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ThePhan2m
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JWD
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8Pylon
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 youre such a twat and a heartless oompaloompa :/ | ||
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Night[Mare
Mexico4793 Posts
On August 31 2008 20:35 KlaCkoN wrote: Yeah.. I hope I did... But I am unsure how else to understand the part where he thinks that it is weird that she has a deep crush on him while he has none on her. I think she has a crush on me but im not quire sure, im just alking from my experience. It's weird because with my past gf i rmember being in a big big crush with her. It just doesnt happen with this girl. Not like im taking advantage of that. I really like her, she's like myself in woman. I mean she likes to play SC, gears of war, diablo, SSBM, likes Kamelot, Avantasia, Rhapsody, Knows what the fuck starwars movies are about, enjoys actions movies etc. I just dont have a crush on her that's all. I hope it clears your doubts : )! | ||
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XDawn
Canada4040 Posts
because then I think half the internetz would go apeshit on you | ||
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KlaCkoN
Sweden1661 Posts
There is absolutely nothing wrong with beeing best friends with a girl and having awsome sex with her on the side. What is fucking wrong though is when she is "in love" with you and all you want is to be best (sex)friends but in order to get with her you fool her into thinking you are actually in love as well. I have been on the recieving end in such a relationship and it was the worst, most horrible, fucked up experience ever. Please, please make the world a better place and be honest with her. | ||
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thoraxe
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Ghardo
Germany1685 Posts
On September 01 2008 02:22 KlaCkoN wrote: If you are not in love, or on your way to falling in love with her you should make sure she understands that. There is absolutely nothing wrong with beeing best friends with a girl and having awsome sex with her on the side. What is fucking wrong though is when she is "in love" with you and all you want is to be best (sex)friends but in order to get with her you fool her into thinking you are actually in love as well. I have been on the recieving end in such a relationship and it was the worst, most horrible, fucked up experience ever. Please, please make the world a better place and be honest with her. . | ||
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Night[Mare
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kpcrew
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Daigomi
South Africa4316 Posts
On September 01 2008 02:22 KlaCkoN wrote: If you are not in love, or on your way to falling in love with her you should make sure she understands that. There is absolutely nothing wrong with beeing best friends with a girl and having awsome sex with her on the side. What is fucking wrong though is when she is "in love" with you and all you want is to be best (sex)friends but in order to get with her you fool her into thinking you are actually in love as well. I have been on the recieving end in such a relationship and it was the worst, most horrible, fucked up experience ever. Please, please make the world a better place and be honest with her. I disagree with this. You're putting some magical value on "in love" and "out of love". I wasn't particularly "in love" with my girlfriend when we started going out, although I did like her and found her attractive. Two years later and now I can say that I love her, and that I am in love with her. Nightmare seems to like the girl, and I don't think you need to be head over heels in love with someone when you go out, and there's nothing dishonest about that. Love develops, and love at first site is more accurately called infatuation. If she has a crush on him, good for him, hopefully she can develop that crush into something more sustainable, and he learns to love her (not necessarily be infatuated with her) as well. Also, Nightmare has never mentioned that he wants to fuck her in his blogs (except this one to some extent, and it's fairly understandable considering...), he's always just said that he likes her personality and finds her attractive. So unless he is "using" her for her personality, which is bizarre, I don't see what's wrong. | ||
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o3.power91
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KlaCkoN
Sweden1661 Posts
On September 01 2008 07:26 Daigomi wrote: I disagree with this. You're putting some magical value on "in love" and "out of love". I wasn't particularly "in love" with my girlfriend when we started going out, although I did like her and found her attractive. Two years later and now I can say that I love her, and that I am in love with her. Nightmare seems to like the girl, and I don't think you need to be head over heels in love with someone when you go out, and there's nothing dishonest about that. Love develops, and love at first site is more accurately called infatuation. If she has a crush on him, good for him, hopefully she can develop that crush into something more sustainable, and he learns to love her (not necessarily be infatuated with her) as well. Also, Nightmare has never mentioned that he wants to fuck her in his blogs (except this one to some extent, and it's fairly understandable considering...), he's always just said that he likes her personality and finds her attractive. So unless he is "using" her for her personality, which is bizarre, I don't see what's wrong. I am not putting a magical value on love at all, I am merly using the word as a reference to a certain set of feelings or a certain state of mind. In Swedish we have different words for the feelings right at the begining of a relationship and in a more marture one. I don't know the distiction in English however so I am using the word love to describe all of it which gets a bit clumsy. Anyway I don't think there is much point to calling someone your girlfriend if you are not dancing on pink clouds so to speak. Especially if the other person actually is dancing on pink clouds. Why can't we reserve romantic relationships for when "love" is involved? There is nothing wrong to call someone a friend, when friendship is all you feel. Sure two people who both are not dancing might decide to call each other boy and girlfriend for whatever reason. But when one is and one is not it is evil and mean to exploit their feelings imo. At least without telling them about the situation. Whether you do it for sex or friendship or both is largly irrelevant. | ||
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On September 01 2008 01:39 8Pylon wrote: :/ :r youre such a twat and a heartless oompaloompa :/ LOL :D | ||
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Hypnosis
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Jonoman92
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Bill307
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On August 31 2008 16:59 RtS)Night[Mare wrote: This was so weird because she starts like she's going to break up with me and then we end like this. I have a feeling she might have a deep crush on me even though i have none on her. It's weird :\ i like her, i hope i can handle this. Standard. She's got a crush on you and is just being carried around by her emotions with no control over them. =/ If anything, if you're looking for a serious relationship then you should ask that question of her, i.e. why should she stay with you and not leave you for some other guy? I doubt she has a real answer beyond the usual stuff (you're hot, you're funny, you're smart, you're nice, etc. that applies to every guy when a girl has a crush on him). Sounds like you don't have one either but that's fine.  But if you want this to be serious then you'd better think about it.I've thought about how I'd respond to that question if a certain girl asked me, and the good news is, I can give a good honest answer. Except if she asks me, "What if another girl comes along who has all those things AND ______?" (e.g. plays StarCraft, plays Arcana Heart, etc.) Still not completely sure what to say about that, because obviously the selfish thing to do would be to learn more about this girl to see if she's a better match for me. But I guess if I did that then how could any girl trust me + I'd have to draw the line somewhere + the golden rule, sooo that would be why I'd still stick with her...? (I'm a real charmer, as you can tell.) So personally I'd just be honest, but (a) I'm interested in a serious relationship and (b) I've actually thought about my answer beforehand. If not for that... I guess I'd have to ask if I can get back to her on that? o_O Hey it's not smooth, but I gotta be honest with you, Nightmare: your answer was full of dodge. And now that travis mentions it, if she's anything like how I used to be, then expect inexplicable mood swings like this to happen a LOT.  | ||
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