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Hello guys, I'm back... so much happened yesterday. I couldn't even sleep well, now i feel like a zombie at work rofl. Just for the sake of it, if you don't know what i'm talking about please refer to my previous posts, not that you can't understand what's going on reading just this one...
Bros B4 Hoes
Maybe she's a liar?
Anyway, yesterday I went to watch MiB 3 with my friends, and let me tell you guys, the movie was nice...
I was supposed to go watch MiB3 with my friends... something like 12 people or so. Couple A (her cousin and one of my friends) would be there too. BUT, none of them appeared. It was just me and she. "No problem" I thought, "she would never do something inside the movie room".
Just as we entered the movie room and took our seats she said:
- Isn't nice that there's just us here?
It was a trap, I knew she set up a trap for me and I fell. Thanks to god, she didn't do anything while watching the movie, we talked about how we can't look at Will Smith without remembering fresh prince of bel air (btw EPIC show... and we even sang the opening theme just for fun).
After the movie we walked a bit, we ate pasta together and then, while we were talking about random things I realized, she was so shy. It was strange for me... i mean before yesterday she came on msn directly asking me to go out with her and now acting so differently. I decided to go with the flow by not touching that subject.
And then the beginning of my fall begun. She asked me to drive her home (since she doesn't have a driver's license). While I was driving she began:
She: You know, that night was great
Me: It sure was... it would be better if our friends came
She: Oh.. so you didn't like me, you'd rather be with them?
Me: It's not that.
She: You know, I'm liking you so much
Me: I like you too
She: But you didn't do anything...
Me: I'm not sure yet, there's the whole thing about friend B
She: Oh that? Ok, I'll wait
Me: Thanks.
We arrived at her house and i was ready to go home play some serious sc when she asks: "can't you leave me at the door?". Before I could even think i was at her doorstep. She hugged me and said some words that I don't remember... something like "don't make me wait too much" and so... we shared a kiss. A long one (it wasn't that good though, she don't kiss the way I like, it's not a big problem...)
OH well, shit happens. BUT, THE NIGHT WASN'T OVER YET.
So, i went home, did my things (play some sc, drink some beer...), and decided it was time to go sleep. Then the girl sends a SMS:
She: Are you awake?
Me: Yeah...
She: Oh good, i'd just want you to know, i really like you
Me: Thats good, but, i must say... i'm not sure yet
She: Didn't you like today?
Me: Sure I did, but that whole thing about my friend being gay, this dude telling me you're dating another guy
She: I'm not dating anyone else, stop with that.
Me: Sorry, but I have to many thing on my mind right now
She: No problem, but be sure that i'm just with you
Me: Thanks, hey, can i ask something?
She: Sure
Me: How can you be sure my friend won't be mad if i start going out with you?
She: I already said it, he's gay. He may not admit but hes gay and theres no denying to that fact.
Me: Then why would you date him after he told you that?
She: Ok, i'll tell you. He came and told me he was gay but was attracted to me. That maybe he could be bisexual. And being a bisexual myself, for me it was fine.
Me: Wait, you're bisexual?
She: Yeah, i did have some lebians experiences before but now i'm just going out with guys. Any problems?
Me: No, it's just that i'm surprised.
She: Oh, sorry.... well gotta go sleep
Me: Me too, i have to work tomorrow morning, bye
She: Bye =*
And now i'm going out with a self-declared bisexual girl. I don't have any problems with her being bisexual... wait, I have. Not by her sexual orientation but by other things. While this can explain a lot of things... how she was so direct on msn, Since I find homos more straight to the point than straight people. I don't know how to explain, but to me, they don't play hard to get.
I have yet to talk with her cousin to ask about this other guy she is supposedly dating or if she's really bisexual, I mean, i never knew anything about that, no one ever said that she dated a girl before, maybe she is just a bicurious? And what about my friend? Is he really gay or just another bi-curious? I'll try to set up a date with my friend and her new girl, or I'll just ask him if he's gay or bisexual... Now I need answers.
  
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In my experience girls are a lot more open to sexual experimentation than boys are. I can honestly count on one hand the number of girls I know that have not experimented in some way with another girl. I don't know if they'd jump to calling themselves bisexual, but this girl seems to be pretty quick to throw her words around. I wouldn't take her "i'm bisexual" claim to heart right away. When she suggests another girl joins in with you guys, then maybe I'd buy it (and buy her something nice haha)
I'd suggest holding off with her until you figure everything out (stuff with guy B, was she honest about your friend). If she's telling the truth, your obsession over whether or not she is will ruin things for you (she'll probably get fed up with defending herself all the time). If she's lying, you really really really really want none of that.
