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On June 02 2012 01:51 RedJustice wrote:
This girl is an ass.
If your friend is gay, she's an ass for telling someone when he obviously hasn't been comfortable telling even his close friends like you.
If your friend is not gay, she's an ass for telling people he is just to spread rumors. (Maybe mad she got caught cheating?)
You don't sound quite comfortable with her pushy aggressiveness, especially without having the answers to what is really going on. Avoid her til you figure that shit out and can make an informed decision.
So you're saying "She's an ass because of something we will never find out" because no one is recommending to the OP to walk up to the guy and be like "HEY LOL I HEARD UR GAY THAT TRUE?" - even IF he confronts the guy with the rumor and he denies it, it is still likely and possible that he's lying about it to his best friends.
Conclusion: It's impossible to find out whether that guy is gay or not and therefore impossible whether or not she's telling the truth. What IS possible however is to ask the guy if he still claims "the rights" to that girl and act accordingly.
Personally, if the "he's gay" part is the truth it can also be a sign of her trusting the OP not to fuck around with the information and/or the normal way to process that information in such a small town. (aka everyone tells on everyone while also saying "shhh, don't spread that kkk?")
tl;dr: If he wants to have fun with her there is no reason to not go for it based on the current infos. Imo it is highly likely that if he waits for some non-existant state of perfect information that the girl will be like "Fuck this guy, just another pussy" and move on. The only real problem I keep seeing is if he gets emotionally attached too quickly while she won't. That's literally the only case possible in which he's going to be screwed. Or well, not using condoms sounds like a bad idea, too. =P
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I LOVE this blog!  In a way it's filled with so much... win.
Can't wait for the sequel/"season finale" 
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You answered this question in your blog before: "Bros b4 Hoes" all day long! Ask your friend B what the hell is going on and then decide acordingly.
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On June 02 2012 00:45 Gleen wrote:Show nested quote +On June 02 2012 00:34 sc2superfan101 wrote:
i have no advice to give you, but i will thank you for reaffirming my decision to remain celibate.
the vag just seems like a gaping hole of drama and all kinds of bad feelings. i'm a keep that jazz away from my zen ass for as long as possible.
edit: wait a second? are you in high school?
does this shit really happen in high school these days? this seriously sounds like something i would see on a cheesy daytime soap. damn what happened to kids playing like power rangers or some shit? Highschool? No, I'm 24, shes 18. What made you think i'm in highschool? haha
I thought you were in high school too. To me thos seemed like another of those high school relationship dramas the way it has played out so far. That and the fact that you had to drive her because she didnt have a license.
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Just freaking sleep with her lajzelazjemljazelkjazemlkajeml
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I don't get it. She said she liked you like 10 times, and yet you keep rumbling on about your allegedly gay friend's feelings. I don't think you would care about that at all if you truly believed this girl was good for you. She doesn't seem that nice to me, but you have to decide that for yourself.
And you do realize you could have slept with her easily right? :p
Also you guys kissed and youur comment about it is "shit happens"; and then "but the night wasn't over yet", like her texting you that she likes you is something horrifying :p
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On June 02 2012 02:56 Arcanefrost wrote:
I don't get it. She said she liked you like 10 times, and yet you keep rumbling on about your allegedly gay friend's feelings. I don't think you would care about that at all if you truly believed this girl was good for you. She doesn't seem that nice to me, but you have to decide that for yourself.
And you do realize you could have slept with her easily right? :p
Also you guys kissed and youur comment about it is "shit happens"; and then "but the night wasn't over yet", like her texting you that she likes you is something horrifying :p
I think is close to that... I mean, first of all I haven't figured yet if my friend still likes her, and that's the whole thing about him being gay or not.. if he is indeed gay then the girl was telling the truth and probably my friend was lying (even about her) to save some face. If he is not gay, i need to ask him if its okay for me to date her (i asked about her, but i didn't tell abou my feelings). And still, if he is not gay but is okay for me to date that girl, Why would she lie? I need to see if i can believe in her.
