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I don't know why, but I have always had a high heel fetish. I'm a short guy at 5'7" so I guess I'm kind of insecure about being short. I feel a bit intimidated by taller women, or even short/medium height women in high heels. When a woman is around my height or taller than me I feel very insecure about my masculinity because I've always held a strong belief (maybe society is to blame) that men should be taller than women
It's gotten so bad that I actively seek out women in high heels, wedges, boots, stilettos, and platforms. When a woman around me is wearing height altering footwear, I become paranoid and must steal glances at how good her shoes look on her feet (and how tall it makes her). I have a high heel fetish where I am turned on by the mere thought of a woman in heels, and I love watching videos of women walking in heels or crushing objects while wearing heels
The fact that really makes me love heels is of course how tall it makes a woman look, and also that heels are a dangerous weapon. Often I've had fantasies about a woman standing on my stomach in heels and digging the sharp heel into my bellybutton. It's so erotic (I guess I'm sort of a masochist as well)
Now the part about me wearing heels. Secretly, I have a high heel collection in a nondescript box in my closet. I have 2 sexy high heels, 1 platform heel ("stripper heel"), 1 stiletto boot, and 1 wedge shoe. I love these shoes so much they are incredibly sexy. Being a short guy at 5'7", I've come to love wearing heels in secret because I know society discriminates against men who wear height altering footwear. Not just that but men who wear shoes to look taller, like lifts, have to do so secretly and shamefully knowing they would be ridiculed if they got caught. This is a blatant double standard in society. Me being a short man I would enjoy the liberty of wearing sexy heels and feeling good about myself too (I also pride myself on a having a nice behind and shaved legs)
That being said, I do often feel a little feminine in day to day situations. I'm definitely not gay, but I am shorter than most guys and just about average height for girls. I have a feminine body, I'm skinny with big hips, have no upper body strength, and my hair is often pretty long. To make matters worse, my cousins are 6'1" and 6'4" and I always feel like a midget next to them
So, basically if you did read all that, bless your soul. But if you didn't that's ok too, all I'm trying to say is I'm a short guy and I feel insecure around taller women (or shorter women wearing heels) and so I've developed this high heel fetish, and I sometimes like to wear high heels in my spare time especially because I'm often surrounded by big manly men and I have the body of a woman. I also don't know why I love taller women they are just so sexy but at the same time so intimidating. Thanks for reading
 
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So what do you wear with your heels?!
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Well, I have refrained from including any graphic detail, but let's just say I enjoy (looking at) pink attire
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Cool read, I can sort of relate to this as I am 5'9'' (I don't think it's the exact same situation, but like you, it's quite frequent for me to encounter taller women, especially in heels). Other than that, I'm not especially attracted to taller women, but they do somewhat intimidate me haha. More than taller guys :D
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you think 5'7" is short? fuck man I am 5'3". I'd rather be 5'3" with no insecurities than 5'7" and insecurities bout my height though.
I really dislike that you keep saying "short" and 5'7" in the same sentence too....
You probably say you are a short guy at least 3-4 times within this one post so that suggests psychologically you might have deeper issues rooting to why you feel so inferior and "short" compared to other people besides just having tall cousins/family.
Also nothing wrong with the the color pink. My most expensive shirt is pink  and I am not gay either, it just completes my wardrobe
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What an interesting fetish.
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I'm 6', wife is 5' 9". I used to like heels, but going out to high-end social events where men's dress shoes only add half an in and her heels and poofy hair makes me the shorter one. Getting older and shrinking doesnt help!
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On September 19 2013 11:43 Burrfoot wrote:
I'm 6', wife is 5' 9". I used to like heels, but going out to high-end social events where men's dress shoes only add half an in and her heels and poofy hair makes me the shorter one. Getting older and shrinking doesnt help!
you could always get a perm
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I'm 5'6 I think? I have another growth spurt left I think? I have no idea, a surgeon told me that I had enough growth hormone and then later, after my growth had occurred basically came back and said, nah don't think so and then it was too late to take growth hormone. Oh well, but yeah, I know how you feel, I feel shitty cuz I'm short, and usually girls don't tend to take a second look at me for my looks just because I'm so short. Hopefully I will end up at 5'8 but that's a pipedream at this point. I don't think I'll ever really end up too much taller than I am now. As for the rest of the blog, nope no idea what to say.
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I was 5'6 for a looooooong time and then one day while looking at a hockey which had it's height on it I realized I was more like 5'8. My cousin law was there too and told me I was about 5'8 give or take (but probably take lol). So, I guess what I'm saying is you might grow without even noticing it, sort of, I guess, I dunno.
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On September 19 2013 13:34 Just_a_Moth wrote:
I was 5'6 for a looooooong time and then one day while looking at a hockey which had it's height on it I realized I was more like 5'8. My cousin law was there too and told me I was about 5'8 give or take (but probably take lol). So, I guess what I'm saying is you might grow without even noticing it, sort of, I guess, I dunno.
You stop growing at about 20-22 years old. Then you start to shrink in the end.