Also, I'd strongly suggest not asking your friend if he's gay. That's like breaking the man code. If he is, and hasn't told anyone, there's obviously a reason. He's not comfortable with someone/everyone knowing, and you should respect that. I would mention to him that you like this girl, and that you want his blessing to progress with her. He will respect you for asking him, and if he is in fact gay, I highly doubt he'll tell you not to go for it. Conversely, he may know some things about this girl you don't, and being upfront with him may net you some information about her that you'd want to know going forwards.
It does sound like she likes you, so I would figure out your shit asap. Make some calls, talk to who you need to.
Good luck.
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Russian Federation228 Posts
Good luck man, I really don't know how you can have healthy relationship with the girl after all this..
Go for 3some, I guess?
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On June 01 2012 23:06 Gleen wrote:
After the movie we walked a bit, we ate pasta together and then, while we were talking about random things I realized, she was so shy. It was strange for me... i mean before yesterday she came on msn directly asking me to go out with her and now acting so differently. I decided to go with the flow by not touching that subject.
Who would have thought people act diffrent on the internet then they do in real life.
Seriously though keep it coming this stuff sustains me.
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This blog is freaking insane, it's like a soap opera blog..
Personally, if you are good friends with friend B, then ask him if he is gay, tell what she said. Otherwise, this seems like a big ass mess. (Edit: just read what the guy before said about the man code, so I actually agree with him)
Next time you blog, I will bring popcorn, because your life seems a lot more interesting than mine right now.
Also, good luck with everything.
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This girl has bigger balls than you. Like, way bigger. Go have fun with her, you might learn something. You don't need answers. You need to figure out what you want and stop being a wussy about it.
So what if she dated girls before or not? Knowing is cool, but her openly stating that she's bi is enough to aim for threesomes down the road. What else would you want to know about that for? =P
So what if that friend of you is gay or not? Ask him if he's gonna be pissed if you date girl xy. If he says "YES!!!11" decide if he's worth keeping around and/or if you think he's being silly or if you want to ditch him over this. If he says "No", stop worrying. You don't even care yourself if he's gay or not, you're just making up excuses because you're scared of this girl.
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Lmao I wonder what comes next.
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On June 01 2012 23:29 r.Evo wrote:
This girl has bigger balls than you. Like, way bigger. Go have fun with her, you might learn something. You don't need answers. You need to figure out what you want and stop being a wussy about it.
So what if she dated girls before or not? Knowing is cool, but her openly stating that she's bi is enough to aim for threesomes down the road. What else would you want to know about that for? =P
So what if that friend of you is gay or not? Ask him if he's gonna be pissed if you date girl xy. If he says "YES!!!11" decide if he's worth keeping around and/or if you think he's being silly or if you want to ditch him over this. If he says "No", stop worrying. You don't even care yourself if he's gay or not, you're just making up excuses because you're scared of this girl.
Of course i'm scared of this girl. I live in a small city where everyone knows everyone. HELL, whenever we travel to a nearby town to hang all we find is people from the same city we are! If someone throws shit on the flan, EVERY SINGLE FUCKIN PERSON will know it. I've seen plenty reputations shatered to pieces here.
I have to be careful, can I trust this girl? What i am aiming for isn't a g'old threesome, it's for a relationship with girl i really like. Of course, If i find down the road that i just want have sex, why not go for some threesome action? =p
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On June 01 2012 23:42 Gleen wrote:Show nested quote +On June 01 2012 23:29 r.Evo wrote:
This girl has bigger balls than you. Like, way bigger. Go have fun with her, you might learn something. You don't need answers. You need to figure out what you want and stop being a wussy about it.
So what if she dated girls before or not? Knowing is cool, but her openly stating that she's bi is enough to aim for threesomes down the road. What else would you want to know about that for? =P
So what if that friend of you is gay or not? Ask him if he's gonna be pissed if you date girl xy. If he says "YES!!!11" decide if he's worth keeping around and/or if you think he's being silly or if you want to ditch him over this. If he says "No", stop worrying. You don't even care yourself if he's gay or not, you're just making up excuses because you're scared of this girl. Of course i'm scared of this girl. I live in a small city where everyone knows everyone. HELL, whenever we travel to a nearby town to hang all we find is people from the same city we are! If someone throws shit on the flan, EVERY SINGLE FUCKIN PERSON will know it. I've seen plenty reputations shatered to pieces here. I have to be careful, can I trust this girl? What i am aiming for isn't a g'old threesome, it's for a relationship with girl i really like. Of course, If i find down the road that i just want have sex, why not go for some threesome action? =p
You can't lose in this situation in terms of reputation, only she can.
a) You have sex with her. You find out (which will be damn easy in such an environment) that she is having sex with other guys. You dump her because "You got bored with her". She will be perceived as the slutty town gal, you're just another dude who had fun with her.
b) You have sex with her. She falls in love with you, you fall in love with her and you live happily ever after.
