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On April 11 2013 01:35 Feartheguru wrote:Show nested quote +On April 10 2013 23:26 QuanticHawk wrote:
still friends with 'this girl' aka the girl you dubbed bitchface because she had the audacity to feel led on after you had been keeping her around as plan b and told her that there's a chance for you two in the future
do you still think your girlfriend is oblivious to the total lack of respect you have for her, as you have demonstrated in all of your blogs
granted you both sound immature and mildly retarded, which is pretty par for the course in college relationships, but you're a huge asshole to boot and still don't seem to notice!
This is pretty much what I was thinking but too lazy to type given how ignorant and defensive you sound right now.
I don't claim to have all the answers, hence why this blog was posted in the first place. and I fail to see how I'm being overly defensive when most people here agree that these particular problems are stemming from her issues, and even then, I'm doing my absolute best to compromise with her and understand where she's coming from so we can have a mutual understanding and fix it. I'm not an idiot when it comes to relationships. I know it's largely about communication and being able to figure shit out with your significant other. and for god's sake, stop acting like the fact that I have disagreements with my girlfriend and vent about them (which EVERYONE does in one medium or another) somehow makes me disrespectful of her. The fact that I'm willing to work with her highly emotional nature (which she herself admits) and still do my best to understand her and meet her in the middle when we have issues should be proof enough that I respect her and her wants. If I didn't respect her, I'd walk out in a heartbeat because dealing with all of the stress wouldn't be worth it.
Now that that's out of the way, we talked last night. There was lots of crying, harsh words, etc... It came really close to just being done because I told her I didn't love her as much as I used to and she walked out. I thought it was done but two minutes later, she came back and we talked more, calmed down, and then had somewhat of a normal night. Then, this morning, she called me and told me she changed her mind about the moving in thing and that she wants to try and rekindle our relationship. Seeing as how the move-in was the thing weighing most heavily on my mind, I instantly feel way better about the whole thing and I'm willing to try and work it out and see where it goes.
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Tell her you're sorry, that you're ready to commit and offer her a ring as proof that you've matured.
A cool way to give her the ring would be to have it hanging on the same key ring as the key to your new mutual apartment.
Congratulations on finding 'the one', not everyone does. You're lucky to have done so so early.
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On April 11 2013 04:48 Thrill wrote:
Tell her you're sorry, that you're ready to commit and offer her a ring as proof that you've matured.
A cool way to give her the ring would be to have it hanging on the same key ring as the key to your new mutual apartment.
Congratulations on finding 'the one', not everyone does. You're lucky to have done so so early.
Thread is over man no arguing here. Just tell her you don't want to be in a relationship because she is being a crazy moron, and you're both way too immature to move in together.
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On April 11 2013 04:33 iamahydralisk wrote:Show nested quote +On April 11 2013 01:35 Feartheguru wrote:On April 10 2013 23:26 QuanticHawk wrote:
still friends with 'this girl' aka the girl you dubbed bitchface because she had the audacity to feel led on after you had been keeping her around as plan b and told her that there's a chance for you two in the future
do you still think your girlfriend is oblivious to the total lack of respect you have for her, as you have demonstrated in all of your blogs
granted you both sound immature and mildly retarded, which is pretty par for the course in college relationships, but you're a huge asshole to boot and still don't seem to notice!
This is pretty much what I was thinking but too lazy to type given how ignorant and defensive you sound right now. I don't claim to have all the answers, hence why this blog was posted in the first place. and I fail to see how I'm being overly defensive when most people here agree that these particular problems are stemming from her issues, and even then, I'm doing my absolute best to compromise with her and understand where she's coming from so we can have a mutual understanding and fix it. I'm not an idiot when it comes to relationships. I know it's largely about communication and being able to figure shit out with your significant other. and for god's sake, stop acting like the fact that I have disagreements with my girlfriend and vent about them (which EVERYONE does in one medium or another) somehow makes me disrespectful of her. The fact that I'm willing to work with her highly emotional nature (which she herself admits) and still do my best to understand her and meet her in the middle when we have issues should be proof enough that I respect her and her wants. If I didn't respect her, I'd walk out in a heartbeat because dealing with all of the stress wouldn't be worth it. Now that that's out of the way, we talked last night. There was lots of crying, harsh words, etc... It came really close to just being done because I told her I didn't love her as much as I used to and she walked out. I thought it was done but two minutes later, she came back and we talked more, calmed down, and then had somewhat of a normal night. Then, this morning, she called me and told me she changed her mind about the moving in thing and that she wants to try and rekindle our relationship. Seeing as how the move-in was the thing weighing most heavily on my mind, I instantly feel way better about the whole thing and I'm willing to try and work it out and see where it goes.
