Fat girls like me T.T why?!!! - Page 4

On September 10 2008 01:31 carotte wrote:
This all started about 3 years ago at a summer music camp <--- says it all.

On September 09 2008 23:43 Klockan3 wrote:

F=G*(Mm/r^2)

The attraction sure is there.

On September 09 2008 23:33 Ilikestarcraft wrote:
girls like me T.T why?!!!

Funny what one word could do

On September 10 2008 01:54 eshlow wrote:


lol, I saw that.. was wondering if anyone was gonna pick it out.

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In any case, for all of you who are saying it's shallow. Seriously? And as far as attraction goes.. why would you want to be with someone who you're not attracted to?

Someone being fat (unless it's a medical condition which less than 2% are) shows to me that they generally don't care enough about their bodies or don't have the discipline/self control to keep their weight down. Yes, obesity does have health risks (increased risk of premature death, diabetes, hypertension, heart disease, etc.).... That itself is unattractive and is part of "personality" so it's not just about "how someone looks".

Like someone said.. I take care of my body and I expect that they will take care of theirs.

But I kinda agree that making a blog about it is a bit in bad taste.. but I don't really understand half of the animosity being directed towards the OP.

On September 10 2008 01:31 carotte wrote:
This all started about 3 years ago at a summer music camp <--- says it all.

On September 09 2008 13:24 Ancestral wrote:
I think I may have an explanation, because fat girls like me too. These girls try to come up and talk to me, while the ground literally quakes beneath their feet and people jump out of their high rise apartments in sheer terror. The just lumber around sweating all over everything and eating small children and Big Macs and crushing defenseless animals beneath their feet and then always end up approaching me.

They take a couple of big snorks of air with their pig like noses, breathing laboriously because of the few steps they had to take towards me and then say something like "hey, what's up?"

I realized what I believe to be the cause of this by observing my friends who must face similar horrors. I have a beard usually, and my friends who suffer similarly also have either beards or, get this, long hair. I think since fat girls like to consume gallons of ice cream and lard everyday, they are similarly attracted to men who make any kind of counter-culture decision, such as having facial hair, piercings, tattoos, or long hair. I'm just a regular guy who likes his face to be warm in winter, but I have to deal with the criminal atrocity of fat girls at parties.

Just don't give in, or just lead the on for a while and then give them a business card from a gym or something and say you're worried they're going to die from a heart attack if they don't take care of their body.

On September 10 2008 07:37 Elgar wrote:
You make it sound like fat women are supposed to be naturally attracted to not-so-good-looking people. Unless this world has done a 180 on me and people are supposed to go after someone that they don't find attractive at all, what's wrong with it?

On September 09 2008 15:07 nevergg wrote:
Weight isn't what should define a person - it's their personality. Someone can be stick thin and hateful inside/make other peoples' lives a misery. It's sad to see there are still people out there so utterly shallow that they can't look past external attributes. i'm not saying you have to be attracted to someone regardless of their physical characteristics - after all most people have a 'type' that they prefer. Just don't be such a drama queen about it and deal with the fact that girls you don't feel attracted to like you. It should be seen as flattering that *anyone* likes you - not something to make a blog about.

On September 10 2008 12:25 nA.Inky wrote:
I had a girlfriend briefly who weighed 210 pounds. She was a nice girl, and I liked her fine, but sex was kind of awkward... when she was on top of me, it caused me pain in my hips from the weight, and I was so intimidated I couldn't stay hard. I couldn't do her in anything but missionary style since to look at her flab would undo the mood. But I tell you,it FELT really good, and she was a bigtime nympho and put on a great performance for me. If I shut my eyes and just went for it, it was pretty damn fun, I have to say.

Might as well try a fat chick once in your life.

On September 10 2008 07:52 Grobyc wrote:

I kind of agree, sure they should go after someone they find attractive(apparently someone skinnier in this case) but they shouldn't expect much if they know that person doesn't find them attractive. Like a couple people said it's not attractive when someone doesn't take care of their body. So those fat women or anyone else can't call the guys who turn them down shallow really because when people don't take care of their body IT IS REPULSIVE, and not attractive. What do you expect the guys to do? Say yes, just to be nice? Then that is just a fake relationship which could lead to more problems than initially saying "No, sorry I'm not interested.". So to those people who say those kind of guys are shallow: QFT plz, it's a lot more complicated than just saying "Yeah sure, I'll date you."