By kissing her, I already crossed that whole "bros b4 hoes" thing, and sleeping with her would make it worse (for my friendship at least). Probably the best course of action would be for me to have sex with her and then get the fuck out of her live, but i can't do this. Not yet.
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You need to ask yourself the question: "What do I want to get out of her?"
If you are thinking of pursuing a relationship with this girl, how far are you willing to go with it? As neSix said, she really is not girlfriend material: no healthy relationship ever begins with a manipulative move, and if you go with it anyway, you will find yourself getting cheated on and lied to and your heart will be at stake. I would say that the farthest you can go with her is a fuck buddy or something of the sort; try not to mix any emotions in this fray.
If you indeed want to just have sex with her, then go have sex with her. She is clearly up for it, and nobody else has to know. I say this because it seems as though you do not want to talk to your friend about her (I mean, so what if he is gay or not? And it is not like he owns her.).
If you are in simply for the attention, then I would suggest you begin hitting on girls your age because that is as sissy a move as it can ever get.
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On June 02 2012 03:09 Gleen wrote:Show nested quote +On June 02 2012 02:56 Arcanefrost wrote:
I don't get it. She said she liked you like 10 times, and yet you keep rumbling on about your allegedly gay friend's feelings. I don't think you would care about that at all if you truly believed this girl was good for you. She doesn't seem that nice to me, but you have to decide that for yourself.
And you do realize you could have slept with her easily right? :p
Also you guys kissed and youur comment about it is "shit happens"; and then "but the night wasn't over yet", like her texting you that she likes you is something horrifying :p I think is close to that... I mean, first of all I haven't figured yet if my friend still likes her, and that's the whole thing about him being gay or not.. if he is indeed gay then the girl was telling the truth and probably my friend was lying (even about her) to save some face. If he is not gay, i need to ask him if its okay for me to date her (i asked about her, but i didn't tell abou my feelings). And still, if he is not gay but is okay for me to date that girl, Why would she lie? I need to see if i can believe in her. By kissing her, I already crossed that whole "bros b4 hoes" thing, and sleeping with her would make it worse (for my friendship at least). Probably the best course of action would be for me to have sex with her and then get the fuck out of her live, but i can't do this. Not yet.
I love that last line. "Not yet." It sounds so ominous. Delightful!
Also, why is everyone so fucking pussy about this gay thing? Why is it wrong to ask your FRIEND if he is GAY. Is it wrong to ask a friend if they have a crush on someone else? Wtf does all this fear come from?
Also, if your friend is GAY and hiding it, isn't that 10x more fucked up than asking? What if his friend is harboring a crush on him? What if all those times they were playing soccer and slapping each other on the ass were more than just brotherhood to the friend? What if he was secretly copping a feel and popping massive wood? Wouldn't that be a form of molestation then? What if they went swimming naked together down Rio de Janiero? To Gleen it could be an innocent Huckleberry Finn & Tom Sawyer sort of moment. To his friend, it's Indecent Proposal mixed with I Know What You Did Last Summer.
That is NOT right!!!
People need to stop acting like being gay is some fragile sacred thing. It's not. It's a sexual orientation. It's not totally fucked up for me to ask my friend if he's a boob or legs man. How is it suddenly fucked up for me to ask him if he is a dick and manbutt man?
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Yea, why can't you just ask ur friend if he is gay? Sounds like it'd make this situation 100x easier.
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On June 02 2012 03:53 StorkHwaiting wrote:Show nested quote +On June 02 2012 03:09 Gleen wrote:On June 02 2012 02:56 Arcanefrost wrote:
I don't get it. She said she liked you like 10 times, and yet you keep rumbling on about your allegedly gay friend's feelings. I don't think you would care about that at all if you truly believed this girl was good for you. She doesn't seem that nice to me, but you have to decide that for yourself.