The only bad spot that can happen is that you get together, you fall in love with her heads over tails and then you find out she was just in it for the sex and you will look like a retard to everyone you talked about your "new girlfriend".
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Have fun. Enjoy your time together. If you want to aim for a relationship, do what couples do. Don't talk about any relationship related things, don't change the way you deal with other girls. Don't even talk about whether you're exclusive or not. Enjoy your time, have sex, have fun. If SHE starts with the "Uh... what exactly do we have here?"-talk, don't be afraid to be honest, she won't do that unless she's falling in love (or suspects that you do).
If you don't think that you're able to have sex with her without falling in love instantly and never wanting to look at any other girl anymore... stay away from it.
Edit: You two major things you should keep in mind when you want to have a go at it:
1) Try to be less judgmental and less suspect to gossip. It's not sexy if you worry about guys who gave you the okay and where she tells you they're gay anyway. It's your job to get his okay (if you value it), it's not your job to worry about his feelings.
2) Be more decisive. This girl is highly active in this whole thing, you aren't. For some reason she seems to like you, but that's unlikely to stay if you don't start making moves. Initiate physical things. Don't let her do the work, she won't do it for long.
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Russian Federation228 Posts
Small town you say? Well, be careful, or you will be the next "gay/bisexual" guy.
Wait for more experienced relationship experts. 
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I'm so confused that I don't know what to advise. I would be just as confused and lost in your position.
Nonetheless, this is excellent entertainment so keep it coming! =)
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i can't figure out yet if this blog totally owns or totally sucks but i've been following it closely and i anxiously await the conclusion
[edit] and seeing as how i'm bothering to actually post this, i suppose i'll add a bit of "advice":
as someone before me already suggested, don't ask your friend whether or not he's gay. if you're really good friends and he hasn't elected to tell you, it's not something he's ready / willing to share and you don't want to jeopardize your friendship. but if you ever want to get anywhere with this girl you need to stop pussy-footing around it and talk to your friend about it. tell him that you're interested in her and that you wanted to talk to him first.
if you go straight for the girl without telling him and he really ISN'T gay, not only are you going to get burned by her (because that would mean that she's already lying to you... and for the record from what i've read i really don't think i trust this girl) but you're going to lose a good friend. this girl seems really forward and if you get involved without talking to your friend first, i think you're doomed to lose something either way.
i should also state for the record that if you're not that close of friends with this guy and you just want to get your dick wet, nail this chick because she obviously wants it. just make sure you don't get too involved because i get the impression she's really manipulative and not girlfriend material
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On June 02 2012 00:25 neSix wrote:
i can't figure out yet if this blog totally owns or totally sucks but i've been following it closely and i anxiously await the conclusion
[edit] and seeing as how i'm bothering to actually post this, i suppose i'll add a bit of "advice":
as someone before me already suggested, don't ask your friend whether or not he's gay. if you're really good friends and he hasn't elected to tell you, it's not something he's ready / willing to share and you don't want to jeopardize your friendship. but if you ever want to get anywhere with this girl you need to stop pussy-footing around it and talk to your friend about it. tell him that you're interested in her and that you wanted to talk to him first.
if you go straight for the girl without telling him and he really ISN'T gay, not only are you going to get burned by her (because that would mean that she's already lying to you... and for the record from what i've read i really don't think i trust this girl) but you're going to lose a good friend. this girl seems really forward and if you get involved without talking to your friend first, i think you're doomed to lose something either way.
i should also state for the record that if you're not that close of friends with this guy and you just want to get your dick wet, nail this chick because she obviously wants it. just make sure you don't get too involved because i get the impression she's really manipulative and not girlfriend material
aHAHA this comment made me laugh because I was feeling the same way, couldn't have been more spot-on.
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i have no advice to give you, but i will thank you for reaffirming my decision to remain celibate.
the vag just seems like a gaping hole of drama and all kinds of bad feelings. i'm a keep that jazz away from my zen ass for as long as possible.
edit: wait a second? are you in high school?
does this shit really happen in high school these days? this seriously sounds like something i would see on a cheesy daytime soap. damn what happened to kids playing like power rangers or some shit?
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On June 01 2012 23:29 r.Evo wrote:
This girl has bigger balls than you. Like, way bigger. Go have fun with her, you might learn something. You don't need answers. You need to figure out what you want and stop being a wussy about it.
