EPTWould you be pissed off at her? - Page 2
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thesideshow
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Grovbolle
Denmark3807 Posts
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TwoToneTerran
United States8841 Posts
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Brett
Australia3820 Posts
On January 17 2012 21:39 KeksX wrote: The only reason to be upset would be if you actually had plans, for example if you planned a nice dinner with her etc. But if you only ASSUMED that this kind of stuff would be happening there's no reason at all to be upset! Yeah, fair point. I posted this because the people close to me seem to be more upset about than me and I wanted a larger cross section of opinion. When she told me, I just said ok and we kept watching HIMYM lol. | ||
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TwoToneTerran
United States8841 Posts
On January 17 2012 21:48 Brett wrote: Yeah, fair point. I posted this because the people close to me seem to be more upset about than me and I wanted a larger cross section of opinion. When she told me, I just said ok and we kept watching HIMYM lol. That russian intro gag was pretty good. | ||
KeksX
Germany3634 Posts
On January 17 2012 21:48 Brett wrote: Yeah, fair point. I posted this because the people close to me seem to be more upset about than me and I wanted a larger cross section of opinion. When she told me, I just said ok and we kept watching HIMYM lol. Yea people around you(general you) tend to do that, I figured. You did the right thing. But make sure to celebrate your anniversary later! :D | ||
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scruffeh
England196 Posts
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gosuRob
United States319 Posts
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Iranon
United States983 Posts
Edit: I see you were mostly posting this because of your family's reaction. I would imagine they just didn't want you to be let down or upset. You're right in not making a big deal of stuff. | ||
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KeksX
Germany3634 Posts
On January 17 2012 22:05 Iranon wrote: Yeah, I don't see what you think people are missing here. You didn't have plans with her for that night, and something came up for her. She told you "we won't get to do anything for our anniversary, on the actual day". Without having her exact words, that's what we have to go on. Note the emphasis. Who gives a shit? If you didn't even have specific plans, make plans to do anniversary stuff on some other day. Or do anniversary stuff on the following weekend. When she said that, did you respond with "oh, that's too bad, want to make plans for the following night then?" or did you just put a surprised face on and mope around... Everything you asked was answered xD... When she told me, I just said ok and we kept watching HIMYM lol. And he isn't pissed off, he's just asking whether we would be. | ||
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aebriol
Norway2066 Posts
On January 17 2012 21:00 Brett wrote: Personally, I'm not too bothered by her spending the night with her sister instead of me, but was a bit annoyed that she just made the choice without even discussing it with me. My friends/mother have a different view... Anyway, sound off below! It wouldn't bother me at all, unless the relationship was going towards an engagement an eventual marriage. Thing is, gf bf for a year ... sure is important, but sister back from abroad first time seeing her, I see the need for keeping that as a family event, and I think the right thing to do is just being okay with it. Some times important events overlap, and I think it's fine to just celebrate on another day. | ||
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EternaLLegacy
United States410 Posts
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village_idiot
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Brees
Marshall Islands3404 Posts
On January 17 2012 21:36 Brett wrote: Thanks, but you should probably learn to read. nope this is pretty much the perfect response. instead of making some dumbass response how about you elaborate on why you think this is incorrect | ||
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ShadeR
Australia7535 Posts
On January 17 2012 21:48 Brett wrote: Yeah, fair point. I posted this because the people close to me seem to be more upset about than me and I wanted a larger cross section of opinion. When she told me, I just said ok and we kept watching HIMYM lol. Probably because you brought the topic up with them and they are trying to take your side. Maybe i'm just not the talkative type but i do believe are fairly upset about it but at the same time realise how stupid it is to be. Why else would you even bring up the topic with your family and friends if you were not at least a little cheesed off. | ||
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Count9
China10928 Posts
However, there are some cultures where the 1st yr anniversary is some ridiculous deal though, I guess I can see someone in those cultures being super pissed off. Otherwise in your situation you're right, mild annoyance seems to be the perfect emotion. | ||
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Subversive
Australia2229 Posts
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KeksX
Germany3634 Posts
On January 17 2012 22:32 Brees wrote: nope this is pretty much the perfect response. instead of making some dumbass response how about you elaborate on why you think this is incorrect Dude please stop this. You are wrong and you can read up for yourself why. | ||
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PJFrylar
United States350 Posts
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DorF
Sweden961 Posts
I rarely know wich date/month it is everyday even so even if I knew the exact dates for our anniversary I'd have a hard time keeping up. | ||
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