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Even though I have posted this onto the Dating Thread, I want to share this story and see if I can make an impact to any of you blog readers (but I do assume a lot of you guys do have better relationship experiences than I do ^^) out there! :D
There is one girl I met during my physical therapy session. She wasn't super cute or pretty, but she had a very intriguing look to me (especially her smile was extremely charming to me). When I have decided to talk to her, it was pretty easy to get into a conversation with her. After several visits, I have decided to ask for her number, so we can go to the movies together.
I had a good time, and she seemed at least pretty interested in me because she was texting me a bunch. She also enjoyed it when I went to her favorite bakery to get her favorite breakfast to help her endure the long days.
However, there were several reasons why this good feeling didn't last too long. I realized how fundamentally different we are. Despite that factor, I was still interested in her for a bit. After much thinking, I realized that I liked her because I enjoyed the thrills of flirting and dating. I haven't done it in a long time, because I have been focusing on my career development lately. Although there is the option to pursue a casual relationship, the problem is that this is not the right girl for a casual relationship because she is a sincere, genuinely nice, down-to-earth girl. I feel that that approach would be extremely inappropriate for her.
Furthermore, her texting became less frequent, signifying that the interest might be dying out. As for my part, I have realized that it would be better if I choose the friendship approach because she is still a good person to have around. If anything, she has motivated me to find new physical hobbies. Right now, I have chosen to sign up for a MMA Academy (Krav Maga), because I realized that I need more exhilaration in my life (after years, going to the gym to workout just doesn't give me that same feeling). Perhaps, this session will grant me the excitement I have been looking for.
TLDR:
If you have a girl in your heart, sometimes, take a step back and ask yourself why you like her. If you like her for who she is, then my story might be irrelevant to you. However, if you like her for being able to play the relationship game once more, then you should really consider another non-relationship related option to fulfill that emptiness within you. I hope my story provided some solace for you guys! :D
  
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Hmm what if u just scared to do the next step? I mean did u saw her nude? If not i think u not playing the game really well  .
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You could ask her what she is actually looking for, rather that tip toeing through the tulips about it.
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On July 24 2014 20:08 ThomasjServo wrote:
You could ask her what she is actually looking for, rather that tip toeing through the tulips about it.
Seriously, you talk like a 12 year old from 1950 when it comes to women OP, need to take your own advice and stop seeing sex as so important (also don't try to be "friends" with hot chicks that's a good way to make sure no other female ever feels comfortable with you)
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1001 YEARS KESPAJAIL22272 Posts
because her jacket smells nice
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On July 24 2014 19:31 [sc1f]eonzerg wrote:Hmm what if u just scared to do the next step? I mean did u saw her nude? If not i think u not playing the game really well .
Nah, I didn't see her nude. If I did, I would add that and would be in a bigger pickle. Also, I'm actually pretty conservative with the way I play. Hahahaha.
On July 24 2014 20:08 ThomasjServo wrote:
You could ask her what she is actually looking for, rather that tip toeing through the tulips about it.
I could do that, but I have been in casual relationships before. So, I am aware that certain steps have to be followed in order for it to happen. But then again, I could be wrong.
On July 24 2014 20:19 Howlsc wrote:Show nested quote +On July 24 2014 20:08 ThomasjServo wrote:
You could ask her what she is actually looking for, rather that tip toeing through the tulips about it. Seriously, you talk like a 12 year old from 1950 when it comes to women OP, need to take your own advice and stop seeing sex as so important (also don't try to be "friends" with hot chicks that's a good way to make sure no other female ever feels comfortable with you)
Umm... I don't know where you got that idea LOL. Nowhere did I say that sex is important to me. Also, has it occurred to you that "hot chicks" don't mean everything to me because I know that appearance is only one criterion?
On July 24 2014 21:25 lichter wrote:
because her jacket smells nice
LOL
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Show nested quote +On July 24 2014 20:08 ThomasjServo wrote:
You could ask her what she is actually looking for, rather that tip toeing through the tulips about it. I could do that, but I have been in casual relationships before. So, I am aware that certain steps have to be followed in order for it to happen. But then again, I could be wrong.
Steps like asking her what she wants and is interested in?
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What's the point of this blog if I may ask.
So you met a girl, was intrigued by her smile, went out with her, realized that she's not what you are looking for and you decided to immediately push that to a gaming forum?
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That's right there is a lot of media telling us we need this type of woman with this type of man and so on. Be happy by myself, I say but if a nice lady comes along then don't take the easy way out and just tell myself I am just too lazy this or tat
Well, I feel good to have read something with self-discipline in mind.
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or sometimes you really like a girl until you have sex and then you realize you just wanted sex and you feel like a douchebag.
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Krav maga is awesome dude! I'm very partial to Muay Thai, but Krav Maga I've heard is very good for getting in shape and the gyms that do it are nearly always well equipped and run well that I've seen.
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1001 YEARS KESPAJAIL22272 Posts
I took krav maga for a few weeks and it was a lot of kicks, knees, and punches to the groin. Not fun when there are angry girls in your class
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