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At first i'd like to put out that my english is only decent so please don't mind any grammar mistakes and stuff.
So for introducing the girl I have to go back in time for 2 years. Her name is Eva. She came home with my sister after school while I was earlier done with school then her. When someone enters the house they always pass the window off the room where I was rocking sc2 with my banshee on. Ofcourse lightings show off the headset so it was a bit interesting to see her reaction. She smiled at me and went inside with my sister. From that moment she got at my house a couple of times per week. 2 years long. From sleep overs or eating, she was almost always here. We had a great bond, and I really liked her, but it wasnt even a single reason to ask her out or flirt with her, because she was my sisters best friend.
After those 2 years my sister went to another school and started working in a restaurant so they grew off eachother, but were still good friends. She would come by a couple of times but not as much az she used to.
Now back to me. I am a 17 year old boy who likes to play games and having a good laugh. Now my best buddies are already graduated while i am still in my final year. So i searched for some guys to hang around with breaks and stuff. I found some really cool guys who i fit perfectly with. They added me to their group chat on whatsapp, where some girls were also in. One of them was Eva.
As i said earlier, i have a good bond with her so when we are hanging out with the ppl of the groupchat me and her were always joking around. After a couple of weeks ppl started asking us if we liked eachother, but we both said no, but we just have a great bond.
Fastforward to a week ago. We were having a week break from school because of carnaval. This is a fest where everyone dresses like something like a footballer or a santa or whatever. Carnaval in the netherlands is more like: going out for 5 days straight, get as many girls or boys, and drink alcohol like it is water.
So my best buddies and the ppl from the groupchat decide to hang around in the club together. On the first night I had a blast, not only with the other ppl but especially with Eva. I still liked her but i decided to give it a shot since we were talking a lot in private the week before carnaval. So we kissed and I was really happy about it, but I had to confess it to my sister. Luckily, she responded very happy as well because she likes Eva too.
So i chatted with her the day after and she was coming to the club again, but she didnt know how to get home. I offered her to bring her home, and she accepted it gladly. I brang her home after the night was done and we kissed at her house and then i went to eat some at the pizzeria in my town. On the last night of carnaval (we had kissed all nights of it btw) i decided to ask her out for a date. She said yes and we planned it on wednesday. She said she was going to sleep some more because she had to.go to the doctor in the morning. We planned our date for the afternoon, but she overslept.
As i was waiting for her to get awake i thought she was trying to ditch me or something else. But when she was awake she asked me if i still wanted to date, and we rescheduled it on friday. As we chatted through the next days she got ill on friday. I was really confused but she said i HAD to come next day, even if she was still sick. So the next day she was a bit better but still not 100%. So i biked.to her home and met her mom, who's awesome. She is like a 20 year old girl trapped in a old womans body. We watched a movie on Eva's bed and then i went home.
Now we planned a date next week, to go to a restaurant. There, i want to ask her for a relationship. Since we know eachother very good because of her earlier relation with my sister, we know a lot of.good and bad things of eachother. I don't want to waste any more time to finally call her my girlfriend.
I hope.
  
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GOOD LUCK BRO
remember, confidence, eye contact, smile
make sure to inform us of the good news 
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*carnival
*brought, not brang
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Congrats! Sounds like you've been having a lot of fun together.
I would recommend not rushing to ask her to be your "official girlfriend", because there's no real need to do so.
As long as you two are dating, the relationship will grow naturally. She's not gonna get snatched up by any other guys in the near future, by the sound of things.
But if you think it's the right time to ask if you can call her your girlfriend, then feel free to do so! I think the best time to ask that question is after the date, maybe if you're on the way home. Maybe you'll be lucky and she will bring up the topic before then.
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Damn, now I hate myself for missing carnival. GL & HF for you though 
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Sounds like fun! Good luck!!!
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You are in a relationship, no need to ask for it.
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Awesome, a girl blog that involves kissing
instead of brang i read Bang, but seriously On February 18 2013 08:39 Mongoose wrote:
Congrats! Sounds like you've been having a lot of fun together.
I would recommend not rushing to ask her to be your "official girlfriend", because there's no real need to do so.
As long as you two are dating, the relationship will grow naturally. She's not gonna get snatched up by any other guys in the near future, by the sound of things.
This and
On February 18 2013 09:38 Scarecrow wrote:
You are in a relationship, no need to ask for it.
This
Plus if i where you i would not ask her, i would tell her she is my girlfriend any moment that seems approriate. Any excuse that you get or even "casually" bringing up the subject.
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Aww there's a lot of girl blogs on the weekend. GL.
