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On being a girl in the Starcraft gaming community. - Page 2

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Slayer91
Profile Joined February 2006
Ireland23335 Posts
March 08 2008 17:54 GMT
#21
Good OP Niji, nice read.

P.S lol@ cow & dronebabo
rpf
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
United States2705 Posts
March 08 2008 17:59 GMT
#22
The way I see it, anyone that puts you down for being a girl is basically putting up a nice, big sign that reads "I'm a loser so don't waste your time talking to me." The idiots weed themselves out for you.

"A fear of weapons is a sign of retarded sexual and emotional maturity." - Sigmund Freud
Shauni
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
4077 Posts
March 08 2008 18:02 GMT
#23
On March 09 2008 02:59 rpf wrote:
The way I see it, anyone that puts you down for being a girl is basically putting up a nice, big sign that reads "I'm a loser so don't waste your time talking to me." The idiots weed themselves out for you.



The same for those who are trying to treat girls super nice on the intarweb, like you are doing right now to gain + points with her.
I'm taking whatever coverage I can get, because frankly, I'm busy working on this million dollar deal at my job. Early retirement is a good thing brotha man. - MessengerASL
BuGzlToOnl
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
United States5918 Posts
March 08 2008 18:11 GMT
#24
I read about half of the blog, I'll read the other half later on.

On March 09 2008 02:06 Niji-z wrote:

And of course to guys who have had experience posing as a girl. I know there are a lot of you. ;]

PM Testie.

Ever lost to a girl?

Numerous times, she was korean so I didn't feel that bad. But I never give girls special treatment or treat them differently from guy gamers. I know girls put up with a lot of bs and theres of course always scandals haha.
If you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plans.
Skew
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
United States1019 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-03-08 18:18:47
March 08 2008 18:18 GMT
#25
On March 09 2008 02:12 ret wrote:
you're a dude


like you'd know a girl if you saw one -_-
Niji-z
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
United States208 Posts
March 08 2008 18:24 GMT
#26
On March 09 2008 02:51 Tadzio00 wrote:
or its for some legitimate reason (girls can be BM, too).


Don't get me started on the girls. I've met some truly awful girls on bnet. They are sore losers and flaunt their femininity and when they win against a guy who they normally cannot they talk about it for the next month.

On March 09 2008 02:51 Tadzio00 wrote:
I'm sorry that you were born with a vagina and you like to play in communities dominated by penis. Have you tried not saying anything about your gender? If it makes no difference anyway and most of the attention you receive is unwanted, why bring it up at all? I don't tell everyone I meet online that I'm a guy.


Don't be sorry, I'm not.

It's pretty hard to hide it without flat out lying. It's not like I go tell everyone I meet, "hey btw i'm a girl." For example, when people ask me my name.. I don't exactly have a name that could pass for a guy's. Or when people ask me where I'm going or what I did over the weekend, "I saw my boyfriend," is my most common response. I think going out of my way trying to hide it just isn't worth my effort. I'll take the alternative.
Rawr.
MeriaDoKk
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
Chile1726 Posts
March 08 2008 18:26 GMT
#27
same shit, different package
Ozarugold
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
2716 Posts
March 08 2008 18:26 GMT
#28
It's not so bad when you lose to girls, I've simply come to accept that girls can have no lives too.
this is my quote.
rpf
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
United States2705 Posts
March 08 2008 18:28 GMT
#29
On March 09 2008 03:02 Shauni wrote:
Show nested quote +
On March 09 2008 02:59 rpf wrote:
The way I see it, anyone that puts you down for being a girl is basically putting up a nice, big sign that reads "I'm a loser so don't waste your time talking to me." The idiots weed themselves out for you.



The same for those who are trying to treat girls super nice on the intarweb, like you are doing right now to gain + points with her.

Oh, I see; I offer my opinion and suddenly I'm trying to be nice and gain points.

