EPTI would also just invest more time with her after work. Making plans (restaurants, dancing, some lessons together etc...) might help her in looking forward to getting to work to finish and get back home for whatever you guys planned that day. This isn't the best method but another way to try and motivate her to keep fighting. Really though, the bset way would be to quit and find another job but as you said, that's quite difficult so it's rough :/
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I would also just invest more time with her after work. Making plans (restaurants, dancing, some lessons together etc...) might help her in looking forward to getting to work to finish and get back home for whatever you guys planned that day. This isn't the best method but another way to try and motivate her to keep fighting. Really though, the bset way would be to quit and find another job but as you said, that's quite difficult so it's rough :/ | ||
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I can't make plan to go out with her since she's like me. A nerd. "A nice dinner at a restaurent ? With a movie ?" she'll answer me : "Or we can order sushi and play 7days to die" :p It's weird but, writting this, gave away a lot of stress, and the positives response from you guys, helped me to see that we are on a good path. And yesterday we talked about a french thing that exists here called the cif, it's basicly if you can mount a really good dossier, you can go to school while retaining your old salary for a year. Which is good because she really fear to not have a salary. I think i just got stronger just by your response. Thanks a lot to everyone  | ||
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BigFan
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On October 08 2014 17:11 FFW_Rude wrote: Well... specific hobbies are playing video games and can't do at work. She already read GoT integral... Her limits at work is basic internet (she can't go anywhere she wants) no streaming sites allowed, nor video games, nor community sites etc... I can't make plan to go out with her since she's like me. A nerd. "A nice dinner at a restaurent ? With a movie ?" she'll answer me : "Or we can order sushi and play 7days to die" :p It's weird but, writting this, gave away a lot of stress, and the positives response from you guys, helped me to see that we are on a good path. And yesterday we talked about a french thing that exists here called the cif, it's basicly if you can mount a really good dossier, you can go to school while retaining your old salary for a year. Which is good because she really fear to not have a salary. I think i just got stronger just by your response. Thanks a lot to everyone ah I see, fair enough. LOL well, just means you belong together XD Good to hear it! Best of luck! | ||
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