EPTOnly played one game of Starcraft today and was then hanging out with people. Even though I still love Starcraft. In fact I am going to play right now.
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Doodsmack
United States7224 Posts
Only played one game of Starcraft today and was then hanging out with people. Even though I still love Starcraft. In fact I am going to play right now. | ||
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RomanTechnology
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Thrill
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Aelonius
Netherlands432 Posts
On April 28 2013 03:51 Darkren wrote: She probably just wanted a one night stand with you ( AKA just SEX) and nothing else. Don't think only men cheat, girls do it as much. It's interesting that people tend to think that guys are insanely cheaty, when it's just as many women aswell. Remember, it takes both sides to get to it lol. | ||
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JimmyJRaynor
Canada16588 Posts
On April 27 2013 15:31 Doodsmack wrote: Anyways. Played video games too much in life and missed out on girls. Need to make something happen. It's the approach I'm afraid of though. In this case I was introduced so it was easier. That's an incredible fear to get over, if you have it. Shyness is a bitch. It's a long road up from here, boys. Need to find some major motivation. the biggest thing that made my fear and shyness "go away" was from having my heart ripped out of my chest and stomped on by a couple of girls. once you've gone from ZERO to HERO and then back to ZERO again ... a few times in your life.... you became less afraid. also, paying rent ... doing ur own laundry and cooking your own meals puts things into perspective as well. if a woman likes you she'll make it obvious.. if u think it takes some super special uber micro amazing 1-liners to convince an uninterested woman.. u r "analyzing to hard". just let it happen... let nature takes it course... if it were difficult the world's population would be a lot lower. as it stands.. humans are multiplying like rabbits... somebody has gotta be doin some fuckin somewhere. | ||
Falling
Canada11310 Posts
as it stands.. humans are multiplying like rabbits... somebody has gotta be doin some fuckin somewhere. Morale of the story... go to a non-Western country because the West is not breeding like rabbits. | ||
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JimmyJRaynor
Canada16588 Posts
http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/health-and-fitness/health/why-teen-pregnancy-is-on-the-rise-again-in-canada-and-spiking-in-these-provinces/article7927983/ plus lots of girls in Canada have sex without getting pregnant. they figured out how to stop that! | ||
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Doodsmack
United States7224 Posts
On April 29 2013 03:39 Thrill wrote: You don't hover-hand so you'll be fine. Just keep going out and don't just talk to friends of friends. Lol nice find. The guy who I was with Friday seems to be really good with girls. And they look good too. Seeing him having multiple FWB makes me really and kinda pissed. And kinda gives me a feeling that I'm determined to find some fucking girls. Maybe I'll update this thread with my progress. | ||
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Falling
Canada11310 Posts
Even better. Stay in Canada and knock up high school girls. Sounds legit. | ||
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OkStyX
Canada1199 Posts
On April 27 2013 15:31 Doodsmack wrote: So tonight, I go to a bar along with a friend who was meeting up with his girl, who has two pretty good-looking friends with her. I talk to the one throughout the night. I guess it was just normal conversation, but there was some teasing from me and physical contact from her. On the cab ride home it turns she lives right across the street. She was saying she was hungry and then was like "let's good food, where are we gonna get food." I tell her I could make something at my place. We end up chasing her neighbors dog around who was out in the street. So we end up in front of her door and she says something like "we each have food". She smiles and hugs me. I say let's hang out again and get her number. She gives me her number and then says she's engaged so she doesn't want me to get the wrong message LOL. The fuck man. How do I distinguish between that and when a girl is actually interested? Guess you pretty much have to guess and hope for the best. Never did look to see if she has a ring. Maybe I'm at the age I should do that. Anyways. Played video games too much in life and missed out on girls. Need to make something happen. It's the approach I'm afraid of though. In this case I was introduced so it was easier. That's an incredible fear to get over, if you have it. Shyness is a bitch. It's a long road up from here, boys. Need to find some major motivation. Have you tried online dAting ? i have Aspergers syndrome and i find a lot of females and people in general unbearable . i have had quite a bit of success with okcupid and pof. you dont have to deal with that coy bullshit and if being shy is your problem chatting through your monitor may be easier. talking about subjects that you both are interested in really allows you to not have to worry about the mine field of conversing with a woman you already will know what she likes and you guys know what you have in common so when you meet her just be yourself and just TALK to her. | ||
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OkStyX
Canada1199 Posts