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Having a hot woman next to you that's larger than you only shows what a big bad fucker you are. In fact, you're so fucking awesome that this woman doesn't even care about the size difference.
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On September 19 2013 18:02 r.Evo wrote:
Having a hot woman next to you that's larger than you only shows what a big bad fucker you are. In fact, you're so fucking awesome that this woman doesn't even care about the size difference.
haha agreed. Remember, tall women are probably 2x more self conscious of how tall they are compared to half their suitors that many times they don't wear heels at all.
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This is surely one of the most bizarre and open blog posts I've seen from a 5-post member before. But kudos to you for being honest. I think you should chill out with this neurosis. You are the height of many many great, attractive, powerful and charismatic people. From sportsmen to politicians. And you're not even short you're just a little under average. In fact you're over average for some countries iirc. Maybe you should move to one of those countries if it really bothers you.
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wow these random blogs are always intersting, this part of TL never fails to provide me with entertainment when I am bored @ work.
Everyone is on a level playing field in bed so dont feel bad if you are 5'7, thats still okay, I would feel bad if you are 5'4 below..
but I am not sure how being short translated to you to cross dress and having fetish with heels.
Men have shoes with wedges. Talk about Tom Cruise and his liftkits. So I think you are working your way to become a drag-queen LOL
Also I am a fan too of tall women with a rocking body, it feels like you conquered a wild giant beast even how short/small you look. I like to see that "look" in their eyes when we walk together.
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I love tall woman, but I am not short. However, I do actually own a pair of hight altering shoes, now the fun part is, I didn`t realise they were at first and I can wear them in public without being looked at in a strange way because they are hight altering, I am just being looked at because they are strange :d
And I really like the feeling of almost being 6.2 instead of 5.9. I spoilered the link because some may think it is advertisement:
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If you think you could be into that kind of fashion, sub-group, you might have a way to wear hight altering boots in public :d
Though you still shouldn`t wear the high heel versions probably^^.+ Show Spoiler +http://www.newrockonline.com/en/footwear.html
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On September 19 2013 16:27 Tobberoth wrote:Show nested quote +On September 19 2013 13:34 Just_a_Moth wrote:
I was 5'6 for a looooooong time and then one day while looking at a hockey which had it's height on it I realized I was more like 5'8. My cousin law was there too and told me I was about 5'8 give or take (but probably take lol). So, I guess what I'm saying is you might grow without even noticing it, sort of, I guess, I dunno. You stop growing at about 20-22 years old. Then you start to shrink in the end.
Yeah, I'm only 20 now though.
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You can either start wearing lifts or elevator shoes to boost your height, or just realise that there are far more important things in life than height. I understand, living in this materialistic and vain world, that such an insecurity might creep up on one, but you just have to learn to let it go. It may take a while, and it's certainly easier said than done, but it'll be far better for you in the long run. Every time a thought about height crosses your mind, just try and think about something else. Your favourite sport, ice cream flavour, whatever. Oh, and take solace in the fact that there are many who have similar thoughts. Just look at Robert Downey Jr. The dude is a hugely successful actor with everything going for him, but he's insecure about his height (between 5'7,5'8) enough to wear crazy shoes to amp it up.
And about your fetishes, well... I don't really know what to say. I am a firm believer in the notion that people should be allowed to do whatever they want in their privacy, as long as it doesn't harm others. If you like your high heel fetish, rock on. If you don't like it and want help, I would recommend seeking professional help. Just talking about your issues and insecurities to a psychiatrist/psychologist/counselor might help.
Best of luck to you.
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[High Heel Blog]![[image loading]](http://i.imgur.com/zswxV.png)
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On September 20 2013 02:02 Telcontar wrote:
And about your fetishes, well... I don't really know what to say. I am a firm believer in the notion that people should be allowed to do whatever they want in their privacy, as long as it doesn't harm others. If you like your high heel fetish, rock on. If you don't like it and want help, I would recommend seeking professional help. Just talking about your issues and insecurities to a psychiatrist/psychologist/counselor might help.
Best of luck to you.
Even child pornography?
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On September 20 2013 03:12 matiK23 wrote:Show nested quote +On September 20 2013 02:02 Telcontar wrote:
And about your fetishes, well... I don't really know what to say. I am a firm believer in the notion that people should be allowed to do whatever they want in their privacy, as long as it doesn't harm others. If you like your high heel fetish, rock on. If you don't like it and want help, I would recommend seeking professional help. Just talking about your issues and insecurities to a psychiatrist/psychologist/counselor might help.
Best of luck to you. Even child pornography?
That's when the "as long it doesn't harm others" comes into play.
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On September 19 2013 18:02 r.Evo wrote:
Having a hot woman next to you that's larger than you only shows what a big bad fucker you are. In fact, you're so fucking awesome that this woman doesn't even care about the size difference.
Yeah def.
The clear solution is to dress up in your heels, pink lingerie and a wig, take a photo and photoshop yourself into the pic. Post to facebook and profit
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Console yourself with the knowledge that you have much easier access to drinking fountains than taller men.
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