Fat girls like me T.T why?!!!

On September 09 2008 12:55 XCetron wrote:
are you fat too?

On September 09 2008 13:14 Ilikestarcraft wrote:
5'6 140 isnt thin though

On September 09 2008 13:24 Fontong wrote:


yeah but im really thin since i dont have any fat at all. its just asian+exercise+im a vegetarian, so yeah with only muscle its pretty ez to be thin at 5'6 and 140

video is pretty funny

On September 09 2008 13:24 Ancestral wrote:
Just don't give in, or just lead the on for a while and then give them a business card from a gym or something and say you're worried they're going to die from a heart attack if they don't take care of their body.

On September 09 2008 13:24 Ancestral wrote:
I think I may have an explanation, because fat girls like me too. These girls try to come up and talk to me, while the ground literally quakes beneath their feet and people jump out of their high rise apartments in sheer terror. The just lumber around sweating all over everything and eating small children and Big Macs and crushing defenseless animals beneath their feet and then always end up approaching me.

They take a couple of big snorks of air with their pig like noses, breathing laboriously because of the few steps they had to take towards me and then say something like "hey, what's up?"

I realized what I believe to be the cause of this by observing my friends who must face similar horrors. I have a beard usually, and my friends who suffer similarly also have either beards or, get this, long hair. I think since fat girls like to consume gallons of ice cream and lard everyday, they are similarly attracted to men who make any kind of counter-culture decision, such as having facial hair, piercings, tattoos, or long hair. I'm just a regular guy who likes his face to be warm in winter, but I have to deal with the criminal atrocity of fat girls at parties.

Just don't give in, or just lead the on for a while and then give them a business card from a gym or something and say you're worried they're going to die from a heart attack if they don't take care of their body.

On September 09 2008 13:26 Ilikestarcraft wrote:

im 5'9 130

On September 09 2008 13:32 alphafuzard wrote:
dont shoo em off until the last minute
you never know which one of em might jump on a diet and suddenly lose 50 pounds but keep the important goods *nudge nudge wink wink*

On September 09 2008 13:14 Ilikestarcraft wrote:
5'6 140 isnt thin though

On September 09 2008 12:52 Track wrote:
....Shallow idiot.

On September 09 2008 12:52 Track wrote:
....Shallow idiot.

On September 09 2008 15:07 nevergg wrote:
It should be seen as flattering that *anyone* likes you - not something to make a blog about.

On September 09 2008 15:32 Klockan3 wrote:

However, nature makes it so that we feel sick by the notion that ugly persons liking us. This is so that you do not answer on their approach, it is the same thing as feeling excited when people we are attracted to likes us but in reverse.

And the main thing is that you do not want to hurt the girl, no matter if she is fat or not, however if she approaches you like that it means that you are then in a very demanding situation if you are going to put her down nicely. If he did not try to be nice to them and just told them in their face that he do not want their fat asses he would not have this problem anymore.

Also if you get a lot of attractive people liking you, then having a few ugly ones is irritating, just ask any attractive girl how it is to be approached by scumbags.

One is that I have long hair, which at the time I left in a ponytail all the time.

On September 09 2008 12:51 Fontong wrote:
Title says it all. FAT GIRLS LIKE ME! I have absolutely no idea why. This all started about 3 years ago at a summer music camp when a random fat girl just basically told me she had a crush on me. Of course I was like "Wtf?!" The weird/creepy part was she somehow got my phone number, which I have no idea how it happened, since no one at the camp could have given it to her(and I sure as hell didn't). She uses it to text me every few months to remind me that she still likes me, which is what prompted me to create this blog, since her last message came like a week ago.

After that first girl, I didn't really think anything of it. Until, that is, I came back to school the next year and there was a fat girl in my band who had it in for me. She basically started following me everytime she noticed me and would like corner me and force me into a conversation. While we were talking she would stare at me with like really leering eyes while ignoring my subtle verbal cues that I was completely uninterested by her and wanted to gtfo.

I still didn't think anything was amiss until badminton season started and there was yet another fat girl who did basically the same thing as the second. After that I was like 'Where have a gone wrong??!' There was even one more, but I forget the details at the moment.

Now a little background about me. I don't have any trouble with non-fat(a-fat?) girls and I'm fairly popular with them imo, so that isn't a problem. I don't particularly stand out except for two things. One is that I have long hair, which at the time I left in a ponytail all the time. Second is that I'm half asian and half white. I've been told that half asian people as usually hot, I haven't really noticed it by my experience, I think its just something people say. Also, half asians aren't too unusual in CA.

So why does this happen?! It just drives me crazy sometimes to be hit on by fat girls...

Note: I'm not fat. Lol. pretty thin actually, asian side lets me eat as much as i want without becoming fat.

Fat girl thinks you're more in her league, because you also look kinda off.