So what if she dated girls before or not? Knowing is cool, but her openly stating that she's bi is enough to aim for threesomes down the road. What else would you want to know about that for? =P
So what if that friend of you is gay or not? Ask him if he's gonna be pissed if you date girl xy. If he says "YES!!!11" decide if he's worth keeping around and/or if you think he's being silly or if you want to ditch him over this. If he says "No", stop worrying. You don't even care yourself if he's gay or not, you're just making up excuses because you're scared of this girl.
I generally agree with this.
In the end, this girl likes you so if you get on well together and want a girlfriend then go with it.
As others have said don't keep talking about the relationship with her, just hang out and do stuff etc..
Over time you will get to know her better; even if you end up disliking her and break up, but you will still have had good times together which you will remember even if it ends badly. I don't think that will harm your reputation unless you hear more things in the future that would make a relationship with her a bad idea.
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It's really hard to judge that one. Either this girl is just a pretender and a manipulative liar or she is just really straightforward and very interesting. Just try to solve that puzzle by playing it slow but don't keep her waiting too much she might be a nice catch after all.
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On June 02 2012 00:34 sc2superfan101 wrote:
i have no advice to give you, but i will thank you for reaffirming my decision to remain celibate.
the vag just seems like a gaping hole of drama and all kinds of bad feelings. i'm a keep that jazz away from my zen ass for as long as possible.
edit: wait a second? are you in high school?
does this shit really happen in high school these days? this seriously sounds like something i would see on a cheesy daytime soap. damn what happened to kids playing like power rangers or some shit?
Highschool? No, I'm 24, shes 18. What made you think i'm in highschool? haha
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This girl is an ass.
If your friend is gay, she's an ass for telling someone when he obviously hasn't been comfortable telling even his close friends like you.
If your friend is not gay, she's an ass for telling people he is just to spread rumors. (Maybe mad she got caught cheating?)
You don't sound quite comfortable with her pushy aggressiveness, especially without having the answers to what is really going on. Avoid her til you figure that shit out and can make an informed decision.
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Listen to RedJustice. Otherwise Bad Things will happen.
Though Bad Things may make for more entertaining blogs...
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On June 02 2012 01:51 RedJustice wrote:
This girl is an ass.
If your friend is gay, she's an ass for telling someone when he obviously hasn't been comfortable telling even his close friends like you.
If your friend is not gay, she's an ass for telling people he is just to spread rumors. (Maybe mad she got caught cheating?)
You don't sound quite comfortable with her pushy aggressiveness, especially without having the answers to what is really going on. Avoid her til you figure that shit out and can make an informed decision.
So you're saying "She's an ass because of something we will never find out" because no one is recommending to the OP to walk up to the guy and be like "HEY LOL I HEARD UR GAY THAT TRUE?" - even IF he confronts the guy with the rumor and he denies it, it is still likely and possible that he's lying about it to his best friends.
Conclusion: It's impossible to find out whether that guy is gay or not and therefore impossible whether or not she's telling the truth. What IS possible however is to ask the guy if he still claims "the rights" to that girl and act accordingly.
Personally, if the "he's gay" part is the truth it can also be a sign of her trusting the OP not to fuck around with the information and/or the normal way to process that information in such a small town. (aka everyone tells on everyone while also saying "shhh, don't spread that kkk?")
tl;dr: If he wants to have fun with her there is no reason to not go for it based on the current infos. Imo it is highly likely that if he waits for some non-existant state of perfect information that the girl will be like "Fuck this guy, just another pussy" and move on. The only real problem I keep seeing is if he gets emotionally attached too quickly while she won't. That's literally the only case possible in which he's going to be screwed. Or well, not using condoms sounds like a bad idea, too. =P
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I LOVE this blog!  In a way it's filled with so much... win.
Can't wait for the sequel/"season finale" 
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You answered this question in your blog before: "Bros b4 Hoes" all day long! Ask your friend B what the hell is going on and then decide acordingly.
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On June 02 2012 00:45 Gleen wrote:Show nested quote +On June 02 2012 00:34 sc2superfan101 wrote:
i have no advice to give you, but i will thank you for reaffirming my decision to remain celibate.
the vag just seems like a gaping hole of drama and all kinds of bad feelings. i'm a keep that jazz away from my zen ass for as long as possible.
edit: wait a second? are you in high school?
does this shit really happen in high school these days? this seriously sounds like something i would see on a cheesy daytime soap. damn what happened to kids playing like power rangers or some shit? Highschool? No, I'm 24, shes 18. What made you think i'm in highschool? haha
I thought you were in high school too. To me thos seemed like another of those high school relationship dramas the way it has played out so far. That and the fact that you had to drive her because she didnt have a license.