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I agree. You should definitely sleep with her a few times first and wait for her to try to tie you down. Then tell her you really like her, care about her, etc but you need to think on it for awhile as you are young, super handsome, and just not ready for anything serious. This way her love-meter will go through the roof and you will have established dominance in the relationship. Try to get caught doing something inappropriate with another female. Not something that'll outright condemn you, but suspicious enough to cause serious jealousy to set in. Her heart will twist itself into knots, and this anguish is what will convince her she's truly found the one. Love is an Iron Maiden my friend.
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You're fine. Making out with the same person while there's a local event promoting doing that with many different people instead either means you're both ugly as hell or that you're pretty much together.
Grats. ^_^
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There, i want to ask her for a relationship
Don't make a big deal out of it. If you're kissing, hanging out and having fun together, that's a relationship. Minus the sex of course but I'm sure you'll figure it out sometime soon. =P
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On February 18 2013 11:26 r.Evo wrote:You're fine. Making out with the same person while there's a local event promoting doing that with many different people instead either means you're both ugly as hell or that you're pretty much together. Grats. ^_^ Edit: Don't make a big deal out of it. If you're kissing, hanging out and having fun together, that's a relationship. Minus the sex of course but I'm sure you'll figure it out sometime soon. =P
Unless of course she's going out with other guys on other days of the week and doing the same thing.
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Keep it slow bro, you too obviously like each other, let the emotion build. Good luck, she didn't ditch you, she is probably as wanting of a date as you are (if not more because she screwed them up haha).
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On February 18 2013 10:54 SamsungStar wrote:
I agree. You should definitely sleep with her a few times first and wait for her to try to tie you down. Then tell her you really like her, care about her, etc but you need to think on it for awhile as you are young, super handsome, and just not ready for anything serious. This way her love-meter will go through the roof and you will have established dominance in the relationship. Try to get caught doing something inappropriate with another female. Not something that'll outright condemn you, but suspicious enough to cause serious jealousy to set in. Her heart will twist itself into knots, and this anguish is what will convince her she's truly found the one. Love is an Iron Maiden my friend.
Jeez man innocence is precious, there's not enough of it in the world 
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Thanks everyone so far for replying to my story. Today's been a great day, she wasn't at school because she was ill and I asked her if she wanted me to come over and make some tea and have a good talk because she was really cranky the whole day. So after an hour or two I decided to go home and go finish my own homework.
@alwinuz
+ Show Spoiler +On February 18 2013 08:48 alwinuz wrote:Damn, now I hate myself for missing carnival. GL & HF for you though Oh man u don't want to know how much I hate the Fabrizio song.. DE KÖRK OET DE FLES.
@SamsungStar
+ Show Spoiler +On February 18 2013 10:54 SamsungStar wrote:
I agree. You should definitely sleep with her a few times first and wait for her to try to tie you down. Then tell her you really like her, care about her, etc but you need to think on it for awhile as you are young, super handsome, and just not ready for anything serious. This way her love-meter will go through the roof and you will have established dominance in the relationship. Try to get caught doing something inappropriate with another female. Not something that'll outright condemn you, but suspicious enough to cause serious jealousy to set in. Her heart will twist itself into knots, and this anguish is what will convince her she's truly found the one. Love is an Iron Maiden my friend. Well since I'm not that kind of guy that does that kind of stuff, still thanks for reading the story.
@ r.Evo
+ Show Spoiler +On February 18 2013 11:26 r.Evo wrote:You're fine. Making out with the same person while there's a local event promoting doing that with many different people instead either means you're both ugly as hell or that you're pretty much together. Grats. ^_^ Edit: Don't make a big deal out of it. If you're kissing, hanging out and having fun together, that's a relationship. Minus the sex of course but I'm sure you'll figure it out sometime soon. =P
I hope to keep you guys up 2 date in the coming days!
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On February 18 2013 10:54 SamsungStar wrote:
I agree. You should definitely sleep with her a few times first and wait for her to try to tie you down. Then tell her you really like her, care about her, etc but you need to think on it for awhile as you are young, super handsome, and just not ready for anything serious. This way her love-meter will go through the roof and you will have established dominance in the relationship. Try to get caught doing something inappropriate with another female. Not something that'll outright condemn you, but suspicious enough to cause serious jealousy to set in. Her heart will twist itself into knots, and this anguish is what will convince her she's truly found the one. Love is an Iron Maiden my friend.
Haha, that made me laugh a bit. good one!
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I did itttttt yesssss!!!!
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Asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes!
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+ Show Spoiler +As i was waiting for her to get awake i thought she was trying to ditch me or something else.
I'm glad this was not the case.
Grats OP. I'm glad being direct also didn't scare her off.
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