People like you are fucking pathetic.
"A fear of weapons is a sign of retarded sexual and emotional maturity." - Sigmund Freud
Shauni
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
4077 Posts
March 08 2008 18:34 GMT
#30
On March 09 2008 03:28 rpf wrote:
Show nested quote +
On March 09 2008 03:02 Shauni wrote:
On March 09 2008 02:59 rpf wrote:
The way I see it, anyone that puts you down for being a girl is basically putting up a nice, big sign that reads "I'm a loser so don't waste your time talking to me." The idiots weed themselves out for you.



The same for those who are trying to treat girls super nice on the intarweb, like you are doing right now to gain + points with her.

Oh, I see; I offer my opinion and suddenly I'm trying to be nice and gain points.

People like you are fucking pathetic.


Haha. I thought you'd notice the sarcasm.
I'm taking whatever coverage I can get, because frankly, I'm busy working on this million dollar deal at my job. Early retirement is a good thing brotha man. - MessengerASL
Niji-z
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
United States208 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-03-08 18:35:28
March 08 2008 18:35 GMT
#31
On March 09 2008 03:26 Ozarugold wrote:
It's not so bad when you lose to girls, I've simply come to accept that girls can have no lives too.


:D :D :D :D And I'm proud.
Rawr.
cujo2k
Profile Joined October 2007
Canada1044 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-03-08 18:40:54
March 08 2008 18:40 GMT
#32
in my experience, there aren't any decent looking girls that are actually good at SC. There may be some good looking koreans that are decent at SC, but it's a different culture over there obv.
If I met you on bnet and saw you to be decent, I definitely wouldn't believe that you were a girl until I saw you on webcam or something similar.. There are just way too many posers out there, and a picture is just way too easy to fake.
But you shouldn't care how people treat you on B.net anyway, not sure you realize but most people on bnet are like 12-16 yrs old. Immature would be an understatement. A lot of the older players retired or just don't play as much anymore.
You'll find a lot more maturity in other games such as pay to play MMO's or FPS games where the average gamer is like 28-30 yrs old.
THE ANSWER IS 288
B1nary
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
Canada1267 Posts
March 08 2008 18:42 GMT
#33
On March 09 2008 02:14 Navane wrote:
But I totally understand why nobody believes it. I think there's at least 10 fakers for every real girl out here.


Yeah, that's totally true. To me, it seems like being a female gamer has turned into somewhat of a joke. The reality is, there are more guys than girls and probably more guys pretending to be girls than real girls playing SC. Every time I've seen someone on Bnet say they are female, the automatic response is "REALLY???", "no way. you're a dude", or "can I fuck you?" I admit to having made the first two remarks.

Yeah, I don't really understand why people need to maintain a close relationship with people they don't know in real life either. I think it's just better to not reveal your gender at all.
Niji-z
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
United States208 Posts
March 08 2008 18:44 GMT
#34
On March 09 2008 03:40 cujo2k wrote:
in my experience, there aren't any decent looking girls that are actually good at SC.

Oh thanks for reminding me. I forgot to mention that one. People assume I am fat and ugly. ;p
Rawr.
ShaLLoW[baY]
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
Canada12499 Posts
March 08 2008 18:50 GMT
#35
On March 09 2008 03:26 MeriaDoKk wrote:
same shit, different package

or lack thereof.
ALEXISONFIRE ARE FUCKING BACK (sAviOr for life)
MiniRoman
Profile Blog Joined September 2003
Canada3953 Posts
March 08 2008 18:56 GMT
#36
I hope you meet nice people to play with. Sucks that you get harassed. GL hf
Nak Allstar.
Xeofreestyler
Profile Blog Joined June 2005
Belgium6775 Posts
March 08 2008 18:59 GMT
#37
I know of dudes who have WoW girlfriends
Graphics
grobo
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
Japan6199 Posts
March 08 2008 19:00 GMT
#38
I have always gotten the impression that most (not all) girls go out of their way to let everyone online know that they are in fact a girl, as soon as they join a clan/community their picture is posted like 1min after they joined. Now obviously not all girls do this but in my experience many do.
it's like "hey guys :3 go easy on poor little ol' me, you see i'm a girl" *thihi, THIS will get those silly nerds to start drooling of my picture and tell me how cute i am, FUCK YEAH CONFIDENCE BOOST!*
slight exaggeration of course