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Just freaking sleep with her lajzelazjemljazelkjazemlkajeml
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I don't get it. She said she liked you like 10 times, and yet you keep rumbling on about your allegedly gay friend's feelings. I don't think you would care about that at all if you truly believed this girl was good for you. She doesn't seem that nice to me, but you have to decide that for yourself.
And you do realize you could have slept with her easily right? :p
Also you guys kissed and youur comment about it is "shit happens"; and then "but the night wasn't over yet", like her texting you that she likes you is something horrifying :p
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On June 02 2012 02:56 Arcanefrost wrote:
I don't get it. She said she liked you like 10 times, and yet you keep rumbling on about your allegedly gay friend's feelings. I don't think you would care about that at all if you truly believed this girl was good for you. She doesn't seem that nice to me, but you have to decide that for yourself.
And you do realize you could have slept with her easily right? :p
Also you guys kissed and youur comment about it is "shit happens"; and then "but the night wasn't over yet", like her texting you that she likes you is something horrifying :p
I think is close to that... I mean, first of all I haven't figured yet if my friend still likes her, and that's the whole thing about him being gay or not.. if he is indeed gay then the girl was telling the truth and probably my friend was lying (even about her) to save some face. If he is not gay, i need to ask him if its okay for me to date her (i asked about her, but i didn't tell abou my feelings). And still, if he is not gay but is okay for me to date that girl, Why would she lie? I need to see if i can believe in her.
By kissing her, I already crossed that whole "bros b4 hoes" thing, and sleeping with her would make it worse (for my friendship at least). Probably the best course of action would be for me to have sex with her and then get the fuck out of her live, but i can't do this. Not yet.
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You need to ask yourself the question: "What do I want to get out of her?"
If you are thinking of pursuing a relationship with this girl, how far are you willing to go with it? As neSix said, she really is not girlfriend material: no healthy relationship ever begins with a manipulative move, and if you go with it anyway, you will find yourself getting cheated on and lied to and your heart will be at stake. I would say that the farthest you can go with her is a fuck buddy or something of the sort; try not to mix any emotions in this fray.
If you indeed want to just have sex with her, then go have sex with her. She is clearly up for it, and nobody else has to know. I say this because it seems as though you do not want to talk to your friend about her (I mean, so what if he is gay or not? And it is not like he owns her.).
If you are in simply for the attention, then I would suggest you begin hitting on girls your age because that is as sissy a move as it can ever get.
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On June 02 2012 03:09 Gleen wrote:Show nested quote +On June 02 2012 02:56 Arcanefrost wrote:
I don't get it. She said she liked you like 10 times, and yet you keep rumbling on about your allegedly gay friend's feelings. I don't think you would care about that at all if you truly believed this girl was good for you. She doesn't seem that nice to me, but you have to decide that for yourself.
And you do realize you could have slept with her easily right? :p
Also you guys kissed and youur comment about it is "shit happens"; and then "but the night wasn't over yet", like her texting you that she likes you is something horrifying :p I think is close to that... I mean, first of all I haven't figured yet if my friend still likes her, and that's the whole thing about him being gay or not.. if he is indeed gay then the girl was telling the truth and probably my friend was lying (even about her) to save some face. If he is not gay, i need to ask him if its okay for me to date her (i asked about her, but i didn't tell abou my feelings). And still, if he is not gay but is okay for me to date that girl, Why would she lie? I need to see if i can believe in her. By kissing her, I already crossed that whole "bros b4 hoes" thing, and sleeping with her would make it worse (for my friendship at least). Probably the best course of action would be for me to have sex with her and then get the fuck out of her live, but i can't do this. Not yet.
I love that last line. "Not yet." It sounds so ominous. Delightful!
Also, why is everyone so fucking pussy about this gay thing? Why is it wrong to ask your FRIEND if he is GAY. Is it wrong to ask a friend if they have a crush on someone else? Wtf does all this fear come from?
Also, if your friend is GAY and hiding it, isn't that 10x more fucked up than asking? What if his friend is harboring a crush on him? What if all those times they were playing soccer and slapping each other on the ass were more than just brotherhood to the friend? What if he was secretly copping a feel and popping massive wood? Wouldn't that be a form of molestation then? What if they went swimming naked together down Rio de Janiero? To Gleen it could be an innocent Huckleberry Finn & Tom Sawyer sort of moment. To his friend, it's Indecent Proposal mixed with I Know What You Did Last Summer.