And you do realize you could have slept with her easily right? :p
Also you guys kissed and youur comment about it is "shit happens"; and then "but the night wasn't over yet", like her texting you that she likes you is something horrifying :p I think is close to that... I mean, first of all I haven't figured yet if my friend still likes her, and that's the whole thing about him being gay or not.. if he is indeed gay then the girl was telling the truth and probably my friend was lying (even about her) to save some face. If he is not gay, i need to ask him if its okay for me to date her (i asked about her, but i didn't tell abou my feelings). And still, if he is not gay but is okay for me to date that girl, Why would she lie? I need to see if i can believe in her. By kissing her, I already crossed that whole "bros b4 hoes" thing, and sleeping with her would make it worse (for my friendship at least). Probably the best course of action would be for me to have sex with her and then get the fuck out of her live, but i can't do this. Not yet. I love that last line. "Not yet." It sounds so ominous. Delightful! Also, why is everyone so fucking pussy about this gay thing? Why is it wrong to ask your FRIEND if he is GAY. Is it wrong to ask a friend if they have a crush on someone else? Wtf does all this fear come from? Also, if your friend is GAY and hiding it, isn't that 10x more fucked up than asking? What if his friend is harboring a crush on him? What if all those times they were playing soccer and slapping each other on the ass were more than just brotherhood to the friend? What if he was secretly copping a feel and popping massive wood? Wouldn't that be a form of molestation then? What if they went swimming naked together down Rio de Janiero? To Gleen it could be an innocent Huckleberry Finn & Tom Sawyer sort of moment. To his friend, it's Indecent Proposal mixed with I Know What You Did Last Summer. That is NOT right!!! People need to stop acting like being gay is some fragile sacred thing. It's not. It's a sexual orientation. It's not totally fucked up for me to ask my friend if he's a boob or legs man. How is it suddenly fucked up for me to ask him if he is a dick and manbutt man?
You sir, made me laugh so hard right now.
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This is so funny,, i sure do miss those early teenage years..
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Get with that girl asap.
Just tell ur friend she is bisexual, if he is truly your friend he will tell you to do her, cause she is a lesbian and a man can hope. If he says no, he isn't truly ur friend. If he is gay or not is irrelevant.
I think this girl might be lying and prolly isnt bi, but she seems to be fucking crazy so prolly super fun. Just don't be so serious about hooking up with girls or not, its not like u have to make up ur mind now. Start fooling around with her and see where it leads/what u want, you know, many people do that.
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On June 02 2012 04:29 GoTuNk! wrote:
I think this girl might be lying and prolly isnt bi, but she seems to be fucking crazy so prolly super fun. Just don't be so serious about hooking up with girls or not, its not like u have to make up ur mind now. Start fooling around with her and see where it leads/what u want, you know, many people do that.
If ur not going to ask your friend if he is gay, please follow this man's advice.
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I'm the kind of person who watches the first half of a movie and I can tell how it's gonna end exactly.
In this case, guys, please do not be surprised if the next episode/season finale of this soap opera revolves around the OP finding out that he is bisexual himself. And he might find himself more interested in his gay best friend than the girl. He hasn't figured it out just yet. But his subconscious homosexual nature will soon surface.
Case closed. Sherlock -- Out.
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Damn boy! I would say you should talk to your friend. That is only thing you really can do, be honest.
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Just do it. That's what I would do. He's not your best friend, not even a close friend. In a few years maybe you won't even remember him, but that girl sounds like fun, a lot of fun. You don't want to ever miss out on fun while you're still young.
Do it.
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On June 02 2012 04:39 MrStorkie wrote:
I'm the kind of person who watches the first half of a movie and I can tell how it's gonna end exactly.
In this case, guys, please do not be surprised if the next episode/season finale of this soap opera revolves around the OP finding out that he is bisexual himself. And he might find himself more interested in his gay best friend than the girl. He hasn't figured it out just yet. But his subconscious homosexual nature will soon surface.
Case closed. Sherlock -- Out.
LOL
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This is getting better and better : )
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