On September 09 2008 19:59 indecision wrote:
You play Badminton 4 times a week and are proud of it?

On September 09 2008 13:58 AttackZerg wrote:



I'm 5'6 137 with 8% body fat and I am one of the smallest people you ever meet in height and weight and bone size. It all depends on your fat/muscle ratio along with bone density ....

Its why weight isn't a good thin/fat decided .... up to a point of course

On September 09 2008 23:29 Ki_Do wrote:
Tell them u dont feel attracted

On September 10 2008 01:31 carotte wrote:
This all started about 3 years ago at a summer music camp <--- says it all.

On September 09 2008 23:43 Klockan3 wrote:

F=G*(Mm/r^2)

The attraction sure is there.

On September 09 2008 23:33 Ilikestarcraft wrote:
girls like me T.T why?!!!

Funny what one word could do

On September 10 2008 01:54 eshlow wrote:


lol, I saw that.. was wondering if anyone was gonna pick it out.

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In any case, for all of you who are saying it's shallow. Seriously? And as far as attraction goes.. why would you want to be with someone who you're not attracted to?

Someone being fat (unless it's a medical condition which less than 2% are) shows to me that they generally don't care enough about their bodies or don't have the discipline/self control to keep their weight down. Yes, obesity does have health risks (increased risk of premature death, diabetes, hypertension, heart disease, etc.).... That itself is unattractive and is part of "personality" so it's not just about "how someone looks".

Like someone said.. I take care of my body and I expect that they will take care of theirs.

But I kinda agree that making a blog about it is a bit in bad taste.. but I don't really understand half of the animosity being directed towards the OP.

On September 10 2008 01:31 carotte wrote:
This all started about 3 years ago at a summer music camp <--- says it all.

On September 09 2008 13:24 Ancestral wrote:
I think I may have an explanation, because fat girls like me too. These girls try to come up and talk to me, while the ground literally quakes beneath their feet and people jump out of their high rise apartments in sheer terror. The just lumber around sweating all over everything and eating small children and Big Macs and crushing defenseless animals beneath their feet and then always end up approaching me.

They take a couple of big snorks of air with their pig like noses, breathing laboriously because of the few steps they had to take towards me and then say something like "hey, what's up?"

I realized what I believe to be the cause of this by observing my friends who must face similar horrors. I have a beard usually, and my friends who suffer similarly also have either beards or, get this, long hair. I think since fat girls like to consume gallons of ice cream and lard everyday, they are similarly attracted to men who make any kind of counter-culture decision, such as having facial hair, piercings, tattoos, or long hair. I'm just a regular guy who likes his face to be warm in winter, but I have to deal with the criminal atrocity of fat girls at parties.

Just don't give in, or just lead the on for a while and then give them a business card from a gym or something and say you're worried they're going to die from a heart attack if they don't take care of their body.

On September 10 2008 07:37 Elgar wrote:
You make it sound like fat women are supposed to be naturally attracted to not-so-good-looking people. Unless this world has done a 180 on me and people are supposed to go after someone that they don't find attractive at all, what's wrong with it?

On September 09 2008 15:07 nevergg wrote:
Weight isn't what should define a person - it's their personality. Someone can be stick thin and hateful inside/make other peoples' lives a misery. It's sad to see there are still people out there so utterly shallow that they can't look past external attributes. i'm not saying you have to be attracted to someone regardless of their physical characteristics - after all most people have a 'type' that they prefer. Just don't be such a drama queen about it and deal with the fact that girls you don't feel attracted to like you. It should be seen as flattering that *anyone* likes you - not something to make a blog about.

On September 10 2008 12:25 nA.Inky wrote:
I had a girlfriend briefly who weighed 210 pounds. She was a nice girl, and I liked her fine, but sex was kind of awkward... when she was on top of me, it caused me pain in my hips from the weight, and I was so intimidated I couldn't stay hard. I couldn't do her in anything but missionary style since to look at her flab would undo the mood. But I tell you,it FELT really good, and she was a bigtime nympho and put on a great performance for me. If I shut my eyes and just went for it, it was pretty damn fun, I have to say.

Might as well try a fat chick once in your life.

On September 10 2008 07:52 Grobyc wrote:

I kind of agree, sure they should go after someone they find attractive(apparently someone skinnier in this case) but they shouldn't expect much if they know that person doesn't find them attractive. Like a couple people said it's not attractive when someone doesn't take care of their body. So those fat women or anyone else can't call the guys who turn them down shallow really because when people don't take care of their body IT IS REPULSIVE, and not attractive. What do you expect the guys to do? Say yes, just to be nice? Then that is just a fake relationship which could lead to more problems than initially saying "No, sorry I'm not interested.". So to those people who say those kind of guys are shallow: QFT plz, it's a lot more complicated than just saying "Yeah sure, I'll date you."

On September 11 2008 12:28 Kennigit wrote:
SHUTUP