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ranshaked
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Iceman331
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StorkHwaiting
United States3465 Posts
Wewt, me too! Lol lots of crazy Latino girls. Where abouts you live at? I'm in Dr. Phillips area. | ||
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TheGiz
Canada708 Posts
NEVER START ANYTHING WITH A WOMAN WITH KIDS You're too young for it to even be remotely justified. It's even worse because she's your ex. Just stop talking to her, even as friends. She's like a walking unhappiness machine: kids, divorce, etc. P.S. Update the OP for newer readers of this thread. It's just good practice. | ||
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ranshaked
United States870 Posts
Her divorce is finalized etc. We are meeting up this evening with my friends. As of right now...We are just friends. I figured I'd add some closure to this blog from many months ago <3 | ||
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Dalguno
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ranshaked
United States870 Posts
On March 07 2012 11:48 Dalguno wrote: You have no idea how hard it is to not do what I want to do because I know what I want to do is bad, but if I don't do what I want to do and just don't do it...I'll never do it.You know what to do. FEEL ME? hah | ||
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dtz
5834 Posts
On March 07 2012 11:46 ranshaked wrote: I am bumping this because she has officially moved to Orlando (where I live----With her parents) Her divorce is finalized etc. We are meeting up this evening with my friends. As of right now...We are just friends. I figured I'd add some closure to this blog from many months ago <3 This is more cliffhanger than closure... but good luck , we all hope whatever you do next will be for the best | ||
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ranshaked
United States870 Posts
Everything appeared to be great. Her kids turned out to be a really great experience. I learned a lot about being an adult over the course of only 6 months! We had a great day today, and then I received a text message saying that she hasn't felt the same in a few months, and that she needed to enjoy being alone for once. It's the last time I'll probably ever speak or see her, but in a strange way it's a sigh of relief. I tried really hard to hold it all together, and I did a lot for her. In a way, all I ever wanted to do was to welcome her to town and help her with the kids. She isn't a bad person, but I guess I'm just not the guy for her. Again, thank you guys. Signing off for the last time. It's been real. | ||
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Shady Sands
United States4021 Posts
On October 17 2012 15:43 ranshaked wrote: I know this is an insane bump from March, but I wanted you to know that we had a great 6 month run. I wanted to thank you all for the advice once again, but unfortunately I had gotten back together with her. Everything appeared to be great. Her kids turned out to be a really great experience. I learned a lot about being an adult over the course of only 6 months! We had a great day today, and then I received a text message saying that she hasn't felt the same in a few months, and that she needed to enjoy being alone for once. It's the last time I'll probably ever speak or see her, but in a strange way it's a sigh of relief. I tried really hard to hold it all together, and I did a lot for her. In a way, all I ever wanted to do was to welcome her to town and help her with the kids. She isn't a bad person, but I guess I'm just not the guy for her. Again, thank you guys. Signing off for the last time. It's been real. Your story reminds me of the above MV, minus the prison part | ||
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bonifaceviii
Canada2890 Posts
An oft-repeated story indeed. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32157 Posts
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ranshaked
United States870 Posts
On October 17 2012 22:33 QuanticHawk wrote: and now what did you learn from this experience mr. op 1) Give everything you've got into a relationship because at least you'll know you tried 2) Love unconditionally (reasonable---not exact) 3) Never date someone that has kids. In an odd way you become attached to the children, especially if you've never experienced watching them grow up. It was amazing to see her youngest son go from being so small to walking. And lastly, 4) Take the good from the relationship, not the bad. I quit smoking and I got on a healthy diet because of this relationship, and I hope to continue them both. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32157 Posts
I would disagree about the kid thing, but whatever. The rest is spot on. Good luck in the future op! | ||
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ranshaked
United States870 Posts
Unfortunately I unblocked her on facebook, and I noticed something peculiar. She had a new boyfriend. Now after some investigating, I've come to the conclusion that she was cheating on me. I am currently distraught, and I honestly don't know what to do. I was perfectly comfortable with her being on her own, but now I feel used. | ||
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
Find someone else. | ||
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Aerisky
United States12129 Posts
It's okay...I guess you did end up benefiting from the relationship yourself. Try to move past it if you can at all >< | ||
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Shady Sands
United States4021 Posts
On November 02 2012 17:11 FractalsOnFire wrote: No be glad you gtfo of that relationship and you haven't wasted an extra second on her. Find someone else. Also be happy you didn't end up on Maury's trying to prove that you are not the father | ||
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Greenstripe
United States164 Posts
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