Story time: She invited me to lunch a while ago (which is quite a brave move for an Asian girl). I somehow managed to have a decent conversation, asking about stuff etc. At the end I asked if she were married and she said "no, I don't even have a boyfriend!". After that everyone including her just assumed we were a couple. I, however, felt like we had very little in common, and if I ever thought about her it was mere lust after her body. So I have acted cold toward her since then. She's probably feeling terrible
But for some reason, I feel frustrated when people talk about her and the guys she works with (she manages teachers, most of whom are male, about 10 years older than her).
People say I'm "good-looking" (sorry for bragging), which makes me think I could have a chance with other girls around the area, which is full of college students. My game is really weak though, as I didn't manage to fuck anyone during college.
There's now an awkward atmosphere at work because of my strange actions, and people have stopped trying to hook us up. I'm pretty sure they have come up with a weird assumption about me, but I don't really know.