That is NOT right!!!
People need to stop acting like being gay is some fragile sacred thing. It's not. It's a sexual orientation. It's not totally fucked up for me to ask my friend if he's a boob or legs man. How is it suddenly fucked up for me to ask him if he is a dick and manbutt man?
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Yea, why can't you just ask ur friend if he is gay? Sounds like it'd make this situation 100x easier.
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On June 02 2012 03:53 StorkHwaiting wrote:Show nested quote +On June 02 2012 03:09 Gleen wrote:On June 02 2012 02:56 Arcanefrost wrote:
I don't get it. She said she liked you like 10 times, and yet you keep rumbling on about your allegedly gay friend's feelings. I don't think you would care about that at all if you truly believed this girl was good for you. She doesn't seem that nice to me, but you have to decide that for yourself.
And you do realize you could have slept with her easily right? :p
Also you guys kissed and youur comment about it is "shit happens"; and then "but the night wasn't over yet", like her texting you that she likes you is something horrifying :p I think is close to that... I mean, first of all I haven't figured yet if my friend still likes her, and that's the whole thing about him being gay or not.. if he is indeed gay then the girl was telling the truth and probably my friend was lying (even about her) to save some face. If he is not gay, i need to ask him if its okay for me to date her (i asked about her, but i didn't tell abou my feelings). And still, if he is not gay but is okay for me to date that girl, Why would she lie? I need to see if i can believe in her. By kissing her, I already crossed that whole "bros b4 hoes" thing, and sleeping with her would make it worse (for my friendship at least). Probably the best course of action would be for me to have sex with her and then get the fuck out of her live, but i can't do this. Not yet. I love that last line. "Not yet." It sounds so ominous. Delightful! Also, why is everyone so fucking pussy about this gay thing? Why is it wrong to ask your FRIEND if he is GAY. Is it wrong to ask a friend if they have a crush on someone else? Wtf does all this fear come from? Also, if your friend is GAY and hiding it, isn't that 10x more fucked up than asking? What if his friend is harboring a crush on him? What if all those times they were playing soccer and slapping each other on the ass were more than just brotherhood to the friend? What if he was secretly copping a feel and popping massive wood? Wouldn't that be a form of molestation then? What if they went swimming naked together down Rio de Janiero? To Gleen it could be an innocent Huckleberry Finn & Tom Sawyer sort of moment. To his friend, it's Indecent Proposal mixed with I Know What You Did Last Summer. That is NOT right!!! People need to stop acting like being gay is some fragile sacred thing. It's not. It's a sexual orientation. It's not totally fucked up for me to ask my friend if he's a boob or legs man. How is it suddenly fucked up for me to ask him if he is a dick and manbutt man?
You sir, made me laugh so hard right now.
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This is so funny,, i sure do miss those early teenage years..
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Get with that girl asap.
Just tell ur friend she is bisexual, if he is truly your friend he will tell you to do her, cause she is a lesbian and a man can hope. If he says no, he isn't truly ur friend. If he is gay or not is irrelevant.
I think this girl might be lying and prolly isnt bi, but she seems to be fucking crazy so prolly super fun. Just don't be so serious about hooking up with girls or not, its not like u have to make up ur mind now. Start fooling around with her and see where it leads/what u want, you know, many people do that.
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On June 02 2012 04:29 GoTuNk! wrote:
I think this girl might be lying and prolly isnt bi, but she seems to be fucking crazy so prolly super fun. Just don't be so serious about hooking up with girls or not, its not like u have to make up ur mind now. Start fooling around with her and see where it leads/what u want, you know, many people do that.
If ur not going to ask your friend if he is gay, please follow this man's advice.
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I'm the kind of person who watches the first half of a movie and I can tell how it's gonna end exactly.
In this case, guys, please do not be surprised if the next episode/season finale of this soap opera revolves around the OP finding out that he is bisexual himself. And he might find himself more interested in his gay best friend than the girl. He hasn't figured it out just yet. But his subconscious homosexual nature will soon surface.
Case closed. Sherlock -- Out.
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Damn boy! I would say you should talk to your friend. That is only thing you really can do, be honest.
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Just do it. That's what I would do. He's not your best friend, not even a close friend. In a few years maybe you won't even remember him, but that girl sounds like fun, a lot of fun. You don't want to ever miss out on fun while you're still young.
Do it.
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On June 02 2012 04:39 MrStorkie wrote:
I'm the kind of person who watches the first half of a movie and I can tell how it's gonna end exactly.
