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On September 09 2008 13:26 Ilikestarcraft wrote:Show nested quote +On September 09 2008 13:24 Fontong wrote:On September 09 2008 13:14 Ilikestarcraft wrote:
5'6 140 isnt thin though yeah but im really thin since i dont have any fat at all. its just asian+exercise+im a vegetarian, so yeah with only muscle its pretty ez to be thin at 5'6 and 140 video is pretty funny im 5'9 130 
That is crazy skinny though, 5'6" 140# is acceptable, while not rail thin. I'm 5'9" 150-160# depending on the time of year (lighter in summer because of additional free time from school for more outdoor exercise!) and I don't look the slightest bit fat.
But still, better crazy skinny than morbidly obese, or even slightly. Someone recently wrote a blog about weight loss... it was ridiculously amazing. His before and after pictures were far better and manlier than any infomercial ever. Let him be a shining example to all fat girls of the world!
Edit: It was energies.
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dont shoo em off until the last minute
you never know which one of em might jump on a diet and suddenly lose 50 pounds but keep the important goods *nudge nudge wink wink*
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United States2061 Posts
On September 09 2008 13:32 alphafuzard wrote:
dont shoo em off until the last minute
you never know which one of em might jump on a diet and suddenly lose 50 pounds but keep the important goods *nudge nudge wink wink*
Yea because obviously fat girls are inhuman without the usual ORGANS AND BODY PARTS. lol @ OP this is pretty fuckin hilarious.
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if i wanted to be surrounded by lard i would go bath in a bacon factory. for some guys, the chick actualy needs to be ATTRACTIVE for them to get off.
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maybe u just give them that lovin feelin. srsly, som thick chicks r cute......sometimes
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On September 09 2008 13:14 Ilikestarcraft wrote:
5'6 140 isnt thin though
I'm 5'6 137 with 8% body fat and I am one of the smallest people you ever meet in height and weight and bone size. It all depends on your fat/muscle ratio along with bone density ....
Its why weight isn't a good thin/fat decided .... up to a point of course 
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On September 09 2008 12:52 Track wrote:
....Shallow idiot.
Well there's no points in dating a woman you are not physically attracted to right? You can't randomly change that fact either. The same thing seems to happen to me too that the OP describes and I swear I could not force a boner from them if I wanted to. Just say you are already interested in someone else or something, and if they ask who then say it personal or something. Works for me 
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On September 09 2008 12:52 Track wrote:
....Shallow idiot.
Contrary to popular belief being unattractive does not mean you have any kind of deep personality! Also sex is an important part of relationships, do you want a girl or a mountain of meat grease in your bed?
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Sadly, it's true that you do have to be attracted to someone for a relationship to work. Reversely, you could say the same about a personal connection though. Lots of guys don't fixate on that, they just like a nice piece of ass and a pretty face for them to feel proud of instead of worrying about personality conflicts...
I guess what I'm saying is.. It's not wrong for him to not be attracted to a certain type of girl... But I guess it's equally wrong to ignore personality conflicts in favor of getting some pussy-time? Ionno, just theorycrafting.
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NeverGG
United Kingdom5399 Posts
Weight isn't what should define a person - it's their personality. Someone can be stick thin and hateful inside/make other peoples' lives a misery. It's sad to see there are still people out there so utterly shallow that they can't look past external attributes. i'm not saying you have to be attracted to someone regardless of their physical characteristics - after all most people have a 'type' that they prefer. Just don't be such a drama queen about it and deal with the fact that girls you don't feel attracted to like you. It should be seen as flattering that *anyone* likes you - not something to make a blog about.
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On September 09 2008 15:07 nevergg wrote:
It should be seen as flattering that *anyone* likes you - not something to make a blog about.
However, nature makes it so that we feel sick by the notion that ugly persons liking us. This is so that you do not answer on their approach, it is the same thing as feeling excited when people we are attracted to likes us but in reverse.
And the main thing is that you do not want to hurt the girl, no matter if she is fat or not, however if she approaches you like that it means that you are then in a very demanding situation if you are going to put her down nicely. If he did not try to be nice to them and just told them in their face that he do not want their fat asses he would not have this problem anymore.
Also if you get a lot of attractive people liking you, then having a few ugly ones is irritating, just ask any attractive girl how it is to be approached by scumbags.
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NeverGG
United Kingdom5399 Posts
On September 09 2008 15:32 Klockan3 wrote:Show nested quote +On September 09 2008 15:07 nevergg wrote:
It should be seen as flattering that *anyone* likes you - not something to make a blog about. However, nature makes it so that we feel sick by the notion that ugly persons liking us. This is so that you do not answer on their approach, it is the same thing as feeling excited when people we are attracted to likes us but in reverse. And the main thing is that you do not want to hurt the girl, no matter if she is fat or not, however if she approaches you like that it means that you are then in a very demanding situation if you are going to put her down nicely. If he did not try to be nice to them and just told them in their face that he do not want their fat asses he would not have this problem anymore. Also if you get a lot of attractive people liking you, then having a few ugly ones is irritating, just ask any attractive girl how it is to be approached by scumbags.