considering the amount of dumb girl blogs filled with ridiculous problems that are posted here, i would not be using the approval of your girl blogging peers of evidence of you being right
anytime someone has posted a comment that isnt a slap on the back, you immediately start arguing that 'hey maybe i did stuff once... BUT THIS IS ALL ON HER GUYS LOOK HOW CRAZY SHE IS!!!!'
i look forward to the next iteration of 'I hate my stupid girlfriend and want to dump her', and then the follow up to that where you flip her for bitch face in the span of a week
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On April 12 2013 00:23 QuanticHawk wrote:Show nested quote +On April 11 2013 04:33 iamahydralisk wrote:On April 11 2013 01:35 Feartheguru wrote:On April 10 2013 23:26 QuanticHawk wrote:
still friends with 'this girl' aka the girl you dubbed bitchface because she had the audacity to feel led on after you had been keeping her around as plan b and told her that there's a chance for you two in the future
do you still think your girlfriend is oblivious to the total lack of respect you have for her, as you have demonstrated in all of your blogs
granted you both sound immature and mildly retarded, which is pretty par for the course in college relationships, but you're a huge asshole to boot and still don't seem to notice!
This is pretty much what I was thinking but too lazy to type given how ignorant and defensive you sound right now. I don't claim to have all the answers, hence why this blog was posted in the first place. and I fail to see how I'm being overly defensive when most people here agree that these particular problems are stemming from her issues, and even then, I'm doing my absolute best to compromise with her and understand where she's coming from so we can have a mutual understanding and fix it. I'm not an idiot when it comes to relationships. I know it's largely about communication and being able to figure shit out with your significant other. and for god's sake, stop acting like the fact that I have disagreements with my girlfriend and vent about them (which EVERYONE does in one medium or another) somehow makes me disrespectful of her. The fact that I'm willing to work with her highly emotional nature (which she herself admits) and still do my best to understand her and meet her in the middle when we have issues should be proof enough that I respect her and her wants. If I didn't respect her, I'd walk out in a heartbeat because dealing with all of the stress wouldn't be worth it. Now that that's out of the way, we talked last night. There was lots of crying, harsh words, etc... It came really close to just being done because I told her I didn't love her as much as I used to and she walked out. I thought it was done but two minutes later, she came back and we talked more, calmed down, and then had somewhat of a normal night. Then, this morning, she called me and told me she changed her mind about the moving in thing and that she wants to try and rekindle our relationship. Seeing as how the move-in was the thing weighing most heavily on my mind, I instantly feel way better about the whole thing and I'm willing to try and work it out and see where it goes. considering the amount of dumb girl blogs filled with ridiculous problems that are posted here, i would not be using the approval of your girl blogging peers of evidence of you being right anytime someone has posted a comment that isnt a slap on the back, you immediately start arguing that 'hey maybe i did stuff once... BUT THIS IS ALL ON HER GUYS LOOK HOW CRAZY SHE IS!!!!' i look forward to the next iteration of 'I hate my stupid girlfriend and want to dump her', and then the follow up to that where you flip her for bitch face in the span of a week
it's odd how you'd draw the conclusion that I'm blaming her entirely, seeing as how I actually typed pretty much the opposite of that. but ok man.
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Honestly, I think the best thing you can do is try to arouse her suspicions as much as possible. Like put on as if there is an affair going on and leave clues everywhere for her to find. Then, when she is at her most paranoid, make it seem like you are sneaking out to go on a date with her. And leave her enough info to follow after you to see what happens. Then, when she stares in through the foggy window, her heart filled with fury and bitter betrayal, she sees you browsing the glass-encased displays at Jared's while talking to a woman. We'll call her Beverly. And you're talking to her about engagement rings for your lovely girlfriend (who is crazy).
Then she will realize the terrible foolishness of her ways, and she will come to love you for the honest, upstanding treasure of a man that you are.
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it's only gonna get worse if you stay. time to bail
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I have had the EXACT same problem, but what I have found is that normally when girls explode it is often the cause of the loss of adequate sex. Women are craving the D, and nothing else will satisfy them.
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