EPT[Woman blog] lol what the fuck? - Page 3
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pedostare
United States31 Posts
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mynameisgreat11
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TheAntZ
Israel6248 Posts
edit: lol at all the white-knights up in this thread saying "you just need to ask her how she feels" etc. No. Just no. If a guy was acting like this towards a woman, she would without a doubt start ignoring calls/texts from and avoiding this person. Just because its the woman bringing the crazy doesnt make it misogynistic to back the fuck away from a potential drama bomb. | ||
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AKomrade
United States582 Posts
Seriously though, either talk to her about whats going on (she could be overthinking EVERYTHING and slowly be going insane, but in general have her shit together) OR she is REALLY confused about life and has no control over what is going on (in which case, as stated many times already, you need to book it). | ||
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RedJustice
United States1004 Posts
Regardless though, the fact that she's unable to express what's going on to you is a sign of immaturity. I personally wouldn't have the patience to put up with that kind of thing. If you really like her, I'd say to sit down and have one conversation face to face that you insist she tell you whats up. If she still refuses, tell her that her behavior has become stressful/burdenful/whatever, and since she refuses to tell you what's wrong she needs to stop texting you or talking to you. Then peace and find someone better!  | ||
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Deleted User 183001
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emucxg
Finland4559 Posts
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OmniEulogy
Canada6600 Posts
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
 The girl sounds crazy. Were it me, I'd either talk to her or sever ties. | ||
ZeromuS
Canada13426 Posts
Here's the long and short of it, sit down, talk it out, act like a mature adult. If she can't handle a serious discussion, she's really not ready for a relationship and is deluding herself looking for an older man for that purpose alone. Also: assuming older men are more ready to settle down is kind of a delusion in itself, relationships take time and she might as well accept that any aged guy (who isnt a minor  ) with time to spend on a relationship with her is more than adequate and probably preferred. | ||
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Vod.kaholic
United States1052 Posts
On April 08 2012 07:35 ZeromuS wrote: Women are crazy. Here's the long and short of it, sit down, talk it out, act like a mature adult. If she can't handle a serious discussion, she's really not ready for a relationship and is deluding herself looking for an older man for that purpose alone. Also: assuming older men are more ready to settle down is kind of a delusion in itself, relationships take time and she might as well accept that any aged guy (who isnt a minor ) with time to spend on a relationship with her is more than adequate and probably preferred. Hell yes, this is your solution right here. Good advice zeromus. | ||
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airtown
United States410 Posts
* Girl is 21, hot as shit, intelligent and has a lot in common with me. The world's use of figurative language is really morphing into nonsense. | ||
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Deleted User 183001
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On April 08 2012 08:11 airtown wrote: The world's use of figurative language is really morphing into nonsense. I noticed about that too .I'm guilty too though. I often say "cold as hell". :/ | ||
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EngrishTeacher
Canada1109 Posts
Answering questions: She is Chinese, but please don't stereotype all Chinese women because of this. We are co-workers, but we work in different buildings and I get off work much later than she does so we don't usually see each other during the day. Call me blind/stupid, but I can't help but still really like her despite her behavior; I want to believe in her best, not her worst. It's Sunday morning 8:30 and I'm already in the office ready to slave away, and I'm planning to visit her later this evening when I finish. If she can explain her behavior / has good reasons, then I'll risk my face one more time and ask her out again (would be the third time getting rejected by the same girl? Ouch, I'm still unsure of her intentions). If not, then I'll have no choice but to curb my feelings and dodge the bullet. Thanks again and wish me luck. | ||
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10347 Posts
On April 07 2012 19:09 Ahelvin wrote: She's not a bitch. She can be stupid, immature, childish, egoist, disrespectful, but she can't be a bitch. Contradiction identified! What's the big deal? Men who are of this nature are called dicks, or assholes, women of this nature are called bitches or cunts... Basically, they're just bad names. | ||
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Blisse
Canada3710 Posts
On April 08 2012 05:13 emucxg wrote: girls, the most unpredictable object ever exists on the earth What about electrons? o_O I agree with everyone. Just stay away. Even if she's hot. It's horrible being in a relationship where you have no idea where the other person is. | ||
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Vesperidone
United States6 Posts
Honestly, when she told you she would only date older guys, you should have just left it alone. Why would you want to keep going after someone who says that? Whether they lied or not, it's not a good sign. You could have easily avoided this stupid bullshit if you had just left her alone. Instead you got rejected, waited around like a creep until she was vulnerable, and now you're wondering why she's acting so "crazy" toward you. I hope you two break it off for both of your sake, and next time you get rejected, don't do what you just did just so you can have a petty drunken night of sex and deal with the fallout. | ||
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Vesperidone
United States6 Posts
On April 08 2012 03:28 TheAntZ wrote: Get out now. Just tell her you wanna be friends. Sounds like she could be an emotionally unstable burden if she wormed her way into your life. edit: lol at all the white-knights up in this thread saying "you just need to ask her how she feels" etc. No. Just no. If a guy was acting like this towards a woman, she would without a doubt start ignoring calls/texts from and avoiding this person. Just because its the woman bringing the crazy doesnt make it misogynistic to back the fuck away from a potential drama bomb. Yes, let's just be misogynist douchebags because teh wimmunz won't know how to react! | ||
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MaximusT
United States126 Posts
On April 07 2012 18:15 Ahelvin wrote: Yes. As a general rule of thumb, I try to stay away from people that are unable to state what they want in an adult and mature manner. You want to fuck? Fine, let's fuck. You realized than you changed your mind and actually want to engage in a relationship? Then just SAY IT, do not try to make the other people understand it through not-so-subtle text messages harassment ! This applies to men AND women. AMEN. | ||
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spacemonkey4eve
United States267 Posts
honestly i would never be able to survive that kind of relationship for a week. And to throw salt into the wound, she sounds like she has violent mood swings, based on the story regarding the phone call and return to normalcy the next day. | ||
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