I agree with you about not hurting the girl's feelings. However, there are ways of making your intentions (or lack of them.) clear without bringing her physical characteristics into consideration. I agree that people shouldn't try to force themselves on someone who obviously isn't interested (which is what I assume you mean by attractive girls being approached by scumbags.) - as long as the person isn't taking that route then being too blunt/using their physical attributes as a weapon shouldn't be a viable option for 'letting them down.'
As a girl I know I'd rather be told straight that someone doesn't fancy me/has someone else etc - as long as it was done in a considerate way. I think I'm just annoyed that the op is making such a fuss about the weight issue. It does not define someone's personality (unless they have a pervasive/emotionally linked eating disorder - which a lot of 'overweight' girls don't.)
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One is that I have long hair, which at the time I left in a ponytail all the time.
I think I have a theory.
Fat girl has low self esteem.
Fat girl thinks you're more in her league, because you also look kinda off.
Fat girl knows that off guys are generally not confident or ready to make any initial moves.
Fat girl takes the lead, knowing that she wants a boyfriend, and she isn't going to let a little thing like social norms dictate her life, and crushes it with her massive girth.
Fat girl asks you out.
Theory is based on the minimal information you've given, and the assumption that fat girls are similar to guys, in that they ask people out based on whether they think they're in 'league' with them or not.
Call it superficial. It is. But unless you work with a person or somehow know each other already, it's not like you're reading their minds just knowing they're a beautiful person on the inside too (despite the surprisingly large number of dolts who think they are [everyone's heard their friend talk about how smart this girl you know is a ditz is, and you just have to nod and say "uhhh, I guess so, Brent  "]).
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MrHoon
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On September 09 2008 12:51 Fontong wrote:
Title says it all. FAT GIRLS LIKE ME! I have absolutely no idea why. This all started about 3 years ago at a summer music camp when a random fat girl just basically told me she had a crush on me. Of course I was like "Wtf?!" The weird/creepy part was she somehow got my phone number, which I have no idea how it happened, since no one at the camp could have given it to her(and I sure as hell didn't). She uses it to text me every few months to remind me that she still likes me, which is what prompted me to create this blog, since her last message came like a week ago.
After that first girl, I didn't really think anything of it. Until, that is, I came back to school the next year and there was a fat girl in my band who had it in for me. She basically started following me everytime she noticed me and would like corner me and force me into a conversation. While we were talking she would stare at me with like really leering eyes while ignoring my subtle verbal cues that I was completely uninterested by her and wanted to gtfo.
I still didn't think anything was amiss until badminton season started and there was yet another fat girl who did basically the same thing as the second. After that I was like 'Where have a gone wrong??!' There was even one more, but I forget the details at the moment.
Now a little background about me. I don't have any trouble with non-fat(a-fat?) girls and I'm fairly popular with them imo, so that isn't a problem. I don't particularly stand out except for two things. One is that I have long hair, which at the time I left in a ponytail all the time. Second is that I'm half asian and half white. I've been told that half asian people as usually hot, I haven't really noticed it by my experience, I think its just something people say. Also, half asians aren't too unusual in CA.
So why does this happen?! It just drives me crazy sometimes to be hit on by fat girls...
Note: I'm not fat. Lol. pretty thin actually, asian side lets me eat as much as i want without becoming fat.
UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS CAN BE DEADLY
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Fat girl thinks you're more in her league, because you also look kinda off.
lol, half asians are off-looking people now?
Ah, just tell them you're not dating anyone outside your race. As an Asian, you might get away without the usual racism accusations
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I'm surprised anyone likes you, you shallow cunt.
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Omfg...
If like you say you have no problem getting "normal" girls, just get one and be done with it?
You can't use this fat girls as bait anyways. And since we're being shallow in this thread, cut off the pony tail and quit badminton or some girl you later hit on will make an "omg, creepy guys like me" blog including you as exibit A or B on some other forum.
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Some girls don't get subtle hints, nonverbal cuess. Then play the I already have someone card. The girl keeps comming till your clear about this or she is a ...real problem... After that the onty option is to be blunt.
Call me shallow but I go for looks. Im not going to work on an ugly girl to find out if she has a nice personallity. Im not dissng them or what.
I do know some homely people with some kind of Charm. Having a strong presence without shoving it down someones throat. They are pretty rare.
Even a bit mystical because overcoming the disadvantage.
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You play Badminton 4 times a week and are proud of it?
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