugged or physically forced(don't think that's possible). the question is more like... will you still date a non-virgin girl or a girl who fucks another person when they're on break?
but it wasnt mutual.
On October 20 2008 07:23 KlaCkoN wrote:
Ok makes more sense that way.
God it makes me mad thinking about this.
As a fellow human it's your responsibility to fuck him up imo. Police (best choice), shoot him, beat him up, whatever. Otherwise he will keep raping girls, perhaps even killing one of them one day.
On the other hand, your loyalty to her dictates that you are there for her, listens to her and don't do _anything_ without her consent.
Tough call really.
Have you asked her wether or not she would want to go after him? Maybe she just needs support for it.
you know, shes really dodgy in terms that i would ask her something and i always have to change the subject because im random like that and she would just answer my random question instead of my question asking her about the subject. and i dont really know how to ask her about that, like, would i just go "would you and (the other girl) go to police about this?" i mean i asked her the night she told me and she said she didnt think of the seriousness of it.. WTF DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?
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On October 20 2008 07:34 Raithed wrote:
you know, shes really dodgy in terms that i would ask her something and i always have to change the subject because im random like that and she would just answer my random question instead of my question asking her about the subject. and i dont really know how to ask her about that, like, would i just go "would you and (the other girl) go to police about this?" i mean i asked her the night she told me and she said she didnt think of the seriousness of it.. WTF DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?
When the things people say make no sense/are confusing like that, it's generally due to dishonesty.
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On October 20 2008 07:46 travis wrote:Show nested quote +On October 20 2008 07:34 Raithed wrote:
you know, shes really dodgy in terms that i would ask her something and i always have to change the subject because im random like that and she would just answer my random question instead of my question asking her about the subject. and i dont really know how to ask her about that, like, would i just go "would you and (the other girl) go to police about this?" i mean i asked her the night she told me and she said she didnt think of the seriousness of it.. WTF DOES THAT EVEN MEAN? When the things people say make no sense/are confusing like that, it's generally due to dishonesty.
Yea you have a point there. On the other hand though if she really wasn't raped it would make no sense whatsoever for her to tell anyone about this (least of all OP) in the first place.
Girls cheat all the time, they _don't_ cheat then get away with it but still stop hanging out with a close friend and months later start crying about rape + tells you that another girl also was raped.
Rape is a strange thing in that it often makes the victim behave guilty.
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well yeah i know girls cheat etc but now this blog has a lot of confusing statements thats making me think otherwise but i wont because i trust her.
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Hm just in case my post didn't make it clear :S
I really don't think she is lying.
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On October 20 2008 08:07 KlaCkoN wrote:Show nested quote +On October 20 2008 07:46 travis wrote:On October 20 2008 07:34 Raithed wrote:
you know, shes really dodgy in terms that i would ask her something and i always have to change the subject because im random like that and she would just answer my random question instead of my question asking her about the subject. and i dont really know how to ask her about that, like, would i just go "would you and (the other girl) go to police about this?" i mean i asked her the night she told me and she said she didnt think of the seriousness of it.. WTF DOES THAT EVEN MEAN? When the things people say make no sense/are confusing like that, it's generally due to dishonesty. Yea you have a point there. On the other hand though if she really wasn't raped it would make no sense whatsoever for her to tell anyone about this (least of all OP) in the first place.
You would think so, but people can be funny like that. They do something they know is bad deep down, and it disturbs them inside and so they have to let it out, even if what they let out is warped and twisted.
regardless this is all speculation, psychotemplar's post earlier was v good imo.
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I would rape the guy who raped her and then hysterically sob "LOOK WHAT YOU MADE ME DO!".
+ Show Spoiler +Seriously now, she's stupid for not reporting him if it was indeed rape, but you reek of needyness.
Also, your post is pretty unclear when it comes to your relationship with her.
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On October 19 2008 23:08 Elvin_vn wrote:
If she flirted with the guy and got raped then she deserved it. Maybe that's why she didn't report it? WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT. FULLSTOP. WHATT?!!!!!!!!