On April 29 2013 13:47 Doodsmack wrote: Lol nice find. The guy who I was with Friday seems to be really good with girls. And they look good too. Seeing him having multiple FWB makes me really and kinda pissed. And kinda gives me a feeling that I'm determined to find some fucking girls. Maybe I'll update this thread with my progress. girls wanna have sex as much as we do , i have been a nerd my entire life that coupled with my aspergers should of made it hard to find girls . except i got my first kiss when i was 6 from this girl i used to play with at 15 i had sex and i did plenty of shit before that. i am serious when i say talk to them that is the most important thing ever be genuinely interested ask them sbout themselves a little trial and error man don't worry about it you will find what works for you . you may not have a ton of FWB and truth be told sometimes those dont work exactly the way you would like . | ||
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OkStyX
Canada1199 Posts
On April 28 2013 04:42 Doodsmack wrote: Reading my OP again, it may not be completely accurate. It's not like we were flirting and talking the whole night. We went to a second bar and there, she was kinda talking to other people and not me. Only once we realized we're neighbors and she was asking where we could eat, when there very clearly is no place to go at that hour where we live, did I think to ask her to my place. And then her hugging me before I asked for a number, combined with everything else, led me to believe she was single. But really, I have no clue lol. There are a lot of times in my life where I'm just thinking "What the fuck is going on right now". Do you guys have that thought too? haha every guy ever has had this issue, it is culturally based mostly . girls are raised to be more affectionate( generally) they also express themselves through touch more then guys do ( also generally) . I have a fucking retarded roommate that thinks whenever a girl touches his arm in the club that she wants the D hard as fuck all the time . every time that has happened it was to move him out of the way and she never gave him a second look. though that being said every time he goes out with us he does get there attention but only because he is so confident in himself that he goes right up and like i said before talks to her thats the main thing disregard touch completely at first . | ||
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OkStyX
Canada1199 Posts
On April 29 2013 14:32 Falling wrote: @Jimmy Even better. Stay in Canada and knock up high school girls. Sounds legit. hahaha, jimmy has a point i am from Alberta they don't seem to get their eggo preggo . | ||
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pebble444
Italy2495 Posts
EDIT: i feel like i want some Punana right now for anybody that didn' t get it | ||
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Falling
Canada11310 Posts
On April 29 2013 15:46 Shakattak wrote: hahaha, jimmy has a point i am from Alberta they don't seem to get their eggo preggo . I don't doubt. It was just how he had phrased that last line of reasoning that made me chuckle a bit for some reason. | ||
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OkStyX
Canada1199 Posts
On April 29 2013 16:44 Falling wrote: I don't doubt. It was just how he had phrased that last line of reasoning that made me chuckle a bit for some reason. I loled a little too hahahahaha . | ||
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Doodsmack
United States7224 Posts
On April 29 2013 15:16 Shakattak wrote: Have you tried online dAting ? i have Aspergers syndrome and i find a lot of females and people in general unbearable . i have had quite a bit of success with okcupid and pof. you dont have to deal with that coy bullshit and if being shy is your problem chatting through your monitor may be easier. talking about subjects that you both are interested in really allows you to not have to worry about the mine field of conversing with a woman you already will know what she likes and you guys know what you have in common so when you meet her just be yourself and just TALK to her. Yeah I've tried online, my problem is getting responses. I've gotten 2 dates out of it. But I get like a 5-10% response rate. | ||
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ieatkids5
United States4628 Posts
On April 30 2013 01:40 Doodsmack wrote: Yeah I've tried online, my problem is getting responses. I've gotten 2 dates out of it. But I get like a 5-10% response rate. 1 out of 20 response rate? you should try applying to jobs lol. it'll make your dating life feel much more successful  all jokes aside, you really shouldn't worry about not getting many replies. just keep meeting new people, but dont expect them all to be interested in you. cuz really, are you interested in all the people you meet? maybe 1 out of 20? and if, on average, other people have the same ratio of interest as you do, then you can see how low successful matches are. stay postitive and have fun! | ||
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OkStyX
Canada1199 Posts
On April 30 2013 02:41 ieatkids5 wrote: 1 out of 20 response rate? you should try applying to jobs lol. it'll make your dating life feel much more successful all jokes aside, you really shouldn't worry about not getting many replies. just keep meeting new people, but dont expect them all to be interested in you. cuz really, are you interested in all the people you meet? maybe 1 out of 20? and if, on average, other people have the same ratio of interest as you do, then you can see how low successful matches are. stay postitive and have fun! Exactly what this guy said OP, just have fun with it all you need to do is enjoy yourself just send out tons and tons of messages to different people if 1/20 people respond change how you are introducing yourself . some girls just want a guy to ask them about their day just listen , as long as they are talking about themselves you're on the right track ! | ||
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
Also sometimes I get worried that once I start dating I won't have time to write programs anymore or do anything big in my life. That I'll just soon have kids and not have enough time for anything. But then I waste time on games so maybe it'd be best. | ||
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