In this case, guys, please do not be surprised if the next episode/season finale of this soap opera revolves around the OP finding out that he is bisexual himself. And he might find himself more interested in his gay best friend than the girl. He hasn't figured it out just yet. But his subconscious homosexual nature will soon surface.
Case closed. Sherlock -- Out.
LOL
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This is getting better and better : )
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On June 02 2012 03:09 Gleen wrote:Show nested quote +On June 02 2012 02:56 Arcanefrost wrote:
I don't get it. She said she liked you like 10 times, and yet you keep rumbling on about your allegedly gay friend's feelings. I don't think you would care about that at all if you truly believed this girl was good for you. She doesn't seem that nice to me, but you have to decide that for yourself.
And you do realize you could have slept with her easily right? :p
Also you guys kissed and youur comment about it is "shit happens"; and then "but the night wasn't over yet", like her texting you that she likes you is something horrifying :p I think is close to that... I mean, first of all I haven't figured yet if my friend still likes her, and that's the whole thing about him being gay or not.. if he is indeed gay then the girl was telling the truth and probably my friend was lying (even about her) to save some face. If he is not gay, i need to ask him if its okay for me to date her (i asked about her, but i didn't tell abou my feelings). And still, if he is not gay but is okay for me to date that girl, Why would she lie? I need to see if i can believe in her. By kissing her, I already crossed that whole "bros b4 hoes" thing, and sleeping with her would make it worse (for my friendship at least). Probably the best course of action would be for me to have sex with her and then get the fuck out of her live, but i can't do this. Not yet.
Sigh. Ima try again. YOU WON'T FIND OUT WHICH OF THOSE TWO LIED.
a) He is gay an couldn't get it up in bed with her. Since he doesn't even tell his closest friends it is highly likely that the whole "That stupid slutty bitch"-story is made up by him. You can't even verifiy by talking to him in this case since if he IS gay and that hushhush about it he won't tell you the truth.
b) She has had sex with half the town and he's telling the truth. Now the "He's gay" story is made up.
It is literally impossible to get to the truth of this thing unless it turns out that he's gay in the long run. Even if he does date other girls in the future, it's still possible he used the whole "Hurpdurp I can't get my wiener to work I probably am gay anyway!!!11" story to cover up his shit.
I mean, first of all I haven't figured yet if my friend still likes her
Ask him. Plain and simple. "Hey xy, I think that gal is cool, mind if I try my luck with her?" - done. If he's against it, think about whether you value him enough to stop persueing her or not. More action, less figuring out.
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Need some serious detective work up in here
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On June 02 2012 06:41 juked wrote:
Need some serious detective work up in here
Someone hire a PI?
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On June 01 2012 23:39 Stratos wrote:
Lmao I wonder what comes next.
Write a mystery novel about this shit, this is crazy.
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Merh. Blogs make me think girl is crazy.
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On June 02 2012 07:17 Antimatterz wrote:Write a mystery novel about this shit, this is crazy.
You have no idea how many blogs I have bookmarked to use for writing future novels/short stories :p
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You're really beeing mean to that girl dude. Make a decision and stick with that. Do you trust her and what she says? If so there should't be a problem starting a relationship. If you don't just end it.
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i don't see why you aren't getting up in those guts
emasculated men
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What TV show do you live in?
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This drama is so, so delicious. I feel like im watching a movie man. Please please keep updating us
On June 02 2012 01:51 RedJustice wrote:
This girl is an ass.
If your friend is gay, she's an ass for telling someone when he obviously hasn't been comfortable telling even his close friends like you.
If your friend is not gay, she's an ass for telling people he is just to spread rumors. (Maybe mad she got caught cheating?)
You don't sound quite comfortable with her pushy aggressiveness, especially without having the answers to what is really going on. Avoid her til you figure that shit out and can make an informed decision.
Well in her defense the friend started attacking her first by saying she was pretty much a treacherous whore. I would be compelled to tell the real deal (if it is) too if someone tried to shit all over my reputation like that.
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You ever hear of the term fuck n chuck?
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Without really reading the replies or anything I just have to say that this blog is so adorable :3
You're like a big old innocent teddy bear!
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LOL private investigator indeed. This story is insane, sometimes truth is stranger than fiction indeed O_O
The plot has got to be nearly solid at this point it's so thick
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On June 02 2012 10:40 Mementoss wrote:
You ever hear of the term fuck n chuck?
or Hit it 'n' quit it.
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I think you're doing it wrong. You already set up a nice dilemma for the main character, but you're leaning toward the mystery genre instead of the romantic comedy. Don't try and figure it out first man, you gotta go for it. If things go bad just have a good laugh and move on.
