So glad to see your post. Even just seeing your name gave me nostalgia, reminding me of my love for tl.net, past and present.
I’m sorry to hear about your breakup, but (as you know) it was the right decision. We must always continue to grow as individuals – when a relationship stunts that growth, the relationship must change or it must end. It certainly sounds like you spent a fair amount of time to seeing if it held the potential to change.
I wish you all the best. I so look forward to meeting you in person one day (along with my other TL.net favourites). We will share beers, stories, and be merry.
Sincerely,
Mora