What the fuck is wrong with you are you retarded.
Do we even have the same definition of the word "flirt"?!!
+ Show Spoiler +Edit: On October 19 2008 15:41 riptide wrote:Show nested quote +On October 19 2008 15:01 AmericaN wrote:
I'd rape her. If she didn't report the first guy, why would she report you? Free rough anal sex.  I found it funny.  Was very tempted to post something similar myself but stopped for fear of the banhammer. I'd definitively rather have Elvin_vn banned than AmericaN. I guess the difference is that Elvin was expressing a serious (lol) belief while AmericaN was joking (in a topic intended to be serious), eh? Mhh and let's not forget postcount. Don't pay attention to me, I'm just rambling.
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On October 20 2008 02:23 Raithed wrote:Show nested quote +On October 20 2008 00:58 Fen wrote:
You dont know what shes going through. You are not qualified to tell her what to do. Get some advice from rape help groups and shit, not TL.
If your angry at her because she lost her virginity, then you are the worlds biggest asshole. If you cannot see why she might have hidden the fact from you, then you are the worlds biggest retard.
If you know who the guy is that raped her. Hunt that fucker down and chop his dick off. well of course im not qualified to tell her what to do, im not telling her what to do. You're being defensive. You're not gonna win the game if you don't expand.
Also, I whole-heartedly second what Fen said*.
(even though I must add that I don't have experience with rape myself so I don't really "KNOW" either)
*+ Show Spoiler +"You dont know what shes going through. You are not qualified to tell her what to do.
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If your angry at her because she lost her virginity, then you are the worlds biggest asshole. If you cannot see why she might have hidden the fact from you, then you are the worlds biggest retard."
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fgsvsd here i give u a cyber cookie
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On October 20 2008 10:01 Elvin_vn wrote:fgsvsd here i give u a cyber cookie For me?! How thoughtful. Why, thank you!
You even thought of including a picture incase I didn't know what a cookie was. Good boy. *pats head*
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nah i agree, shes fucking stupid for not reporting it but its not like im going to ache her into reporting it every fucking day. she doesnt like me mentioning about that to her.
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On October 20 2008 07:46 travis wrote:Show nested quote +On October 20 2008 07:34 Raithed wrote:
you know, shes really dodgy in terms that i would ask her something and i always have to change the subject because im random like that and she would just answer my random question instead of my question asking her about the subject. and i dont really know how to ask her about that, like, would i just go "would you and (the other girl) go to police about this?" i mean i asked her the night she told me and she said she didnt think of the seriousness of it.. WTF DOES THAT EVEN MEAN? When the things people say make no sense/are confusing like that, it's generally due to dishonesty.
God, you know what's a sure fire sign of bullshit when a girl is talking about a relationship? "It's complicated." That's like instantly making an accurate label of Lying Dumb Bitch for yourself.
What I hate so much, is when you call them out on their shit, and they act offended like they're mad at you for not being retarded. Good lord, lol. People make mistakes, it's better to be honest about them than to try and fool people into thinking you're infallible... It's just insulting to my intelligence, and the only friends you're going to keep are going to be extremely dull witted. Oh well lol.
If people would just yield my Door Walking philosophy, there would be a lot fewer rapes in the world.
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On October 20 2008 12:47 Raithed wrote:
nah i agree, shes fucking stupid for not reporting it but its not like im going to ache her into reporting it every fucking day. she doesnt like me mentioning about that to her.
I'll just say that considering how many women choose not to say anything (it's a lot), you shouldn't just look at it like it's a smart/dumb decision. Yeah, she probably did the wrong thing by being quiet, but it's an enormously difficult decision with incredible circumstances and you'll probably never go through anything that comes close to it.
Just accept that you don't understand it and don't cast judgment on that decision.
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umm is this the girl you're writing a song for?
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On October 20 2008 15:01 yubee wrote:
umm is this the girl you're writing a song for?
no.
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