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AmericaN
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riptide
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On October 19 2008 15:01 AmericaN wrote: I'd rape her. If she didn't report the first guy, why would she report you? Free rough anal sex.  On October 19 2008 13:56 Raithed wrote: but tell me this, how come it took her months to tell me. is it because shes afraid of hurting me? i dont know, if that had happened to me i think i would tell right? i dont know, different people have different mindsets i guess. I think the keyword here being _if_ it ever happened to you. Truth is, it never has, and if it did, it probably would take you a long time to talk to anyone about it. Unlike being beat up, or anything close to that, being raped is something that often brings a lot of shame along with it. For a long time, a victim may feel that he/she is responsible, and will feel ashamed to share the experience with others. You MUST understand this. It was probably not because she afraid of hurting you (although this may have been a part of the reason). The main reason is that she had to gather her courage to tell someone. The fact that she told you shows she trusts you. Be a rock man, she needs you at this time. | ||
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yubee
United States3826 Posts
On October 19 2008 15:01 AmericaN wrote: hahahahahaI'd rape her. If she didn't report the first guy, why would she report you? Free rough anal sex. | ||
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geometryb
United States1249 Posts
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geometryb
United States1249 Posts
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Koldblooded
United States661 Posts
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Elvin_vn
Vietnam2038 Posts
If she flirted with the guy and got raped then she deserved it. Maybe that's why she didn't report it? PS: Virginity is overrated and that kind of promise is corny. Best advise: stay away from emo girl. | ||
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ish0wstopper
Korea (South)342 Posts
On October 19 2008 23:08 Elvin_vn wrote: How did she get raped? If she flirted with the guy and got raped then she deserved it. Maybe that's why she didn't report it? PS: Virginity is overrated and that kind of promise is corny. Best advise: stay away from emo girl. nah i think its sweet but why wouldn't she report it? rape is not something small, its something that can mentally scar a person for life. but i dont feel like i can make a judgment call for you cause i dont know your situation that well | ||
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Fen
Australia1848 Posts
If your angry at her because she lost her virginity, then you are the worlds biggest asshole. If you cannot see why she might have hidden the fact from you, then you are the worlds biggest retard. If you know who the guy is that raped her. Hunt that fucker down and chop his dick off. | ||
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Deleted User 3420
24492 Posts
On October 19 2008 11:34 Raithed wrote: what would you do if you and this girl were in love but not dating anymore because you both have dated three times and this is going to be a long break instead of a short break. and during the course of the relationship, she says that she would keep her virginity to you and then was later raped by a guy but did not report it. what would you do? would you be angry at the fact that she did not report it? imagine this was you. Anger is not a useful response to any situation. I would be compassionate. | ||
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Deleted User 3420
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Raithed
China7078 Posts
On October 19 2008 22:52 Koldblooded wrote: How are you in love if you can't stay together? you know, thats the funny thing. its not like we dont want to be together or anything, we just like breaks sometimes so we dont annoy the hell out of each other but we still love each other. the thing with us is that when we take breaks or long time of not talking to each other, we are more closer. i guess this kind of attributes to it somehow. On October 20 2008 00:58 Fen wrote: You dont know what shes going through. You are not qualified to tell her what to do. Get some advice from rape help groups and shit, not TL. If your angry at her because she lost her virginity, then you are the worlds biggest asshole. If you cannot see why she might have hidden the fact from you, then you are the worlds biggest retard. If you know who the guy is that raped her. Hunt that fucker down and chop his dick off. well of course im not qualified to tell her what to do, im not telling her what to do. On October 20 2008 00:43 ish0wstopper wrote: nah i think its sweet but why wouldn't she report it? rape is not something small, its something that can mentally scar a person for life. but i dont feel like i can make a judgment call for you cause i dont know your situation that well i dont know, i keep asking myself why she didnt report it but she said she didnt think there was any seriousness in it. i dont know how to make use out of that.. i mean, the guy already raped another girl but it wasnt rape? but she said it surely wasnt mutual, so it has to be? i dont know. On October 19 2008 23:08 Elvin_vn wrote: How did she get raped? If she flirted with the guy and got raped then she deserved it. Maybe that's why she didn't report it? PS: Virginity is overrated and that kind of promise is corny. Best advise: stay away from emo girl. they hang out a lot, and as far as i know, he has a gf? | ||
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HotZhot
Colombia677 Posts
-if it was truly "rape" | ||
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Deleted User 3420
24492 Posts
On October 20 2008 02:23 Raithed wrote: i dont know, i keep asking myself why she didnt report it but she said she didnt think there was any seriousness in it. i dont know how to make use out of that.. i mean, the guy already raped another girl but it wasnt rape? but she said it surely wasnt mutual, so it has to be? i dont know. She probably gave into desires and is now being dishonest about it. Just a guess. | ||
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Chef
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If you've dated 3 times... broke up 3 times... No... I've seen people like that... They don't really love each other, they're just obsessed with thinking they do. But then, there's not enough information given here... Just do what makes sense to you. | ||
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FreeDoM[YA]
Canada855 Posts
On October 19 2008 14:27 letsbefree wrote: she got raped? holy shit ='( personally i would find the guy and fucking rip his dick off | ||
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KlaCkoN
Sweden1661 Posts
On October 20 2008 02:23 Raithed wrote: you know, thats the funny thing. its not like we dont want to be together or anything, we just like breaks sometimes so we dont annoy the hell out of each other but we still love each other. the thing with us is that when we take breaks or long time of not talking to each other, we are more closer. i guess this kind of attributes to it somehow. well of course im not qualified to tell her what to do, im not telling her what to do. i dont know, i keep asking myself why she didnt report it but she said she didnt think there was any seriousness in it. i dont know how to make use out of that.. i mean, the guy already raped another girl but it wasnt rape? but she said it surely wasnt mutual, so it has to be? i dont know. they hang out a lot, and as far as i know, he has a gf? Ehm she got "raped" by a guy but is still friends with him? ...... And yes virginity is overrated I wouldn't care much about that specific part if I were you. | ||
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Raithed
China7078 Posts
On October 20 2008 06:11 KlaCkoN wrote: Ehm she got "raped" by a guy but is still friends with him? ...... And yes virginity is overrated I wouldn't care much about that specific part if I were you. i guess i didnt make sense since you did not understand, they were friends and hung out a lot. theyre not friends anymore. | ||
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artofmagic
United States1951 Posts
On October 20 2008 07:04 Raithed wrote: i guess i didnt make sense since you did not understand, they were friends and hung out a lot. theyre not friends anymore. hey man.. in my perspective.. she gave in to temptation since they know each other and hangout alot. unless she was totally drunk(very possible), drugged or physically forced(don't think that's possible). the question is more like... will you still date a non-virgin girl or a girl who fucks another person when they're on break? | ||
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KlaCkoN
Sweden1661 Posts
God it makes me mad thinking about this. As a fellow human it's your responsibility to fuck him up imo. Police (best choice), shoot him, beat him up, whatever. Otherwise he will keep raping girls, perhaps even killing one of them one day. On the other hand, your loyalty to her dictates that you are there for her, listens to her and don't do _anything_ without her consent. Tough call really. Have you asked her wether or not she would want to go after him? Maybe she just needs support for it. | ||
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