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Doodsmack
United States7224 Posts
Anyways. Played video games too much in life and missed out on girls. Need to make something happen. It's the approach I'm afraid of though. In this case I was introduced so it was easier. That's an incredible fear to get over, if you have it. Shyness is a bitch. It's a long road up from here, boys. Need to find some major motivation.    | ||
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MysteryMeat1
United States3292 Posts
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SamsungStar
United States912 Posts
I don't think you need any mentality of making something happen though. That tends to make things worse. You seem pretty well adjusted to women. The right one will come along sooner or later. Just put yourself out there to meet new people, but don't try too hard to close the deal with every cute girl that you run into. | ||
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pebble444
Italy2500 Posts
"wanna get some food" wanna do something with you tonight I mean how could she fail to mention she was engaged till she was at her door? or she just wanted to flirt harmesly, without actually doing anything "never did look to see if she had a ring" prolly never had it on for the night anyways even if i would suggest against going with a woman who allready has a man. Its a douchbag move. Being introduced makes it all the much easier but i know what you mean. Kinda difficult to make a move outta the blue if you have difficulty with that. Its a long road up from here, but the problem seems to be the ice-breaker. Work on that and you ll be fine. Its not easy but it will be rewarding | ||
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Kuni
Austria765 Posts
Women don't always wanna fuck you like mad, when they talk to you. You know, they also want to make friends, like everybody else. | ||
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matiK23
United States963 Posts
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Recognizable
Netherlands1552 Posts
On April 27 2013 17:12 Kuni wrote: Girls tend to get in closer contact with nice guys they want to be friends with. Many female friends of mine were very "attached" to us, a friend of mine and me, who used to hang out a lot with this group of girls, and they were always kissing, hugging, going for cuddles etc. and we were only friends, nothing more. Hanging out at night, grabbing or making food or whatever, is not really unusual for friends, is it? Women don't always wanna fuck you like mad, when they talk to you. You know, they also want to make friends, like everybody else. This. | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
Need to find some major motivation. If being happy about your sexual and emotional life with the other sex isn't enough motivation, no one here can help you. | ||
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ViceRoyce
Poland21 Posts
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CosmicSpiral
United States15275 Posts
On April 27 2013 17:12 Kuni wrote: Girls tend to get in closer contact with nice guys they want to be friends with. Many female friends of mine were very "attached" to us, a friend of mine and me, who used to hang out a lot with this group of girls, and they were always kissing, hugging, going for cuddles etc. and we were only friends, nothing more. Hanging out at night, grabbing or making food or whatever, is not really unusual for friends, is it? Women don't always wanna fuck you like mad, when they talk to you. You know, they also want to make friends, like everybody else. I would imagine that it is very different in the United States, where such things are normally frowned upon. | ||
Myles
United States5162 Posts
On April 28 2013 02:25 CosmicSpiral wrote: I would imagine that it is very different in the United States, where such things are normally frowned upon. Yea, we have to stupid outlook on this. They were actually talking about it on the radio the other day and it was pretty much commonly accepted that if you're a girl you can't be very nice or it's expected that you want to hook up. | ||
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CosmicSpiral
United States15275 Posts
On April 28 2013 02:28 Myles wrote: Yea, we have to stupid outlook on this. They were actually talking about it on the radio the other day and it was pretty much commonly accepted that if you're a girl you can't be very nice or it's expected that you want to hook up. In our country physical intimacy and sexual intimacy are assumed to be one and the same (for some weird reason). | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32098 Posts
On April 27 2013 17:12 Kuni wrote: Girls tend to get in closer contact with nice guys they want to be friends with. Many female friends of mine were very "attached" to us, a friend of mine and me, who used to hang out a lot with this group of girls, and they were always kissing, hugging, going for cuddles etc. and we were only friends, nothing more. Hanging out at night, grabbing or making food or whatever, is not really unusual for friends, is it? Women don't always wanna fuck you like mad, when they talk to you. You know, they also want to make friends, like everybody else. yeah sure bro everyone knows that a girl saying she is hungry after a night of drinking code for 'i want a huge slab of meat between my buns' | ||
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Darkren
Canada1841 Posts
Don't think only men cheat, girls do it as much. | ||
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Integra
Sweden5626 Posts
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Doodsmack
United States7224 Posts
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CosmicSpiral
United States15275 Posts
On April 28 2013 04:42 Doodsmack wrote: Reading my OP again, it may not be completely accurate. It's not like we were flirting and talking the whole night. We went to a second bar and there, she was kinda talking to other people and not me. Only once we realized we're neighbors and she was asking where we could eat, when there very clearly is no place to go at that hour where we live, did I think to ask her to my place. And then her hugging me before I asked for a number, combined with everything else, led me to believe she was single. But really, I have no clue lol. There are a lot of times in my life where I'm just thinking "What the fuck is going on right now". Do you guys have that thought too? You're overthinking things. You mistook the girl as being attracted to you and she wasn't. It happens to a lot of people. | ||
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Stratos_speAr
United States6959 Posts
On April 28 2013 04:42 Doodsmack wrote: Reading my OP again, it may not be completely accurate. It's not like we were flirting and talking the whole night. We went to a second bar and there, she was kinda talking to other people and not me. Only once we realized we're neighbors and she was asking where we could eat, when there very clearly is no place to go at that hour where we live, did I think to ask her to my place. And then her hugging me before I asked for a number, combined with everything else, led me to believe she was single. But really, I have no clue lol. There are a lot of times in my life where I'm just thinking "What the fuck is going on right now". Do you guys have that thought too? It doesn't seem like you're doing anything wrong. As long as you don't try to jump girls in public or make very aggressive advances without knowing if they're taken, you're fine. If anything, I'd still blame this girl for leading you on to an extent. Mis-communication like this happens a lot, and all you need to do is keep doing what you're doing; put yourself out there, react to opportunities, but don't awkwardly force stuff to happen, and you'll get plenty of chances to start dating women. | ||
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ieatkids5
United States4628 Posts
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
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