I have been a part of tons of communities/game clans/guilds/whatever since i first started using the internet and i don't think i have ever gotten the question "are you a guy or a girl?" when i first meet people, at least not until you really start to know the person and talk more often etc. So when he/she finally asks you that question like a couple of weeks later or so i highly doubt they would instantly start saying stuff like "suck my cock bitch" when he finds out you are a girl, unless you're really trying to let everyone know you're a girl i don't really see the problem.

On March 09 2008 02:06 Niji-z wrote:
Congratulations, I have now just become an object of hate, disgust, and a target for ridicule and various name calling from people I have only just met upon stating my gender.


If a guy is disgusted by a girl showing up on Starcraft he needs get his head examined, or removed.

On March 09 2008 02:06 Niji-z wrote:
Why would I want to have any kind of relationship with anyone who was so degrading to me at one point?


That's pretty much what it's like to be a guy in real life. You have to prove yourself worthy whenever you are the "new guy" and people will give you a hard time no matter what, but as soon as you get familiar with the people there's no problem at all. Me and my friends still mess with each other. For example, when we are out walking or something and my friend slips and fall on his head i call him a fucking dumbass and laugh, but he knows i'm not being serious about it.

On March 09 2008 02:06 Niji-z wrote:
The thing that bothers me the most, is when people say I only got something I wanted because I'm a girl. Comments like "You only got into that team because you're a girl" really make me angry. Of course I will adamently deny any such thing, but in my mind I begin to think, "What if he's right? What if they only let me in because I'm a girl?" I cannot stand the thought of that. That and people going easy or letting me win because I am a girl. It it the most insulting thing you could do or say to me.


You'd be surprised if you knew how some of the guys think, back when i played WoW we had a girl join our guild but she barely knew how to play the damn game, and we were a guild who was grabbing all the server first kills and stuff like that. Another example is Ragnarok back in the days, say you were pretending to be a girl and "e-marry" some dumbfuck you'd be the richest "girl" on the server in a matter of minutes, it's pathetic.

On March 09 2008 02:06 Niji-z wrote:
Ever lost to a girl?


Yeah, BlueIris (Art.Love) who was around here a while ago created Clan Art (the first time) and i joined and played her a few times, got raped every single game.
We make signature, then defense it.
ahrara_
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Afghanistan1715 Posts
March 08 2008 19:00 GMT
#39
Hi. You're a girl. Guys are attracted to your sex. This is a fact of life. Ever hung out with a group of guys and you're the only girl? Ya, they're gonna pay a lot of attention to you. This is what happens on the internet.

As far as I'm concerned, you're just another poster on TL. I'm more likely to try to get to know you, of course, because you're a GIRL, but for the most part I'm going to evaluate you using the same criteria I judge everybody else here: do you contribute? are you respectful? do your posts make me want to cringe?

So you're a girl. Why bring attention to that fact? Lots of girls play starcraft, enough for me to have met a few on bnet. It's common knowledge you're treated differently from guys. What's there to discuss? This is human nature. It's not exactly killing your self esteem, now is it?

Maybe this post was just too deep for me to understand. But I think it's unneeded. Which isn't to say anything about your character. I don't know you enough to judge, but I just don't see the point of this.
in Afghanistan we have 20% literacy rate
decafchicken
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
United States20159 Posts
March 08 2008 19:00 GMT
#40
On March 09 2008 02:40 Niji-z wrote:

decafchicken: I'm not really whining, did you even read all of my post? I merely want to share with you guys and hear about other's experiences. And on that zia comment, yes, I think so. That's what my friend in oG) said, anyways.



I read the first few paragraphs and got bored. It was pretty much all whining.
how reasonable is it to eat off wood instead of your tummy?
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