Pretty good so far tho
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On June 02 2012 12:42 Whole wrote:Show nested quote +On June 02 2012 10:40 Mementoss wrote:
You ever hear of the term fuck n chuck? or Hit it 'n' quit it.
Smash and dash 
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On June 02 2012 14:00 Flyingsnow wrote:Show nested quote +On June 02 2012 12:42 Whole wrote:On June 02 2012 10:40 Mementoss wrote:
You ever hear of the term fuck n chuck? or Hit it 'n' quit it. Smash and dash
Surf and Turf
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I just realized. Both storks who posted in this thread made absolutely epic posts. I'm dying here hahahahaha
Also, those sex friend reference posts o__o would never have thought of some of those, gg.
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On June 02 2012 12:42 Whole wrote:Show nested quote +On June 02 2012 10:40 Mementoss wrote:
You ever hear of the term fuck n chuck? or Hit it 'n' quit it.
them punks like to hit it and quit it
but i'd rather stay and play
![[image loading]](http://squishgrape.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Screen-shot-2010-12-11-at-3.09.56-AM.png)
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Wow, that's from Baby got back
Nice
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On June 02 2012 15:32 Aerisky wrote:
I just realized. Both storks who posted in this thread made absolutely epic posts. I'm dying here hahahahaha
Also, those sex friend reference posts o__o would never have thought of some of those, gg.
xD Stork fans are teh best
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OK before I read 4 pages of comments I'd like to say there is a possibility everyone is lieing about everything.
You said in your previous blog that someone told your friend B that girl B was meeting with other guys. If I remember correctly you also said in your first blog of the series that all of your friends noticed how devastated friend B was by the break up with girl B.
Maybe the guy who told friend B he was being cheated on, tried to lie to him to put his mind at ease and stop thinking about girl B?
Also girl B may be lieing about friend B ever telling her he was gay, to put your mind at ease and start a relationship with you.
That would mean he's not hiding that he is gay because he just isn't and she wouldn't be a bitch that you can't tell any secrets in case you would break up and she would tell those secrets to everyone.
The most important thing to do is to check if anyone else knows about girl B meeting with other guys.
Whether the friend B is gay or not, he already told you he doesn't think about girl B and is with another girl already so you are free to move on to the next stage in you relationship with girl B, if you feel safe about it.
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On June 02 2012 01:51 RedJustice wrote:
This girl is an ass.
If your friend is gay, she's an ass for telling someone when he obviously hasn't been comfortable telling even his close friends like you.
If your friend is not gay, she's an ass for telling people he is just to spread rumors. (Maybe mad she got caught cheating?)
Or maybe she told that only to you. Check if she told anyone else.
You don't sound quite comfortable with her pushy aggressiveness, especially without having the answers to what is really going on. Avoid her til you figure that shit out and can make an informed decision.
I don't think avoiding her is the right decision, what you are doing so far by telling her there is stuff that bothers you is enough IMO.
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On June 02 2012 01:51 RedJustice wrote:
This girl is an ass.
If your friend is gay, she's an ass for telling someone when he obviously hasn't been comfortable telling even his close friends like you.
If your friend is not gay, she's an ass for telling people he is just to spread rumors. (Maybe mad she got caught cheating?)
You don't sound quite comfortable with her pushy aggressiveness, especially without having the answers to what is really going on. Avoid her til you figure that shit out and can make an informed decision.
No matter how sound the advice in your head is, replace it with RedJustice's because she is the goddess of Girl Blogs.
Therefore: TAKE THIS POST INTO FUCKING ACCOUNT^
Back to my point, I would personally talk with the friend about whether or not he is ok with you dating his ex. He shouldn't have too much of an issue with it by this point, but its not like this guy has control over this girl. Sure don't bring them around each other or anything dumb like that, but, she is forward, she likes you, you should tap it. She might be an ass, just like RedJustice said in the quote above my message here, but you will have a good time with her. Your friend CANNOT control this girl, she can date who she pleases, and if her dating you is an issue you need to ask him why. IF this guy is your true friend, he wouldn't prevent you from dating a girl just because he is sour about his time with her.
On a sidenote, this chick is a liar, she has either lied about him being gay or about not being with those guys. Her word style determines that, she is really quick to cover up for her activities and that is always a sign of hastily created decisions. She might cheat on you, she might break your heart, but not every relationship works out, if you were to go into this one with a casual mentality and enjoy her time with you, maybe even have some "fun" then she could be a great experience; however, if you were to go into this with a feeling of intimacy off the bat and asked her to go steady with you and only date you, you could be in for a heart crushing.
+ Show Spoiler +your BlOg sustains some of us TL'ers lol.
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